Advice

If you’re looking for help on sex related issues then you’re in the right place. The advice area here at the Cara Sutra sex blog covers all aspects of sex and sexuality, hoping to help readers explore new routes to pleasure and open up avenues of stimulation and fulfilment you may not have previously thought of. Sex tips and articles are always popular with my readers, because as fun as sex is, who wouldn’t want to try and make it even more satisfying?

Advice provided through these down-to-earth and honest articles aren’t only about the main 'act', however. There’s plenty of expertise provided by guest authors as well as myself on the subject of relationships and dating.

For those who wish to dabble in the alluringly dark world of kink and BDSM, there are BDSM articles covering varied kinky interests from spanking tips and bondage, to taboo fetishes and total power exchange. My specialism is FemDom, but the advice features cover plenty of other aspects of the D/s scene as well.

Perhaps you’d simply like to explore how best to achieve climax by yourself? Masturbation doesn’t have to be a guilty secret, but you don’t have to ask your best mates how to go about it or discuss your solo sex life with a stranger, either. My advice articles cover masturbatory techniques, as well as specific sex toy advice and sex toy guides for those who would like a helping hand reaching that explosive, full-body climax. I hope you enjoy all the advice articles here on the blog.

Big Guide To BDSM Toys, & Our BDSM Gear Reviews

I've written several 'sexy product' guides here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, advice guides for sex toys, lubes, and specific kinky sex accessories too. Today I'd like to present my big guide to BDSM toys / BDSM gear, where I will help you navigate the enormous and diverse world of kinky toys and tools used to enhance power exchange sessions.

Foot Fetish 101: Understanding The Reasons Behind Foot Fetishism

What do you know about foot fetishism? Maybe you've heard rumours of people who fetishize feet, or perhaps you have a foot fetish yourself. Or the concept of having a fetish for feet might be something new to you entirely! In today's BDSM guide, foot fetish 101, I'd like to explore both what this fetish is all about and gain some understanding into the reasons behind foot fetishism.

How To Write A Romantic Love Letter

A love letter should feel as if your receiving a hug from one of the people whom you love the most. Write from the heart and say the things that you are really feeling, and certainly don’t be afraid to be soppy. Putting these feelings into a letter makes them incredibly personal and very special. Some of the most celebrated writers in the world were hopeless romantics. If you’re struggling to find a sentiment that sums up your feelings, use their words for inspiration.

Ultimate Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide | Most Romantic Valentine’s Gifts

Welcome to my Valentine's Day sexy gift guide! Valentine's is traditionally the time of year when lovers show each other the depth of their loving feelings by way of a card, a gift, spending time together doing something special and being generally loved-up. What do you buy the one you love for Valentine's Day this year? Have a look through this feature which showcases the best and most romantic gift ideas for some sensationally seductive inspiration.

Anal Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

I promised to write about each of the main sub-categories of sex lube in greater detail, and today we're looking at butt-specific lubricants for all your anal pleasure needs. Welcome to my anal lubes 101: your complete guide!

Special Effects & Flavoured Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

Today, I'd like to discuss an extremely fun type of lube in more detail – sex lubricants which offer sensational intimate effects, plus lubes with mouth-watering flavours. Welcome to my special effects & flavoured lubes 101: your complete guide!

Sexy Christmas Lingerie Gift Guide & Sexy Santa Role Play Costumes

Lingerie consistently features in sexy Christmas gift guides & seasonal wish lists. What sort of sensual lingerie would make their eyes light up this year? I'm here to help – welcome to my sexy Christmas lingerie gift guide 2020! I'll be sharing some of my favourite sexy Santa role play costumes too... they're so fun and flirty, and a great way to sex up an adult Christmas Eve.

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide | Best Romantic Christmas Gifts

Giving the perfect Christmas gift you know they'll adore gives you a warm fuzzy feeling like (almost) nothing else. 'Tis the season of giving, so why not combine festive spice and evergreen romance by gifting your lover a decidedly sexy present this year? Baby, it's cold outside – but selecting from the raunchy choices in my sexy Christmas gift guide will ensure you're all aglow. You can find my top picks for the best romantic Christmas gifts in this ultimate festive gifting guide.

Where To Buy Sexy Advent Calendars This Christmas

If you’re looking for sexy advent calendars to sex up your Christmas, look no further. You’ve found the mother lode. I’m here to share with you full details of sexy advent calendars which you can use to both spice up the countdown to Christmas, as well as providing you with a pleasurable, stress-relieving alternative to the usual responsibilities that come along with the festive season.  

