Sexuality Articles

Sexuality articles that explore pleasure, desire, relationships, identity and real-life intimacy.

Welcome to my Sexuality Articles hub. This is where I keep the wider, deeper pieces that sit around sex advice and practical tips. Think sexuality in the big sense: pleasure, relationships, confidence, connection, self-discovery, boundaries, identity, and the emotional reality of desire. If you want writing that’s sex-positive, grounded and human, you’ll find plenty to explore here. This archive brings together years of writing on sexuality, pleasure, desire and the realities of real-life intimacy.

I use this category name on purpose, because it gives me room to talk about sexuality without stepping on the toes of my more specific hubs. So if you’re looking for targeted guidance, you might prefer my Sex Advice section, or browse Masturbation Guides and Relationship Advice. If you want broader, more reflective sexuality content, you’re in the right place.

What You’ll Find In My Sexuality Articles

This category gathers articles across many aspects of sexuality, pleasure and relationships, including:

  • Pleasure, orgasm, arousal and the messy reality of what actually feels good
  • Desire and libido changes, including why it shifts and how to work with it rather than against it
  • Sexual confidence, body comfort and feeling more at home in your own skin
  • Solo pleasure, self-discovery and exploration in my masturbation guides
  • Sex, relationships and emotional intimacy, alongside my relationship advice archive
  • Kink-aware reflections and deeper dives, with routes into kinky sex advice and BDSM advice
  • Seasonal and special-topic sexuality content via Seasonal Sex Articles

How I Write About Sexuality

I’m not interested in shame, fear-based messaging, or the idea that there’s one right way to be sexual. I write about sexuality as something lived, evolving and deeply personal, shaped by real lived experiences rather than theory alone. Sometimes you’ll find practical guidance here. Other times you’ll find perspective, reassurance, and the kind of insight that only comes from being honest about the awkward bits as well as the fun ones.

You’ll also see guest contributions in this section from time to time, because sexuality is never one voice, one body, or one story. I keep it inclusive, curious and real, without pretending that every experience is the same.

Featured Topics

Browse popular sexuality topics and relationship themes, and explore the areas that interest you most.

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Orgasm Education: Myth-Busting and Sexual Climax Facts

The purpose of this topic hub is to bring together all my orgasm related articles and guides on one handy page. From here, you can navigate straight to the information you're after: the different types of orgasm you may experience, widespread orgasm myths that sex blogs like mine seek to eradicate, anatomy education to help you achieve the highest levels of pleasure you can, and practical ways people can more reliably bring themselves or their partner to orgasm.

What Is Squirting? The Tell-All Guide (From Someone Who’s Never Done It)

I've never squirted. But I have experienced squirting. Confused? Don't worry, I'll explain fully later on. First, let's actually talk about what squirting is, because it's rarely explained properly. The conversation gets stuck somewhere between porn myths, locker-room boasting and well-meaning but ultimately empty wellness articles promising "unlock your G-spot in five steps." None of that's actually helpful if you're sitting there wondering what the hell is going on with your body, or your partner's, or why there's a wet patch on the sheets (or, why you can't achieve one).

Husband Hated Sex Toys—Until This Magic Wand Vibrator Changed Us

Available exclusively through WomanGift at www.womangift.com, the Womangift GAIA Magic Vibrating Wand is designed specifically for women who want powerful, versatile pleasure without complexity. Marketed as the ultimate adult sex toy for women and couples, this wand-style vibrator delivers the intensity of a classic magic wand with modern upgrades.

Do Vibrators Desensitise You? The Truth About Sensitivity and “Addiction”

Do vibrators desensitise you? I hear this worry about sex toys quite regularly from readers; that using vibrating toys leads to desensitisation of the body and reliance on them, so that you're unable to orgasm without using a vibrator. Is there any truth to this fear, or is it yet another sex toy myth? That's the heart of today's feature, where I'll answer this question with calm, clear facts backed up by medical research and scientific evidence.

Turning Post-Sex Clean-Up Into Intimate Reconnection

Real sex is often hot, sweaty, squelchy, messy. Once the lusty passion is quenched, you're left breathless, exhausted... and needing a wash. Today I want to talk about the part you don’t often see discussed in sex advice articles: cleaning up after sex. There are loads of ways to turn post-sex clean-up into intimate reconnection, making this practical aspect romantic and an additional way for you to demonstrate your care for each other.

Is It OK To Share Sex Toys? Safety, Hygiene & Pleasure Tips

As well as couples passing toys between each other during foreplay and sex, sharing kink equipment in the BDSM scene happens frequently too. Today I’m answering the question lurking behind this common practice: Is it OK to share sex toys? Yes, it can be. You need to handle hygiene, consent and materials properly.
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The Rise and Impact of Interactive Sex Toys Worldwide

Long-distance relationships thrive because of interactive sex toys. Remote control helps couples maintain intimacy through live sextoy sessions. Partners can hand over control to each other in real time or synchronize their toys for extra connection. Speaking of synchronization, this is the technology that creates mind-blowing multisensory experiences.
How to Increase Your Sex Drive Real Ways to Boost Desire

How to Increase Your Sex Drive: Gentle, Real Ways to Reignite Desire

The common problem of low libido is usually your nervous system begging for rest, softness and space rather than stimulation. Today’s guide offers tips to increase your sex drive, exploring real ways to boost desire and get your sex life back on track.

