Sex Tips

Whether you’re a newbie to the world of sexuality and sexual pleasure, or enjoy a regular and active sex life, I’m sure you’d agree we can all benefit from a few extra sex tips from time to time. Excuse the pun, but it’s so easy to get into a rut where your sex life is concerned. Have a look through these sex tips articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog for advice on how to improve sex for both you and your lucky partner(s).

Which area of sex would you like to improve? Perhaps you’re wondering how to build more excitement during your masturbation sessions and self-pleasure times. Whether you prefer to use sex toys or explore new routes to that orgasmic destination with your fingertips and some lube, there’s helpful advice here for you. Or maybe you’ve been curious about how to enhance the intimacy and create more of a passionate build-up during foreplay with your partner? Or wondering what foreplay is, and if it really matters anyway.

How about during the act of sex itself? Sex covers much more than simply PiV, hetero sex which is all too often portrayed as the default type by the media. Although PiV sex is incredibly enjoyable for a lot of people, other couples enjoy anal sex, strap-on sex, oral sex and physical intimacy which may or may not include penetration and/or orgasm. Enjoy browsing my sex tips articles and learning more about the world of sexual pleasure, whether solo or shared.

The Hotness Of Body Piercings | List Of Genital Piercings

The Hotness Of Body Piercings

Body piercings, tattoos, or both? Whether you love being pierced or prefer getting inked, body modifications can still be controversial in some circles. Pretty stuffy circles, in my opinion. I'm focusing on the hotness of body piercings today, but I'm all for people celebrating their uniqueness and displaying their creativity through the many various forms of body art.

How To Find A Dominant Partner

So many of the emails I’ve received over the years have been from men looking for BDSM advice. Many men really want to find a Dominant woman to help them realise their kinky fantasies, or encourage their partner to become a Mistress –or alternatively, a female submissive. Did you know that there is an easy way to find a Dominant partner? Read on and I’ll let you in on the secret.  

How To Find Your Perfect BDSM Partner

Compatibility in BDSM relationships is important and should be taken into consideration from the outset. But just how do you go about finding that all too often elusive, but fantastic, kinky match? It can be tricky to find your perfect BDSM partner -and that's an understatement. 

Big Guide To Bondage Sex Toys, & Our Bondage Sex Toy Reviews

What can you use to restrain someone (or enjoy being restrained) in bondage? That's where bondage sex toys and bondage accessories come into their own. It helps having some background knowledge of just what's available in terms of bondage equipment, and why it's important to use items specifically designed for bondage rather than any old belt, strap or rope you happen to have around the house.

Big Guide To Spanking Toys, & Our Spanking Toy Reviews

Spanking is an erotic act between consenting kinksters and lovers. Do you prefer yours OTK (over the knee), strapped face-down to a bench, during sex or in some other fashion? Does the mere thought of a raised Dominant hand, or a spanking toy whistling through the air, stir the tendrils of arousal? You might be wondering which spanking tools are best for effective corporal punishment. Welcome to my big guide to spanking toys, in which you'll also find links to all our spanking toy reviews.

Beginner’s Guide To Bondage | Complete Bondage 101 & Top Tips

Despite Fifty Shades of Grey helping to spotlight the joys of BDSM in the mainstream in recent years, plenty of people have been enjoying the physical, psychological and emotional liberation that the power exchange in D/s role-play offers. Due to the recent sharp rise in mainstream interest, I wanted to share my bondage top tips and advice in this beginner's guide to bondage today. Welcome to my complete bondage 101!

Beginner’s Guide To BDSM | BDSM Tips For Beginners | BDSM 101

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.

Why We Love Sexy Corporal Punishment

I'd like to talk a little more about why we love sexy corporal punishment here today, and how it really hits our spot. Perhaps this intimate revelation will prompt more people out there to accept spanking and similar as being just as 'acceptable' as 'regular' sex antics, instead of mentally filing such habits as perverted, deviant and downright weird.

