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Guide to Prostate Massagers & P-Spot Toys

25 October, 2024

Guide to Prostate Massagers & P-Spot Toys

I recently wrote about what the prostate is, the importance of prostate health and how P-spot stimulation (aka prostate milking) provides not only health, but also sexual pleasure benefits. In that article I explained how to give yourself a prostate massage – or how to give your partner one. Because of the location of the prostate, manual stimulation with your (or their) finger might be tricky. Although I spoke briefly about P-spot stimulation devices in my recent blog post, today I want to offer a deep delve into prostate toys. Welcome to my guide to prostate massagers, where I’ll outline what specifically makes a toy a prostate massager and the most effective P-spot toys available.

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The prostate gland is located inside the anal area. Its exact location and depth inside this canal will vary due to the unique nature of human anatomy. Trying to first locate the prostate with your finger, then stimulate it with the correct motion, inside an awkward-to-access and tight-but-sensitive region of the body, can be at the very least difficult and at worst impossible or completely off-putting.

Happily, there are many body-safe stimulation devices designed specifically for targeting and pleasuring the prostate. There’s no need to struggle with your (or your partner’s) fingers anymore; invest in a top-quality and well-reviewed prostate massager to replace anxiety and struggle with improved sexual health and intense, orgasmic pleasure.

What makes it a prostate massager?

Like other anal play sex toys, prostate massagers have an anal-safe design such as a wide base or ridge to stop the device going completely into the body. Unlike other anal sex toys, prostate massagers have a curved or angled insertable area for precise P-spot targeting. The end of the prostate massager’s shaft usually has a bulbous, rounded tip for comfortable, effective stimulation of the prostate gland.

Types of prostate toy available

When deciding which prostate massager would be best for you, there are a few things to take into consideration. There’s the size and shape of the toy, the type of material it’s made from, and if it is a static device or powered in some way, such as vibrating and/or rotating functions. If powered, is the prostate toy rechargeable or battery-operated? Is it cordless during use?

Size & shape: Take note of the measurements of the prostate toy you’re considering. Are you an anal newbie or do you have experience? Beginners are best with a smaller, slimmer toy so that insertion is as easy and comfortable as possible. The anus and anal canal are extremely sensitive and have thin tissue which can be damaged if you’re overly zealous during insertion and use. It’s vital that the size and shape of your new prostate massager will comfortably slide into position without pain or damage, aided of course by a great-quality lubricant.

Material: Sex toys are made from a variety of materials, which you can read up on in my Complete Guide to Sex Toy Materials. Prostate massagers can be made from the flexible, body-safe material of choice, silicone, or they might be made from a rigid material such as plastic or metal. What would you prefer?

Static or powered: A simply but effectively designed static prostate massager can seek out and stimulate the prostate just by being in the right position, the rounded head against the prostate, and with some rocking back and forth to induce stimulation of this sensitive gland. There are many prostate massagers which feature vibrating settings too; others have rotating beads within the body, around the neck of the toy or in the tip.

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There isn’t just one correct answer here – it all comes down to what you, personally, would prefer.

How to choose the best prostate massager for you

As unique individuals with anatomies which vary from person to person, what feels sensational to one individual might not feel quite as amazing to another. Take the time to research the differences between prostate massagers before you splash the cash, thinking about whether you would prefer static or vibrating, plastic or silicone, for example. Read P-spot toy reviews to learn about the exact dimensions of a device, how loud, difficult or effective it is in use, and how it looks ‘in real life’ away from professional photography setups and editing suites.

There is also your budget to consider, as the prices of prostate massagers can vary greatly. Sometimes a sex toy is cheap because it hasn’t been made with the best materials, to the highest standards, or it doesn’t have many features. But sometimes a toy has a high price tag when most of the cost is for the designer brand name and luxurious packaging, rather than carefully considered design and technology which results in more ergonomic use and easy to achieve, powerful orgasms.

That’s what makes sex toy buyers’ guides like this one, and sex toy reviews as you’ll find on this blog, invaluable to readers. I am able to provide my unbiased opinion based on personal experience about many different sexual pleasure products, after reviewing & writing for the sex toy industry for 15 years.

