Cara Sutra

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Happy New Year 2020 Hopes and Goals For My 40th Year

Happy New Year 2020: Hopes & Goals For My 40th Year

Happy New Year 2020! It's that time of the year where I – and countless other people round the globe – think about what we want to achieve over the next 12 months. I've traditionally blogged my New Year's Resolutions, which in recent times have evolved into New Year's hopes and goals.

How To Find A Dominant Partner

So many of the emails I’ve received over the years have been from men looking for BDSM advice. Many men really want to find a Dominant woman to help them realise their kinky fantasies, or encourage their partner to become a Mistress –or alternatively, a female submissive. Did you know that there is an easy way to find a Dominant partner? Read on and I’ll let you in on the secret.  

How To Find Your Perfect BDSM Partner

Compatibility in BDSM relationships is important and should be taken into consideration from the outset. But just how do you go about finding that all too often elusive, but fantastic, kinky match? It can be tricky to find your perfect BDSM partner -and that's an understatement. 

Big Guide To Bondage Sex Toys, & Our Bondage Sex Toy Reviews

What can you use to restrain someone (or enjoy being restrained) in bondage? That's where bondage sex toys and bondage accessories come into their own. It helps having some background knowledge of just what's available in terms of bondage equipment, and why it's important to use items specifically designed for bondage rather than any old belt, strap or rope you happen to have around the house.

Big Guide To Spanking Toys, & Our Spanking Toy Reviews

Spanking is an erotic act between consenting kinksters and lovers. Do you prefer yours OTK (over the knee), strapped face-down to a bench, during sex or in some other fashion? Does the mere thought of a raised Dominant hand, or a spanking toy whistling through the air, stir the tendrils of arousal? You might be wondering which spanking tools are best for effective corporal punishment. Welcome to my big guide to spanking toys, in which you'll also find links to all our spanking toy reviews.

Beginner’s Guide To Bondage | Complete Bondage 101 & Top Tips

Despite Fifty Shades of Grey helping to spotlight the joys of BDSM in the mainstream in recent years, plenty of people have been enjoying the physical, psychological and emotional liberation that the power exchange in D/s role-play offers. Due to the recent sharp rise in mainstream interest, I wanted to share my bondage top tips and advice in this beginner's guide to bondage today. Welcome to my complete bondage 101!

Beginner’s Guide To BDSM | BDSM Tips For Beginners | BDSM 101

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.
Happy New Year 2020 Giveaway: Win A £150+ Sex Toy Bundle!

Expired: Happy New Year 2020 Giveaway: Win A £150+ Sex Toy Bundle!

Happy New Year 2020! Are you ready for another year of sexual wellness and invigorating kinky mischief? Then you’ll love my sex toy giveaway, designed to get you off to a flying start. One lucky Cara Sutra sex blog reader will win this sex toy bundle which is worth, in total, over £150*. In the spirit of fresh starts, I’ve hand-picked some items which I hope will present opportunities for the winner to try something new this year, as well as some more traditional sexy gift faves. Let’s take a look at what you could win, plus how to enter my Happy New Year 2020 giveaway.

2019 Reflections: Goodbye To Another Year

As we say goodbye to another year, I'd like to take the opportunity -as I have for the past few years now- to look back on everything that's happened. I've had a lot to ponder over for my 2019 reflections, as it's been another busy year.

Can Long-Distance Relationships Ever Really Work?

Social media, dating apps and chat sites are undoubtedly effective ways to meet new people. Connecting with the person of your dreams, then discovering they lives miles away –or on the other side of the world- can bring about another set of challenges for your budding relationship, however. Can long-distance relationships ever really work?

Why We Love Sexy Corporal Punishment

I'd like to talk a little more about why we love sexy corporal punishment here today, and how it really hits our spot. Perhaps this intimate revelation will prompt more people out there to accept spanking and similar as being just as 'acceptable' as 'regular' sex antics, instead of mentally filing such habits as perverted, deviant and downright weird.

Expired: The Big Christmas Giveaway 2019: Win A £200+ Festive Fuckery Bundle!

