Wednesday, January 29, 2020

Articles

Articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog cover the entire spectrum of sexuality, discussing everything pertinent to the world of intimate pleasure and romantic relationships. You’ll find a wealth of sex tips and advice to help you enjoy higher levels of stimulation and enjoyment whether you prefer to play solo or with a partner. Relationships and dating can be tricky areas to navigate successfully, so read up on real experiences here on the blog from both myself and expert guest authors who share their relationship advice.

If you’re ready for the decadently darker side of sex, peer into the world of bondage and spanking… you’ll find plenty of advice articles here for beginners all the way up to veteran kinksters. The kinky sex tips and BDSM articles are sure to help you enjoy not only breathtakingly exciting power exchange playtimes, but ensure you’re both completely safe and emotionally comfortable at all times.

From time to time I write about the sexuality themed highlights of the year, such as National Orgasm Day, International Women’s Day, Organic Intimacy Week, LGBTQ+ Pride Month, Movember and more. You’ll also find fun and helpful seasonal articles covering such themes as romantic gift guides for Valentine’s Day and Christmas, spicing up the Halloween season in a sexy way and enjoying some red hot summer loving.

My sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality. I hope you enjoy reading all my articles.

Big Guide To Spanking Toys, & Our Spanking Toy Reviews

Spanking is an erotic act between consenting kinksters and lovers. Do you prefer yours OTK (over the knee), strapped face-down to a bench, during sex or in some other fashion? Does the mere thought of a raised Dominant hand, or a spanking toy whistling through the air, stir the tendrils of arousal? You might be wondering which spanking tools are best for effective corporal punishment. Welcome to my big guide to spanking toys, in which you'll also find links to all our spanking toy reviews.

Beginner’s Guide To Bondage | Bondage Tips | Complete Bondage 101

Thanks to the likes of Fifty Shades of Grey bringing kink to the forefront of everyone's mind in the past 12 months, bondage has seen a massive increase in popularity and not just as a saucy secret behind the closed doors of adventurous couples. If you're interested in kinking up your sex life a little, hopefully this quick beginner's guide to bondage will be of help.

Beginner’s Guide To BDSM | BDSM Tips For Beginners | BDSM 101

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.
Happy New Year 2020 Giveaway: Win A £150+ Sex Toy Bundle!

Expired: Happy New Year 2020 Giveaway: Win A £150+ Sex Toy Bundle!

Happy New Year 2020! Are you ready for another year of sexual wellness and invigorating kinky mischief? Then you’ll love my sex toy giveaway, designed to get you off to a flying start. One lucky Cara Sutra sex blog reader will win this sex toy bundle which is worth, in total, over £150*. In the spirit of fresh starts, I’ve hand-picked some items which I hope will present opportunities for the winner to try something new this year, as well as some more traditional sexy gift faves. Let’s take a look at what you could win, plus how to enter my Happy New Year 2020 giveaway.

2019 Reflections: Goodbye To Another Year

As we say goodbye to another year, I'd like to take the opportunity -as I have for the past few years now- to look back on everything that's happened. I've had a lot to ponder over for my 2019 reflections, as it's been another busy year.

Can Long-Distance Relationships Ever Really Work?

Social media, dating apps and chat sites are undoubtedly effective ways to meet new people. Connecting with the person of your dreams, then discovering they lives miles away –or on the other side of the world- can bring about another set of challenges for your budding relationship, however. Can long-distance relationships ever really work?

Why We Love Sexy Corporal Punishment

I'd like to talk a little more about why we love sexy corporal punishment here today, and how it really hits our spot. Perhaps this intimate revelation will prompt more people out there to accept spanking and similar as being just as 'acceptable' as 'regular' sex antics, instead of mentally filing such habits as perverted, deviant and downright weird.

Introduction to E-Stim & the Electrastim Electro Sex Toys Range

You may or may or may not have heard the term e-stim or electrosex before. It's something that can inspire all sorts of emotions, from curiosity to nervous apprehension. It involves using specialised equipment to stimulate our genitals using electricity. It is a gender-free masturbatory activity that is fun on your own or with a partner.

Expired: The Big Christmas Giveaway 2019: Win A £200+ Festive Fuckery Bundle!

