Sexuality Articles

Sexuality Articles – Explore, Learn & Enjoy

Sex and sexuality are vast, ever-evolving topics, and my sexuality articles dive deep into all aspects of pleasure, relationships, and self-discovery. Whether you’re looking for practical sex tips, relationship advice, or insight into the world of kink, you’ll find plenty to explore here.

Advice for Every Aspect of Intimacy

From solo pleasure to partnered experiences, my articles cover the best ways to enhance your sex life. Whether you want to spice things up with new techniques, navigate relationship challenges, or learn how to introduce sex toys into your play, my expert insights and guest contributions provide helpful, real-world advice.

Kink, BDSM & Exploring Your Desires

For those drawn to the darker, more adventurous side of sex, my blog features guides on BDSM, power exchange, and impact play. Whether you’re new to kink or an experienced player, my sexuality articles include safety tips, how-to guides, and personal experiences to help you explore with confidence.

Seasonal & Special Features

Throughout the year, I highlight key events such as LGBTQ+ Pride Month, National Orgasm Day, and Valentine’s Day. I also share fun, seasonal articles to inspire you during Christmas, Halloween, and summer flings.

Read, Learn & Enjoy

My sexuality articles are informative, inclusive, and sex-positive. Whether you're here for education, inspiration, or pure enjoyment, I hope you find exactly what you're looking for. Dive in and explore the world of sexuality today!

Dolcett Girls: Vore Erotic Artwork To Be Devoured

Dolcett art is a subgenre of fetish artwork which is undoubtedly extreme and therefore controversial. It explores themes of vore, cannibalism and extreme BDSM. On the surface, Dolcett artwork is simply shocking, but looking a little deeper we find that the imagery taps into psychological themes of power, control and transgression. This risky and risqué art blurs the line between fascination and fear, in a way which stirs a unique blend of eroticism and excitement for its many fans.

How to Self-Test for HIV at Home: A Step-by-Step Guide (with Video)

Did you know you can easily and confidentially self-test for HIV at home? Knowing your HIV status is one of the most important steps you can take for your health. Yet, more than 1 in 7 people living with HIV worldwide are unaware they have the virus.

Is It OK To Gift My Friend A Vibrator? Or Too Weird?

I declare my love of vibrators loud and proud for all to hear here at the Cara Sutra sex blog of course, but away from the web I find myself talking about them with open-minded, sex-positive friends, too. What about giving sex toys as gifts? Would a sex toy make a bold, empowering present, or an awkward, never-spoken-of-again mistake? In today’s feature, I’m exploring whether it’s OK to gift a friend a vibrator, or if it’s just too weird.

How to Write a Love Letter That Captures Your True Feelings

You don’t need to be Shakespeare or Keats; you just need to set aside a little time and thought, then do your best to express yourself on the paper. No-one will be grading it or judging it – your partner is sure to be moved by your best efforts. In today’s feature, I’ll be providing my 8 tips on how to write a love letter that captures your true feelings.

Allowing Sadness Without Guilt

Allowing Sadness Without Guilt On reflection, I felt a lot of pressure to conform to fake happiness when I was a child – a girl child, Gen X, raised by boomer parents in a small...

New Year 2025: Out With New, in with Gently Adjusted Familiarity

Don’t completely change. Don’t transform into an entirely new, unrecognisable you. Out with the new, and in with being kind to yourself, being careful and gentle. In with the idea that, if you feel inclined to introduce any life changes at all, go for gently adjusted familiarity.

Are Glass Sex Toys Safe? Self-Pleasure Safety with Glass Dildos

I still come across people who are shocked to learn that glass is a material used to make sex toys. Today I want to explore the misunderstood realm of glass adult products, dispelling myths, revealing the facts behind the specific type of glass to make these products, and the dos and don’ts of self-pleasure safety with glass dildos.

How to Jelq: Can Jelqing Enlarge Your Penis?

Got a penis? Want a bigger one? Who doesn’t, right? In my recent features showcasing the Bathmate penis pumps collection and my main penis pumps guide, I mentioned a penis enlargement technique called jelqing. Can jelqing enlarge your penis? In today’s sexual health article, I discuss the jelqing technique, covering how to jelq, if jelqing can really give you a bigger cock - and any potential side effects.

