Sexuality Articles

Sexuality articles that explore pleasure, desire, relationships, identity and real-life intimacy.

Welcome to my Sexuality Articles hub. This is where I keep the wider, deeper pieces that sit around sex advice and practical tips. Think sexuality in the big sense: pleasure, relationships, confidence, connection, self-discovery, boundaries, identity, and the emotional reality of desire. If you want writing that’s sex-positive, grounded and human, you’ll find plenty to explore here. This archive brings together years of writing on sexuality, pleasure, desire and the realities of real-life intimacy.

I use this category name on purpose, because it gives me room to talk about sexuality without stepping on the toes of my more specific hubs. So if you’re looking for targeted guidance, you might prefer my Sex Advice section, or browse Masturbation Guides and Relationship Advice. If you want broader, more reflective sexuality content, you’re in the right place.

What You’ll Find In My Sexuality Articles

This category gathers articles across many aspects of sexuality, pleasure and relationships, including:

  • Pleasure, orgasm, arousal and the messy reality of what actually feels good
  • Desire and libido changes, including why it shifts and how to work with it rather than against it
  • Sexual confidence, body comfort and feeling more at home in your own skin
  • Solo pleasure, self-discovery and exploration in my masturbation guides
  • Sex, relationships and emotional intimacy, alongside my relationship advice archive
  • Kink-aware reflections and deeper dives, with routes into kinky sex advice and BDSM advice
  • Seasonal and special-topic sexuality content via Seasonal Sex Articles

How I Write About Sexuality

I’m not interested in shame, fear-based messaging, or the idea that there’s one right way to be sexual. I write about sexuality as something lived, evolving and deeply personal, shaped by real lived experiences rather than theory alone. Sometimes you’ll find practical guidance here. Other times you’ll find perspective, reassurance, and the kind of insight that only comes from being honest about the awkward bits as well as the fun ones.

You’ll also see guest contributions in this section from time to time, because sexuality is never one voice, one body, or one story. I keep it inclusive, curious and real, without pretending that every experience is the same.

Featured Topics

Browse popular sexuality topics and relationship themes, and explore the areas that interest you most.

Scroll down to explore the latest sexuality articles and insights.

Last-Minute Christmas Sex Toy Gifts: Rechargeable Doxy Wand, Lush 4, The Rose Toy

Read on for my top choices for last-minute Christmas sex toy gifts with fast delivery. In this festive sex toy roundup, I’m sharing my 3 best sex toy gift ideas that you can buy close to Christmas which will seriously impress: the Rechargeable Doxy Wand, the Lush 4 and The Rose Toy.

Festive Bondage: How to Tie with Tinsel, Ribbon and Holiday Rope

For kinky couples, festive bondage brings the magical sparkle of Christmas into the bedroom. It seems a shame to waste all your dressing skills with tinsel, ribbon and coloured rope just on the tree; with a little imagination you can enjoy decorating your partner. Read on for my Christmas bondage ideas...

12 Days of Kinkmas: Daily BDSM Challenges for Couples

Christmas is full of heartwarming emotion, indulgence and rituals. For kinky couples, the festive season provides the perfect opportunity to create new, intimate traditions which include evocative bondage, spanking and power exchange. That’s where the 12 Days of Kinkmas comes in, providing daily BDSM challenges for couples and ways to connect through kink over the holidays.

Kinky Stocking Fillers: Best Small BDSM Gifts for Doms, subs & Couples

Christmas stockings are usually filled with safe little presents like soap and socks. Are there any kinky stocking fillers for kinky couples to gift each other at this most wonderful time of the year?...

Sexy Stocking Fillers: Best Small Sex Toys That Deliver Big Pleasure

Curious about what you’ll find in your Christmas stockings this year? If you’re a sexy fun-loving couple ready to celebrate all the erotic potential of the festive season, you’ll love today’s guide. I’m sharing my top recommendations for sexy stocking fillers; small sex toys and little erotic bedroom treats that deliver big pleasure all year long, not just through the holidays.

Kinky Christmas Gifts: The Best BDSM Toys for Couples to Give (and Receive)

Couples who play together, stay together. If you’re the kinky types, skip the bath sets and boring perfume. This year, slip something thrilling under the tree. Kinky Christmas gifts go beyond “I love you”, they add “I want to play with you, claim you, indulge in intense & delicious power exchange fun with you.” But what are the best BDSM toys for couples to give and receive?
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Pain During Sex: Why Painful Intercourse Happens And How To Fix It

Painful intercourse can occur at any stage of life, to anyone. When it happens, it isn’t a sign of failure or that something is intrinsically wrong with you. Sexual pain is your body sending you a message: something needs to be adjusted or changed. Take heart (and notes) from today’s advice guide on this subject, and you will soon be on your way back to comfortable, pleasurable sex.

