Cara Sutra

Think sex toys are a recent addition to our modern, technology-focused world? Think again. Humans have been finding and creating tools to elicit sexual pleasure from the body for thousands of years. That’s long before written language, electricity or the invention of the wheel.

Curious about ovipositors? You should be. These alien egg-laying fantasy toys are the pinnacle of perverse penetrative dildo design, showstopping spectacles of texture with xenomorph tentacles and otherworldly nodules to visually arouse and internally thrill.

True to its name, the Kohana fucked me and posited its ova deep inside my warm, wet, tight, welcoming space. A hungry, horny slut bred by alien captors and thanking them for the pleasurable privilege.

Experimenting with hot and cold during sex & masturbation can help you discover new ways your body likes to be stimulated, and it’s so easy to do. It’s vital to stay safe in all your explorations though. Sliding ice over your erogenous zones is one thing. But using ice cubes for anal pleasure? I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s idly wondered, ‘Can I put ice in my ass?’

When I saw the Loving Joy Butt Plug Ice Cube Tray, I knew I had to buy it and give it a try. But can you really use the butt plug ice cubes in your butt? Or is this just a scandalous party ‘icebreaker’? Read on to find out my thoughts on this quirky butt plug ice cube maker!

Having been a big fan of big wand vibrators for many years, I was intrigued when Bondara offered me the chance to review a petite twist on the traditional wand vibe. The Bondara Lolli-Switch Mini Wand Vibrator Set comes with 3 head attachments so you can switch up the action as you please. I was looking forward to trying out the various sensations the different wand heads had to offer...

Following on from my popular guide on how to suck your own dick, I thought it would be good to expand to other parts of the body. Maybe you're just curious, or maybe you've already given it a go. The question I’m tackling today is can you suck your own tits? Let’s have a fun but informative, sex-positive look at whether it’s possible, how you can try safely, and why people love to lick their own nipples.

Lately, there’s one question that keeps returning to my thoughts, a potential way to play that demands further investigation. Can you orgasm without touching yourself? Today I’m exploring this fascinating subject - and sharing touch-free masturbation tips for you to try out and enjoy.

Recently I’ve been exploring imaginative ways to love myself, learning how to have sex with yourself in ways that feel deeper than masturbation. I don’t mean self-care acts like bubble baths and meditation; I mean the physical act of making love to myself. Usually, solo sex means one thing: a quick wank using my favourite sex toys and technique. A finger fumble or a quick buzz from a vibe, something secretive or rushed, with the goal of self-pleasure being orgasm and done. But there’s so much more to experience.

I usually favour water-based lubes over silicone, but I recently spotted this travel-friendly silicone lube from award-winning lubricant brand überlube and just had to have it.  It’s portable, purse-friendly and pleasing to the eye - but is the lube inside the cute canister actually any good? Read on to find out what I thought of the Uberlube Good-to-Go Traveler Set, which I chose with the Chaise Longue Green canister.

Having seen the name Lubido around for years, I was curious about how their sex lube actually performed during sex & masturbation. Therefore, I picked up a jumbo 500ml pump dispenser bottle of beautifully clear Lubido Water-Based Lube when I next needed to replenish my sensual glide supplies.

Recently, I’ve been thinking about some of the best sex of my life and realising what these memories have in common. The spontaneity, the urgent breathless need… and being at least partly dressed. Why does keeping some clothes on add so much eroticism? Isn’t the main aim of sex to get naked as quickly as possible then get fucking?

The MysteryVibe Legato is a sophisticated, high-tech piece of sexual wellness kit. The combination of flexibility which enables it to be moulded to the user’s unique anatomy, with the fact it has 4 internal motors and a range of easily operated settings thanks to the MysteryVibe App, is a winning one.

For women in particular, BDSM can be an affirming space where we explore power on our own terms, breaking out of the boxes society loves to shove us into and where we reclaim our control and desire. Today’s article is the second part of my women's sexuality series, where I explore how BDSM empowers women — and anyone who enjoys feminine expressions of consensual power and submission — no matter your gender or identity in the D/s scene.

The main thing I love about Wuzz Eli, beyond the fact that it is effective at giving me clitoral orgasms, is how versatile it is for different types of people. Despite being called a clitoral vibrator, it’s effective on any erogenous zone, thanks to its flickering twisted tongue tip. Nipples, balls, penis… Wherever you might benefit from deliciously fast vibration. And because the tip of the vibrator is a slender, flattened area, it is brilliant for those new to vaginal vibrators or those who usually struggle with the size of penetrative toys.

For centuries, women’s sexuality has been silenced, shamed, mocked and dismissed as irrelevant. The Cara Sutra sex blog is my way of being loud and proud about my sexual pleasure, while sharing my experience and advice for the enjoyment of my readers. Today I am specifically focusing on celebrating women’s sexuality, exploring how women of the modern world are fighting shame with pleasure and slowly turning the tide on long-standing myths and stigma.

I went from not knowing much about the SVibe Snail Curve Dual Stimulator and assuming it’s yet another take on the traditional rabbit vibrator, to whited out vision and feeling like all my muscles were melting as I was dragged wonderfully through a gasping, overwhelmingly powerful orgasm.

The goopy, sploogy mess as the alien egg-filled dildo slips inside and back out again, almost rejected by the body which eventually concedes its cruel, inevitable invasion, adds immeasurably to the erotic experience. Sitting down hard and unashamedly on this large, textured phallus, the thick, slippery fluids could easily be mistaken for actual seminal emission. Fucking hot.

If I thought using Lovense Ferri alone was good, I had no idea what I was in for by adding Lovense Lush 4 to the intensely pleasurable mix. Just when I felt I couldn’t possibly need or want any more pleasure, along came Lush 4 to grab me by the throat, look into my eyes and growl that you are going to endure even more, whether you want it or not. With the confident assertion that you’re going to fucking love it, bitch.

Whether you’ve got a canine kink or you’re just a perverted little pup, you’re going to love the sex toy I’m sharing my thoughts on today. The Juliet Toys Pooch Knot Dildo is a fantasy dog sex toy complete with tell-tale pointed tip, sensuously ridged shaft and a glorious bulging knot, finished with a suction cup base for secure filthy fuckery throughout every rampant ride.