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Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023

9 November, 2023

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023

‘Tis the season of twinkling lights, cosy nights, and love in the air! My favourite time of the year, Christmas, is right around the corner – and it’s time to spread some romantic cheer. I know that finding the perfect gift for your beloved can feel like navigating a maze of tinsel, but fear not! I’m here to help you sleigh the gift-giving game and make this holiday season one for the books. Welcome to my Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023!

No matter if you’ve just started dating, celebrating decades of love, or somewhere in between, I’ve got a sackful of erotic Christmas gift ideas that are sure to make your partner’s heart flutter. Hold on to your Santa hat as I debunk a myth right off the bat: romance doesn’t have to mean a bouquet of roses or a box of chocolates. In this festive gift guide, you can expect sensual and downright sexy options to really wow them this year.

Whether you’re looking to ignite the flames of passion, create unforgettable memories, or simply indulge in some overdue couple time, my romantic Christmas gift guide has got you covered. Explore a world of enchanting possibilities and discover the perfect way to add a dash of magic to your holiday season. Buckle up, lovebirds, because the countdown to a delightfully romantic Christmas begins right now!

In my Christmas Gift Guide 2023 I showcase my top picks for romantic and sexy Christmas gifts for him, her and them. I have a new version of the ‘something they want, something they need; something to wear, something to read’ gifting advice:

Something buzzy, something kinky; something scented, something slinky!

Without further ado, let’s dive right into my sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023 where I present my top recommendations for sex toys, bondage gear, romantic gift sets and elegant lingerie.

Pre-Xmas Gifts: Sexy Advent Calendars

Time seems to slow when counting the sleeps until Christmas. Sex up the countdown with a pre-Christmas treat for yourself or to share with a partner; choose your favourite from the exciting sexy advent calendars on offer this year.

Enjoy my review of the Bondara 12 Days of Kink Advent and the Lovehoney 12-Day Advent – then click through the links below to purchase the perfect one for you! ➡️

Buzzy: Sex Toys

Let’s go! Time for me to share my top faves for sexy & romantic gifts for yourself or your partner this Christmas – starting with vibrating sex toys.

Multi Sensation Toy: The Grinder by Bondara

The Grinder by Bondara is a recent and astonishing addition to their sex toy range. I was lucky enough to try out the Grinder and you can find out just how much I loved it in my The Grinder by Bondara review. This versatile, effective, clever sex toy can be enjoyed alone or when shared with your lover, in a mind-blowing variety of ways:

Clit Stim Lovers: Lovehoney Rose Sex Toy with G-Spot Vibrator

Likewise, I was very impressed with the Lovehoney Rose Toy when I tried it. This version looks ideal to gift to a clit & g-spot stim fan this Christmas, as it combines the beautiful and effective clit suction rose head with a vibrating G-spot stimulating insertable shaft. The insertable shaft of the Lovehoney Floral Fantasy Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator with G-Spot Vibrator can also be used as a handle to make clitoral stim using the Rose easier and more comfortable. A thoughtful as well as tantalisingly erotic gift:

Penis Pleasure Fans: Lovehoney Power Squad Penis/Anal Sex Toy Kit

Now here’s a value for money gift set which doesn’t skip on erotic excitement. If you’re looking for a sex toy gift to liven up stimulation for the penis-stim fan in your life, check out the Lovehoney Power Squad Sex Toy Kit. This set contains 6 sex toys which can be used alone or together, to provide static or vibrating pleasure anally, to the penis, round the cock and balls or use the bullet vibe anywhere you desire:

Couple’s Erotic Gift Set: Lovehoney Wilder Weekend Sex Toy Kit

The Lovehoney Wilder Weekend Sex Toy Kit is a fantastic gifting option for couples to share together through Christmas time and beyond, discovering the various sensations that these new, effective toys will provide. In the Wilder Weekend kit you’ll find a rechargeable rabbit vibrator, jiggle balls, penis stroker, rechargeable bullet vibrator, rabbit-ears cock ring, anal beads, butt plug and cock ring set. Phew!

Get yours through the links below ➡️

Kinky: Bondage Gear

Are you into BDSM and want to add some fresh gear to your collection? Perhaps you’re curious about the kinkier side of bedroom frolics & want to explore power exchange role play this Christmas? Check out my top picks for bedroom bondage gifts:

Bondage Gift Set: Bondage Boutique Red Hot Passion Bondage Kit

The Lovehoney Bondage Boutique Red Hot Passion Bondage Kit provides everything you need for a sizzling bondage and consensual control session in one handy gift-style box. Presented in festive red contrasted with classic black, this set contains 6 items of bondage gear to thrill you and a willing partner. There’s a blindfold, ball gag, flogger, bondage strap with D-rings, wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs included – all made from sturdy and comfortable materials:

