Sex Toy Advice

Sex Toy Advice – How to Choose & Use the Best Toys for You

Shopping for sex toys can be thrilling, but with so many options available, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced toy user, my sex toy advice will help you find the perfect products to enhance your pleasure. From choosing the right materials to understanding different functions, I’ve got all the guidance you need.

Do You Really Need Sex Toys?

Sex toys aren’t a necessity, but they can add a whole new level of fun to your solo and partnered experiences. Whether you're looking for intense clitoral stimulation, deeper penetration, or a way to spice things up with a partner, the right toy can take your pleasure to the next level.

Finding the Right Sex Toy for You

With so many options available, how do you choose? My sex toy advice articles cover:
  • Vibrators, Dildos & Anal Toys – What works best for different kinds of stimulation.
  • Materials & Safety – Understanding body-safe materials & why it matters.
  • Couples’ Toys – Bringing excitement into partnered play.

Maximise Pleasure & Care for Your Toys

Knowing how to use your toys properly and take care of them ensures a better, safer experience. From cleaning tips to storage advice, my sex toy advice articles help you get the most from your collection. Ready to explore? Check out my expert advice and discover the perfect toy for your desires!

Best Discreet Sex Toys for Public Orgasms & Intimate Stimulation: Your Guide

Turned on by the thought of using discreet sex toys during your adventures outside your home, for intense intimate stimulation and perhaps the delicious forbidden fruit of public orgasms? Does the image of you struggling to remain calm and unperturbed on the outside, whilst you sexily suffer the hidden torment of being repeatedly brought to the edge of climax in a crowd of strangers get you hotter than any other sexual fantasy? You’re in the right place...

Bondage Furniture Guide: How to Create Your Own BDSM Dungeon

Today I'm providing a versatile, discreet and pleasurable bondage furniture guide (and other sex accoutrements options) for your home. These options don't necessarily scream "red room of pain" - but with a little creativity, they can be just as thrilling. Whether you're after compact, multi-functional, or simply hidden-in-plain-sight styles, here's how to craft a BDSM dungeon at home even if you don't have as much room as your local fetish club.
Celebrating Women-Led Sex Toy Brands

Celebrating Women-Led Sex Toy Brands

The sexual wellness industry is undergoing a dynamic transformation, and women-led sex toy brands are at the forefront of this change. These trailblazing entrepreneurs are revolutionising the space with body-safe, inclusive, and innovative designs that prioritise real pleasure and empowerment.

Best Cheap Sex Toys on a Small Budget: Top Quality, Low Price Tag

Finding sex toys which are orgasmically effective and top quality for a low price is a challenge. As the cost of living continues to rise, saving cash while ensuring you get value for your...

Is It OK To Gift My Friend A Vibrator? Or Too Weird?

I declare my love of vibrators loud and proud for all to hear here at the Cara Sutra sex blog of course, but away from the web I find myself talking about them with open-minded, sex-positive friends, too. What about giving sex toys as gifts? Would a sex toy make a bold, empowering present, or an awkward, never-spoken-of-again mistake? In today’s feature, I’m exploring whether it’s OK to gift a friend a vibrator, or if it’s just too weird.

Are Glass Sex Toys Safe? Self-Pleasure Safety with Glass Dildos

I still come across people who are shocked to learn that glass is a material used to make sex toys. Today I want to explore the misunderstood realm of glass adult products, dispelling myths, revealing the facts behind the specific type of glass to make these products, and the dos and don’ts of self-pleasure safety with glass dildos.

Temperature Play in the Bedroom: Blow Hot and Cold for Pleasure

As the darker nights of autumn and the frosty chill of winter sets in, staying cosy at home and enjoying the romance of candles or fairy lights is extremely appealing. Today I want to share my guide to temperature play in the bedroom, advice which will help you blow hot & cold during sex no matter what the weather is like outside your bedroom window.

Nipple Play Toys Guide & Our Nipple Clamp Reviews

In today’s guide, I am exploring this intriguing area of sexuality, and the nipple play toys that can maximise your pleasure during solo or shared sexual playtimes. As well as discovering the various types of nipple stim toys (tickle, suck or pinch), you will find links to helpful nipple clamp reviews from the community and myself.

