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Ultimate Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide | Most Romantic Valentine’s Gifts

Cara Sutra - 24 January, 2020

Science Of Kissing: Kissing Facts, Kisses In History & ‘Kiss’ Etymology

The Hotness Of Body Piercings | List Of Genital Piercings

Happy New Year 2020: Hopes & Goals For My 40th Year

Humiliating Objectification Fantasies: My Love/Hate Relationship

Cara Sutra - 16 August, 2019

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.

15 Lessons I’ve Learned From Porn: A Funny Look At Adult Movies

Cara Sutra - 3 December, 2018

I bet you thought you couldn’t learn anything from porn, right? Wrong! Where there’s masturbation there’s education, and pornographic movies can teach you plenty about sex and relationships you never knew you didn’t want to know...

Can’t Achieve Vaginal Orgasms?

Cara Sutra - 12 August, 2019

I recently received an email from a gentleman requesting some sex advice. This isn't unusual in itself, but this email was so multi-faceted that I promised the correspondent a full analysis with my opinions here on the blog. The main issue? His wife can't achieve vaginal orgasms. Having heard similar worries and complaints both from women and their partners in the past, I wanted to write about my thoughts on this issue at length.

I Had My Cervical Screening And It Wasn’t Scary At All | Smear Test Report

Cara Sutra - 9 August, 2019

It had been far too many years since my last smear test, due to babies, and moving house, and life, and shoving that reminder letter into a drawer and forgetting about it. This year, I finally got my act together, decided the cervical screening was too important to ignore or put off for a moment longer, and made the appointment. And I’m so glad I did.

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