Cara Sutra
Sex blogger, writer, dildo diddler.
Bed Nerdz La La Land Mystery Sex Toy Gift Box Review
Do you love sexy surprises? I do. I’m delighted to be sharing my thoughts on a sexy surprise box from Bed Nerdz today, the Bed Nerdz La La Land Mystery Sex Toy Gift Box. What a gem of a find this company is...
Juliet Toys Thundr Vibrating Horse Dildo Review
Time to start horsing around and introduce the newest stallion in my sex toy stable! Thanks to Juliet Toys, I saddled up for some equine ecstasy with the Juliet Toys Thundr Vibrating Horse Dildo with remote control.
The One Rabbit Vibrator Review
Despite being a wow vibrator on paper, when it came to actually using The One Rabbit Vibrator, I was left disappointed – and had to reach for another sex toy to reach climax. The box promises ‘super-powerful motors’ but it didn’t feel that way once the vibrator was inside me and switched to the highest speed output for both shaft and clitoral stimulating ‘bunny ears’.
Bondara Clitorally Amazing Vibrating Clit Stimulator Review
Thanks to the finger loop at the end, it’s easy to hold, and holding the toy in this way doesn’t muffle any of the vibration delivered to the clitoris and surrounding area. It’s quite a sleek-looking toy in universally appealing black, with a flash of silver to the metallic panel on the side.
Allowing Sadness Without Guilt
Allowing Sadness Without Guilt
On reflection, I felt a lot of pressure to conform to fake happiness when I was a child – a girl...
Twisted Beast Marchosias Dog Dildo Review
There’s an undeniable psychological element to the arousal I feel when I use it to fuck myself. The shape and theme evokes perverse furry fantasies, wanton wolfish lusts. I revel in imagining being fucked senseless in a mercilessly raw, primal, animalistic way. That I have been hunted as prey to be sexually devoured until mutual erotic appetites have been fully sated.
MANWAN Man.Wand EVO Vibrating Stimulator Review
This sex toy promises to deliver vibrating stimulation to the penis, at a speed comfortable and effective for the user. But this isn’t solely a penis stimulating toy. It can also be used as a traditional wand vibrator, providing vibration to the clitoris powerful enough to fully satisfy. You can see why I found this versatile vibrator intriguing!
Hankey’s Toys Realistic Banana Dildo Review
Time to get a little fruity! My first sex toy review of 2025 is for the a-peeling Hankey’s Toys Realistic Banana Dildo. After enjoying this curved sensation all holiday season, I’m ready to reveal all the slippery ins and outs. Read on to find out if this fantastical design from Hankey’s Toys makes for a ripe ‘n rampant addition to your intimate fruit bowl!
Simba Hybrid 3-in-1 Duvet Review (King Size)
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I’ve been lucky enough to test & review some flagship items from the Simba Mattress collection over the past year, including the Simba Ludlow King Size Bed and the Simba Hybrid Original Mattress. This month I’m sharing my thoughts on another exciting product from the range: the Simba Hybrid 3-in-1 Duvet (king size). Thanks Simba Sleep team!
New Year 2025: Out With New, in with Gently Adjusted Familiarity
Don’t completely change. Don’t transform into an entirely new, unrecognisable you. Out with the new, and in with being kind to yourself, being careful and gentle. In with the idea that, if you feel inclined to introduce any life changes at all, go for gently adjusted familiarity.
Are Glass Sex Toys Safe? Self-Pleasure Safety with Glass Dildos
I still come across people who are shocked to learn that glass is a material used to make sex toys. Today I want to explore the misunderstood realm of glass adult products, dispelling myths, revealing the facts behind the specific type of glass to make these products, and the dos and don’ts of self-pleasure safety with glass dildos.
How to Jelq: Can Jelqing Enlarge Your Penis?
Got a penis? Want a bigger one? Who doesn’t, right? In my recent features showcasing the Bathmate penis pumps collection and my main penis pumps guide, I mentioned a penis enlargement technique called jelqing. Can jelqing enlarge your penis? In today’s sexual health article, I discuss the jelqing technique, covering how to jelq, if jelqing can really give you a bigger cock - and any potential side effects.
Hankey’s Toys Mystical Unicorn Dildo Review
This joyful dildo design from the Hankey’s Toys collection has added whimsical merriment to my seasonal self-pleasure sessions. From the moment I unwrapped this delightful toy, I couldn’t wait to literally give myself the horn throughout the holiday season. Time to saddle up this sparkling steed, ride it hard into high fantasy and see what legendary orgasmic adventures await!
My Sobriety: Choosing the Sober Life When You’re Not an Alcoholic
Now I’ve leapt off the booze merry-go-round, I see alcohol for what it really is, in the stark and sober light of day. Because going sober is such a monumental decision in our culture, I wanted to write about what led me to this decision at this juncture of my life, share the before, beginnings and where I’m at now in my sobriety, and the highs and lows of choosing the sober life when you’re not an alcoholic...
Being Deaf: High-Frequency Hearing Loss & Me
I’m not sure how may of my readers know this, but I’m deaf. Not 100% deaf, but certainly enough deafness that it impacts my everyday life. In recent years I’ve been able to get loss-specific hearing aids which have been an invaluable help. I have high-frequency hearing loss which I feel is a type of deafness most people don’t know much about.
Perimenopause Update 2024: The Year I Fought Back & Changed My Life
2024 has been the year I fought back against the tricky beast of perimenopause, but the fight has taken a different form to my usual stubbornly defiant style of battle. I now understand why they call it the change; not just because of the physical changes imposed upon me, but because I have had to change how I live in the everyday, and the change has been both monumental and magnificent.
Temperature Play in the Bedroom: Blow Hot & Cold During Sex!
As the darker nights of autumn and the frosty chill of winter sets in, staying cosy at home and enjoying the romance of candles or fairy lights is extremely appealing. Today I want to share my guide to temperature play in the bedroom, advice which will help you blow hot & cold during sex no matter what the weather is like outside your bedroom window.
Funzze Honey Ducky 2 Sucking & Licking Vibrator Review
Honey Ducky 2 is so cheerfully bright and quackingly quirky, it’s difficult not to smile every time I set eyes on it. If you’re into playful sex toys and don’t need anything with maximum strength, the Honey Ducky 2 could find a happy little home with you.
Your Guide to Buying Comfortable Sexy Lingerie
With some shops offering lingerie sets in dress sizes (which may or may not resemble the actual size stated), and others opting for the vague ‘small, medium and large’ style sizing, buying lingerie that fits and flatters your body can feel like an impossible task. Welcome to my guide to buying comfortable sexy lingerie...
Hankey’s Toys Kthulu Dildo Review
This month I dove deep into the abyss of internal stimulation, as the Hankey’s Toys Kthulu Dildo unleashed a tidal wave of self-pleasure ecstasy. If you’re a fan of cosmic horror and crave a tentacled touch in your intimate depths, this dildo might just be the eldritch probe you’ve been craving. Time to ‘Kraken’ with my newest review...
