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Despite not having the anatomy to enjoy Arcwave sex toys myself, luckily my husband is an eager tester when it comes to penis masturbators,...

At first, the ROMP Pulse Rabbit felt divine. Absolutely gorgeous sliding into position along with a splash of water-based lube. The size, contours and material of that vaginal shaft meant it glided into place superbly, and I was so excited to experience not just thrilling internal pleasure, but clitoral suction similar to my beloved Womanizer sex toys at the same time.

As a sex blogger with a publicly viewable email address, I get a lot of spam, and this includes scam attempts. Today I want to share what I've learned, as a follow-on to my recent piece about identifying PR reps' time-wasting negotiation tactics. Here are 10 common email scams, and how to avoid falling for them.

It was time to check out the star feature: the rotating tip. This is the feature that sets the b-Vibe 360 plug apart from other vibrating anal toys. In my hand, that rotating tip is mesmerising. You can see it in my review video on this page. It swirls around like a pirouetting ballerina, and I'll admit I enjoyed watching it do its thing for quite some time before I inserted it, imagining just how it would feel when deep inside me.

A lot of sex education focuses on the biological factors of reproduction and the reproductive cycle. What about the pleasure of sex? That's what I want to talk about today. The sexual pleasure potential of the human body; vulvas, penises, breasts, prostates, and our erogenous zones. The nature of arousal, and how it shows up and can change through our lives. It's time to talk about the full-bodied joy of sexual anatomy.

Still bruised and in pain from his recent branding, penny is collected by an intimidating henchwoman: Titanium. She's huge and seething with hatred for him, for reasons which will become apparent. Another long journey to the palace ends with slave penny ratcheted into a wheeled bondage frame, and a new, ingenious, but truly terrifying device being installed in a certain sensitive part of his anatomy...

Going from having a collar and cuffs on, especially with a clipped-on leash ready to be led anywhere, to having your ability to see removed, is profoundly exciting. Especially when it turns out I'm led to where I'm bent over furniture and given a sound arse punishment with the flogger that turns my cheeks hotly red, making it difficult to rest the glowing skin on my heels when I'm then led to kneel between his legs, and my mouth somehow ends up full of his very ready cock.

I've been enjoying Le Wand Dive so much, so often, through so many weeks of prolonged 'testing' that it's actually delayed the publication of this review. I didn't want to be writing about it, I wanted to be sat on it. It's my regularly grabbed clitoral tease toy that I have to be wary of, because if I don't stay alert that tease can easily tip over into an accidental orgasm, especially when I have it shoved down the front of my knickers as I'm folding laundry.

Anyone passing by would definitely see him fucking me on the living room carpet, being taken with my legs spread, back arched and tits out, hair wild and bucking frenziedly on his cock. Some whore that didn't care about anything in that moment but the sensational feel of him fucking me and needing to cum inside me; yes, again. Even though he'd only just 'fed' me at the other end.

Whether you've landed on this page looking for sound advice on how to use an anal douche safely, or you're after a juicy story about someone going about it in all the sensationally wrong ways, welcome.

Today, I want to share what my submissive does each day, in his real life. But I’m not talking about his employment, or hobbies; these are the specific FemDom slave rituals that he has been motivated to do every single day. They are actions and behaviours which heighten his feelings of submission and devotion to me. I hope you find this post intriguing, arousing, shockingly filthy and perverted. Be prepared for explicit descriptions of submissive depravity, all negotiated and carried out within the safety framework of our SSC BDSM relationship.

GITM Playbook kindly sent me their Cupcake Vibrator to try out, knowing I have a soft spot for clit stimulation. How tasty was that flickering silicone tongue? Was one taste enough, or did I go back for more? Once I’d had my fill, did this sex toy leave plenty of intimate icing on the cake?

This sub-category of Life Unscripted is entitled Fatigue & Fire: Learning to Live with Chronic Illness. Mostly I’ll be writing about balancing my ongoing work, and the challenge of running my own business, with having to live with M.E., ageing as a woman, plus other health issues. This post is my official introduction to this sub-series.

Brand reps, PR agencies, link-building middlemen, content marketing companies, demands to publish press releases and "opportunities" which smell an awful lot like a ton of work for no pay. I'm talking tyre kickers, lowballers and camels. If you don't know what these phrases mean, read on. Here are the 7 most common negotiation tactics used against bloggers.

I love my We-Vibe Wand 2; regularly, loudly when I can, discreetly when needs must. It's everything I want in a wand vibrator: powerful, discreet, versatile, rechargeable and cordless, fully waterproof, made with body-safe materials, and thoughtfully shaped with real human anatomy in mind.

I have a complicated past, with life experiences spanning childhood trauma, abusive relationships and more, all of it part of what makes me, me. Today I am going to talk about parenting as a survivor. How has my turbulent, traumatic past affected how I parent my children? Am I really the cycle-breaker I like to believe I am?

I was craving his touch. His fingers on me, holding me, gripping me, stroking me, teasing me. And in me, dipping in and out of my silky wet intimate space, using the natural lubrication to tease my hard, pulsating clit and back down to thrust inside, more this time, two fingers, three. Opening up that tight space, readying me for even more of him. His mouth on mine, and his teeth on my neck, and down to my cleavage, my primed and alert nipples, and back for another taste of my hot and hungry mouth.

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A warning to all who venture beyond this point and who dare to look upon the extremely dark fantasies of a besotted, tormented, but ultimately kept safe and consensual slave. You're about to read tales of grim slave ownership. A person hunted, conquered, dehumanised, stripped of everything he is or was, physically and psychologically, and broken then reshaped as property, chattel; a used and abused slave. These are the thoughts that tease his imagination and therefore his body, parts of his anatomy which will never be fully sated and are destined to circle in deliciously cruel, unending torment.

I have been writing about my own self-pleasure, as a sex blogger, as well as building an educational resource about masturbation, for over seventeen years. In this comprehensive topic hub I have gathered together all my sex education articles and opinion pieces about masturbation so you can easily find the answers you're looking for.