Sexy Valentine's Day Advice

Here on the Cara Sutra sex blog you can find plenty of sexy Valentine's Day advice to ensure the most romantic day of the year is filled with excitement and passion. I've written plenty of Valentine's Day articles here on the blog which cover many different perspectives of this annual celebration of love and romance.

Whether you're looking to ramp up your libido in readiness for the big day (& night), or would like some tips to take your sex life from dwindling to downright thrilling, you'll find the sexy Valentine's Day advice you need. As well as traditional sex advice I have written about ways to kink up your Valentine's adventures, with highly erotic techniques and activities from the world of BDSM and bondage.

It's certainly not all about hetero couples, although the majority of the media still has a hetero-normative focus; assuming that Valentine's romances are always a man and a woman. I enjoy writing articles providing sex tips and sex toy advice for the diverse spectrum of genders and sexualities, whether hetero, bisexual, lesbian, gay, queer, pansexual, polyamorous, trans or however you identify.

Valentine's isn't all about hetero couples, like I say – and it's not all about couples either, regardless of your specific coupling style. You can have a fun and exciting Valentine's Day when you're single, in fact I have plenty of non-Valentine's single sex life advice here on the blog too.

My cornerstone sexy Valentine's Day advice articles are my Valentine's Day Sexy Gift Guide, in which you'll find the best and most romantic Valentine's Gifts updated each year, and my Valentine's Day gifts and sexy shopping offers page.

How will you sex up your Valentine's Day this year? The stereotypical bubble bath for two, lit candles, some romantic music on in the background and promise of a sensual massage might not be your particular scene. Nothing wrong if that sounds like heaven for you, of course. Perhaps you'll cook your partner their favourite meal, or enjoy a date night at a lovely restaurant. If your budget doesn't stretch as far as a night in a hotel –or a meal out – then perhaps a sofa date is in order; a great movie and cuddles and keeping the vibes loving, mellow and romantic.

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Speaking of vibes, you can find plenty of sexy Valentine's Day advice here at the blog with regards to new, exciting sex toys to include in your solo or shared love life. Why not take this opportunity to treat yourself to a new vibrator or dildo, or penis masturbator for an upgrade to the traditional handjob – or a couple's vibrator you can both enjoy?

However you decide to celebrate your love this year – or mark the occasion with some well-deserved self-love – I hope you enjoy the most romantic Valentine's Day.

Goodbye Dry Spell! 7 Ways To Reignite Your Libido 

I get phases where I'm not as interested in sex as I used to be, and I worry that this is it. I'm in my late 30s; I'm finally at a point where I hate sex, I'll never want sex again and nothing will ever turn me on. At other times of my life I feel just as horny as I was in my early 20s. When you're enduring a dry spell is there anything you can do to reignite your libido?  

7 Ways To Recapture Your Honeymoon Sex Life

Busy lives and long-term relationships have a habit of forming the perfect recipe for a stale sex life. If you've been in a relationship with your partner for a while, you might have noticed that sex isn't quite as exciting as it was when you first met. Is there any way to recapture your honeymoon sex life?

Edible Underwear: Are Sexy Edibles Perfect Cheap Romantic Gifts? 

Buyer's guide sexy edibles & edible underwear spotlight: What are these cheap novelties really like? Are they a great sexy stocking filler for your partner or funny Secret Santa gift for office colleagues?

How To Be Romantic Without Spending Any Money

By Cara Sutra: It's so easy to be swept along into the great commercialisation of love and romance. To cave under the weight of the ads and believe that romance is measured in expensive bouquets, hotel stays, sparkling jewellery and weekends abroad. Don't me wrong – I love all that stuff. But it's definitely not required in order for me to know that my partner loves me. Whatever your bank balance, there are ways to be incredibly romantic without spending any money. Or at least, very little… using items you probably already have around your home.

How to find subspace together this Valentine’s Day

Whether you agree with Valentine’s Day or not, February always brings out the romantic side of a relationship. Whether you bring your partner home a bunch of flowers, or you prefer to cuddle on the sofa with a takeaway and a film, it’s a time to celebrate your ‘togetherness’. For couples in a BDSM relationship, Valentine’s Day is a great reason to lock the door, dig out your collection of kinky treats and find subspace together.

Sex And Relationship Advice For Parents

It’s incredibly difficult to find any time for yourself when you’re a parent, never mind putting thought, effort and time into a sexy relationship with a partner. With a full-time job, two kids and sharing the house with a limited mobility relative who needs constant care, I personally find it extremely challenging.

Seduce them with a perfect, romantic & sensual erotic massage

A sensual, erotic massage can be a wonderfully relaxing and enriching experience for both you and your partner, especially as a prelude to sexual activity. Many people, however, might not have a clue where to start in the world of massage, with a huge variety of products and advice available.

For A Really Alternative Sex Life This Valentine’S Day, Go Vanilla

The world has gone bondage mad. As if unrestrained restraint ‘outrageously’ demonstrated on morning TV wasn’t enough, everyone by now will be aware of the grey shaded movie being released on the 13th February. The day before Valentine’s Day. That’s right, it’s another year where we all go 50 shades of absolutely mad about bondage - and don’t forget the jiggle balls or lip balm, come to that. bettie page spanked and bondage in greyWith so much emphasis on being kinky and increasing expectation for adults across the world to be tied up and spanked this Valentine’s Day, it’s easy to feel just a little bit under pressure to perform. This should be the most romantic day of the year, traditionally, and pressure isn’t sexy. There’s really no need to feel guilty if you’re not a kinky type. The world may be Grey-obsessed but as long as your attention is on the one or ones you love that’s all that really matters. After all, Valentine’s Day is simply one day where we celebrate being able to publicly show what we should be feeling throughout the year.

Why the obligatory romance of Valentine’s Day is stupid and insulting

“How to Bag a Man for Valentine’s Day” (because all women are straight, don’t forget) and if there should be a specific man in said Singleton’s sights (poor bloke), “10 Ways to Make Him Propose on Valentine’s Day” “6 of the Best Lingerie Sets to Make him Forget His Name, Hand Over His Wallet and Make Him Suck on Your High Heels While You Plan Your Wedding In Two Weeks Time” etc etc. You get my point.

Sexy Single Valentine’s Day Ideas

By Cara Sutra: If you don't have a partner, the 'hearts and chocolate brigade' can really grate on you every February. Get loved up! It's Valentine's Day! Are there any sexy single Valentine's Day ideas to help you enjoy a spectacular solo day?