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Forniphilia: Understanding the Human Furniture Role Play Kink

30 October, 2024

Forniphilia: Understanding the Human Furniture Role Play Kink

Heard of forniphilia? It’s the official name for the BDSM practice of transforming someone into a piece of furniture. The term forniphilia was coined by Jeff Gord, of House of Gord fame. You may have seen types of forniphilia in mainstream erotic art, as well as in provocative BDSM media and within fetish communities. Human sexuality is such a complex and diverse realm, encompassing a wide range of desires and fantasies. Even if you’re not into forniphilia yourself, it is intriguing learning about this niche kink. I wanted to write about being treated like furniture in the BDSM world not only because I have a personal interest in this kink, but also to help you understand the human furniture role play kink from both the rigger and recipient’s point of view.

What’s Forniphilia All About?

Forniphilia is the ‘furniture kink’. I don’t mean becoming aroused by pieces of furniture, but rather arousal from being treated like an item of furniture. Someone into forniphilia may enjoy being treated as a human coat rack, for example, or being commanded to stay silent and in position for set periods of time to act as a table, or as a chair.

Why Do Some People Love Being Treated Like Furniture?

Like all kinks, there is a psychological reason behind the attraction to specific and different-to-mainstream activities. Being treated like furniture transforms the human into an object, literally objectifying them and reducing them into an inanimate object whose sole purpose is either ornamental, practical, or both. For those with a submissive nature, being seen and/or used as furniture can embody their need to fully submit to a Top/Dominant person or group.

Human Furniture Ideas

Examples of forniphilia furniture might include:

Human chairs: The submissive kneels or sits in a position where another person can sit on them.
Human tables: They lie flat with objects or items placed on their backs.
Human lamps: The submissive stands upright, perhaps adorned with a lampshade or fixture, symbolizing their role.
Human shelves or coat racks: A person may be posed in a position where objects or clothing are hung on them.

Props & Elements Used in Forniphilia

Bondage Gear

As forniphilia often includes restraint to transform a person into human furniture, it’s likely some bondage gear will be required. This could include rope, specially made harnesses, bondage cuffs or even BDSM furniture that the person will be positioned on or over.

Fetish Wear

It is common in BDSM media to see both the Dominant and submissive in a power exchange scene wearing fetish wear. Leather, PVC, latex… you know, the typical attire of BDSM. However, fetish wear is by no means mandatory or critical to enjoy forniphilia, or indeed any power exchange session or relationship in BDSM. If all involved want to wear fetish wear, great! If not, then power exchange can be just as intense and impacting whilst wearing everyday clothing -or nothing at all.

Props

To accentuate the submissive’s role as furniture, and indeed to transform them into useful furniture, props are often used. These may include items such as lampshades, trays, a tablecloth or forniphilia gags such as those with an ashtray, small tray or cleaning implement protruding from the submissive’s gagged mouth. These props serve not only to turn the submissive into a usable item of furniture, but accentuates the objectification (& possibly humiliation) throughout the forniphilia session.

Mindset & Headspace

Being in the right headspace for a human furniture scene is vital for everyone involved.

The Dominant or Top (or whoever is ‘in charge’ of the furniture) needs to be sure of the active consent of the person being transformed into furniture, and remain tuned into and aware of their safety at all times throughout the session.

Becoming human furniture requires an amount of mental as well as physical fortitude. The submissive or person becoming furniture often has to stay in one position for an extended period of time. This requires patience, dedication to the role, body awareness and endurance. Being treated & used as furniture can be a fast-track to subspace – a rewarding, deeper psychological level of submission.

If You’re New To Forniphilia

Those new to forniphilia but interested in getting started would benefit from some research into the fetish and safety precautions before you begin.

Here are my 3 main tips for those just getting started with forniphilia:

Start Simple

If you’re new, it’s probably not a good idea to go straight into a 4-hour human furniture session, with intense bondage and prolonged immobility. Using the submissive as a human footstool or a table for a short period of time is an ideal way to begin.

Communicate

As with all sexual, intimate or power exchange activities, it’s vital to keep communication flowing and honest. Encourage the forniphilia submissive to speak about how they feel before and after the human furniture session and welcome their feedback. If you are the one into being treated like furniture, don’t be afraid to speak up about what works for you, what doesn’t, and any changes you’d prefer next time, within the respectful context of your unique Dominant/submissive relationship, of course.

Set & Respect A Safe Out

Having and respecting a way to stop BDSM activity is crucial to the trust and ongoing physical & mental wellbeing of everyone involved. Because the words ‘no’ and ‘stop’ so often form part of the consensual role play in BDSM, a different word is set which all parties will be able to instantly recognise as a real ‘stop right now’ instruction. BDSM safe words are words or phrases that wouldn’t typically be said in any BDSM session or interaction.

Because of the prolonged periods of time in bondage, potentially difficult physical positions and immobility while being human furniture, plus the enforced silence, it might be tricky to establish a way to communicate ‘safing out’. Although furniture obviously doesn’t talk, if the person acting as furniture needs to safe out then this rule could simply be broken – and the word ‘red’ or your agreed safeword spoken aloud. If Top and bottom in the scene prefer no spoken words from the furniture at any time, then the human furniture could hold a buzzer to press as their ‘safing out’ method instead.

Staying Safe While Enjoying Human Furniture Fun

Forniphilia is appealing to its fans because of the intensity of control, objectification, humiliation and trust required for effective human furniture sessions. Because it is such an intense and demanding kink & activity, physically and psychologically, it is important to consider, discuss and adhere to safety guidelines throughout, so that no-one involved gets hurt, upset or their boundaries & trust broken during proceedings.

