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Cara Sutra is a long-running, multi-award-winning sex and sexual wellness blog covering BDSM, kink, intimacy, pleasure and sex toys for all. Alongside in-depth reviews and practical advice, I also write honestly about midlife bodies, health, desire and wellbeing from lived experience, with much of that content speaking especially to women.

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50 Kinky Tasks to Give Your sub: Domination Inspiration For Dommes

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Constantly coming up with new ideas for tasks to set your sub or slave can be exhausting. Out of ideas, low on energy and lacking inspiration? This handy list of 50 tasks to set your sub is exactly what you need.

12 Powerful Ways a Dominant Woman Controls Her submissive male

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How does a Dominant Woman control her submissive man? Discover 12 powerful methods a Domme can use to exert control over her consenting male submissive or slave.

Why I Love Locking Men in Chastity Cages: A FemDom View

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Am I just an out-and-out, despicably cruel, evil bitch? Well, yes.  But also, chastity as part of enjoyable power exchange in BDSM is a consensual, globally popular activity.

Sex Toy Reviews

It was time to check out the star feature: the rotating tip. This is the feature that sets the b-Vibe 360 plug apart from other vibrating anal toys. In my hand, that rotating tip is mesmerising. You can see it in my review video on this page. It swirls around like a pirouetting ballerina, and I'll admit I enjoyed watching it do its thing for quite some time before I inserted it, imagining just how it would feel when deep inside me.
25 September, 2026

b-Vibe 360 Plug Review: Rotating Vibrating Butt Plug

I've been enjoying Le Wand Dive so much, so often, through so many weeks of prolonged 'testing' that it's actually delayed the publication of this review. I didn't want to be writing about it, I wanted to be sat on it. It's my regularly grabbed clitoral tease toy that I have to be wary of, because if I don't stay alert that tease can easily tip over into an accidental orgasm, especially when I have it shoved down the front of my knickers as I'm folding laundry.
8 September, 2026

Le Wand Dive Review: Fully Submersible Cordless Wand Vibrator

GITM Playbook kindly sent me their Cupcake Vibrator to try out, knowing I have a soft spot for clit stimulation. How tasty was that flickering silicone tongue? Was one taste enough, or did I go back for more? Once I’d had my fill, did this sex toy leave plenty of intimate icing on the cake?
23 July, 2026

Cupcake Vibrator Review: Getting Oral Sex from a Flicking, Licking Tongue Toy

I love my We-Vibe Wand 2; regularly, loudly when I can, discreetly when needs must. It's everything I want in a wand vibrator: powerful, discreet, versatile, rechargeable and cordless, fully waterproof, made with body-safe materials, and thoughtfully shaped with real human anatomy in mind.
9 July, 2026

We-Vibe Wand 2 Review: Why It’s Even Better Than The Original

This toy has proven that I can have the best of both worlds. The powerful buzz of GAIA gets me off, and the vibrator is like a hugely upgraded version of a bullet vibrator. Now for the tricky part: which colour will you choose?
14 April, 2026

Womangift GAIA Cordless Wand Vibrator Review

Sex Machine Reviews

I would have preferred to communicate my thoughts about this pleasure product via a series of orgasmic grunts and moans, but apparently a written review is required. Today I’m attempting to summarise my feelings about the VVD Rider Desire Sex Saddle, a rideable sex machine from vvdofficial.com...
30 January, 2025

VVD Rider Desire Sex Saddle Review

The Wildolo x Hismith Fucking Machine Review
19 April, 2024

HiSmith Wildolo Sex Machine Review: Premium App-Controlled Unit with KlicLok System

The Hismith Servok Fucking Machine (also known as Servok Premium in the US), is a game changer in the world of thrusting sex machines. Hismith already leads the midrange and budget market, but now they've stormed straight into the high-end too, with the Hismith Servok, featuring a completely new mechanical design and motor that allows the holy grail of fucking machine features...
29 September, 2023

Hismith Servok Review: Adjustable-Depth Power, App Control & Big-Toy Handling

For those seeking a portable and affordable alternative to a full-size fucking machine like the Tremor, Sybian or Motorbunny, the Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildo should be your first consideration. Sure, it’s noisy compared with a standard handheld vibrator, but this isn’t a standard vibe.
23 May, 2023

Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildo Review | Frankie / New Lewis Silicone Top

The Bondara Joy Extanda 10 Function Remote Thrusting Dildo is a thrusting vibrator—a hybrid toy that's somewhere in between a full-on fucking machine and a basic vibrating dildo. Available now for £100 from Bondara, will this slick 6” solid silicone extendable cock sow the seeds of delight for you? And how does it compare to its closest competitor: the HiSmith Traveller Pro?
15 May, 2023

Bondara Joy Extanda 10 Function Remote Thrusting Dildo Review (with comparison to HiSmith Traveller Pro 2.0)

BDSM Gear Reviews

Going from having a collar and cuffs on, especially with a clipped-on leash ready to be led anywhere, to having your ability to see removed, is profoundly exciting. Especially when it turns out I'm led to where I'm bent over furniture and given a sound arse punishment with the flogger that turns my cheeks hotly red, making it difficult to rest the glowing skin on my heels when I'm then led to kneel between his legs, and my mouth somehow ends up full of his very ready cock.
16 September, 2026

Liebe Seele Metallic Shades Bondage Toys Review: Vegan-Friendly BDSM Gear (Burgundy)

Large Mr Limpy Review: thick, bendy and impossible to ignore, this oversized Fleshlight packer is all about squishy satisfaction. In this hands-on review I share what it’s like to handle, how it looks and how it stacks up against the Small and Medium sizes, reviewed separately here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.
31 October, 2025

Large Mr Limpy Review: Fleshlight’s Biggest Packer for Impressive Bulge

At just under £30, the Bondara Step On Me Punisher Wooden Paddle is a solid addition to an existing BDSM punishment tools collection. The traditional, tactile material, combined with the aesthetically alluring boot print and versatile, sensual usage options make this a winner in my book.
26 May, 2025

Bondara Step On Me Punisher Wooden Paddle Review

Many thanks to my slave Penny for his detailed and honest thoughts on the Juliet Toys Rattlesnake Chastity Cage – always a pleasure to put him to work for me, especially writing a product review while squirming in denied desire in a locked chastity cage.
20 May, 2025

Juliet Toys Rattlesnake Chastity Cage Review

Yee-haw partner! Bondara are bringing the thrill of the wild west to the bedroom – or anywhere you fancy, really – with their exciting new product: the Bondara Straddle Saddle. This ingenious invention helps you lasso an orgasmic ride where all you have to do is sit tight and hold on to your hat...
12 March, 2025

Bondara Straddle Saddle Review: Hands-Free Dildo Bucking Bliss

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