Cara Sutra

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.

I recently received an email from a gentleman requesting some sex advice. This isn't unusual in itself, but this email was so multi-faceted that I promised the correspondent a full analysis with my opinions here on the blog. The main issue? His wife can't achieve vaginal orgasms. Having heard similar worries and complaints both from women and their partners in the past, I wanted to write about my thoughts on this issue at length.

For the past 4 years I've hosted a popular community reviews project here at the Cara Sutra sex blog called the Pleasure Panel. Sadly, this project closed at the start of July this year. I wanted to write an official update to clarify that the Pleasure Panel project is officially closed, and no more sign-ups to it are being accepted.

It had been far too many years since my last smear test, due to babies, and moving house, and life, and shoving that reminder letter into a drawer and forgetting about it. This year, I finally got my act together, decided the cervical screening was too important to ignore or put off for a moment longer, and made the appointment. And I’m so glad I did.

Two giants of the sex toy industry, Womanizer and Lovehoney, have joined forces to create the latest and finessed version of an air flow clit stim toy. Using patented Pleasure Air Technology, the Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator promises powerful orgasms.

Two hugely successful sex toy brands have collaborated to present a thrilling new product which promises effortless orgasms. Introducing the Womanizer x Lovehoney Pro40 Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator. Utilising the now patented Pleasure Air Technology, first created in 2013 by Michael Lenke, the Womanizer Pro40 is the latest addition to the globally popular and successful Womanizer sex toy family.

How people perceive my domination, and the reality of it, is something which has fascinated me for some time. You would be amazed at some of the comments directed my way over the years simply for the ways in which I choose to enjoy my natural dominance, as well as how my actively consenting submissives enjoy it, too. Some of these comments are borne from ignorance, some from jealousy, some from malice, and others simply because the person spoke without properly thinking it all through.

I hadn't heard of Ylva and Dite before they kindly contacted me for a product review, but I'm very glad I know about them now. Based in the Netherlands, this toy manufacturing company handcrafts a variety of dildo styles which can be found for sale at very reasonable prices on their website. I'm very happy to present to you today the specific toy I'll be reviewing: the Ylva and Dite Fruit Green Aria Dildo.

The beautiful Cecile range is one of the new lingerie styles available from Ann Summers for Spring/Summer 2019. While in my local city of Lincoln UK for lunch with a friend the other week, they offered to buy me my choice of gift from the store – and I chose this gorgeous looking lingerie which is in my favourite colourway, red and black. The Ann Summers Cecile Non-Padded Bra And Thong are available separately, either in store or online.

The fountain elicited a chorus of open-mouthed wails. The heat of the sun and humiliation hit my exposed clit and spread labia, slicking them with hungry need. My body kept forgetting it was in such secure bondage; each leg kept pointed upwards and outwards, unable to bend. How I wished I could arch my back completely, then curl into a ball and keep this feeling of humiliation-fuelled hot desire as my own private masturbatory tool.

The Lovehoney Free Spirit lingerie collection is pretty and summery in pink and purple shades. There are three items in the range, both in one size and plus size: a bra set, a babydoll set and the item I’m reviewing here today, the Lovehoney Free Spirit Pink Lace Cut-Out Strappy Body.

Strap-on sex (sometimes known as pegging) is enjoyed by many adults and within various types of relationship; for example, lesbian/bisexual sex, in BDSM as part of FemDom, or to help a penis-owner pleasure their partner in different ways. There are many types of harness available to help you achieve your sexual pleasure aims – welcome to my big guide to strap-on sex harnesses.

When approached by Honour to review a new sex toy release, I was intrigued... then when I found out the new toy was a wand vibrator, I was excited! Regular readers of my blog will know just how much of a magic wand vibrator fan I am. The Honour H30 Vibrating Wand has been created and released in celebration of 30 years of trading for Honour.

I’d been on the lookout for some new eye-catching lingerie for some time, so it was a pleasure to test out and review the Leg Avenue Rainbow Shredded Cut-Out High Leg Body available from Lovehoney.

As you'll have read in my recent NS Novelties Silicone Colours Pride Edition 5 Inch Dildo review, I was recently asked if I’d like to review some of the raunchy rainbow collection of sex toys and lingerie Lovehoney collated in celebration of Pride Month 2019. The second item I’ve reviewing is this glorious NS Novelties Silicone Unicorn Tails Butt Plug.

The Hot Octopuss sex toys collection began with the now internationally popular Pulse, also known as a Guybrator. Since the early days, and plenty of industry awards and acclaim later, Hot Octopuss added cock rings and clitoral vibrators. I'm proud to present the newest item in the Hot Octopuss family: the Hot Octopuss DiGiT Finger Vibe.

For Pride Month 2019, Lovehoney have collated a collection of rainbow themed sex toys, lingerie & sexy accessories to help people celebrate in sensual style. I've been lucky enough to be offered a few of the items to review here on the blog –starting with the eye-popping NS Novelties Silicone Colours Pride Edition 5 Inch Dildo. That's a mouthful and no mistake!

Time for my Big Birthday Summer 2019 Sex Toys Giveaway! And if you think that’s a mouthful, you should see the prizes on offer 😉 July is (obviously) the best month of the year*, being not only my birthday month but that of my partner, too.

Whether you’re looking for your first chastity device, or seeking to add a chastity cage to your *ahem* growing collection, it can be baffling when you realise just how many variants are available. This is particularly the case for lock-up fans who don’t have a Keyholder/Mistress/Top to guide them, and simply wish to explore chastity fetish by themselves. Welcome to my big guide to penis chastity devices!

I was offered the HerSolution Pills and the HerSolution Gel by Leading Edge Health, who sent them to me in exchange for my honest review. I've had varied success rates with these types of libido enhancing products. After looking through the plentiful information on the hersolution.com website, I agreed to give them a go.