Here are the main considerations for safe, sane and consensual forniphilia activity:

Consent & Communication

As with all BDSM activities, consent is crucial. Partners should communicate openly about their limits, desires, and comfort levels. Discuss how long the scene will last, any safe words or non-verbal cues, and the physical demands involved.

Check Physical Limits

Forniphilia often requires participants to remain in awkward or restrained positions. Know the limitations of your body and the person becoming the furniture. Take regular breaks, stay hydrated, and watch for signs of discomfort or numbness.

Safety Gear & Materials

Choose materials and props that are safe for prolonged skin contact. Ensure that any bondage gear does not cut off circulation or press uncomfortably. A common rule in forniphilia is: If the setup feels off, stop and readjust.

Avoid Sensory Overload

Submissives in forniphilia are often blindfolded or subjected to sensory deprivation, which can be exhilarating for some but overwhelming for others. Introduce these elements gradually and gauge the submissive’s reaction.

Breathing & Circulation Vigilance

Positions that affect breathing or circulation should be avoided. If the submissive is lying flat, make sure they can breathe easily. When restrained, keep checking for circulation in hands, feet, and other extremities.

Post-Scene Aftercare

Forniphilia can be both physically and emotionally intense. After the scene, provide warm & reassuring aftercare. Offer a blanket, drinks, and physical comfort to help the submissive come back to their everyday state. When ready, openly discuss how you both felt about the experience.

Perspective of a FemDom slave

I asked one of my slaves for his thoughts on forniphilia, and wanted to share his response with my readers as I found it both interesting and enjoyable:

Supreme Goddess,

i have never previously given a great deal of thought to human furniture in a Femdom setting.

Images of submissive males as footstools, floor mats, cushions on a sofa or on a chair were the first things that sprung to my mind. All good mutual fun, and there is nothing wrong with fun. Perhaps an hors d’oeuvre to the start of a fun and sexy evening between a Dominant wife or partner and her submissive male. A clear expression of Dominance and superiority over submission and humility. It also involves plenty of bodily contact, such as boots sliding up and down the man’s horizontal, face-up torso, invariably teasing areas that respond to physical teasing. Or her beautiful, sexy, feminine posterior grinding into that same sensitive area or onto his face. What better way to stimulate sexual arousal and acknowledge a femdom power exchange simultaneously.

There are, however, many different forms of female domination, and the above images and physical contact would not be appropriate in a situation where:

A Goddess has conquered and enslaved a submissive male and moulded him to Her whim.
She has taken possession of his mind and soul and made him acknowledge his inadequacy and inferiority and embrace and glorify them.

In these circumstances, everything is about the Goddess. It is about Her pleasure and Her desires.

Initially, seeing where human furniture might fit into such a dynamic was hard. What pleasure or benefit might a Goddess derive from it?

However, a scenario has been playing in my mind since shortly after being set this task.

A male slave, his legs tightly held together by black cling film, which also covers the whole of his torso and head, leaving just the area from just below his nose to just above his eyes visible. The slave is standing in the hallway of a house. The slave’s arms are outstretched and somehow attached to the wall. These attachments support his arms and keep him standing. Five leather cuffs are strapped along the length of each arm, and each cuff has a hook on the front. The slave is a coat hanger and will be of use during an evening soiree, to which the Goddess has invited selected BDSM friends and colleagues.

The slave is instructed to stare at the spot on the wall on the opposite side of the hallway and to focus on that spot without deviation throughout the night.

It is a cold, damp winter evening, and all guests, male and female, arrive in winter coats. The human coat hanger is extensively used. Two coats share most of the ten hooks, and each was hung by its owner without any comment about the human nature of this particular piece of furniture.

There was notable admiration directed at the Goddess for her ability to prime Her slave to this level. The undeniable beauty and prowess were exemplified. She would have been pleased at such acclamation.

The cling film muffles the slave’s hearing. Words and conversations are indecipherable, but he is aware of laughter and warm companionship to which he is not a party. Late in the evening, the slave is aware of his Goddess talking to a female friend and her submissive male partner. The Goddess laughs at a joke made by the submissive male and even touches his arm as a gesture of gratitude for being amused by him.

By being a piece of furniture, the slave was objectified, dehumanised and excluded. To be included in Her life, She knew, was something the slave dearly wanted from the outset and a desire that drew him into Her web. To deny that to him was cruel, deliciously cruel. This, She would enjoy, and such delicious cruelty would increase the arousal of the slave, and arousal of a slave increased his adoration, worship and obedience—another win for the Goddess.

Forniphilia, human furniture, can therefore be fun – and can also be the most evil mental torture. In both cases, it can bring pleasure to those who are entitled to pleasure.

– slave penny

In Conclusion

The appeal of being treated like furniture, within a consensual and BDSM context, offers the opportunity to explore themes of power, surrender, and aesthetic appreciation. By embracing a dynamic that emphasises trust, consent, and open communication, people can safely engage in this form of objectification play, allowing both partners to deepen their bond whilst enjoying the pleasure of the session. Forniphilia gives you the chance to delve into power exchange, creative expression, and the celebration of the human form as a useable everyday object.

It’s essential to understand that forniphilia sessions are rooted in a strong foundation of trust and mutual respect of boundaries. The success of any form of objectification play depends heavily on maintaining open lines of communication, confirmation of active consent and prioritising safety, which fosters a secure space for exploration without psychological or physical risks. By focusing on these principles, those interested in forniphilia are sure to find it a rewarding experience, deepening their relationship as partners or as Dominant & submissive, whilst exploring new aspects of their sexuality.

Hopefully this article has piqued your curiosity about the human furniture role play kink. Remember, consent, safety and research are the cornerstones of all BDSM practices, and exploring these desires with creativity and care can lead to memorable and deeply impacting experiences. Stay safe, stay curious, and enjoy the adventure!

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