One of the most satisfying gateway toys to asstastic orgasms is anal beads. These classics are a great introduction to anal sensation that can remain a favourite for years to come. And the Nexus Excite Anal Beads will be a great, all-purpose addition to your ass toy collection.
It isn’t very often that I get excited for a sex product just by the look of it. I’m a functionality guy and I usually don’t care what a sex toy looks like at all. But when I saw the Adrien Lastic Spartacus R Vibrating Cock Ring, I had a good feeling because just gazing upon it gave me good feelings...
So, on my own and with a partner, I’ve played with moving it around to see what angle works best. Now, my cave is not a hugely rumour structure, so it wasn’t that hard, but when I did work out the best angle, it turns out to be much more successful when a partner is holding the toy in place. The way I like it, the toy has to be pushed down on the exterior to make prostate contact in the interior. This is not so hard to maintain when someone else is holding it, but it does get a little tricky in solo play.
The cock cage is also a tremendous addition to domination and submission play, both verbal and physical. If the wearer likes to be humiliated or degraded, being forced to wear the cock cage and continually reminded through forceful language about the need to “lock that thing up” will be a huge turn on. And that’s just one scenario!
By Jon Pressick: This article is about pride, small ‘p’, meaning “the quality of having an excessively high opinion of oneself or one's importance.” In no way am I equating sin and Pride, capital ‘P’, the universally accepted word that exemplifies the LGBTQ+ movement...
By Jon Pressick: Anger, in sex and relationships, is not an easy matter to discuss. The societally enforced fantasy is that we find someone, we fall in love, we stay in love and we live happily ever after. Never is there a problem. Never is there an argument. Never is there disagreement...
By Jon Pressick: We live in a world of want. There are so many things around us, so many shiny baubles that tempt and drive us to distraction. Depending who you are and what privilege you have, these fun things we desire have overtaken the needs we used to work and strive for. For many, the lap of luxury, in terms of eating, housing, clothing and education is a pretty comfortable place.
By Jon Pressick: Think back to the most recent time you found yourself in bed with someone. Now, now, calm down a bit, I imagine there are some pretty sexy thoughts running through your head at the moment. Or, perhaps, maybe you should focus on those thoughts. What are they of? Are you thinking about something you did or something your partner did? Are you envisioning your body being touched or theirs? And whose pleasure is it that you remember the most clearly?
By Jon Pressick Work is hard. Kids are hard. Friends are hard. Families are hard. Money is hard. Commuting is hard. Hobbies are hard. Cooking is hard. Pets are hard. Cleaning is hard. Injuries and illness are hard. Relationships and sex are hard. Can’t it all be easier?
By Jon Pressick I gasped. This doesn’t usually happen with sex toys anymore, especially on the first try. Usually I try a new sex product, I look at the packaging, read the instructions, set it up and charge it (if necessary). The whole “first time” routine can get a little tedious. So, the first time using any toy can be a little underwhelming. I’m usually all worked up and ready to go, but taking and accounting for the details is not exciting. The birthday present feel has fallen off. And call me jaded, but so many sex toys have come and gone from my bed that it takes something truly special to really surprise me.
By Jon Pressick The idea of sex addiction is a controversial subject that is still hotly debated. Simply put, some people believe sex addiction is a thing and others do not. It is a polarising discussion among academics and educators that leaves everyone—particularly those who may or may not be sex addicts—wondering if there is a pathology involved in their behaviours or not. As such, potential treatments are left up in the air as to whether they are effective or even necessary.
...when lube becomes a fairly regular part of your life, you tend to get a little picky. Favourites emerge and it takes something truly special to knock an established brand off your bedside table. System JO H2O Water Based Lube has just earned that hallowed place.
By Jon Pressick When it comes to sex, lust takes centre stage. Desire and craving are deliciously intertwined with sex—as they should be! Whether you’re in a committed relationship or keeping your sex casual, an absence of lust could indicate potential problems in your appetite for that situation.
By Jon Pressick Eye spy with my little eye, something that is… Beautiful. Pretty. Sexy. Hot. Ravishing. Handsome. Alluring. Stunning. In concluding this series on sex and our five senses, sight was specifically left for last because it is the most dominantly referenced and most readily connective.
By Jon Pressick Fetish photography books have always been a special breed of publishing. Because of their niche market, artists are able to explore and create with abandon, depicting a wide array of sexy subject matter featuring immeasurable skill. And to match these qualities, most fetish photography books are produced with the best printing techniques and paper stock to truly showcase the craft on hand. Why then are so many fetish photography books disappointing?
I particularly enjoy the Pjur Med Soft Glide Silicone Lube as an anal lubricant. Sometimes the lube chosen can limit the amount of ass play I enjoy, but the pjur med felt fantastic the entire time...and I have to think the jojoba has a great part to play in the enjoyment.
By Jon Pressick I like sex toys that push the envelope and try new things for old tricks. Can’t exactly say they're always successful, but, there is no advancement without taking bold steps in new directions.
By Jon Pressick There is something delightful about feeling someone’s tongue on your body. Whether it be a seductive lick of the neck, running along your lips in a deep kiss, trailing down your body or being buried in the delicious destination, our tongues play a major role in sexual excitement. While it may be easy to fall in love with what your lover does to you, think about what it is like to put your tongue to use lapping at your lover.
By Jon Pressick Upon receipt of the Bondara Enhancer Strap, I was impressed by the soft padding and sturdy construction. Given the plans I had for it, I figured it would have to be well-built—a must have in bondage play. So I was keen.
By Jon Pressick Slipping this toy into my ass, admittedly somewhat hastily, was nice and easy. My favourite lube and the awesome shape let me slide this toy in without really being entirely worked up (impatient!) I very much enjoyed, particularly, the length of this butt plug. Usually I go for toys, as mentioned, that are more stout, but do not feature length. This Bondara plug gave me a different experience of fullness and sensation.
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