Forniphilia: Understanding the Human Furniture Role Play Kink
I wanted to write about being treated like furniture in the BDSM world not only because I have a personal interest in this kink, but also to help you understand the furniture role-play kink from both the rigger and recipient’s point of view.
Guide To Prostate Milking & The Health Benefits Of P-Spot Stimulation
Stimulation of this fascinating part of the anatomy can not only lead to the most powerful orgasms you’ve ever had, but there are also various health benefits as a bonus. Welcome to your simple guide to prostate milking, in which I’ll also examine the potential health benefits of P-spot stimulation.
Cannibal Kink: The Heart of Sexy Cannibalism
For some, the idea of cannibalism arouses and excites the sexual part of their psyche. Why do some people have a cannibal kink? In this feature, I explore the heart of sexy cannibalism and take a look at what motivates an erotic fascination with the taboo practice of devouring human flesh.
How To Be Dominant Outside the Bedroom: 12 Lifestyle BDSM Tips
What if you and your partner would like a more 'everyday' style of Dom and sub relationship? A consensual power exchange which isn’t limited to kinky play sessions in the bedroom, but enhances every part of your life together? In today’s article I will explore lifestyle BDSM from the Dom’s point of view, revealing how to be Dominant outside the bedroom.
How To Be Dominant In The Bedroom: 12 Kinky Sex Tips
How can you exude confidence, assertiveness, and that irresistible Dominant streak? What are some handy ways to tap into consensual cruelty and punish your eager partner? And how do you overcome shyness and nervous giggles? In today’s article I’m sharing my 12 tips on how to be Dominant in the bedroom.
Selling Your Used Panties Is Easier Than You Think
Welcome to the intriguing world of panty selling – a unique side hustle that's not only financially rewarding but also a journey of self-discovery. Selling used panties comes with many perks: it's an avenue to boost confidence, embrace sensuality, connect with a community of like-minded individuals, and have fun along the way.
5 Kinky Uses for Christmas Tinsel
As I’m focusing on ‘sexing up’ Christmas across a few blog features this year, my mind turned to how tinsel could be used in a sensual and erotic way. In this feature I’ll be sharing my ideas for 5 kinky uses for Christmas tinsel – perhaps changing how you look at this seemingly innocent festive adornment forever!
What Is Fisting? How To Fist Your Partner Safely
Heard of fisting? This sexual activity isn’t talked about much in the mainstream, but plenty of partners enjoy fisting. You can fist someone vaginally or anally. Because of the shape and size of our hands, even as a closed fist, fisting can seem like a terrifying prospect - something only done by fetishists into sadism and masochism. Today I’m going to thrust into this intriguing and often mysterious activity with both hands...
Ruined Orgasms: How To Ruin An Orgasm (& Why You’d Want To)
While orgasms are not the goal of sex with a partner, they’re often a highlight. Then there are all the orgasms enjoyed by people during solo pleasure sessions – masturbation. Why then, do some people pursue and enjoy a ruined orgasm? What are ruined orgasms? How do you ruin an orgasm, and why on earth would you want to?
Why I Love Locking Men’s Cocks In Chastity Cages
As the locked chastity continues, I enjoy every renewed realisation that they’re unable to have an erection or an orgasm. Of course, being a cruel and evil Bitch, I heighten the sub/slave’s torment with frequent teasing, whether by words, images or demanding that they perform in various perverted ways for me in person.
What Is A Violet Wand? History of Violet Wands & Kinky Uses
Violet wands are commonly used stimulation tools in the realm of BDSM & Electrosex. They provide a uniquely thrilling experience for those exploring kinky pleasure and consensual power exchange. Read on as I delve into the history of violet wands, explain what they are & how they work, and reveal their kinky uses.
Virgos and Chastes: The OTHER Style of Male Chastity
What if I told you that male chastity didn’t have to be extra work?
That it’s often OK to treat a male chastity cage as a nice body modification and move on?
That you can use it to get exactly what you want, and nothing you don’t?
What Is A Female Led Relationship Really Like? The Reality Of Lifestyle FemDom Relationships...
I'm typing this wearing a penis chastity device and I don't get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh… and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm.
Tips For Spring Cleaning Your Sex Life
In a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comfortable but ultimately monotonous sex with each other. That’s why I wanted to share my top tips for spring cleaning your sex life. While everything else is getting a spring clean, don’t neglect your personal and shared sexual pleasure!
Real-Life Slave Diary: Locked In A Chastity Cage
Are you curious about how it feels to be locked in a chastity cage but you’re too scared or unable to slide the lock home on a device of your own? Perhaps you are locked, teased, but denied in a locked chastity device and want to hear others’ similar experiences for companionship or further torment? These diary entries from my locked-up chastity slave are for you.
BDSM Identities Guide: Are You Dominant, Submissive or Switch?
What are your thoughts on labels? Understandably, many people don’t like to be strictly categorised in this way. We’re all individuals; unique. However, labels do have their place in society as they’re a handy way to quickly describe yourself. The same is true when it comes to the D/s scene.
BDSM Collars: Symbolism & Collaring Ceremonies
BDSM collars are an extremely important visual symbol of submission and ownership. Although bondage collars are also worn simply as a kinky accessory in a play scene, there are plenty of kinksters for whom wearing a BDSM collar signifies a deeper commitment between Dom and sub, Owner and slave, Top and bottom. Some may even take part in collaring ceremonies, a celebratory event which publicly or privately marks the commitment between Dom and sub in a similar way to the vanilla wedding rituals of marriage.
YKINMK: Your Kink Is Not My Kink
There should be no shame or judgement when it comes to safe sexual & kinky activities alone or between consenting adults. However, YKINMK regularly proves itself a relevant and important philosophy.
Turned On By Sniffing Dirty Panties? The Worn Knickers Kink
The scent of a warm, fresh, eagerly aroused pussy is intrinsically sexy. It’s therefore no great surprise that this scent, which can linger on worn underwear, is always in great demand. If you are turned on by sniffing dirty panties, rest assured that you’re not alone. The worn knickers kink is quite common, and I have some personal experience with it too.
What Does BDSM Stand For?
BDSM is an acronym, so each initial stands for a different word. Appropriately, it’s an unusual one: there are three sets of two couplets within this acronym.