Perimenopause Update 2024: The Year I Fought Back & Changed My Life

2024 has been the year I fought back against the tricky beast of perimenopause, but the fight has taken a different form to my usual stubbornly defiant style of battle. I now understand why they call it the change; not just because of the physical changes imposed upon me, but because I have had to change how I live in the everyday, and the change has been both monumental and magnificent.

Temperature Play in the Bedroom: Blow Hot & Cold During Sex!

As the darker nights of autumn and the frosty chill of winter sets in, staying cosy at home and enjoying the romance of candles or fairy lights is extremely appealing. Today I want to share my guide to temperature play in the bedroom, advice which will help you blow hot & cold during sex no matter what the weather is like outside your bedroom window.

Your Guide to Buying Comfortable Sexy Lingerie

With some shops offering lingerie sets in dress sizes (which may or may not resemble the actual size stated), and others opting for the vague ‘small, medium and large’ style sizing, buying lingerie that fits and flatters your body can feel like an impossible task. Welcome to my guide to buying comfortable sexy lingerie...

Nipple Play Toys Guide & Our Nipple Clamp Reviews

In today’s guide, I am exploring this intriguing area of sexuality, and the nipple play toys that can maximise your pleasure during solo or shared sexual playtimes. As well as discovering the various types of nipple stim toys (tickle, suck or pinch), you will find links to helpful nipple clamp reviews from the community and myself.

How A Woman Gets Pleasure From Pegging Men & Strap-On Sex

I don’t enjoy a slave’s physical stimulation from being anally pegged, it is more about a display of my power as the Top, a physical conquest of their body as well as their mind, plus there is always a chastity requirement in place with my submissives so they are not allowed to reach or experience orgasm.

Forniphilia: Understanding the Human Furniture Role Play Kink

I wanted to write about being treated like furniture in the BDSM world not only because I have a personal interest in this kink, but also to help you understand the furniture role-play kink from both the rigger and recipient’s point of view.

Guide to Prostate Massagers & P-Spot Toys

Although I spoke briefly about P-spot stimulation devices in my recent blog post, today I want to offer a deep delve into prostate toys. Welcome to my guide to prostate massagers, where I’ll outline what specifically makes a toy a prostate massager and the most effective P-spot toys available.

Guide To Prostate Milking & The Health Benefits Of P-Spot Stimulation

Stimulation of this fascinating part of the anatomy can not only lead to the most powerful orgasms you’ve ever had, but there are also various health benefits as a bonus. Welcome to your simple guide to prostate milking, in which I’ll also examine the potential health benefits of P-spot stimulation.

Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildos Prime Silicone Tops Collection

The Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildo is ingeniously modular, meaning you can buy the base toy and choose which of the silicone attachments/toppers you’d like to use with it. There’s a wide variety of silicone tops to choose from, and the generous team sent me the whole collection to try out. Welcome to my Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildos Prime Silicone Tops Collection showcase!

Bondara Sex Toy Advent Calendars 2024 (12-Day & 24-Day Options)

The Bondara Sex Toy Advent Calendars 2024 are now available to buy! There’s a 12-day option and a 24-day option, both of which offer a huge discount on the sex toys contained inside, compared to buying them all separately. And of course, you get the excitement of a saucy surprise to share with your lucky partner with every new, alluringly mysterious package.

Lovehoney Sex Toy Advent Calendars 2024 (12 & 24 Day Options Available)

Are you ready for the sexiest Christmas countdown ever? Lovehoney have launched their brand-new sex toy advent calendars for 2024, and I’m excited to share all the exquisitely erotic details with you! The star of the show this year is the Lovehoney 24-Day Womanizer Sex Toy Advent Calendar 2024.

Adult Halloween Party Games

For all those planning a Halloween party for their adult friends, I thought I’d ‘treat’ you to some of my favourite adult Halloween party games. These games are perfect for those who are a little older, but can be adapted for younger children to play too. Enjoy!