Our favourite prostate-stimulating toys

I haven’t been testing sex toys all by myself throughout those 15 years; I have had a reviewing panel from a sex toy loving community to call on for their opinions on various products too. Therefore, here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, you will find lots of reviews for sex toys and other products with a wide range of body types, anatomy and personal preferences – including reviews of P-spot massagers.

The results are in – and I’m delighted to share with you our top 5 favourite prostate massagers, the best ones we’ve found so far:

Njoy Pure Wand

Type: static, metal, larger-size, top-end price

Price: $149.99 / £149.99

Quote from my review: “The scope for this sex toy is unbelievable. It is versatile enough for unisex use… use for vaginal penetration, G-spot massage, as an anal sex toy or prostate massager.”

Reddit review: “So I lubed myself and the toy up. I decided to start slow with the smaller end. I inserted it with ease, and moaned in pleasure as it got sucked into my ass, finding my prostate immediately. My cock started precumming like never before. I didn’t even touch it. I started going in and out, which massaged my prostate perfectly.”

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Aneros Helix Syn

Type: static (vibrating option also available), silicone, small-size, mid-range price

Price: £49.99 / $69.99

Quote from our review: “As…your muscles contract the Aneros Helix Syn Prostate Massager gently tickles you leading to a different style of orgasm at the end. Different but different good, as you reach climax there is a lot more sensation, I can feel an orgasm building and it appears to last longer than before…”

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Aneros Progasm

Type: static, plastic, larger-size, mid-range price

Price: $49.99 / £39.99

Quote from our review: “I could feel this right away on my p spot. A really good feature of this toy is once in, there is a nice nobbly bit that rests on the perineum heightening pleasure and for an added ‘squirm’ factor. The Aneros Progasm Classic Prostate Massager feels great on its own and with lots of lube and wriggling about it’s possible for an experienced user to get a hands-free orgasm. Expect a significantly heightened orgasm using one of these.”

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Nexus Revo Stealth

Type: rechargeable, vibrating, silicone, medium-size, top-end price

Price: $224.99 / £149.99

Quote from our review: “…the Nexus Revo Stealth has a superpower that no other prostate massages do. I’ll spoil the rest of the review and just come right out and say it: the Nexus Revo is amazing. It’ll do things you never thought possible.”

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Lovehoney Ignite

Type: rechargeable, vibrating (static also available at a lower price), silicone, smaller-size, budget to mid-range price

Price: $34.99 / £32.99

Quote from our review: “This is a quality beginners vibrating prostate massager with a real punch from a good selection of vibrating speeds and patterns.”

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Don’t forget the lube

When buying your preferred prostate massager, don’t forget to add some great-quality lube to your basket before you check out. P-spot stimulation is via the anus, an area of the body which doesn’t product its own natural lubrication and you are risking severe discomfort and even physical damage if you attempt insertion without lube.

It’s also important that the sex lube you choose is compatible with the sex toy you’ve chosen. You can read more on sex toy materials and lube compatibility in my related features:

A brief overview to help you get started:

Water-based lube is compatible with all sex toy materials, won’t stain and is easy to wash off (you and the toy) once you’re done. However, you may find that water-based lube dissipates too quickly in the heat of the moment, evaporating with friction and over time.
Silicone lubes provide extra long-lasting glide that won’t evaporate or dissipate no matter how long you play, but need extra work (warm & soapy water) to wash off afterwards. This sort of lube may also stain sheets & clothing, so pop down a towel or use fluidproof sheets.
Thicker lubes specifically for anal play exist; anal lubes with their thicker consistency are less likely to drip where you don’t want it, it stays put, and some are opaque (or semi-opaque) to help you see where you’ve applied it to the toy and yourself.
Hybrid lubes also exist – these may be perfect for you if you’re seeking the compatibility and ease of water-based lube, but the long-lasting glide of silicone. Check the formulation of your specific hybrid lube to ensure it’s compatible with the material of the prostate massager you want to use, as they can vary.

Conclusion

After reading through this guide to prostate massagers & P-spot toys, you should feel ready to not only choose the prostate stimulator of your dreams, but experience an exquisitely delightful stimulation session which should ultimately lead to prostatic orgasmic bliss. Unlocking new levels of sexual pleasure is simply the bonus to regular prostate massage; stimulating this fascinating part of the anatomy offers physical health benefits too, don’t forget.

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