Sexy Christmas Advice

Sexy Christmas Advice: How to Add Heat to Your Holiday Season

Sexy Christmas advice isn’t just about gifts and glitter, it’s about finding ways to keep passion alive through the busy festive season. From romantic ideas and erotic stories to gift inspiration, here’s how to make your Christmas sparkle with desire.

Naughty or Nice? Make Christmas Both

The festive season is the perfect excuse to indulge in passion, playfulness and a little mischief. Whether you want to spice up your relationship, explore new ways to connect or treat yourself to something indulgent, my sexy Christmas articles are full of inspiration.

Sensual Gifts and Stocking Fillers

Christmas shopping doesn’t have to mean socks and soap sets. Discover seductive lingerie, festive sex toys and sexy advent calendars that bring pleasure all month long. Browse my Christmas gift guides on this page below for ideas that excite, tease and delight.

Festive Erotica and Holiday Fantasies

If your ideal December evening involves something more thrilling than a Christmas film, dive into my festive erotica collection. Expect naughty Santas, mischievous elves and red-hot winter trysts to warm even the coldest nights.

Dress to Impress, Undress with Style

From cheeky festive lingerie to seductive outfits and accessories, there are endless ways to celebrate the season in style. Whether you’re surprising your partner or simply enjoying the thrill of dressing up, embrace the confidence that comes with a little seasonal sparkle.

Make This Christmas Unforgettable

Whatever your plans this December, take time for pleasure and play. Explore my full range of sexy Christmas advice for everything from romantic ideas and naughty games to erotic reading and festive gift inspiration. Let’s make this year’s celebrations truly unforgettable.

Is It OK To Gift My Friend A Vibrator? Or Too Weird?

I declare my love of vibrators loud and proud for all to hear here at the Cara Sutra sex blog of course, but away from the web I find myself talking about them with open-minded, sex-positive friends, too. What about giving sex toys as gifts? Would a sex toy make a bold, empowering present, or an awkward, never-spoken-of-again mistake? In today’s feature, I’m exploring whether it’s OK to gift a friend a vibrator, or if it’s just too weird.

Temperature Play in the Bedroom: Blow Hot and Cold for Pleasure

As the darker nights of autumn and the frosty chill of winter sets in, staying cosy at home and enjoying the romance of candles or fairy lights is extremely appealing. Today I want to share my guide to temperature play in the bedroom, advice which will help you blow hot & cold during sex no matter what the weather is like outside your bedroom window.

Your Guide to Buying Comfortable Sexy Lingerie

With some shops offering lingerie sets in dress sizes (which may or may not resemble the actual size stated), and others opting for the vague ‘small, medium and large’ style sizing, buying lingerie that fits and flatters your body can feel like an impossible task. Welcome to my guide to buying comfortable sexy lingerie...

Lovehoney Sex Toy Advent Calendars 2024 (12 & 24 Day Options Available)

Are you ready for the sexiest Christmas countdown ever? Lovehoney have launched their brand-new sex toy advent calendars for 2024, and I’m excited to share all the exquisitely erotic details with you! The star of the show this year is the Lovehoney 24-Day Womanizer Sex Toy Advent Calendar 2024.

5 Kinky Uses for Christmas Tinsel

Looking for Christmas tinsel kink ideas? In this guide I share five fun and safe ways to use tinsel for festive foreplay and kinky couples’ playtime, turning seasonal sparkle into erotic fun.
Of The Santa Persuasion - Christmas Erotica

Of The Santa Persuasion: Kinky Santa Ageplay Erotica

‘Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house, not a creature was stirring… Who was she kidding. She’d be stirring all night. She just wished it was for better reasons. Fuck, she could really do with an explosive orgasm or two right about now. Sadly, the only finger movements this evening were the back-and-forth motions of her pen over lined paper.

The Naughtivity: Christmas Group Sex Erotica

He was coming for me, so I lay down, wide legged, finding his hair with both hands at the exact same time his mouth found my clitoris. Two minutes. That’s all it took for him to make me come so hard I squirted in his face.
In Santa's Lap - Christmas Erotica

In Santa’s Lap: Santa Seduction Erotica for Christmas

Her heart thumped in her chest. She didn't have to wait much longer. Dizzy with excitement, she hungrily looked over at him again. The legendary older man in his trademark plush suit was still sat in his grand chair, undoubtedly tired from the afternoon crowds.
Slave Santa and his Cruel Mistress - Christmas Erotica

Slave Santa & His Cruel Mistress: FemDom Christmas Chastity Erotica

Her icy blast hit him with more bitter force than the harshest winter sleigh ride, turning his cheeks an even deeper shade of red. As she continued her angry tirade against him for his latest fuck-up, his body responded as usual to her cutting jibes. Why did Mistress' cruel taunts elicit such warm tingles in his nether regions? Why did the humiliation of being shouted at in front of all his elves never fail to make him stiffer than steel?
Santa Sutra & the Rebellious Rein-Girl - Christmas Erotica by Cara Sutra

Santa Sutra & the Rebellious Rein-Girl: FemDom Christmas Pet Play Erotica

Upon hearing her vain exclamation to the other three rein-girls over dinner that they weren’t even needed anyway, that she could do the job all by herself and probably even better at that, they’d at first looked surprised then strangely smug. How was she to know Santa Sutra would choose that exact moment to re-enter the feeding shed from behind her?

Festive Foreplay Ideas: Gift Yourselves A More Exciting Sex Life This Christmas

Festive foreplay ideas are the perfect way to reconnect with your partner at Christmastime. Between family plans and the mince pies, it is easy to lose the spark. Use these ten ideas to turn...

The Best Christmas Gift Of All: Romantic Festive Erotica

This romantic Christmas sex story by guest author Belle Bisous blends sensuality and playfulness as blindfolds, cuffs and festive anticipation lead to the best Christmas gift of all.

12 Days of Festive Romance: Romantic Christmas Ideas for Couples

Romantic Christmas ideas for couples do not need to be complicated. If it is just the two of you this year, or you are carving out some precious alone time, here are twelve festive ways to reconnect, play and make Christmas deliciously sexy.

Christmas Lingerie Gifts: Sexy & Festive Sets to Give or Get

Christmas lingerie gifts are a flirty, festive way to spoil your partner or drop a very helpful hint. In this guide I share sexy and seasonal sets, luxe robes and cute costumes from trusted retailers I personally use.

Sexy Christmas Gifts: Festive Toys & Luxury Presents for Couples

Sexy Christmas gifts are the perfect way to add romance and pleasure to the holidays. In this guide I share festive-themed toys and luxury presents couples can buy and enjoy together, all from trusted...

Christmas Themed Sex Toys: Candy Cane Dildos, Santa Vibrators & Festive Fun

Christmas sex toys are the cheekiest way to add festive sparkle to your pleasure. In this guide I round up my favourite novelty designs for the season, from candy cane dildos to Santa vibrators and more.

Cheap Sexy Gifts for Christmas and Halloween: Edible Underwear & Candy Love Rings

Enjoy my guide to edible underwear and candy love rings - plus other bedroom treats which you can exchange with your partner at any time of year as cheap sexy gifts. They are especially ideal as small romantic Christmas gifts though; sexy stocking fillers for an intimate festive moment. Or you could treat them for a hot Halloween, Valentine's Day or their birthday!