Sex Tips

Sex Tips – Unlock More Pleasure & Better Intimacy

No matter your experience level, there’s always room to improve and explore when it comes to sex. It’s easy to fall into the same routines, but small changes can lead to bigger satisfaction. My sex tips offer fresh ideas for enhancing both solo pleasure and partner intimacy, helping you enjoy a more fulfilling and exciting sex life.

Better Solo Pleasure & Masturbation

Want to take self-pleasure to the next level? Whether you prefer your hands or sex toys, my sex tips help you discover new techniques, sensations, and ways to maximise orgasmic satisfaction.

Foreplay That Ignites Passion

Foreplay is the foundation of great sex—but are you giving it enough attention? From sensual teasing to discovering new erogenous zones, these sex tips will help you turn foreplay into a powerful experience that builds anticipation and deepens pleasure.

Beyond the Basics – Exploring New Experiences

Sex is more than just penetration. My articles cover a variety of exciting topics, including:
  • Oral & Anal Play – Techniques to maximise pleasure.
  • Strap-On & Role Play – Adding excitement to your sex life.
  • Communication & Consent – How to create deeper intimacy.

Enhance Your Sex Life Today

Whether you're looking to reignite passion with a partner or expand your solo experiences, my sex tips provide expert guidance for better, more satisfying pleasure. Explore now and take your sex life to the next level!

How to Jelq: Can Jelqing Enlarge Your Penis?

Got a penis? Want a bigger one? Who doesn’t, right? In my recent features showcasing the Bathmate penis pumps collection and my main penis pumps guide, I mentioned a penis enlargement technique called jelqing. Can jelqing enlarge your penis? In today’s sexual health article, I discuss the jelqing technique, covering how to jelq, if jelqing can really give you a bigger cock - and any potential side effects.

Temperature Play in the Bedroom: Blow Hot & Cold During Sex!

As the darker nights of autumn and the frosty chill of winter sets in, staying cosy at home and enjoying the romance of candles or fairy lights is extremely appealing. Today I want to share my guide to temperature play in the bedroom, advice which will help you blow hot & cold during sex no matter what the weather is like outside your bedroom window.

How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

I don’t enjoy a slave’s physical stimulation from being anally pegged, it is more about a display of my power as the Top, a physical conquest of their body as well as their mind, plus there is always a chastity requirement in place with my submissives so they are not allowed to reach or experience orgasm.

Forniphilia: Understanding the Human Furniture Role Play Kink

I wanted to write about being treated like furniture in the BDSM world not only because I have a personal interest in this kink, but also to help you understand the furniture role-play kink from both the rigger and recipient’s point of view.

Guide To Prostate Milking & The Health Benefits Of P-Spot Stimulation

Stimulation of this fascinating part of the anatomy can not only lead to the most powerful orgasms you’ve ever had, but there are also various health benefits as a bonus. Welcome to your simple guide to prostate milking, in which I’ll also examine the potential health benefits of P-spot stimulation.

How To Have A Sexy Halloween

Sexing up seasonal events is just so much fun! Halloween is no exception thanks to the wicked fun and seductive costumes this time of year traditionally offers. Do you need some saucy Samhain inspiration? Then you’re in luck… read on to discover how to have a sexy Halloween – whether you're single or part of a couple.

8 Reasons Why You Should Read Erotic Books

What about the saucy sizzle of erotica? Should you take them seriously as a literary option? Also, can erotic books improve your sex life? Absolutely. Read on to discover 8 reasons why you should read erotic books.

Gay Sex Toys Guide: Adult Toys for Gay Lovers & Lesbian Couples

Love is love, and it deserves to be fully celebrated in all its forms. Read on to discover my gay sex toys guide, where I’ll be showcasing adult toys ideal for gay couples, to enhance your intimate and passionate private time together.

Post-Sex Clean-Up: How to Avoid the Wet Patch

What do you use to clean up after sex? Whether it's PiV sex (penis in vagina) or other types of sexual pleasure, the wet patch isn’t often talked about in sex advice columns, sexy stories or other erotic media. Bodily fluids, lube and other liquids are part and parcel of sexy fun, however – so finding a neat solution for post-sex clean-up is a great idea.