How to Last Longer During Sex: Real Ways to Increase Stamina & Pleasure

How to last longer during sex is a question I’m asked frequently by readers. But really, enjoyment of sex comes from so many other factors than attempting a marathon thrust session. It’s about confidence, awareness and exploring each other intimately with the genuine desire to evoke maximum levels of psychological as well as physical pleasure.

The Art of Companionship: Why the Escort Experience Is Evolving in Modern Romance

In a world of swipes and screens, genuine connection has become the rarest luxury - and the ultimate expression of modern romance.

What Is Gooning? Riding The Pleasure Trance on the Edge of Orgasm

What is gooning? I hear you ask. Some of you might know exactly what it is, but gooning was new to me (the phrase, certainly not the activity!) so of course I did my research. This prolonged dance on the edge of orgasm is extremely interesting to me, as I’ve long been fascinated by the altered mind state that happens through masturbatory edging and repeated orgasm tease and denial.

Trick or Tease: 13 Kinky Halloween Sex Games for Dominants and Submissives

D/s is a serious thing, with a foundation of consent, trust and two-way communication. But it’s also supposed to be fun, and I’ll let you into a secret: you’re allowed to have a laugh. In today’s article I will share 13 kinky Halloween games which lean into themes of Dominance and submission, with bondage, roleplay and punishment themes featuring heavily. Ready to stir up some spooky mischief?

Monster Sex Fantasies Kink: Tentacles, Werewolves and Erotic Fear Play

Monster sex fantasies are the result of a primal force within us. These taboo desires blur the line between desire and danger, where pleasure is laced with fear. What do you dream about pleasurably devouring you?

Vampire Fetish Guide: Biting, Blood and BDSM Power Exchange

Through the centuries, there have always been people with a vampire fetish, folk fascinated with these elegantly erotic predators. Vampires may be dark and deadly, but they’re also incredibly alluring and seductive, with a commanding presence, otherworldly creature vibes and tantalising immortality. Sharp fangs and pale skin are the finishing touches to the power theme which blends Domination, submission and blood.

The Real Monster Mash: Scary Strokers for Spooky Solo Sex

Ready to face your most frightening fuck fantasies this Halloween? Grab a comforting blanket and a bottle of thick ‘n slick lube because I’m diving into the most creepy creature penis toys around. Whether you’re hunting tentacle textures or dreaming of gliding past vampire fangs, this guide to scary strokers rounds up the most popular monster masturbators and fantasy sleeves for daring Halloween thrills and year-round chills.

Sexy Horror Movies That Will Get Your Pulse Racing

So many of us have a thing for sexy horror movies. Yeah, the jump scares are fun, but what about the electrifying undercurrent of eroticism? Blood-red lips, vulnerable victims, lustful monsters, screams that sound suspiciously like moans... Oh yeah. There’s a whole lot more to horror cinema than fancying a Hollywood fright night.

Kinky Halloween Costumes: Sexy Dress-Up Ideas for Dominants and Submissives

Kinky Halloween costumes help you make the most of this dark and daring time of year, offering kinksters a fun, easy way to celebrate all things deliciously deviant. You might be more familiar with regular ghost or zombie costumes during Samhain celebrations, but my alternative Halloween dress-up guide will help you find BDSM Halloween costume ideas instead.

BDSM Symbols and Meanings: Triskelion, Flags and Collars Explained

Curious about BDSM symbols? This guide explains the BDSM triskelion, the BDSM flag, and other icons that represent kink culture and community. Learn their history, meaning, and how they are used today. Why Are Symbols...

The BDSM Rights Flag: Meaning, Colours and History

The BDSM Rights Flag is a symbol designed to represent consent, visibility and recognition for people within the BDSM community. This guide explains its origins, colours, design and how it is used today.

Ovipositor Dildos: Alien Egg-Laying Fantasy Sex Toys Explained

Curious about ovipositors? You should be. These alien egg-laying fantasy toys are the pinnacle of perverse penetrative dildo design, showstopping spectacles of texture with xenomorph tentacles and otherworldly nodules to visually arouse and internally thrill.

Can I Put Ice in My Ass? Anal Play With Ice Cubes

Experimenting with hot and cold during sex & masturbation can help you discover new ways your body likes to be stimulated, and it’s so easy to do. It’s vital to stay safe in all your explorations though. Sliding ice over your erogenous zones is one thing. But using ice cubes for anal pleasure? I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s idly wondered, ‘Can I put ice in my ass?’