Sexual Accessories Reviews

Sex isn’t just about vibrators, bondage gear, or lingerie—sometimes, the little extras make all the difference. My Sexual Accessories Reviews cover all the essential bedroom enhancers that can improve comfort, pleasure, and overall experience. From lubricants and massage oils to toy cleaners, condoms, and even erotic games, this section is dedicated to everything that supports and elevates your intimate moments.

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What Are Sexual Accessories & Why Do They Matter?

Sexual accessories include everything related to intimacy that isn’t a sex toy or wearable lingerie. These products can help make experiences smoother, safer, more enjoyable, and even more exciting. Whether it’s a luxurious massage candle for setting the mood, a high-quality lube for seamless pleasure, or an anal douche for comfort and confidence, the right accessories can transform your playtime.

Types of Sexual Accessories: The Must-Haves

If you’re wondering which bedroom essentials are worth investing in, here’s a breakdown of some of the most popular and practical sexual accessories I’ve reviewed.

Lubricants: The Ultimate Essential

A good sex lube enhances pleasure and reduces friction, making it a non-negotiable for many kinds of play. Whether you need water-based lube for versatility, silicone lube for long-lasting glide, or hybrid lube for a mix of both, my reviews cover them all—including ingredient breakdowns for those with sensitivities.

Massage Oils & Candles: Set the Mood

Few things are as sensual as a warm massage oil or a luxurious massage candle that melts into body-friendly wax. These products create intimacy, encourage relaxation, and enhance foreplay—discover which ones are worth trying in my detailed reviews.

Condoms & Safer Sex Essentials

Protection should never be an afterthought. My condom reviews explore different materials, textures, and sensations to help you find the perfect fit.

Sex Toy Cleaners & Storage: Keep Things Fresh

Proper care of your sex toys is crucial. My sex toy cleaner reviews ensure you choose a safe and effective solution, while my insights on toy storage help keep your collection discreet and hygienic.

Erotic Games & Romantic Gifts: Fun & Connection

Spice up your love life with adult games and romantic gifts designed to bring couples closer. Whether you’re looking for playful challenges or intimate conversation starters, my reviews highlight the best options.

Find the Best Bedroom Enhancements for You

With so many sexual accessories available, choosing the right ones can be overwhelming. That’s why my sexual accessory reviews provide honest, in-depth insights into what works, what doesn’t, and what’s truly worth adding to your collection.

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System JO 12 Volt Female Arousing Serum Review

1 out of 10
I was given the System JO 12 Volt Female Arousing Serum to review as part of the Cara Sutra reviewing team. I was quite excited to try this product, in the hope it would enhance my sexual experiences. I have tried a few other products that claim to arouse a female, usually via a tingling sensation.

Sensuva ON Natural Arousal Balm For Her Review

7 out of 10
Price:
£18.00
Brand:
Sensuva
Shop:
SheVibe
I think personally I've come to like the Sensuva ON Natural Arousal Balm For Her because when I want to masturbate, I find myself searching for the balm and when I can't find it because it's stuck down the side of my bed somewhere, I have a mini panic and get worried that I won't be able to use it again. I think this balm is like cheesecake, an acquired taste.
MEO Anal Total Water Based Anal Lube Review

MEO Anal Total Water Based Anal Lube Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£10.99
Brand:
MEO
Shop:
MEO.de
Materials:
Water
We always use condoms when having anal sex; again we previously used ordinary lube.  I explained that we did not need as much of this lube.  WOW! I have to say this lube from MEO made anal sex even more pleasurable, again no dragging sensation, so his cock glided in and out a lot easier.

System JO For Women Agapé Lubricant Review

8 out of 10
Price:
£5.95
Brand:
System JO
Materials:
Water
Ok I will be the first to admit that I wasn't expecting great things from the System JO For Women Agapé Lubricant. Why? Well, my experience (and a few others too) hasn't been that great with other of their products in the past. Never the less I was willing to put that aside and give this lube a thorough testing.

DONA by JO Massage Lotion Flirty Blushing Berry Review

7 out of 10
The whole title is a bit of a mouthful (Dona Aphrodisiac & Pheromone Infused Massage Lotion)... basically what we have here is a nice massage lotion that is infused as the title suggests with pheromones to act as a mild aphrodisiac. I must admit that I asked to review this as i was curious as to how I would react when using it.

Swarovski Crystal Liona Black Filigree Masquerade Mask Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£18.00
Materials:
Metal
I like getting dressed-up. I like costumes, accessories, wigs, make-up. They make me feel confident. They allow me to become someone else for a short while. You can imagine how excited I was when I received this gorgeous Swarovski Crystal Liona Black Filigree Masquerade Mask to review. And I was not disappointed.

