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Sexuality Articles – Explore, Learn & Enjoy

Sex and sexuality are vast, ever-evolving topics, and my sexuality articles dive deep into all aspects of pleasure, relationships, and self-discovery. Whether you’re looking for practical sex tips, relationship advice, or insight into the world of kink, you’ll find plenty to explore here.

Advice for Every Aspect of Intimacy

From solo pleasure to partnered experiences, my articles cover the best ways to enhance your sex life. Whether you want to spice things up with new techniques, navigate relationship challenges, or learn how to introduce sex toys into your play, my expert insights and guest contributions provide helpful, real-world advice.

Kink, BDSM & Exploring Your Desires

For those drawn to the darker, more adventurous side of sex, my blog features guides on BDSM, power exchange, and impact play. Whether you’re new to kink or an experienced player, my sexuality articles include safety tips, how-to guides, and personal experiences to help you explore with confidence.

Seasonal & Special Features

Throughout the year, I highlight key events such as LGBTQ+ Pride Month, National Orgasm Day, and Valentine’s Day. I also share fun, seasonal articles to inspire you during Christmas, Halloween, and summer flings.

Read, Learn & Enjoy

My sexuality articles are informative, inclusive, and sex-positive. Whether you're here for education, inspiration, or pure enjoyment, I hope you find exactly what you're looking for. Dive in and explore the world of sexuality today!

Best BDSM Dating Sites 2025

11 Best BDSM Dating Sites for Fetish Dating (2025)

Tired of shooting arrows in the dark when looking for fulfilling fetish relationships on traditional dating sites? These top 11 BDSM dating sites offer the best fetish dating and hookup platforms right now. The sites in our top picks today promise active fetish-loving members, kinky features, and other sweet perks to help you find your key to the dungeon.

Seks op Webcam: 5 Beste Camsites met Live Seks Camshows in 2025 (18+)

Wat doe jij als je wat tijd voor jezelf hebt en je geil voelt? De pornosites uitpluizen, een oude Playboy erbij pakken, of op zoek gaan naar de heetste meiden op seks webcams? Wij weten...
Lad Culture How Sexist Phrases About Women Are Still Thriving

Lad Culture: How Sexist Phrases About Women Are Still Thriving

Despite all the progress we’ve made in gender equality, sexist phrases about women are still alive and well in 2025 — often hiding in plain sight. You’ll hear them in pubs, group chats, podcasts,...
11 Gay Cams for Slutty Twinks, Jocks & Daddy Camboys [2025]

11 Gay Cams for Slutty Twinks, Jocks & Daddy Camboys [2025]

Decent gay cams can be hard to find. A lot of the time, you're looking at bored twinks playing on their phones, “straight” guys reluctant to do anything “too gay”, or simply a close-up of someone's dick. But where is the charm? Where are the hot guys with charisma? I miss being seduced by gay cams. Fortunately, I've got you covered...

Best Discreet Sex Toys for Public Orgasms & Intimate Stimulation: Your Guide

Turned on by the thought of using discreet sex toys during your adventures outside your home, for intense intimate stimulation and perhaps the delicious forbidden fruit of public orgasms? Does the image of you struggling to remain calm and unperturbed on the outside, whilst you sexily suffer the hidden torment of being repeatedly brought to the edge of climax in a crowd of strangers get you hotter than any other sexual fantasy? You’re in the right place...

Bondage Furniture Guide: How to Craft a BDSM Dungeon at Home

Today I'm providing a versatile, discreet and pleasurable bondage furniture guide (and other sex accoutrements options) for your home. These options don't necessarily scream "red room of pain" - but with a little creativity, they can be just as thrilling. Whether you're after compact, multi-functional, or simply hidden-in-plain-sight styles, here's how to craft a BDSM dungeon at home even if you don't have as much room as your local fetish club.

Lingerie Terms Guide: Understanding The Different Lingerie Styles

I keep hearing phrases such as chemise, camisole, teddy and merry widow in relation to lingerie types, but coming up with the correct definition of each one? Beyond me. Is it the same for you? Good news: you can stop worrying. Today, confusion no longer reigns. Today, by the end of this feature, we’ll all have a good understanding of the different lingerie styles. Welcome to my lingerie terms guide!
Feel Me - That Time I Got Fingered in a Public Bar

Feel Me

I felt his middle finger move to slide deeper inside me, as I brought my glass up to my mouth - to gag the cry threatening to burst from me, as well as to quench my suddenly dry lips. It was all I could do to stop my hand trembling around my drink - a tremble I felt down my body through my knees down to my high-heeled, bare feet – as he worked me deeper still, finger curling to fuck my tight pussy as his thumb brushed teasingly over my electrified clit.