Time for my Big Christmas Giveaway 2019! Make sure you enter this exciting seasonal competition as you could win a Festive Fuckery Bundle worth over £200*. I’m sure there are plenty of Cara Sutra sex blog readers who would love to win a hand-picked selection of sex toys and sexy gifts to enjoy through the holidays, so let’s take a look at what exactly you might be receiving, and how to enter.
Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux Review

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£129.00
As you'll see from the many, many Hot Octopuss sex toy reviews here at Cara Sutra, my partner and I have spent the past few years thoroughly enjoying the new releases from this innovative and inclusive adult brand. It was with great delight that I accepted this opportunity to review one of the latest additions to the Hot Octopuss Guybrator family, the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux.

Sexy Christmas Gift Guide | Best Romantic Christmas Gifts

Giving the perfect Christmas gift you just know they'll adore gives you a warm fuzzy feeling like (almost) nothing else. 'Tis the season of giving, so why not combine festive spice and evergreen romance by gifting your lover a decidedly sexy present this year? Baby, it's cold outside – but selecting from the raunchy choices in my sexy Christmas gift guide will ensure you're all aglow. You can find my top picks for the best romantic Christmas gifts in this ultimate festive gifting guide.
Lovehoney Best Sex Of Your Life Couple's Sex Toy Advent Calendar 2019 Review

Lovehoney Best Sex Of Your Life Couple’s Sex Toy Advent Calendar 2019 Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£100.00
With the contents worth £250 in total at their usual retail prices, this Lovehoney Best Sex Of Your Life Couple's Sex Toy Countdown Calendar 2019 represents fantastic value for money as well as a spicy boost to your sex life over the Christmas season – and well beyond that, too. You'll see the New Year in with sensual style with this collection of thrilling sex toys, bondage gear and sexy wearables at your fingertips, thanks to Lovehoney.
Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress Review

Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£49.99
As you'll have read in my recent Lovehoney Fierce Wet Look Long Sleeve Zip-Around Body review, I was delighted to be offered two items from the spectacular new Lovehoney Fierce clothing range to review. Upon seeing the Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress I fell in love, and knew I just had to have it. It's so me! Did reality live up to my initial lust?
Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite G-Spot Vibrator Review

Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite G-Spot Vibrator Review

7 out of 10
Price:
£45.00
Materials:
Silicone
So to the final review in my trilogy of new Ann Summers Moregasm sex toy reviews! This is the second 'petite' Moregasm+ vibrator review; click to read my Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite Rampant Rabbit review. I also reviewed the larger rabbit style, the Ann Summers Moregasm+ Boost Rampant Rabbit. I'm pleased to share with you today my experiences of and thoughts about the petite Moregasm g-spot stim toy: the Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite G-Spot Vibrator.
Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite Rampant Rabbit Review

Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite Rampant Rabbit Review

7 out of 10
Price:
£55.00
Materials:
Silicone
As I mentioned in my Ann Summers Moregasm+ Boost Rampant Rabbit review, I was delighted to receive three new additions to the Ann Summers Moregasm sex toys collection recently. The Boost rabbit vibe is the largest of the three I received; now I'm moving on to my feedback of two 'petite' sex toys. You can click through to read my Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite G-Spot Vibrator review -but for now let's have a closer look at the Ann Summers Moregasm+ Petite Rampant Rabbit.
Ann Summers Moregasm+ Boost Rampant Rabbit Review

Ann Summers Moregasm+ Boost Rampant Rabbit Review

6 out of 10
Price:
£85.00
Materials:
Silicone
I'm a huge fan of the Ann Summers Moregasm sex toys, not least because their Moregasm+ Bullet Vibrator is one of my top 3 favourite bullet vibrators ever. It's one of my most 'reached-for' vibrators –and with hundreds and hundreds of sex toys in my house, that's a real statement. Therefore, I was obviously thrilled to hear that Ann Summers were releasing yet more Moregasm sex toys –and that I was being sent three of them to try out, and review here on the blog. I'll be reviewing the petite rabbit vibrator and g-spot vibrator separately, but today let's take a closer look at the Ann Summers Moregasm+ Boost Rampant Rabbit Vibrator.

How To Have A Kinky Valentine’s Day

Even if your plans consist of a couple of hours together tonight, without work or the kids, possibly with a cheeky tipple, a pizza and a DVD, you may be wishing for a more exciting way to spice things up between you and your partner. There is. Read on for some practical & romantic BDSM tips which will teach you how to have a kinky Valentine's Day.