Articles

Articles here at the Cara Sutra sex blog cover the entire spectrum of sexuality, discussing everything pertinent to the world of intimate pleasure and romantic relationships. You’ll find a wealth of sex tips and advice to help you enjoy higher levels of stimulation and enjoyment whether you prefer to play solo or with a partner. Relationships and dating can be tricky areas to navigate successfully, so read up on real experiences here on the blog from both myself and expert guest authors who share their relationship advice.

If you’re ready for the decadently darker side of sex, peer into the world of bondage and spanking… you’ll find plenty of advice articles here for beginners all the way up to veteran kinksters. The kinky sex tips and BDSM articles are sure to help you enjoy not only breathtakingly exciting power exchange playtimes, but ensure you’re both completely safe and emotionally comfortable at all times.

From time to time I write about the sexuality themed highlights of the year, such as National Orgasm Day, International Women’s Day, Organic Intimacy Week, LGBTQ+ Pride Month, Movember and more. You’ll also find fun and helpful seasonal articles covering such themes as romantic gift guides for Valentine’s Day and Christmas, spicing up the Halloween season in a sexy way and enjoying some red hot summer loving.

My sex positive articles are entertaining as well as educational, balancing a light approachable tone with an in depth look at the heart of sex and sexuality. I hope you enjoy reading all my articles.

Deep Throat Fucking: When You Have A Cock Sucking Fetish

By Cara Sutra: When I asked a few weeks back, on Twitter and other social media, which fetishes people would like to see written up for Fetish Friday, I wasn’t expecting deep throat fucking to be one of them.

Vibrators for Newbies: Vibrating Sex Toys for Complete Beginners

Vibrating sex toys are extremely popular, and the good news is that if you're actively looking to start or build on your own sex toy collection, you'll likely recognise a few types already. Traditional rabbit vibrators, for a start. Classic cylindrical vibrators with a twist base. Maybe you've heard about sports massagers becoming better-known for their orgasmic benefits – the famous magic wand vibrator. Today I want to introduce you to some fantastic options when it comes to vibrators for newbies.

Pelvic Floor Exercises: What Are They & Why Are They Important?

By Cara Sutra: Are Pelvic Floor Exercises important? The pelvic floor muscles are muscles which give a person important control over various facets of their personal life. Their main function is to control the flow of urination from the bladder and there is also control over the bowel.

Slipping into the world of Nuru Massage

By Karma Tantric: I have been a huge fan of erotic massage ever since I encountered my first body to body massage a few years ago. My willingness to try new things unknowingly opened a whole new playground of sexual pleasure into my life. It’s a combination of total sensory relaxation, coupled with the up-close skin to skin sensation that induces some of the most wildly intense orgasms I have ever managed to achieve.

Holiday Sex Antics

Sometimes you just cannot account for things that make you laugh out loud but embarrass you to the core. Such a thing happened to me the year before last while my man and I were employed in a little holiday sex.

Do stretch marks ruin a woman’s body?

Got this comment on one of my photos (where you can see some of my stretch marks - gasp, horror) yesterday which made me laugh. From a cosmetic surgeon, funnily enough.

It’s a 50 Shades World of Kink and BDSM – but I’m happy being...

The no frills sex using hands, lips, bodies and lovely nakedness is perfect for me. It’s exactly what my husband and I both enjoy and it works for us. It’s not that I haven’t tried to implement fetish items into the bedroom, I really have, but we just didn’t enjoy it. I’ve tried paddles, whips and even a ball gag but I don’t like being hit (ouch!) and he didn’t like hurting me either. We’ve sat and discussed at length the things that we enjoy in the bedroom and it’s the straightforward sex that we both enjoy every time.
You may touch me there

Sexuality Of Touch: The Relationship Between Touch And Sex

As we learn and experience and grow comfortable with various types of touch that is pleasing, some of us come to understand that other types of touch are desired. While it may seem incongruous with societal expectations and mores, there are growing numbers of folks who are more inclined to enjoy a sharp spank over a soothing stroke.

Dirty Talk Tips With Quiet People And The People Who Love Them

By Cameryn Moore Folks tell me all the time: “I don’t know how to talk dirty.” Not, “I’d like to learn to do it better,” but, “I don’t know how to do it at all.” Or they say it about their partner: “They’re just so quiet. How do I get them to talk a little?” So this month, I want to look at starting from scratch with dirty talk.