Introduction to E-Stim & the Electrastim Electro Sex Toys Range

You may or may or may not have heard the term e-stim or electrosex before. It's something that can inspire all sorts of emotions, from curiosity to nervous apprehension. It involves using specialised equipment to stimulate our genitals using electricity. It is a gender-free masturbatory activity that is fun on your own or with a partner.

How To Have A Kinky Valentine’s Day

Even if your plans consist of a couple of hours together tonight, without work or the kids, possibly with a cheeky tipple, a pizza and a DVD, you may be wishing for a more exciting way to spice things up between you and your partner. There is. Read on for some practical & romantic BDSM tips which will teach you how to have a kinky Valentine's Day.

Relationship Counseling, Relationship Coach & Marriage Therapy

Firstly, most marriage therapy or relationship counseling completely lacks the integration of sex. Sex is a big part of intimacy, connection, and pair bonding in a relationship, and yet it’s ignored by more relationship counselors. Secondly, most marriage therapy is based on the medical model, so they try to fix what is wrong and not find and enhance what is right or could be amazing.

YES Organic Intimacy Week 2019 (& Sexy Hamper Giveaway)

This week it's YES Organic Intimacy Week, a global awareness campaign which YES hope will increase people's general knowledge of intimate products, as well as the importance of selecting the highest purity quality sex lubes and moisturisers for ongoing intimate wellbeing.  

Can’t Achieve Vaginal Orgasms?

I recently received an email from a gentleman requesting some sex advice. This isn't unusual in itself, but this email was so multi-faceted that I promised the correspondent a full analysis with my opinions here on the blog. The main issue? His wife can't achieve vaginal orgasms. Having heard similar worries and complaints both from women and their partners in the past, I wanted to write about my thoughts on this issue at length.

I Had My Cervical Screening And It Wasn’t Scary At All | Smear Test Report 

It had been far too many years since my last smear test, due to babies, and moving house, and life, and shoving that reminder letter into a drawer and forgetting about it. This year, I finally got my act together, decided the cervical screening was too important to ignore or put off for a moment longer, and made the appointment. And I’m so glad I did.

Forced Orgasms – The Flip Side Of Chastity

I love the freedom to touch myself whenever I want –and I make the most of that freedom, as you can see by the thousands of sex toy reviews and erotic articles here on the blog. Chastity is definitely not for me, when I'm the one locked up I mean. How about the flip side of chastity: forced orgasms? There's still the element of external control -but rather than orgasm denial, I would be (consensually, of course) forced to orgasm over and over.

The Lowdown On Penis Head Pumps

In your search for the perfect penis pump, you have probably come across a penis head pump and wondered what the hell it was for. Well, these pumps actually have a lot of benefits and they can be a lot of fun to use too. They will give you increased stamina, a larger penis, a more sensitive head and they might just make you orgasm in the process too. Want to know more? Yeah, you do!

Who Uses Penis Extensions And Why? (Also Known As Cock Sheaths Or Hollow Strap...

Unlike some people tend to think, penis extenders are not only for those that are insecure about their penis size. This type of product can actually be used in all sorts of different ways and are created to enhance your sexual experience with your partner, no matter the size of your penis.

10 Steamy Role-Play Ideas To Try With Your Partner

The world of sex advice is awash with tips in this regard, with ‘trying out role-play with your partner’ being a popular one. But what sort of role-play situation is sexy? And what type of role-play suits your sort of relationship, in particular? Today, I’d like to share with you 10 steamy role-play ideas to try with your partner. Read on and I’m sure you’ll spy a scenario which tickles your particular fancy.

How To Dress Up Your Sex Doll To Make Her More Attractive

Why are we talking about clothes when it comes to sex dolls? If they're made just for sex, then why would the clothes even matter? Many new owners and those who are starting to express interest in sex dolls are probably asking those questions right now, but long-time owners will immediately know why clothes matter.

Are Breasts Sexual Organs? Should Female Breasts Be Sexualised? 

There was an argument put forward some time ago, by a strong voice on Twitter –someone I’d not heard of before- that breasts are not sexual. They were speaking of typically women’s breasts, and were rather stridently arguing their case –with plenty of others retweeting and replying in agreement.