Celebrating Women’s Sexuality: Overcoming Shame Through Pleasure
For centuries, women’s sexuality has been silenced, shamed, mocked and dismissed as irrelevant. The Cara Sutra sex blog is my way of being loud and proud about my sexual pleasure, while sharing my experience and advice for the enjoyment of my readers. Today I am specifically focusing on celebrating women’s sexuality, exploring how women of the modern world are fighting shame with pleasure and slowly turning the tide on long-standing myths and stigma.
50 Kinky Tasks a Domme Can Give Her Sub
When you're a Dominant Woman in control of a male submissive or slave, consensually as part of the FemDom aspect of BDSM, one of the most rewarding elements of this dynamic is setting tasks for your submissive to obediently complete. I have recently written about the methods a Dominant Woman may use to exert control over her sub, but today I want to provide a handy list of 50 kinky tasks a Domme can give her sub or slave.
Bondage Furniture Guide: How to Create Your Own BDSM Dungeon
Today I'm providing a versatile, discreet and pleasurable bondage furniture guide (and other sex accoutrements options) for your home. These options don't necessarily scream "red room of pain" - but with a little creativity, they can be just as thrilling. Whether you're after compact, multi-functional, or simply hidden-in-plain-sight styles, here's how to craft a BDSM dungeon at home even if you don't have as much room as your local fetish club.
Sleeping in Bondage: How to Safely Kink Your Bedtime
Have you ever slept in bondage? Would you? There are some fascinating psychological aspects as to why someone would want to sleep in bondage, as well as important safety considerations to consider. Let’s take a closer look at overnight restraint – and how to safely kink up your bedtime.
Sardax FemDom Art: Exploring Erotic Dominant Women
If you love FemDom, then you’re in for a treat with Sardax FemDom Art. I have an enduring love for these imaginative, inspirational and highly kinky illustrations from globally renowned artist, Sardax. His artistic depictions skilfully combine elements of Female Dominance, sensuality, delicious cruelty and male submission like nothing I’ve found elsewhere.
Dolcett Erotic Art: Vore, Fantasy and Culture
Dolcett art is a subgenre of fetish artwork which is undoubtedly extreme and therefore controversial. It explores themes of vore, cannibalism and extreme BDSM. On the surface, Dolcett artwork is simply shocking, but looking a little deeper we find that the imagery taps into psychological themes of power, control and transgression. This risky and risqué art blurs the line between fascination and fear, in a way which stirs a unique blend of eroticism and excitement for its many fans.
Temperature Play in the Bedroom: Blow Hot and Cold for Pleasure
As the darker nights of autumn and the frosty chill of winter sets in, staying cosy at home and enjoying the romance of candles or fairy lights is extremely appealing. Today I want to share my guide to temperature play in the bedroom, advice which will help you blow hot & cold during sex no matter what the weather is like outside your bedroom window.
How Women Get Pleasure From Pegging and Strap-On Sex
I don’t enjoy a slave’s physical stimulation from being anally pegged, it is more about a display of my power as the Top, a physical conquest of their body as well as their mind, plus there is always a chastity requirement in place with my submissives so they are not allowed to reach or experience orgasm.
Forniphilia: The Human Furniture Fetish
I wanted to write about being treated like furniture in the BDSM world not only because I have a personal interest in this kink, but also to help you understand the human furniture fetish from both the rigger and recipient’s point of view.
Prostate Milking Guide: Health Benefits and P-Spot Stimulation
Last Updated: September 2025 -
Stimulation of this fascinating part of the anatomy can not only lead to the most powerful orgasms you’ve ever had, but there are also various health benefits as a bonus. Welcome to your simple guide to prostate milking, in which I’ll also examine the potential health benefits of P-spot stimulation.
Cannibal Kink: Erotic Vore and Devouring Fantasies
For some, the idea of cannibalism arouses and excites the sexual part of their psyche. Why do some people have a cannibal kink? In this feature, I explore the heart of sexy cannibalism and take a look at what motivates an erotic fascination with the taboo practice of devouring human flesh.
How to Be Dominant Outside the Bedroom: 12 Lifestyle BDSM Tips
What if you and your partner would like a more 'everyday' style of Dom and sub relationship? A consensual power exchange which isn’t limited to kinky play sessions in the bedroom, but enhances every part of your life together? In today’s article I will explore lifestyle BDSM from the Dom’s point of view, revealing how to be Dominant outside the bedroom.
How to Be Dominant in the Bedroom: 12 Kinky Sex Tips
How can you exude confidence, assertiveness, and that irresistible Dominant streak? What are some handy ways to tap into consensual cruelty and punish your eager partner? And how do you overcome shyness and nervous giggles? In today’s article I’m sharing my 12 tips on how to be Dominant in the bedroom.
Selling Your Used Panties: A Beginner’s Guide
Welcome to the intriguing world of panty selling – a unique side hustle that's not only financially rewarding but also a journey of self-discovery. Selling used panties comes with many perks: it's an avenue to boost confidence, embrace sensuality, connect with a community of like-minded individuals, and have fun along the way.
5 Kinky Uses for Christmas Tinsel
Looking for Christmas tinsel kink ideas? In this guide I share five fun and safe ways to use tinsel for festive foreplay and kinky couples’ playtime, turning seasonal sparkle into erotic fun.
What Is Fisting? Safe Guide to Fisting Your Partner
Heard of fisting? This sexual activity isn’t talked about much in the mainstream, but plenty of partners enjoy fisting. You can fist someone vaginally or anally. Because of the shape and size of our hands, even as a closed fist, fisting can seem like a terrifying prospect - something only done by fetishists into sadism and masochism. Today I’m going to thrust into this intriguing and often mysterious activity with both hands...
Ruined Orgasms: How to Do Them and Why People Enjoy Them
While orgasms are not the goal of sex with a partner, they’re often a highlight. Then there are all the orgasms enjoyed by people during solo pleasure sessions – masturbation. Why then, do some people pursue and enjoy a ruined orgasm? What are ruined orgasms? How do you ruin an orgasm, and why on earth would you want to?
Why I Love Locking Men in Chastity Cages: A FemDom View
As the locked chastity continues, I enjoy every renewed realisation that they’re unable to have an erection or an orgasm. Of course, being a cruel and evil Bitch, I heighten the sub/slave’s torment with frequent teasing, whether by words, images or demanding that they perform in various perverted ways for me in person.
What Is a Violet Wand? History, Safety and Kinky Uses
Have you ever heard of violet wands? What is a violet wand? How does it work? Are they safe? Why do they have that name? And how come violet rays are both notorious and popular?
Virgo Style Male Chastity: An Alternative Way to Live Chaste
Regardless of the deep stuff, the erotic benefits to the kinky chaste man are undeniably obvious. If you are in a chastity cage, any sexual activity is an exquisite tease, and the knowledge that this will be ongoing pings your masochism. It can also be pretty mind-blowing wearing a chastity cage day-to-day, knowing it’s not coming off for the bedroom...