A Modern Girl’s Dating Diary

By Hella Rude What you're about to witness is pulled from my personal Facebook. I've deleted the names of those involved and have resisted the urge to publish undoctored evidence that would reveal the identities of those who have been less than awesome.

Girl-On-Girl Sex

Suddenly she was there, enveloping me into her flesh, on to her breasts and pressing me against them... she was all sex and scent and femininity and reassurance. I curled in around her, foetal yet innately animalistic, our breaths deepening as the silence between us spoke volumes. Her arms were one around my waist to press and stroke my back and the other with fingers entangled in my hair, binding me to her tightly with a caring grip.

BDSM & FemDom Advice: Lifestyle versus Professional Domination

There is a world of difference between a talented Dominant who is financially recompensed for her time and talents, and a sex worker who chooses to incorporate bondage and corporal punishment into the services she offers. Too many people make the mistake of assuming that the two are one and the same. Professional Dommes are not prostitutes. Any remuneration is for her Domination skills and expertise, not for sexual contact or sex acts. Sexual contact will not be a part of any session with any Professional Dominatrix worth her salt.

Busting The Myth: Is Sex Dating Just For Men?

Anyone who has tried sex dating will know that it is something that is enjoyed by the different genders; but yet there is still this conception that sex dating is really a man’s thing.

Mistakes which make a mockery of your writing

I have a major problem with people who rely on spell-check to proof and edit their work for them. Spell-check will merely check if your words are all spelled correctly. That's ALL. It will not correct the wrong words in the wrong place, nor will it tell you if you have missed a word or two out of a sentence, rendering it incomprehensible.

Two Girls One Cam

As the night progressed we made a healthy dent into Hella's bottle of Jager, and she showed me the Periscope ropes. It's an app where you can live-stream video of whatever you're up to to the people on that app, which somehow means all your Twitter followers. Ok so I don't know all the ins and outs yet but written words are more my thing, not video. Despite that, Hella and I made a wicked vid that night on Periscope - if you get the app you'll probably be able to follow Hella Rude there and catch it.

What Is It Like To Be Self-Employed?

by Hella Rude The term self-employed conjures a variety of images. The high-flying entrepreneur hungry for success. The artistic slacker who barely lifts a pencil more than twice a week. The man in a van doing odd jobs at a moments notice. The small business owner carving a niche on the high street. Being self-employed can mean literally anything but it this woman's experience, it is definitely challenging.

How Does Viral Marketing Work? New Social Media App Plag** Shows You!

by Hella Rude If you already think that your world is driven by social media, it's time to batten your hatches. With this newbie app, things are about to get a whole lot more viral - and it's actually a good thing.

Intelligence is sexy and geek porn proves it

If we magnify the allure of intelligence in our arousing media, we begin to understand why Marvel and other comic book films, Batman, Catwoman and the rest, are so popular. It seems like there is a never ending tirade of comic book films released at the cinema at the moment, such as Avengers: Age of Ultron, Guardians of the Galaxy and the upcoming Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice in 2016. It’s not merely an innocent desire to relive some shining facets of childhood; fans of these films quite often express their love of these superhero movies in a very sexual and sometimes even explicit ways. The tight costumes of the men showing rippling muscles, the low cut and impossibly provocative outfits of the women almost bypassing their special talent and thrusting them into a semi-pornographic spotlight.

7 Dangers Of Buying Into The Orgasm Gap

Working in the sex industry, I've recently heard the term orgasm gap a number of times in blog posts, on social media and in press emails to me. What is this orgasm gap? Why is the spotlight on it now? And why do I believe there are dangers associated with it?

Ann Summers Moregasm Plus Sex Toys Provide More Power & More Pleasure

Ann Summers is, of course, the home of the Rampant Rabbit, but I'd had such bad experiences with rabbit vibrators that I avoided them. Then, I gave the original Ann Summers Moregasm vibrators a try - and fell in love. Now, a few years later, I've been lucky enough to sample the brand new and upgraded range – the Ann Summers Moregasm Plus sex toys collection.