Bondara Red Rule Me In Bed Restraint

For an all-in-one solution to instantly transform your bed into a piece of inescapable bondage furniture, gift yourselves the Bondara Red Rule Me In Bed Restraint. This ingenious set includes strong, adjustable strapping with 4 detachable cuffs for wrists and ankles. Simply slip underneath your mattress, leaving the cuffs out ready to use on your willing ~~victim~~ lover…

Scented: Massage Candles & Gift Sets

An evocative atmosphere in the boudoir makes all the difference when it comes to arousal and eroticism. Candles and sensually-scented romance sets make the perfect gift for your partner this Christmas – gifts you can both share and benefit from when it comes to intimate moments away from the festive rush. Check out my suggestions below to impress your lover when they unwrap these special gifts, before using them to transform your bedroom into a sensual sanctuary where you can indulge in romantic pleasure:

Womanizer White Tea Scented Candle

This Womanizer White Tea Scented Candle comes presented in a festive red outer box, while the candle itself is snowy-white hand-poured into a classic black outer container. Striking from first glance, the sensory experience continues when you light the candle at a special, shared moment and enjoy the arousing scent and soft, flickering candle-light.

Kama Sutra The Weekender Kit – Sensual Romance Set

Having admired the Kama Sutra range for many years – and not just because the similarity in our names! – I am so happy to include an item in my Christmas Gift Guide 2023. The Kama Sutra The Weekender Kit – Strawberry Dreams is beautifully presented, with an exotic, evocative feel and plenty of items to enjoy discovering together with your partner.

In this fantastic value set you receive: kissable, water-based ‘oil of love’, kissable ‘honey dust’ body powder with feather tickler/applicator, x2 packets of aromatic body massage oil, x2 packets of ‘love liquid’ sexual lubricant and x6 erotic play cards that include positions, actions and commands for erotic adventures and sexy play.

Slinky: Sexy Lingerie & Underwear

Sexy lingerie is a timeless erotic gift for that someone special at Christmas time. My favourite adult retailers never disappoint, releasing elegant and erotic options that I always find it difficult to choose my favourites from. Nevertheless, you can find the ones which captured my heart this year below – I hope you enjoy shopping for a hot lingerie treat for yourself this Christmas, or that perfect, gorgeous lingerie set to wow your lucky lover.

Lovehoney Sweet Love Red Bra Set and Eye Mask

The Lovehoney Sweet Love Red Bra Set and Eye Mask is made for gifting, elegantly wrapped in a Lovehoney-heart adorned gift box with a satin bow, in colours matching the set contained within. Available in UK dress sizes 8 through to 22, the Sweet Love set is soft and comfortable to wear as well as extremely cute and flattering whatever your body type. With soft frills and hearts they’ll feel like the sweetest Christmas treat of all this holiday season!

Bondara Feisty Florals Red Lace Bralette Set (Bondara Belle & Bondara Flirt)

Ok, so I’m a sucker for deep red and classic black… but just how erotic is the Bondara Feisty Florals Red Lace Bralette Set?! Modern floral lace with soft frill edges, contrasted by striking criss-cross straps to flatter your elegant silhouette, makes this set a Christmas gift winner. Available in UK dress sizes 8 through to 18 (find the sizes under the ‘product specifications’ tab), this set is comfortable and easy to wear, whether under your Christmas party outfit as a secret thrill, or to share with your lucky lover.

Skin Two PVC Delilah Dress

Skin Two (previously Honour Clothing) is a one-stop shop for all things kink, fetish and BDSM – whether you’re seeking bondage toys, punishing accessories or fetishwear. If traditional lacy lingerie isn’t your (or their) thing, why not splash out on a hot and kinky clothing gift instead?

This Skin Two PVC Delilah Dress caught my eye thanks to the striking shape it creates, with a flash of the flesh in the cleavage area as well as exposing those sexy thighs. With a buckle choker-style neck, this dress exudes Dominant authority which will bring any submissive partner happily to their knees.

Gift Vouchers

When you’re not sure what to buy, and don’t want to run the risk of buying something they’re not into, or the wrong size (the horror!), gift vouchers are the perfect alternative. With gift vouchers and gift cards available in a variety of denominations from both SheVibe (USA) and Bondara (UK), there’s really no excuse for not gifting that special someone something exquisitely erotic this Christmas time.

SheVibe Gift Certificates (USA)

Bondara Gift Vouchers (UK)

I hope my Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023 has give you plenty of inspiration for those perfect, sensual and erotic gifts for your special someone this Christmas – even if that means you’re treating yourself for a change! Everyone deserves a holiday season full of affection and romance.

Keep in mind that you don’t need to spend a fortune to prove your feelings for your partner, and romance shouldn’t be limited to just one day of the year. That said, giving a romantic gift at Christmas time can be incredibly meaningful when it comes from the heart. Make sure you keep the lines of communication open with your partner, focusing on what resonates with both of you. It may be that trying something new together, like an adventurous sex toy or creative role play, can bring you closer than you’ve ever felt before.

Wishing all my readers the merriest Christmas, most wonderful holidays and a happy, horny & healthy New Year 2024.