Cara Sutra
Sex blogger, Domme, Sex toy tester. My guilty secret is that I'm boring.
How to Last Longer During Sex: Real Ways to Increase Stamina & Pleasure
How to last longer during sex is a question I’m asked frequently by readers. But really, enjoyment of sex comes from so many other factors than attempting a marathon thrust session. It’s about confidence, awareness and exploring each other intimately with the genuine desire to evoke maximum levels of psychological as well as physical pleasure.
Large Mr Limpy Review: Fleshlight’s Biggest Packer for Impressive Bulge
Large Mr Limpy Review: thick, bendy and impossible to ignore, this oversized Fleshlight packer is all about squishy satisfaction. In this hands-on review I share what it’s like to handle, how it looks and how it stacks up against the Small and Medium sizes, reviewed separately here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.
What Is Gooning? Riding The Pleasure Trance on the Edge of Orgasm
What is gooning? I hear you ask. Some of you might know exactly what it is, but gooning was new to me (the phrase, certainly not the activity!) so of course I did my research. This prolonged dance on the edge of orgasm is extremely interesting to me, as I’ve long been fascinated by the altered mind state that happens through masturbatory edging and repeated orgasm tease and denial.
Are Sex Toys Safe? How to Use Vibrators Safely for Better Pleasure
There is a persistent myth that sex toys are dangerous, damaging or somehow harmful to the body. The truth is that sex toys are...
Trick or Tease: 13 Kinky Halloween Sex Games for Dominants and Submissives
D/s is a serious thing, with a foundation of consent, trust and two-way communication. But it’s also supposed to be fun, and I’ll let you into a secret: you’re allowed to have a laugh. In today’s article I will share 13 kinky Halloween games which lean into themes of Dominance and submission, with bondage, roleplay and punishment themes featuring heavily. Ready to stir up some spooky mischief?
Tentacle Vibrator Review: Bondara Taint-tacle Monster Vibe
The tip alone feels fantastic, as it glides and probes all at once, slipping over my vulva and making it gently flick against my clit then with firmer strokes, feeling the smaller sucker texture rub against my exposed, hungry nub. It was maddeningly arousing. My body demanded more. This kinky beast needed to be inside me. Now.
Monster Sex Fantasies Kink: Tentacles, Werewolves and Erotic Fear Play
Monster sex fantasies are the result of a primal force within us. These taboo desires blur the line between desire and danger, where pleasure is laced with fear. What do you dream about pleasurably devouring you?
Vampire Fetish Guide: Biting, Blood and BDSM Power Exchange
Through the centuries, there have always been people with a vampire fetish, folk fascinated with these elegantly erotic predators. Vampires may be dark and deadly, but they’re also incredibly alluring and seductive, with a commanding presence, otherworldly creature vibes and tantalising immortality. Sharp fangs and pale skin are the finishing touches to the power theme which blends Domination, submission and blood.
Womanizer Peach Review: Peachy Pleasure Air Clit Stim Sex Toy
Feeling peachy? I certainly was when I opened up a recent reviewer care package to discover the brand-new fruity release from Womanizer. This Peach sex toy promises a juicy Pleasure Air enhanced ride to orgasm, but for me, it didn’t quite deliver the sweet climax I was dreaming of. Read on for all the sensual, succulent details in my Womanizer Peach review.
The Real Monster Mash: Scary Strokers for Spooky Solo Sex
Ready to face your most frightening fuck fantasies this Halloween? Grab a comforting blanket and a bottle of thick ‘n slick lube because I’m diving into the most creepy creature penis toys around. Whether you’re hunting tentacle textures or dreaming of gliding past vampire fangs, this guide to scary strokers rounds up the most popular monster masturbators and fantasy sleeves for daring Halloween thrills and year-round chills.
Nothosaur Toys Vortima Masturbator Review: Tentacle-Texture Monster Fantasy Stroker
After reviewing plenty of wonderfully weird Nothosaur fantasy dildos, we opted for something a little different this time. And this sex toy is so different, you could say it’s out of this world. Welcome to our Nothosaur Toys Vortima Masturbator review, where I’ll be sharing all the tentacle-texture details of this monster fantasy stroker.
Fleshlight Fleshwash Review: Fl Sex Toy Cleaner Spray
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Welcome to my no-fuss Fleshlight Fleshwash review. This antibacterial toy cleaner is designed for Fleshlight sleeves and other sex toys. Below you’ll find how I use it, spray coverage, scent, ingredients, care tips, pros and cons, and where to buy whether you're in the US or UK/EU.
Fleshlight Fleshlube Review: Fl Water-Based Lube
Welcome to my hands-on Fleshlight Fleshlube review. Fleshlight’s water-based lube promises a silky glide with Superskin sleeves and other toys. Below you’ll find texture and feel, ingredients, how much to use, tips, pros and cons, and where to buy whether you're in the US or UK/EU.
Sexy Horror Movies That Will Get Your Pulse Racing
So many of us have a thing for sexy horror movies. Yeah, the jump scares are fun, but what about the electrifying undercurrent of eroticism? Blood-red lips, vulnerable victims, lustful monsters, screams that sound suspiciously like moans... Oh yeah. There’s a whole lot more to horror cinema than fancying a Hollywood fright night.
Bondara Corkscrewer Twisted Spiral Glass Dildo Review
Welcome to my Bondara Corkscrewer Glass Dildo review! It’s been a while since I reviewed a glass sex toy, and when I reviewed the Bondara Glacier Glass Nebula Dildo last year I absolutely loved it. How does this new corkscrew twist style compare? Read on to find out how this beautiful glass toy feels during use, a close-up of its spiral design, rotation vs thrust, temperature play and maintenance.
Kinky Halloween Costumes: Sexy Dress-Up Ideas for Dominants and Submissives
Kinky Halloween costumes help you make the most of this dark and daring time of year, offering kinksters a fun, easy way to celebrate all things deliciously deviant. You might be more familiar with regular ghost or zombie costumes during Samhain celebrations, but my alternative Halloween dress-up guide will help you find BDSM Halloween costume ideas instead.
Womanizer Next Review: The Techtastic Toy Your Clitoris Deserves
Womanizer Next features such cutting-edge technology across its many endearing features that I must admit I was a little intimidated to begin with. I...
Bondara Happy Handful Boob Masturbator Review: The Squishy Tit Fuck
If you’ve ever enjoyed fondling a tit so much you wish you could just plunge your cock right in and explode your load, you’re in luck. The Bondara Happy Handful Boob Masturbator is a singular, squishy boob with a tweakable nipple on one side and a penetrable pussy on the other. Yeah, it’s a tit wank, but not as you know it...
BDSM Symbols and Meanings: Triskelion, Flags and Collars Explained
Curious about BDSM symbols? This guide explains the BDSM triskelion, the BDSM flag, and other icons that represent kink culture and community. Learn their...
The BDSM Rights Flag: Meaning, Colours and History
The BDSM Rights Flag is a symbol designed to represent consent, visibility and recognition for people within the BDSM community. This guide explains its origins, colours, design and how it is used today.
