What Is A Violet Wand? History of Violet Wands & Kinky Uses
Violet wands are commonly used stimulation tools in the realm of BDSM & Electrosex. They provide a uniquely thrilling experience for those exploring kinky pleasure and consensual power exchange. Read on as I delve into the history of violet wands, explain what they are & how they work, and reveal their kinky uses.
Could Labiaplasty Fix Your Sex Life? Personal Experience of Vulva Surgery
What is labiaplasty? Labiaplasty is a form of vulva surgery by vaginoplasty surgeons which changes the size, shape and look of the labia majora and/or labia minora. This may be done for increased physical comfort, self-confidence or sexual enhancement reasons.
I Left A Silicone Sex Toy In Silicone Lube For 3 Months – And...
Are you wondering if silicone lubes can damage your silicone toys? If so, that doesn't surprise me. This rumour/myth remains prevalent in online sex toy shop product descriptions and various sexual health guides. What happens when silicone lube is used with silicone sex toys? Does silicone lube erode the silicone material? I wanted to prove once and for all what exactly does happen when silicone lubricant is used with a silicone sex toy – and not only used with, but left to soak for quite some time. So here it is! My experiment, where I left a silicone sex toy in silicone lube for 3 months…
Virgos and Chastes: The OTHER Style of Male Chastity
What if I told you that male chastity didn’t have to be extra work?
That it’s often OK to treat a male chastity cage as a nice body modification and move on?
That you can use it to get exactly what you want, and nothing you don’t?
The Folded Deckchair Sex Position (& Why We Love It)
Have you ever heard of the Folded Deckchair sex position? I was surprised to find out that one of my husband and I’s favourite sex positions had a name. To be honest, it shouldn’t have surprised me that much as the Internet is full of sexual position listicles with such titles as "69 Sex Positions You Never Knew Existed!" and "100 New Sex Positions You Need To Try Right NOW!".
What Is A Female Led Relationship Really Like? The Reality Of Lifestyle FemDom Relationships...
I'm typing this wearing a penis chastity device and I don't get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh… and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm.
Tips For Spring Cleaning Your Sex Life
In a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comfortable but ultimately monotonous sex with each other. That’s why I wanted to share my top tips for spring cleaning your sex life. While everything else is getting a spring clean, don’t neglect your personal and shared sexual pleasure!
How To Spring Clean Your Sex Toy Collection
How many sex toys have you got? Where do you store them? Do you just have a couple of vibrators in the bedside drawer, or masses of dildos shoved under the bed? No matter if your orgasm kit is big or small, setting time aside to spring clean your sex toy collection is a great idea.
What Happens At A Smear Test? My Cervical Screening Exam
It can be easy to 'stick your head in the sand' when it comes to those 3-yearly cervical smear tests. I know, because I’ve been there and done it myself. The reminder letter arrives... I open it, groan, and shove it into a drawer and try to forget about it. Eventually I force myself to put my big girl pants on and march myself down to the doctor’s surgery, before taking them off again for the nurse.
Hello Perimenopause
I haven't 'reached' perimenopause so much as it's hunted me down and attacked me. That’s how it feels, anyway. At some point over the last year my body decided that it was time to enter this mysterious phase, and I’ve been suffering various symptoms ever since.
Why International Women’s Day Still Matters
What is International Women’s Day all about? Is it really still needed? In my IWD info hub I’m going to explain how this important day of commemoration and activism started, why it’s important & why you should care, and how you can do your part to mark this day and directly support vulnerable and under-privileged women and girls.
My Favourite Sex Toys: Bedside Drawer ‘Handy Grab’ Collection [Updated]
This is the small selection of sex toys that I just love so much that they’ve made it to permanent residence in my bedside drawer, rather than being rated too mediocre or for some other reason relegated to being put back in the box and into storage in the loft or garage. Today I’d like to share details of my favourite sex toys right now: what exactly is in my current bedside drawer handy grab collection?
Real-Life Slave Diary: Locked In A Chastity Cage
Are you curious about how it feels to be locked in a chastity cage but you’re too scared or unable to slide the lock home on a device of your own? Perhaps you are locked, teased, but denied in a locked chastity device and want to hear others’ similar experiences for companionship or further torment? These diary entries from my locked-up chastity slave are for you.
25 Conversation Starters For Your First Date
Whether you’re going on an exciting first date or arranging an evening out with your long-term partner, finding common ground or enough to talk about which isn't mundane or inappropriate can be a challenge. In this feature I will provide a handy list of 25 conversation starters for your first date -which you could also use to get to know your long-term partner better if you’re already in a relationship.
Valentine’s Day Lingerie Gift Guide
How can you ensure you’re buying them lingerie which will fit – and that they’ll love to wear? What are my top recommendations for sexy lingerie gifts this Valentine’s Day? Read on and discover all, in my Valentine’s Day lingerie gift guide 2023.
Ultimate Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide
Valentine's Day is the annual day when lovers celebrate their passion. What are your Valentine plans this year? It's traditional to gift your special someone something romantic and thoughtful, and maybe make some plans along the same lines. Couples usually buy each other a card, a gift and spend time together on the day celebrating the magic of their ongoing relationship. What should you buy them this year?
Heat Up Your Sex Life In Winter With These Warming Sex Toys
I've already shared my thoughts on surprising ways the cold season can improve your sex life; today I'm sharing my recommendations for warming sex toys & other pleasure products to heat up your sex life in winter.
Masturbation in a Sex-Positive World (3 Trends for 2023)
If you’re reading this, you’re most likely a sex-positive person. But shall we talk about Masturbation Positivity? Despite an ongoing shift in sex culture and education, the self-pleasure taboo remains. Let’s break it!
How The Winter Season Can Boost Your Sex Life
Good news! You can officially stop feeling blue about winter - it's the perfect season to grab some quality time and a hotter sex life with your partner. It may not seem like it, with frosty weather and early dark skies each day, but there are plenty of ways in which the winter season can boost your sex life.
BDSM Identities Guide: Are You Dominant, Submissive or Switch?
What are your thoughts on labels? Understandably, many people don’t like to be strictly categorised in this way. We’re all individuals; unique. However, labels do have their place in society as they’re a handy way to quickly describe yourself. The same is true when it comes to the D/s scene.