Dirty Talk: The Expert Guide to Talking Filth During Sex

How do you do great dirty talk? If you're feeling tongue-tied in the bad way during sex chat, you're in the right place. Today I'm sharing a long read; an expert guide to talking filth during sex. And I mean sex whether that's in person or long distance, via phone sex, video messaging or even good old text chats.

How To Be Dominant Outside the Bedroom: 12 Lifestyle BDSM Tips

What if you and your partner would like a more 'everyday' style of Dom and sub relationship? A consensual power exchange which isn’t limited to kinky play sessions in the bedroom, but enhances every part of your life together? In today’s article I will explore lifestyle BDSM from the Dom’s point of view, revealing how to be Dominant outside the bedroom.

How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom: 12 Kinky Sex Tips

How can you exude confidence, assertiveness, and that irresistible Dominant streak? What are some handy ways to tap into consensual cruelty and punish your eager partner? And how do you overcome shyness and nervous giggles? In today’s article I’m sharing my 12 tips on how to be Dominant in the bedroom.

Bathmate Penis Pumps Guide: Hydro, HydroMax & HydroXtreme

Bathmate is undoubtedly the name when it comes to trusted and reliable penis pumps. Their pumps and phallic enhancement products are the result of constant research and development tweaks, alongside real user feedback. Bathmate penis pumps are hydrotherapy-based, hence the ‘bath’ part of the brand name. How do they work – and do they actually work?

5 Kinky Uses for Christmas Tinsel

As I’m focusing on ‘sexing up’ Christmas across a few blog features this year, my mind turned to how tinsel could be used in a sensual and erotic way. In this feature I’ll be sharing my ideas for 5 kinky uses for Christmas tinsel – perhaps changing how you look at this seemingly innocent festive adornment forever!

Festive Foreplay Ideas: Gift Yourselves A More Exciting Sex Life This Christmas

Elsewhere on the blog you can find tips on how to sex up your Christmas, but today I want to focus on an oft-forgotten area of a couple’s sex life – foreplay. Sex is so much better once you’re both properly in the mood, and with the 10 festive foreplay ideas I’m sharing here today you can gift yourselves a more exciting sex life this Christmas and through the years to come.

12 Days of Festive Romance: How Couples Can Sex Up Christmas

I’ve given some thought to how couples can sex up Christmas and enjoy unparalleled erotic intimacy through what can otherwise be a dark season. Light up your libido, hold on to your Santa hats and let’s get those erogenous zones tingling with my tasty tips for 12 days of festive romance!

What Is Fisting? How To Fist Your Partner Safely

Heard of fisting? This sexual activity isn’t talked about much in the mainstream, but plenty of partners enjoy fisting. You can fist someone vaginally or anally. Because of the shape and size of our hands, even as a closed fist, fisting can seem like a terrifying prospect - something only done by fetishists into sadism and masochism. Today I’m going to thrust into this intriguing and often mysterious activity with both hands...

Ruined Orgasms: How To Ruin An Orgasm (& Why You’d Want To)

While orgasms are not the goal of sex with a partner, they’re often a highlight. Then there are all the orgasms enjoyed by people during solo pleasure sessions – masturbation. Why then, do some people pursue and enjoy a ruined orgasm? What are ruined orgasms? How do you ruin an orgasm, and why on earth would you want to?

What Is A Violet Wand? History of Violet Wands & Kinky Uses

Violet wands are commonly used stimulation tools in the realm of BDSM & Electrosex. They provide a uniquely thrilling experience for those exploring kinky pleasure and consensual power exchange. Read on as I delve into the history of violet wands, explain what they are & how they work, and reveal their kinky uses.

Could Labiaplasty Fix Your Sex Life? Personal Experience of Vulva Surgery

What is labiaplasty? Labiaplasty is a form of vulva surgery by vaginoplasty surgeons which changes the size, shape and look of the labia majora and/or labia minora. This may be done for increased physical comfort, self-confidence or sexual enhancement reasons.