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Ready to declutter and unburden yourself from any belongings which don't spark joy? For 'belongings' read sex toys, and for 'joy' read orgasms. How do you correctly dispose of vibrators? Can you recycle old sex toys?

There are lots of myths and misinformation about masturbating, so I’m here to set the record straight. Can you masturbate too much? Is excessive wanking dangerous? Long story short: although masturbation is definitely a private pleasure, it’s also nothing to feel guilty about and it doesn't cause any harm. You'll discover new & exciting ways to spice up your self-pleasure sessions at the end of this article too!

Coconut oil is one of those things I've heard plenty about, but I'm still not exactly sure what I can and can't use it for, why I should consider using it and where I should put it. Should I cook with it? Slather it through my hair? Funnel it into the car? Create a tropical-scented slip 'n slide in the garden? Why should I choose it over other oils? What's a good price? What benefits can I expect? And, of course, are coconut oil lubes effective & safe for sex & masturbation?

It has been difficult to know how best to write this sex toy review. This review is for a vibrator that I chose because I thought it looked perfect for me, and then it was. The End. Ok... I guess you'll want a little more detail than that. Let me introduce to you the Lovehoney X Love Not War Meile Sustainable Clitoral Vibrator.

What are rabbit vibes? How do you use a rabbit vibrator? You might be intimately familiar with this type of vibrating sex toy, or perhaps you're new to bunny-based self-love. Here in my big guide to rabbit vibrators you'll find out all about these consistently popular sex toys –as well as my absolute favourite buzzing bunnies.

How do you store sex toys? Are there any discreet sex toy storage solutions available? What is the best way to store adult toys? If you're sick of reaching for your favourite toy only to find it covered in dust from where you threw it under the bed last time, you need a new, better way to store your self-pleasure tools.

The soft gel tip at the bulbous, rounded end of the vibrator felt smooth upon entry and I appreciated the cushioning once the toy was nestled fully and snugly in position. Because of the curve of the vibrator's shaft, this squishy tip was comfortably pressed against my G-spot.

Your pelvic floor is the muscle responsible for those delicious clenches you feel during orgasm. Regular Kegel exercises help to tone the vagina and enable you to keep a better grip of your partner during PiV (penis in vagina) sex. As you climax, a more toned vagina will clench harder which intensifies sensation for both partners.

I've written several 'sexy product' guides here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, advice guides for sex toys, lubes, and specific kinky sex accessories too. Today I'd like to present my big guide to BDSM toys / BDSM gear, where I will help you navigate the enormous and diverse world of kinky toys and tools used to enhance power exchange sessions.

There has been a growing sense, and a feeling of expectation from both inside myself and outside, that women of a certain age simply do not act in certain ways. I absolutely swear to you that I have not just stepped off a train from the 1800s, I do not subscribe to any Victorian expectations of women nor do I agree with the historical, sexist views of women's roles in society. It's much more insidious than that.

What do you know about foot fetishism? Maybe you've heard rumours of people who fetishize feet, or perhaps you have a foot fetish yourself. Or the concept of having a fetish for feet might be something new to you entirely! In today's BDSM guide, foot fetish 101, I'd like to explore both what this fetish is all about and gain some understanding into the reasons behind foot fetishism.

Welcome to my Valentine's Day sexy gift guide! Valentine's is traditionally the time of year when lovers show each other the depth of their loving feelings by way of a card, a gift, spending time together doing something special and being generally loved-up. What do you buy the one you love for Valentine's Day this year? Have a look through this feature which showcases the best and most romantic gift ideas for some sensationally seductive inspiration.

I promised to write about each of the main sub-categories of sex lube in greater detail, and today we're looking at butt-specific lubricants for all your anal pleasure needs. Welcome to my anal lubes 101: your complete guide!

Today, I'd like to discuss an extremely fun type of lube in more detail – sex lubricants which offer sensational intimate effects, plus lubes with mouth-watering flavours. Welcome to my special effects & flavoured lubes 101: your complete guide!

With the rapid spread of COVID-19 across the world, including Europe and the UK, a lot of my plans last year – like many other people's - were forced to change. As this fast-spreading coronavirus necessitated a lot of personal restrictions, (as well as dropping a massive clanger on my sex life), most of those plans had to be completely cancelled. That's all the doom and gloom out of the way. What about this new year, 2021? 

In my annual end of the year round-up post, I usually look back over the year as a whole and pick out the highlights as well as any challenges my family and I faced. There's usually a comparison between what happened through the year, and my New Year hopes and goals post from the January of that year. It's safe to say that 2020 has in no way resembled what I thought it would shape up to be when I wrote that positive outlook at the start of January. How naively hopeful I was. How blindly optimistic.

Coconu provide carefully crafted personal lubricants and oils infused with coconut water and coconut oil, plus other skin-friendly ingredients. I've been intrigued by the amount of skin and health benefits attributed to coconut - and coconut oil in particular - over the past few years, so I was excited to try out these Coconu Coconut Based Lubes and more. 

I like that the ring is made with silicone and that it’s really stretchy to accommodate any penis size without issue. A removable bullet vibrator is always of interest, because it means I can enjoy that separately and in solo pleasure sessions. Huge bonuses are that the components of this sex toy are rechargeable, not battery operated, and that it can be operated via the included remote control.

I had high hopes for my new Ann Summers Fusion Remote Panty Vibe, because I absolutely love & regularly use another of Ann Summers' clitoral stimulators. The Ann Summers Moregasm Plus Bullet Vibrator is among my top 3 favourite bullet vibes –and I've tried a lot of bullet vibes over the years. 

Lingerie consistently features in sexy Christmas gift guides & seasonal wish lists. What sort of sensual lingerie would make their eyes light up this year? I'm here to help – welcome to my sexy Christmas lingerie gift guide 2020! I'll be sharing some of my favourite sexy Santa role play costumes too... they're so fun and flirty, and a great way to sex up an adult Christmas Eve.