Chastity Advice

If you’re a regular Cara Sutra sex blog reader, you’ll know just how much of a penis chastity fan I am. I absolutely love locking men’s penises in chastity cages and sating their need for orgasm control, tease and denial and the thrill that only comes with having your penis locked in a chastity device. If you’re looking for chastity advice, you’re certainly in the right place! I've also written plenty of HOT chastity erotica & chastity sexy stories for you to enjoy too...

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There’s a big difference between attempting to control the frequency of your own orgasms through willpower with regards to your masturbation habits, and the physical as well as mental aspects of locking on a chastity device – especially if you’re handing over the keys to someone else. It’s wise to take note of all the chastity advice in this area of my website so you are best prepared and well aware of everything related to being chaste, before embarking on this notably daring and exciting part of your kinky adventures.

I have written chastity articles from my own point of view, what I get out of locking up a man in a chastity cage, as well as hosting the viewpoints of chastity slaves and submissives. There’s an outstanding beginner’s guide to penis chastity and male chastity play by a lifestyle chastity submissive, which is extremely popular and gives you a comprehensive and practical ten-step guide to becoming 'comfortably uncomfortable' in chastity.

chastity advice articles

Of course, chastity isn’t solely for kinksters with a penis. You may be interested in learning more about, and experimenting within, the world of female chastity. Does female chastity exist? Can women enjoy orgasm denial? Find out in my helpful female chastity advice post.

How you choose to embark or continue your chastity adventures is, of course, completely up to you and your desires, situation and the unique flavour of your chastity kink. Do you want to use chastity devices or would you prefer to continue orgasm control in an unlocked fashion? If you are interested in chastity cages, which is the best chastity device to buy? You can find 'off the shelf' styles, or have one custom made to fit you perfectly. You can also find various comparatively flexible materials, like silicone or soft plastic, or select a stainless steel or other metal option.

Should you ever hand over the key to your chastity cage to anyone –and how can you find a Keyholder who is compatible with your kinks? Would you like your kinky relationship to be entirely Keyholding service-based, or simply part of a Domination & submission session, or one of the facets of a Domme/Mistress and slave/submissive relationship? There’s just so much to consider, and I hope my chastity advice articles provide the help and guidance you need.

Puppy Play For Mistress – Chastity Tease And Orgasm Denial

Puppy Play For Mistress is a short FemDom story written for me by one of my submissives. He's so very much into chastity tease and orgasm denial, as well as being made to act like a puppy... wagging tail, begging, barking for dinner - you get the idea. I hope you enjoy this story as much I repeatedly do. Happy Fetish Friday.

The Conversion: A Male Chastity Story

Time no longer had relevance. There was a time he recalls being locked in this physical and mental cage. He vaguely remembers the drink that made him feel so weak and compliant. He can recollect the smug smile on her face as she led the way down that corridor as he was helplessly, virtually carried along by other slaves. He could also recall the arousal induced by that smile, the click and clack of those sexy high heeled boots as she sauntered along that hard tiled corridor and that derriere that shouted "Woman. Beautiful desirable woman". There was apprehension and some fear but it was indicative of the power of this woman, that arousal was the sensation he remembers most.

What I Get Out Of Locking A Man In A Chastity Cage

By Cara Sutra: What thrill could anyone get out of locking a man into a chastity cage? At a time when the spotlight is full blast on BDSM and kink it’s refreshing to see Uber Kinky coming to the fore and raising awareness about different types of alternative relationships. What I mean is, plenty of people are now aware of light bedroom bondage which has been mainly interpreted as female sub, male Dominant. Because all relationships consist of two people, hetero, cis, the whole gender binary he-she-bang. Well actually, no.

Locked In A Chastity Cage: A Real-Life Journal

The distinction between work and non-work is blurred by the over-riding engrossment ranging from extreme torment to very extreme torment. It is there every minute of the day and night. When I am awoken in the middle of the night (assuming I sleep) as the strain of the natural nocturnal erection pulls heavily while I'm locked in a chastity cage, it is there. It remains as the natural erection is quickly replaced by one of arousal as my thoughts turn to the beautiful, imaginative and resourceful young woman who, following her conquest of me, took ownership of me under lock and key.

Beginner’s Guide To Penis Chastity & Male Chastity Play

Welcome to my big beginner's guide to penis chastity and male chastity play! So, you want to try a chastity device? Or maybe your partner wants you to wear one? Perhaps you’re reading this as you want your partner to wear one for you. Whatever your reason is for being here, you’re doing the right thing!

60 Day Vibe Chastity: The Route Back To Manual Orgasm

By Cara Sutra: Why am I talking about a 60 day vibe chastity challenge? After reviewing the Palm Power Wand earlier today, an interesting point came up in convo on Twitter. A fellow blogger's personal route back to a manual orgasm only came after a set time away from vibrating sex toys. I must confess that I do find it difficult to orgasm without the help of vibrations against my clitoris these days, if not impossible.

Chastity Keys Tease

I do like to tease the ones I hold chastity keys for whilst I am their Keyholder Mistress. Yesterday you will have seen my Red, White and Cruel post. Today I have pics featuring another...
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Keyholding for a New Chastity sub/slave

I was pleased to recently find a male submissive on My Mistress Cara Twitter who was not only the minimum age I require My subs to be (30), but also a slave to chastity...