Time for my Big Christmas Giveaway 2019! Make sure you enter this exciting seasonal competition as you could win a Festive Fuckery Bundle worth over £200*. I’m sure there are plenty of Cara Sutra sex blog readers who would love to win a hand-picked selection of sex toys and sexy gifts to enjoy through the holidays, so let’s take a look at what exactly you might be receiving, and how to enter.

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide | Best Romantic Christmas Gifts

Giving the perfect Christmas gift you just know they'll adore gives you a warm fuzzy feeling like (almost) nothing else. 'Tis the season of giving, so why not combine festive spice and evergreen romance by gifting your lover a decidedly sexy present this year? Baby, it's cold outside – but selecting from the raunchy choices in my sexy Christmas gift guide will ensure you're all aglow. You can find my top picks for the best romantic Christmas gifts in this ultimate festive gifting guide.

Welcome To My Loving Sex Toy Shop

Have you noticed the link in the main menu to my 'sex shop'? I've been meaning to properly introduce my sex toy store for quite a while now. This sex shop is hosted by Loving Sex, which is the retail aspect of sexual education front-runners, Alexander Institute. Here's my official welcome to my Loving Sex toy shop!

How To Have A Kinky Valentine’s Day

Even if your plans consist of a couple of hours together tonight, without work or the kids, possibly with a cheeky tipple, a pizza and a DVD, you may be wishing for a more exciting way to spice things up between you and your partner. There is. Read on for some practical & romantic BDSM tips which will teach you how to have a kinky Valentine's Day.

Kink Compatibility In BDSM Relationships

You crave nothing more than her largest strap-on wedged firmly up your ass. She, on the other hand,  insists you spend the day doing the dishes dressed in sissy frills and heels. However, you're not a sissy and she doesn't own any strap on harnesses. How could things have gone so wrong? It's time to talk about kink compatibility in BDSM relationships.

Expired: Zumio Giveaway: Win The Zumio X & Zumio S Spirotip Clitoral Stimulators

Welcome to my Zumio giveaway! I’m so excited to be able to share some intense Zumio thrills with not just one lucky reader courtesy of this sexy competition, but three. As you can see from my recent Zumio X Spirotip Clitoral Stimulator review, I’ve fallen in love with Zumio’s unique and breathtakingly effective orgasmic pleasure.
Halloween Giveaway 2019: Win A Spookily Sexy £150+ Prize Bundle

Expired: Halloween Giveaway 2019: Win A Spookily Sexy £150+ Prize Bundle

Happy Halloween! October is only just getting started, but you can be in it to win it in my new & exciting Halloween Giveaway 2019. Win yourself a scarily sexy bundle of sex toys, bondage and other sexy items. Keep reading to find out exactly what you could win in this awesome competition, as well as how to enter.

Relationship Counseling, Relationship Coach & Marriage Therapy

Firstly, most marriage therapy or relationship counseling completely lacks the integration of sex. Sex is a big part of intimacy, connection, and pair bonding in a relationship, and yet it’s ignored by more relationship counselors. Secondly, most marriage therapy is based on the medical model, so they try to fix what is wrong and not find and enhance what is right or could be amazing.

Buy Used Panties and Sell Worn Underwear at Sofia Gray

Purchasing or selling used underwear often evokes strong opinions, but when you think about it, the enjoyment of worn knickers can be extremely pleasurable for all concerned. I'm not ashamed to say I've sold my own worn underwear in the past –well, why not? I buy some pretty panties, wear them, take a few photos if I feel like it and then... instant profit.

YES Organic Intimacy Week 2019 (& Sexy Hamper Giveaway)

This week it's YES Organic Intimacy Week, a global awareness campaign which YES hope will increase people's general knowledge of intimate products, as well as the importance of selecting the highest purity quality sex lubes and moisturisers for ongoing intimate wellbeing.  

Big Guide To Strap-On Dildos, & Our Pegging Dildo Reviews

You may remember my last 'big guide' - the Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses I published last month. Obviously you'll need a fantastic dildo to attach to your new strap-on harness, so here's the follow-up feature: my big guide to strap-on dildos!

Humiliating Objectification Fantasies: My Love/Hate Relationship

Guilty is the wrong word; I don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures, as P!nk famously said. I feel weird, and wired, and demanding. I have a high-maintenance imagination. Most notably, I have a private love/hate relationship with humiliating objectification –as a kink and as a popular foundation for my most extreme fantasies.