Hybrid Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

In my recent overview article relating to the huge and diverse world of sexual lubricants, I talked about sex lubes in general, why they're fantastic, what not to use and briefly covered the various types. In this feature, I'd like to introduce one of those types in greater detail. Hybrid sex lubricants are relatively new to the sex lube scene -and are therefore at risk of being misunderstood and sadly avoided. Let's correct that today. Welcome to my hybrid lubes 101: your complete guide!

Halloween Sex Toys To Make You Scream With Pleasure

Welcome to your guide to frighteningly orgasmic Halloween sex toys! In this feature I'm going to showcase some truly scream-worthy vibrators, dildos, anal toys and more which are sure to go down a treat this Halloween –or any time of the year. If you've been looking for inspiration for a formidable sex toy for hair-raising personal pleasure, or an electrifying adult toy to share with your partner, you're in the right place.

Your Guide To Sexy Halloween Costumes & Lingerie

Welcome to your guide to sexy Halloween costumes & lingerie! If you’re struggling to decide between witchy, vampy or seductively feline dressing-up outfits for this spooky time of year, my saucy Halloween outfits 101 is here to help. In this guide you’ll discover a showcase of some breathtakingly sexy Halloween costume ideas, at great prices & with discreet delivery from your favourite online adult retailers.

I Took Myself On A Date -And It Was Everything I Needed

If you're feeling emotionally drained, like life is too busy, too noisy, too stressful, I'd thoroughly recommend enjoying a solo date. Before I took myself on a date last week it wasn't something that would have occurred to me to schedule in; plus, I didn't have my driving licence until late last year which made arranging time out by myself difficult if not impossible. Being away from home, away from the children and having got away on my own steam felt extremely healing for me. After the difficulties this year has posed, emotionally, mentally and with the physical/social restrictions of the coronavirus pandemic, taking myself on a date was exactly what I needed.

Oil-Based Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

In my recent big guide to sexual lubricants, I looked at the huge and diverse world of lube. There are various types, each with their own pros and cons and recommended usage. Today, I'd like to take a closer look at oil lubricants in particular. What sort of oil can you expect to find in these lubes? What can you use oil lubes for – and what should you avoid? Welcome to my oil-based lubes 101: your complete guide!

How To Join The Mile High Club: Top Tips For Discreet Sex In The...

The Mile High Club is a source of endless fascination and speculation. How do people join this exclusive 'club'? More to the point, how do you join the mile-high club and get away with it? Does it even really exist, or are these airborne amorous adventures the stuff of myth and legend?

Silicone Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

Recently, I wrote about the various types of sex lubes in my recent big guide to sexual lubricants. Today, I'd like to delve a little deeper into one of those types in particular, silicone lubricants. Why would you choose a lube which is silicone based? What can you use them for – and what are the pros and cons? Welcome to my silicone lubes 101: your complete guide!

Water-Based Lubes 101: Your Complete Guide

Water-based lubes are sexual lubricants with a formulation that has water as its main or 'base' ingredient. There may be various other components to the formulation, but water is the main one. As well as a descriptor of the main ingredient of these lubricants, the label 'water-based' helps to quickly and easily differentiate them from the various other types of lubes: silicone, oil-based, hybrid etc.

Sexual Lubricants 101: Your Complete Guide To Sex Lubes

LUBE. What is it? Who uses it? What are the different types? What is it used for? How and why is it used? Welcome to my big guide to sex lubes!

Handy List of BDSM Fetishes and Kinks: UberKinky Periodic Table of Kink

For those who would like a handy list of BDSM fetishes and kinks, I believe I've found a fantastic resource. The UberKinky Periodic Table of Kink provides an easy to understand, visual representation of the majority of the recognised BDSM activities.

Vibrators for Newbies: Vibrating Sex Toys for Complete Beginners

Vibrating sex toys are extremely popular, and the good news is that if you're actively looking to start or build on your own sex toy collection, you'll likely recognise a few types already. Traditional rabbit vibrators, for a start. Classic cylindrical vibrators with a twist base. Maybe you've heard about sports massagers becoming better-known for their orgasmic benefits – the famous magic wand vibrator. Today I want to introduce you to some fantastic options when it comes to vibrators for newbies.