System JO Wintermint Nipple Titillator Arousal Gel Review

4 out of 10
I am reviewing the System JO Wintermint Nipple Titillator Arousal Gel. I have sensitivity issues due to medical reasons but I have tried some arousal or tingling gels that have some sensation. I am sorry to say that this product did not live up to the standards of tingling.

System JO H2O Original Lube Reviews

10 out of 10
Price:
£7.99
Brand:
System JO
Materials:
Water
System JO H2O Original Lube reviews in one tidy place. Over the last decade my reviewers and I have tested and published multiple opinions...

Bondara Sex Enhancer Strap Review

3 out of 10
Price:
£14.99
Brand:
Bondara
Shop:
Bondara
Materials:
Neoprene
This is the second draft of my Bondara Sex Enhancer Strap review. The first time around, I accidentally thought I was reviewing the Bondara Doggie Style Enhancer Strap… and this ties nicely into one of my primary criticisms: this strap 100% needed directions! Some suggested uses or simple guidance might have prevented the whirlwind of questions and frustrations that lead to a very confusing review on my part.

System JO H2O Flavoured Lube Review (Various Flavours)

9 out of 10
Price:
£5.95
Brand:
System JO
Materials:
Water
It’s been flavoured lube month at my house recently. I was fortunate enough to receive another flavoured lube but in the mix were these 3 little gems for me to have a try and play around with. 3 sachets of System JO H2O Flavoured Lube.

System JO Premium Silicone Lube Review

9 out of 10
When Cara gave us the opportunity to test this System JO Premium Silicone Lube as part of the Pleasure Panel we were delighted to be trying something new. We've been users of lube for years now and have always opted for the water based lubricants.

System JO Peppermint Breath Fresh Spray for Men Review

2 out of 10
Here is my review of the System JO Peppermint Breath Fresh Spray for Men (click to purchase), which is infused with aphrodisiac and pheromones.

System JO Breath Fresh Spray for Women Review: Peppermint Flavour

3 out of 10
The System JO Breath Fresh Spray for Women itself is small and really discreet and easily fits in my purse and bag. I even put it in a jacket pocket on a night out which was handy.

System JO Premium Silicone Lube Review

9 out of 10
I have two things to admit before I start this System JO Premium Silicone Lube review.

DONA Flirty Blushing Berry Linen Spray Review

6 out of 10
I should have completed this DONA Flirty Blushing Berry Linen Spray review weeks ago... I tried. I swear. It was however impossible to complete this review with a stuffed nose and a bad cold. Now that I am back to my sexy(-ier) self, I present to you: the DONA Aphrodisiac and Pheromone infused linen spray!

System JO H2O Flavoured Water Based Lubricant Review (Various Flavours)

9 out of 10
Price:
£5.95
Brand:
System JO
Materials:
Water
I received three sachets of the System JO H2O Flavoured Water Based Lubricant (in three different flavours) to test and review. They are all 3ml sachets with basically the same design on the front, just different colours and a different photo of whatever the flavour is. Clearly this is water-based lube, since it has "H2O" in massive letters on the front.

Cock Candy Strawberry Flavoured Lube Review

8 out of 10
Price:
£5.25
Brand:
MEO
Shop:
MEO.de
Materials:
Water
...seeing the MEO Cock Candy collection had me very intrigued and I gave into temptation. The Cock Candy Strawberry Flavoured Lube comes in an easy squirt bottle, I think if it was a pump option I wouldn't have been as impressed as these sometimes can be a little difficult to fiddle with in the heat of the moment but no, it makes things super easy to drizzle and gives just the right desired amount.

System JO Strawberry Oral Delight Arousal Gel Review

3 out of 10
I have never tried any type of oral gel before, however, I was game for my first time when offered the opportunity to road-test this System JO Strawberry Oral Delight Arousal Gel.

System JO Clitoris Stimulating Gel Wild Review

1 out of 10
Price:
£12.95
A red and black box entered my life, looking very professional and, I must admit, quite impressive. The System JO Clitoris Stimulating Gel (Wild) was clear, unscented and slightly oily. I thought I was off to a good start! No unpleasant smell to put me off, no strange colour that would make me question the ingredients, it seemed like a good start.

System JO Coconut Oil Hybrid Lube Review

9 out of 10
The System JO Coconut Oil lube is a thing of wonder, for so many reasons. Firstly, I wonder what the instructions and warning say on the side of the bottle; the font is so incredibly tiny I am completely unable to read it, and am now waiting for an appointment with my optometrist.