Sexual Accessories Reviews

Sex isn’t just about vibrators, bondage gear, or lingerie—sometimes, the little extras make all the difference. My Sexual Accessories Reviews cover all the essential bedroom enhancers that can improve comfort, pleasure, and overall experience. From lubricants and massage oils to toy cleaners, condoms, and even erotic games, this section is dedicated to everything that supports and elevates your intimate moments.

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What Are Sexual Accessories & Why Do They Matter?

Sexual accessories include everything related to intimacy that isn’t a sex toy or wearable lingerie. These products can help make experiences smoother, safer, more enjoyable, and even more exciting. Whether it’s a luxurious massage candle for setting the mood, a high-quality lube for seamless pleasure, or an anal douche for comfort and confidence, the right accessories can transform your playtime.

Types of Sexual Accessories: The Must-Haves

If you’re wondering which bedroom essentials are worth investing in, here’s a breakdown of some of the most popular and practical sexual accessories I’ve reviewed.

Lubricants: The Ultimate Essential

A good sex lube enhances pleasure and reduces friction, making it a non-negotiable for many kinds of play. Whether you need water-based lube for versatility, silicone lube for long-lasting glide, or hybrid lube for a mix of both, my reviews cover them all—including ingredient breakdowns for those with sensitivities.

Massage Oils & Candles: Set the Mood

Few things are as sensual as a warm massage oil or a luxurious massage candle that melts into body-friendly wax. These products create intimacy, encourage relaxation, and enhance foreplay—discover which ones are worth trying in my detailed reviews.

Condoms & Safer Sex Essentials

Protection should never be an afterthought. My condom reviews explore different materials, textures, and sensations to help you find the perfect fit.

Sex Toy Cleaners & Storage: Keep Things Fresh

Proper care of your sex toys is crucial. My sex toy cleaner reviews ensure you choose a safe and effective solution, while my insights on toy storage help keep your collection discreet and hygienic.

Erotic Games & Romantic Gifts: Fun & Connection

Spice up your love life with adult games and romantic gifts designed to bring couples closer. Whether you’re looking for playful challenges or intimate conversation starters, my reviews highlight the best options.

Find the Best Bedroom Enhancements for You

With so many sexual accessories available, choosing the right ones can be overwhelming. That’s why my sexual accessory reviews provide honest, in-depth insights into what works, what doesn’t, and what’s truly worth adding to your collection.

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DONA by JO Kissable Massage Oil Review: Chocolate Mousse

6 out of 10
The DONA by JO Kissable Massage Oil (Chocolate Mousse scent, Aphrodisiac and Pheromone Infused) proves too much of a good thing can actually be a bad thing. When I first saw The DONA by JO Kissable Massage Oil, my first thought was ‘ A bottle that small wont last long!’ To be fair it is a small bottle but boy was I wrong!

System JO Sex Toy Cleaner Review

9 out of 10
I was delighted to be given the opportunity to test out and review the System JO Sex Toy Cleaner. It comes as a 50.3ml pump dispenser bottle which would make it perfect for taking on travels but I have discovered that it tends to leak unfortunately. The blue and white packaging of the bottle is very unassuming, other than for the red writing 'toy cleaner' on the bottle you wouldn't really know what this was.

System JO Coconut Oil Hybrid Lube Review

4 out of 10
Cara Sutra chose me to review the silicone-free System JO Coconut Oil Hybrid Lube. I was interested in it due to its ingredients. It claims to be a fusion of water and coconut oil. I haven't tried coconut oil as a lubricant but I've heard lots about it, so naturally I was curious.

Cock Candy Vanilla Flavoured Lube Review

1 out of 10
Price:
£5.25
Brand:
MEO
Shop:
MEO.de
Materials:
Water
I jumped at the opportunity to review the Cock Candy Vanilla Flavoured Lube from MEO for the Cara Sutra sex blog. I am always curious about flavoured gels. I like to know if they make any difference to myself or my partner during oral sex.

Cock Candy Cherry Flavoured Lube Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£5.25
Brand:
MEO
Shop:
MEO.de
Materials:
Water
I squeezed a good amount of the Cock Candy Cherry Flavoured Lube on to the penis, what I thought was the right amount to use. I was really expecting to get that awful chemical after-taste you usually get with these kinds of products - you know the one I mean, the one that leaves you gagging for a drink to take the taste away. To my utter surprise this oral sex gel is really tasty and actually tastes like morello cherries.

System JO For Men Pro Longer Desensitising Spray Review

9 out of 10
I was honoured to be selected to review System JO For Men Pro Longer Desensitising Spray, and even more so as this is my very first review :)

System JO Hybrid Lubricant Review

8 out of 10
Overall the System JO Hybrid Lubricant is a nice, almost gel like lubricant which covers well and lasts a good length of time, I did not have to reapply during any of my sessions despite only using a small amount. As a bonus, the handy and compact 30ml sized bottle means it could slip easily into an overnight bag for fun on the move.

