Cara Sutra

Thanks to Bondara.co.uk, I'm reviewing an extremely cute couple's set this month which is the perfect Valentine's gift for you both. Not just for Valentine's night either - this 3-piece bundle is the perfect romantic treat any time of the year. Introducing the Bondara I Heart U 3 Piece Couple's Bundle! Let's have a closer look at exactly what's included in this set - and how these adult toys really feel during use.

Do you make New Year’s Resolutions? They sound great in theory, but 21% of resolution-setters break them by the end of January. Why is it so difficult to stay on track? Is there a way to make resolutions and stick to them throughout the year, and all the years to come? Absolutely – and today I’m sharing my ideas for New Year’s Resolutions you’ll actually keep.

As I’m focusing on ‘sexing up’ Christmas across a few blog features this year, my mind turned to how tinsel could be used in a sensual and erotic way. In this feature I’ll be sharing my ideas for 5 kinky uses for Christmas tinsel – perhaps changing how you look at this seemingly innocent festive adornment forever!

‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring… Who was she kidding. She’d be stirring all night. She just wished it was for better reasons. Fuck, she could really do with an explosive orgasm or two right about now. Sadly, the only finger movements this evening were the back-and-forth motions of her pen over lined paper.

Ever fantasised about a sinuous tentacle sensually probing your most intimate parts? Then you’ll absolutely love what I’m reviewing this month. Each month I’m sharing my thoughts & experiences of a different Mr Hankey’s sex toy, and this time I’m featuring the Hankey’s Toys Taintacle Dildo.

Her heart thumped in her chest. She didn't have to wait much longer. Dizzy with excitement, she hungrily looked over at him again. The legendary older man in his trademark plush suit was still sat in his grand chair, undoubtedly tired from the afternoon crowds.

Her icy blast hit him with more bitter force than the harshest winter sleigh ride, turning his cheeks an even deeper shade of red. As she continued her angry tirade against him for his latest fuck-up, his body responded as usual to her cutting jibes. Why did Mistress' cruel taunts elicit such warm tingles in his nether regions? Why did the humiliation of being shouted at in front of all his elves never fail to make him stiffer than steel?

Upon hearing her vain exclamation to the other three rein-girls over dinner that they weren’t even needed anyway, that she could do the job all by herself and probably even better at that, they’d at first looked surprised then strangely smug. How was she to know Santa Sutra would choose that exact moment to re-enter the feeding shed from behind her?

Elsewhere on the blog you can find tips on how to sex up your Christmas, but today I want to focus on an oft-forgotten area of a couple’s sex life – foreplay. Sex is so much better once you’re both properly in the mood, and with the 10 festive foreplay ideas I’m sharing here today you can gift yourselves a more exciting sex life this Christmas and through the years to come.

I’ve given some thought to how couples can sex up Christmas and enjoy unparalleled erotic intimacy through what can otherwise be a dark season. Light up your libido, hold on to your Santa hats and let’s get those erogenous zones tingling with my tasty tips for 12 days of festive romance!

Christmas is full of sparkle and magic and feasting and twinkling lights in the darkness, with all the excitement the holidays bring. It’s no surprise that the holiday festivities get many of us into a passionate mood as well. That’s why romantic lingerie regularly features in sexy Christmas gift guides...

I know that finding the perfect gift for your beloved can feel like navigating a maze of tinsel, but fear not! I’m here to help you sleigh the gift-giving game and make this holiday season one for the books. Welcome to my Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023!

Bondara 12 Days of Kink Bondage Advent Calendar 2023 Review I’ve been lucky enough to receive two sexy advent calendars to review this year! Find...

Not only is this wonderfully designed dildo a big, chunk of silicone to bear down on, there’s the alien-theme design to it which adds a fun psychological twist. It’s less chest-burster and more cunt-fucker, thankfully, and I’ve never been happier for my body to be used as a host. The ‘breeder’ part of the toy’s name gives rise to other kinky & perverse fantasies, leading to some extremely hot role play...

For sex toy fans it's always exciting to see what new products will be released for the festive season, whether for personal pleasure or to gift to someone special. I noticed that one of my favourite sex toy shops, Bondara, are offering a limited-edition range of Christmas-themed sex toys this year and just had to write a feature highlighting them...

Would Bondara’s new sex toy simply be another attempt to ‘reinvent the wheel’? I had no idea what I'd soon be receiving in the post, which was exciting. Finally, the discreetly wrapped parcel arrived at my door. I hastily unwrapped it to reveal The Grinder by Bondara Vibrating Sex Toy, in a fancy Bondara gift box, along with a bottle of Bondara Slip ‘n Slide Aqua Lube.

Ever wondered what a perfect penis looks like? Hankey’s Toys have got the answer. And now so do I, because I've been lucky enough to receive the Hankey’s Toys Perfect Penis Dildo to enjoy, and to review here on the blog...

To keep the spark alive through the crisp December days, though, there’s nothing quite like sexy advent calendars. Read on to discover where to buy your sex toy advent calendar this year – or a kinky bondage themed advent calendar, if you prefer.

I know how easy it is to get hooked on adding exciting new sex toys to your collection regularly. Before you know it, your bedside drawer is too small to store all those wonderful vibrators & dildos. What other sex toy storage options are available? What’s the best way to store adult toys discreetly?

Enjoy my guide to edible underwear and candy love rings - plus other bedroom treats which you can exchange with your partner at any time of year as cheap sexy gifts. They are especially ideal as small romantic Christmas gifts though; sexy stocking fillers for an intimate festive moment. Or you could treat them for Valentine's Day or their birthday!