Guide to Prostate Massagers & P-Spot Toys

Although I spoke briefly about P-spot stimulation devices in my recent blog post, today I want to offer a deep delve into prostate toys. Welcome to my guide to prostate massagers, where I’ll outline what specifically makes a toy a prostate massager and the most effective P-spot toys available.

Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildos Prime Silicone Tops Collection

The Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildo is ingeniously modular, meaning you can buy the base toy and choose which of the silicone attachments/toppers you’d like to use with it. There’s a wide variety of silicone tops to choose from, and the generous team sent me the whole collection to try out. Welcome to my Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildos Prime Silicone Tops Collection showcase!

Lovehoney Sex Toy Advent Calendars 2024 (12 & 24 Day Options Available)

Are you ready for the sexiest Christmas countdown ever? Lovehoney have launched their brand-new sex toy advent calendars for 2024, and I’m excited to share all the exquisitely erotic details with you! The star of the show this year is the Lovehoney 24-Day Womanizer Sex Toy Advent Calendar 2024.

Halloween Sex Toys & Spooky Pleasure Guide: The Best Kinky Treats for October

Halloween sex toys are the perfect excuse for spooky pleasure. In this updated guide I round up glow-in-the-dark treats, monster dildos, app-control thrills, BDSM and e-stim ideas, plus hands-free machines for a deliciously wicked night in.

Gay Sex Toys Guide: Adult Toys for Gay Lovers & Lesbian Couples

Love is love, and it deserves to be fully celebrated in all its forms. Read on to discover my gay sex toys guide, where I’ll be showcasing adult toys ideal for gay couples, to enhance your intimate and passionate private time together.

Penis Masturbators Guide: Cock Strokers That’ll Blow Your… Mind

Do you opt for a lubed up ‘hand solo’ or have you got a favourite penis stroker toy? If you’re here because you’re wondering if you can improve on what you’ve got, and enjoy spectacular orgasms by travelling a different route to usual, you’re in luck. Today I’m talking about cock strokers that’ll blow your mind, in a penis masturbators guide offering you the best toys whatever your budget.

G-Spot Toys Guide: Discover Intense Pleasure with G-Stim Vibrators & Dildos

In the world of sexuality and intimate pleasure, there is a lot of talk about the G-spot. This may raise several questions for you, such as what is the G-spot? Why is it called that? Does it really exist? Where is the G-spot and how can you stimulate it effectively? What are the best G-stim vibrators & dildos to use? Welcome to my G-Spot Toys guide!

Bathmate Penis Pumps Guide: Hydro, HydroMax & HydroXtreme

Bathmate is undoubtedly the name when it comes to trusted and reliable penis pumps. Their pumps and phallic enhancement products are the result of constant research and development tweaks, alongside real user feedback. Bathmate penis pumps are hydrotherapy-based, hence the ‘bath’ part of the brand name. How do they work – and do they actually work?

Penis Pumps Guide: How To Get A Bigger Cock & Stronger Erections

Welcome to my penis pumps guide! If you’re wondering how to get a bigger cock and enjoy stronger erections, you’re in the right place. In this article I will be explaining what a penis pump is, how to use them safely, if they really work and how to choose the best penis pump for you.

12 Days of Festive Romance: Romantic Christmas Ideas for Couples

Romantic Christmas ideas for couples do not need to be complicated. If it is just the two of you this year, or you are carving out some precious alone time, here are twelve festive ways to reconnect, play and make Christmas deliciously sexy.

Sexy Christmas Gifts: Festive Toys & Luxury Presents for Couples

Sexy Christmas gifts are the perfect way to add romance and pleasure to the holidays. In this guide I share festive-themed toys and luxury presents couples can buy and enjoy together, all from trusted...

Christmas Themed Sex Toys: Candy Cane Dildos, Santa Vibrators & Festive Fun

Christmas sex toys are the cheekiest way to add festive sparkle to your pleasure. In this guide I round up my favourite novelty designs for the season, from candy cane dildos to Santa vibrators and more.