Sleeping in Bondage: How to Safely Kink Up Your Bedtime

Have you ever slept in bondage? Would you? There are some fascinating psychological aspects as to why someone would want to sleep in bondage, as well as important safety considerations to consider. Let’s take a closer look at overnight restraint – and how to safely kink up your bedtime.

Does Your Number of Sex Partners Really Matter? The Truth About Sex, Stigma &...

How many people have you had sex with? It’s a personal question, the answer to which some people ascribe weight and meaning. Today I am exploring whether how many people we’ve slept with in our lives really has any relevance or importance, whether you’re navigating life single or in a relationship. What do you think?

Planned Sex or Spontaneous Sex? The Pros & Cons of Both

Is sex something you can schedule, like any other type of appointment – or should you hope for a surprise moment of passion? What’s better, planned sex or spontaneous sex? Today I’m exploring the pros and cons of both.

Sardax FemDom Art: The Best Erotic Dominant Women Artwork?

If you love FemDom, then you’re in for a treat with Sardax FemDom Art. I have an enduring love for these imaginative, inspirational and highly kinky illustrations from globally renowned artist, Sardax. His artistic depictions skilfully combine elements of Female Dominance, sensuality, delicious cruelty and male submission like nothing I’ve found elsewhere.
Celebrating Women-Led Sex Toy Brands

Celebrating Women-Led Sex Toy Brands

The sexual wellness industry is undergoing a dynamic transformation, and women-led sex toy brands are at the forefront of this change. These trailblazing entrepreneurs are revolutionising the space with body-safe, inclusive, and innovative designs that prioritise real pleasure and empowerment.

Hottest Married Dating Sites of 2025: Where Secrets Turn Into Sparks

Married dating sites are proof that not every love story plays out as expected. Sometimes, the spark fades, curiosity grows, or life simply calls for a new kind of connection. Whether you’re chasing excitement, intimacy, or a secret escape from the ordinary, these platforms are built for those who dare to step beyond the usual boundaries. Curious where to begin?

Best Cheap Sex Toys on a Small Budget: Top Quality, Low Price Tag

Finding sex toys which are orgasmically effective and top quality for a low price is a challenge. As the cost of living continues to rise, saving cash while ensuring you get value for your...

Dolcett Girls: Vore Erotic Artwork To Be Devoured

Dolcett art is a subgenre of fetish artwork which is undoubtedly extreme and therefore controversial. It explores themes of vore, cannibalism and extreme BDSM. On the surface, Dolcett artwork is simply shocking, but looking a little deeper we find that the imagery taps into psychological themes of power, control and transgression. This risky and risqué art blurs the line between fascination and fear, in a way which stirs a unique blend of eroticism and excitement for its many fans.

How to Self-Test for HIV at Home: A Step-by-Step Guide (with Video)

Did you know you can easily and confidentially self-test for HIV at home? Knowing your HIV status is one of the most important steps you can take for your health. Yet, more than 1 in 7 people living with HIV worldwide are unaware they have the virus.

Is It OK To Gift My Friend A Vibrator? Or Too Weird?

I declare my love of vibrators loud and proud for all to hear here at the Cara Sutra sex blog of course, but away from the web I find myself talking about them with open-minded, sex-positive friends, too. What about giving sex toys as gifts? Would a sex toy make a bold, empowering present, or an awkward, never-spoken-of-again mistake? In today’s feature, I’m exploring whether it’s OK to gift a friend a vibrator, or if it’s just too weird.

How to Write a Love Letter That Captures Your True Feelings

You don’t need to be Shakespeare or Keats; you just need to set aside a little time and thought, then do your best to express yourself on the paper. No-one will be grading it or judging it – your partner is sure to be moved by your best efforts. In today’s feature, I’ll be providing my 8 tips on how to write a love letter that captures your true feelings.

Allowing Sadness Without Guilt

On reflection, I felt a lot of pressure to conform to fake happiness when I was a child – a girl child, Gen X, raised by boomer parents in a small community on a...