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Read on for my top choices for last-minute Christmas sex toy gifts with fast delivery. In this festive sex toy roundup, I’m sharing my 3 best sex toy gift ideas that you can buy close to Christmas which will seriously impress: the Rechargeable Doxy Wand, the Lush 4 and The Rose Toy.

For kinky couples, festive bondage brings the magical sparkle of Christmas into the bedroom. It seems a shame to waste all your dressing skills with tinsel, ribbon and coloured rope just on the tree; with a little imagination you can enjoy decorating your partner. Read on for my Christmas bondage ideas...

Christmas is full of heartwarming emotion, indulgence and rituals. For kinky couples, the festive season provides the perfect opportunity to create new, intimate traditions which include evocative bondage, spanking and power exchange. That’s where the 12 Days of Kinkmas comes in, providing daily BDSM challenges for couples and ways to connect through kink over the holidays.

Christmas stockings are usually filled with safe little presents like soap and socks. Are there any kinky stocking fillers for kinky couples to gift...

Curious about what you’ll find in your Christmas stockings this year? If you’re a sexy fun-loving couple ready to celebrate all the erotic potential of the festive season, you’ll love today’s guide. I’m sharing my top recommendations for sexy stocking fillers; small sex toys and little erotic bedroom treats that deliver big pleasure all year long, not just through the holidays.

Couples who play together, stay together. If you’re the kinky types, skip the bath sets and boring perfume. This year, slip something thrilling under the tree. Kinky Christmas gifts go beyond “I love you”, they add “I want to play with you, claim you, indulge in intense & delicious power exchange fun with you.” But what are the best BDSM toys for couples to give and receive?

Painful intercourse can occur at any stage of life, to anyone. When it happens, it isn’t a sign of failure or that something is intrinsically wrong with you. Sexual pain is your body sending you a message: something needs to be adjusted or changed. Take heart (and notes) from today’s advice guide on this subject, and you will soon be on your way back to comfortable, pleasurable sex.

How to last longer during sex is a question I’m asked frequently by readers. But really, enjoyment of sex comes from so many other factors than attempting a marathon thrust session. It’s about confidence, awareness and exploring each other intimately with the genuine desire to evoke maximum levels of psychological as well as physical pleasure.

Large Mr Limpy Review: thick, bendy and impossible to ignore, this oversized Fleshlight packer is all about squishy satisfaction. In this hands-on review I share what it’s like to handle, how it looks and how it stacks up against the Small and Medium sizes, reviewed separately here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.

What is gooning? I hear you ask. Some of you might know exactly what it is, but gooning was new to me (the phrase, certainly not the activity!) so of course I did my research. This prolonged dance on the edge of orgasm is extremely interesting to me, as I’ve long been fascinated by the altered mind state that happens through extended masturbation, as well as orgasm tease and denial. Gooning is a trance-like style of self-pleasure where the goal isn't orgasm but sustained arousal, with the mind drifting into a floaty, immersive state often called the goon cave.

There is a persistent myth that sex toys are dangerous, damaging or somehow harmful to the body. The truth is that sex toys are...

D/s is a serious thing, with a foundation of consent, trust and two-way communication. But it’s also supposed to be fun, and I’ll let you into a secret: you’re allowed to have a laugh. In today’s article I will share 13 kinky Halloween games which lean into themes of Dominance and submission, with bondage, roleplay and punishment themes featuring heavily. Ready to stir up some spooky mischief?

The tip alone feels fantastic, as it glides and probes all at once, slipping over my vulva and making it gently flick against my clit then with firmer strokes, feeling the smaller sucker texture rub against my exposed, hungry nub. It was maddeningly arousing. My body demanded more. This kinky beast needed to be inside me. Now.

Monster sex fantasies are the result of a primal force within us. These taboo desires blur the line between desire and danger, where pleasure is laced with fear. What do you dream about pleasurably devouring you?

Through the centuries, there have always been people with a vampire fetish, folk fascinated with these elegantly erotic predators. Vampires may be dark and deadly, but they’re also incredibly alluring and seductive, with a commanding presence, otherworldly creature vibes and tantalising immortality. Sharp fangs and pale skin are the finishing touches to the power theme which blends Domination, submission and blood.

Feeling peachy? I certainly was when I opened up a recent reviewer care package to discover the brand-new fruity release from Womanizer. This Peach sex toy promises a juicy Pleasure Air enhanced ride to orgasm, but for me, it didn’t quite deliver the sweet climax I was dreaming of. Read on for all the sensual, succulent details in my Womanizer Peach review.

Ready to face your most frightening fuck fantasies this Halloween? Grab a comforting blanket and a bottle of thick ‘n slick lube because I’m diving into the most creepy creature penis toys around. Whether you’re hunting tentacle textures or dreaming of gliding past vampire fangs, this guide to scary strokers rounds up the most popular monster masturbators and fantasy sleeves for daring Halloween thrills and year-round chills.

After reviewing plenty of wonderfully weird Nothosaur fantasy dildos, we opted for something a little different this time. And this sex toy is so different, you could say it’s out of this world. Welcome to our Nothosaur Toys Vortima Masturbator review, where I’ll be sharing all the tentacle-texture details of this monster fantasy stroker.

Welcome to my no-fuss Fleshlight Fleshwash review. This antibacterial toy cleaner is designed for Fleshlight sleeves and other sex toys. Below you’ll find how I use it, spray coverage, scent, ingredients, care tips, pros and cons, and where to buy whether you're in the US or UK/EU.

Welcome to my hands-on Fleshlight Fleshlube review. Fleshlight’s water-based lube promises a silky glide with Superskin sleeves and other toys. Below you’ll find texture and feel, ingredients, how much to use, tips, pros and cons, and where to buy whether you're in the US or UK/EU.