Last Updated on 26 November, 2025 by Cara Sutra
Hand wanking is all well and good, but have you ever fantasised about sucking your own cock? Not someone else sucking your cock, as glorious as that is… but being able to give yourself oral satisfaction any time you like. Autofellatio is a topic rarely discussed in all seriousness, but one I’ve heard mention of regularly in jokey conversations about teenage experimentation & the ‘ultimate’ in self-satisfaction. Want to learn how to suck your own cock? You’re in luck, as I’m revealing all here today.
Self Sucking Equipment Needed:
- Your own cock
- Flexibility
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Is Sucking Your Own Cock Possible?
The big question: is it possible to suck your own cock? The short answer is yes! The longer answer is yes… if you don’t have physical injury or disability which prevents full mobility, and if you’re flexible enough. Being on the slim side definitely helps as well.
Don’t just take my word for it though – after all, as someone without a cock of my own, what do I know? I’m lucky enough to have photographic evidence of someone performing autofellatio. I have been provided with an image which is in the public domain.
I’ve put the self cock sucking picture behind NSFW tags so you’ll need to actively consent & click if you want to see the photo:
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And there’s even more proof that autofellatio is not only possible but something enjoyed by many. See people sucking their own cock via these selfsucking cams. Impressive and hot.
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Is Autofellatio a Common Sexual Fantasy?
You might be wondering if people really do fantasise about sucking their own cock -and why. Again, as a cis woman I have limited personal experience on this subject. However, the fact I’ve heard people with a penis discussing the subject, in fantasy terms, supports the view that self-sucking your dick is a popular fantasy.
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In fact, it was even mentioned in my favourite podcast: Shagged, Married, Annoyed with Chris & Rosie Ramsey. Although this is a mainstream podcast, the comic couple regularly discuss sexual as well as other lifestyle topics – some quite taboo! Apparently this particular subject wasn’t to everyone’s taste, though.
Preparing To Suck Your Own Dick
Let’s get to the nuts and bolts of the matter. So you want to learn how to suck your own dick. There’s anecdotal and photographic evidence that self-sucking is definitely possible for some people with a penis. You feel able-bodied and flexible enough. How do you do it? What’s the best position? Are there any safety guidelines?
First, some preparation tips:
Make Sure You Won’t Be Disturbed
Most people are going to want to try sucking their own cock somewhere completely private. That’s not to say everyone into autofellatio is against having an audience, but you’ll probably want to make sure you can actually get your penis into your own mouth first.
Lock the doors, shut the windows, close the curtains and put your phone on do not disturb. Then double and possibly triple check all of the above. Make sure you have plenty of time, as feeling rushed won’t be conducive.
Check Your Background Noise
Something annoyingly distracting or erection-wilting in the background won’t be conducive to self-sucking your cock either. A party-political broadcast on the TV, all the world’s bad news over the radio… Give some thought to what you’ll be able to hear, if you decide to have any background noise at all.
Some sexy or soothing music is a good choice. My advice is to resist the temptation to pop some porn on, however, as you may become far too distracted by it, prematurely bail on the autofellatio attempt and surrender to your need for a hand wank instead.
Get Everything You Need Within Reach
If / when you do get in a successful position for sucking your own penis, you don’t want all that effort to go to waste because you need something out of reach. Get absolutely everything you might need close by, which may include tissues, wipes, cushions, a pillow, water or other drink of your choice, a dressing gown for quick cover-up… Buy your sex essentials here (US) or sex essentials here (UK).
Choose A Safe Location
As well as choosing somewhere comfortable for your self-sucking session, you need to make sure it’s safe. A bed is the usual first choice for anything sex-related, but as well as being a soft surface and therefore not the best for autofellatio attempts, it’s also a height you could potentially fall from while you’re trying to get into position.
I’d strongly advise trying to suck your own cock while laid on the floor, near a wall, so you don’t have anywhere to fall from and risk damage to yourself. We’ll discuss the tried & tested positions which will give you the best chance to suck your own dick in the next section.
Get Comfortable
Make your chosen space as comfortable as possible, as well as safe. Grab some cushions or pillows for each side of you, as well as a headrest or other support for your head – which can also provide an invaluable extra inch or two when trying to get your mouth around your cock.
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Consider Taste As Well As Sensation
While fantasising about the spectacular sensation you’re about to serve up to yourself, courtesy of your eager lips and mouth, it’s easy to overlook another aspect. When you do get your own cock in your mouth, you won’t just feel it, you’ll taste it too.
Perhaps tasting your own cock (& cum) holds its own appeal for you. If not, plan ahead. Get something smeared on your dick to disguise the taste, like one of these flavoured lubes (US) or flavoured lubes here (UK), or Nutella. Perhaps put some towels down first though, and be prepared to hop straight into the shower afterwards.
Have A Cumming Plan
What are you going to do if you manage to suck your own cock and if you then make yourself cum into your own mouth? Do you spit or swallow? Get a pack of tissues ready – or maybe you’re absolutely ready to swallow your own load. Which, by the way, I find extremely hot.
Best Positions For Sucking Your Own Cock
From my research, it seems there are two main recommended ways to try sucking your own cock, and both involve a firm base like the floor, and a wall.
- Lay down with your bum touching a wall, and your legs up against the wall, so your body forms a right angle. From there, flip your legs backwards, so your ankles are by your ears and your cock is by your mouth.
- Lay down with your head near the wall, as if it’s the headboard of a bed, with your legs facing away from the wall and your body flat. Flip your legs backwards so the soles of your feet are against the wall, then ‘walk’ yourself down it until your cock reaches your lips.
As you can no doubt tell, I wasn’t joking about flexibility being a must. You could try to do it whilst sat upright in a chair… but this is a difficult position to find self-sucking success in, unless you have a footlong when erect. And I don’t mean a fetish for Subway.
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Have you ever fantasised about autofellatio? Maybe this article will inspire you to give it a go. Perhaps you’re already able to suck your own dick -or know someone who can. Whatever your personal aims and anecdotes, I’d love to hear about them in the comments below.
Whether you manage autofellatio or not, you can still enjoy the closest sensations with:
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