MEO Extreme Anal Lube Review

6 out of 10
Price:
£15.00
Brand:
MEO
Shop:
MEO.de
On the cold toys the MEO Extreme Anal Lube was quite thick and I needed, what seemed like, a lot to cover them to my satisfaction. On first insertion the lube was a little “grabby” and not as slippy as I would have liked, but it go better as it warmed up. It became obvious at this point that the numbing effect is only skin deep and didn’t affect the inner sphincter muscles.

Durex Sexlection Gift Box: Sexy Selection Box Reviews

8 out of 10
The brand is best known for their ever-reliable condoms, various types of sexual lubricants as well as introductory sex toys. The launch of the Durex Sexlection Gift Box is an exciting entry for Valentine's Gifts and Christmas Gifts for couples. I hope to publish more sexy selection box reviews here at the Cara Sutra sex blog shortly.

DONA by JO Kissable Massage Oil Review: Chocolate Mousse

7 out of 10
This DONA by JO Kissable Massage Oil (Chocolate Mousse flavour) drew my interest because it was labelled as a pheromone and aphrodisiac oil, and I was very intrigued by the thought of a massage oil that might turn me on. I’ve always ‘suffered’ the age old dilemma after a lovely long massage, of either falling into a satisfied slumber or rolling over and giving my OH the ride of his life. My hope for this massage oil was to help tip the stalemate between sleep and sex in favour of the latter.

System JO For Women Kiss Buzz Vibrating Lip Gloss Review

6 out of 10
System JO is a brand better known for its wide array of lubricants, gels and oils, but here they have expanded their repertoire and added this very intriguingly-named lip gloss into the mix. System JO For Women Kiss Buzz Vibrating Lip Gloss. When you go onto their website, there is not much of a description supplied for this particular product, so I didn't know entirely what to expect.

System JO For Women Agapé Water Based Lube Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£5.95
Brand:
System JO
Materials:
Water
The System JO For Women Agapé Water Based Lube mimics my natural wetness and is a pleasure to wank with. It doesn’t go tacky, a little goes a long way and it leaves no residue afterwards either. It kinda comes out slightly gel like and melts.

System JO H2O Black Licorice Flavoured Lube Review

5 out of 10
Price:
£10.50
Brand:
System JO
Materials:
Water
As soon as I opened it (you have to unscrew it for first use so you can remove the hygiene seal) the scent hit me, and it was not the scent I was expecting. This smelt really intensely of aniseed, and I was strongly reminded of when I was employed as bar staff in a working men’s club and all the little old dears drank Pernod.

System JO H2O Red Licorice Flavoured Lube Review

7 out of 10
Price:
£10.50
Brand:
System JO
Materials:
Water
When I opened the bottle the faint strawberry scent reminded me of something but I just couldn’t put my finger on it. The taste was quite sweet but had a weird slightly aniseed aftertaste that made it taste kind of medicinal. I’m not sure I’d buy it again but I didn’t dislike it. One for quick blow jobs rather than lingering ones I think.

Cock Candy Strawberry Kiwi Flavoured Lube Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£5.25
Brand:
MEO
Shop:
MEO.de
Materials:
Water
Though not as glorious as its sibling, Pina Colada, the Cock Candy Strawberry Kiwi Flavoured Lube is one of the most authentic tasting oral sex gels out there.

Cock Candy Pina Colada Flavoured Lube Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£5.25
Brand:
MEO
Shop:
MEO.de
Materials:
Water
My desire to give all the blow jobs recently went through the roof. Why? This Cock Candy Pina Colada Flavoured Lube from MEO. The stuff is delicious! Seriously, if it was even remotely sensible I’d be happy to stick it and a shot of Bacardi in a glass and slam it. I’ve had pre-packaged Pina Coladas that weren’t nearly as tasty as this, and although it has the same kind of sweetness you get from a pre-made cocktail, you don’t get the artificial, chemically aftertaste associated with many flavoured lubes. Bonus!

System JO Oral Delight Arousal Gel Peppermint Review

1 out of 10
In the end - five hours later - she was still sore and uncomfortable, we tried more traditional sexual activity and succeeded, but still with tenderness and a little too much discomfort to be fully pleasurable and now more than 12 hours later she is still in a bit of discomfort.

Lovehoney Cherry Scent Lickable Massage Candle Review

10 out of 10
By Pinkgilly15 I love a massage - who doesn't? I enjoy a little wax play too, it's great fun and something well worth considering if you want to spice things up. The Lovehoney Cherry Lickable Massage Candle went even further as it combines wax play and erotic massage all in one.

System JO Cranberry Massage Glide Lube Review

4 out of 10
Testing the System JO Cranberry Massage Glide Lube turned out to be quite a journey for me. I went from loving it, to rather blasé feelings, and ultimately now find it quite a chore to use! Never before has a lube started off so promising and ended up being overlooked in the end by my other options.
Pjur Med After Shave Calming and Moisturizing Spray Review

Pjur Med Post-Shave Calming Spray Review

9 out of 10
I jumped at the chance to review the Pjur Med Post-Shave Calming Spray on behalf of the lovely Cara Sutra. I have been looking for a product for a long time that relieves the nasties that come with shaving. In fact, I usually epilate but as this isn't always possible (it's very time consuming!) I was looking for something to soothe my sensitive skin.