Why Needing Lube Isn’t a Sign You’re Broken

Sexual lubricant should be used with enthusiasm and pride; it’s a pleasure tool which makes pretty much every kind of sex activity feel better. It adds glide to the ride, transforms sticky moments into erotic slipperiness. Needing lube isn’t a sign you’re broken - it means that you prioritise comfort and sensuality in your sex life.

Last-Minute Christmas Sex Toy Gifts: Rechargeable Doxy Wand, Lush 4, The Rose Toy

Read on for my top choices for last-minute Christmas sex toy gifts with fast delivery. In this festive sex toy roundup, I’m sharing my 3 best sex toy gift ideas that you can buy close to Christmas which will seriously impress: the Rechargeable Doxy Wand, the Lush 4 and The Rose Toy.

Festive Bondage: How to Tie with Tinsel, Ribbon and Holiday Rope

For kinky couples, festive bondage brings the magical sparkle of Christmas into the bedroom. It seems a shame to waste all your dressing skills with tinsel, ribbon and coloured rope just on the tree; with a little imagination you can enjoy decorating your partner. Read on for my Christmas bondage ideas...

12 Days of Kinkmas: Daily BDSM Challenges for Couples

Christmas is full of heartwarming emotion, indulgence and rituals. For kinky couples, the festive season provides the perfect opportunity to create new, intimate traditions which include evocative bondage, spanking and power exchange. That’s where the 12 Days of Kinkmas comes in, providing daily BDSM challenges for couples and ways to connect through kink over the holidays.

Kinky Stocking Fillers: Best Small BDSM Gifts for Doms, subs & Couples

Christmas stockings are usually filled with safe little presents like soap and socks. Are there any kinky stocking fillers for kinky couples to gift each other at this most wonderful time of the year?...

Sexy Stocking Fillers: Best Small Sex Toys That Deliver Big Pleasure

Curious about what you’ll find in your Christmas stockings this year? If you’re a sexy fun-loving couple ready to celebrate all the erotic potential of the festive season, you’ll love today’s guide. I’m sharing my top recommendations for sexy stocking fillers; small sex toys and little erotic bedroom treats that deliver big pleasure all year long, not just through the holidays.

Kinky Christmas Gifts: The Best BDSM Toys for Couples to Give (and Receive)

Couples who play together, stay together. If you’re the kinky types, skip the bath sets and boring perfume. This year, slip something thrilling under the tree. Kinky Christmas gifts go beyond “I love you”, they add “I want to play with you, claim you, indulge in intense & delicious power exchange fun with you.” But what are the best BDSM toys for couples to give and receive?
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Pain During Sex: Why Painful Intercourse Happens And How To Fix It

Painful intercourse can occur at any stage of life, to anyone. When it happens, it isn’t a sign of failure or that something is intrinsically wrong with you. Sexual pain is your body sending you a message: something needs to be adjusted or changed. Take heart (and notes) from today’s advice guide on this subject, and you will soon be on your way back to comfortable, pleasurable sex.

How to Last Longer During Sex: Real Ways to Increase Stamina & Pleasure

How to last longer during sex is a question I’m asked frequently by readers. But really, enjoyment of sex comes from so many other factors than attempting a marathon thrust session. It’s about confidence, awareness and exploring each other intimately with the genuine desire to evoke maximum levels of psychological as well as physical pleasure.

The Art of Companionship: Why the Escort Experience Is Evolving in Modern Romance

In a world of swipes and screens, genuine connection has become the rarest luxury - and the ultimate expression of modern romance.

What Is Gooning? Welcome To The Goon Cave

What is gooning? I hear you ask. Some of you might know exactly what it is, but gooning was new to me (the phrase, certainly not the activity!) so of course I did my research. This prolonged dance on the edge of orgasm is extremely interesting to me, as I’ve long been fascinated by the altered mind state that happens through extended masturbation, as well as orgasm tease and denial. Gooning is a trance-like style of self-pleasure where the goal isn't orgasm but sustained arousal, with the mind drifting into a floaty, immersive state often called the goon cave.

Trick or Tease: 13 Kinky Halloween Sex Games for Dominants and Submissives

D/s is a serious thing, with a foundation of consent, trust and two-way communication. But it’s also supposed to be fun, and I’ll let you into a secret: you’re allowed to have a laugh. In today’s article I will share 13 kinky Halloween games which lean into themes of Dominance and submission, with bondage, roleplay and punishment themes featuring heavily. Ready to stir up some spooky mischief?