Cara Sutra

Not only is this wonderfully designed dildo a big, chunk of silicone to bear down on, there’s the alien-theme design to it which adds a fun psychological twist. It’s less chest-burster and more cunt-fucker, thankfully, and I’ve never been happier for my body to be used as a host. The ‘breeder’ part of the toy’s name gives rise to other kinky & perverse fantasies, leading to some extremely hot role play...

Christmas sex toys are the cheekiest way to add festive sparkle to your pleasure. In this guide I round up my favourite novelty designs for the season, from candy cane dildos to Santa vibrators and more.

Would Bondara’s new sex toy simply be another attempt to ‘reinvent the wheel’? I had no idea what I'd soon be receiving in the post, which was exciting. Finally, the discreetly wrapped parcel arrived at my door. I hastily unwrapped it to reveal The Grinder by Bondara Vibrating Sex Toy, in a fancy Bondara gift box, along with a bottle of Bondara Slip ‘n Slide Aqua Lube.

Ever wondered what a perfect penis looks like? Hankey’s Toys have got the answer. And now so do I, because I've been lucky enough to receive the Hankey’s Toys Perfect Penis Dildo to enjoy, and to review here on the blog...

I know how easy it is to get hooked on adding exciting new sex toys to your collection regularly. Before you know it, your bedside drawer is too small to store all those wonderful vibrators & dildos. What other sex toy storage options are available? What’s the best way to store adult toys discreetly?

Enjoy my guide to edible underwear and candy love rings - plus other bedroom treats which you can exchange with your partner at any time of year as cheap sexy gifts. They are especially ideal as small romantic Christmas gifts though; sexy stocking fillers for an intimate festive moment. Or you could treat them for a hot Halloween, Valentine's Day or their birthday!

I absolutely love that I can change up the angle of the vibrator, to better target my uniquely positioned hotspots inside. The controls are easy to locate and use during use, and the product really benefits from the inclusion of two motors instead of just one. Again, loving the fact that the stimulation is customisable – I can choose to have just the vaginal opening motor, just the internal tip motor, or both of the motors on at the same time.

I’m a huge fan of Christmas and love the excitement of advent calendars - especially sexy advent calendars - so I was delighted when the Lovehoney team once again kindly sent me one of their brand-new for 2023 Christmas countdown calendars to review. This year I am reviewing the Lovehoney 12 Day Advent Calendar 2023.

Heard of fisting? This sexual activity isn’t talked about much in the mainstream, but plenty of partners enjoy fisting. You can fist someone vaginally or anally. Because of the shape and size of our hands, even as a closed fist, fisting can seem like a terrifying prospect - something only done by fetishists into sadism and masochism. Today I’m going to thrust into this intriguing and often mysterious activity with both hands...

For those who enjoy BDSM, power exchange, orgasm control, or erotic teasing, ruined orgasms can become an intensely erotic  and psychologically fulfilling form of play that blends denial, submission, vulnerability, and pleasure into deeply impacting experiences. In this guide, I will explain further about what ruined orgasms are, why some people find the idea or reality of them arousing, how they differ from edging and chastity in BDSM, and how those attracted to this practice can experiment with wrecked climax play safely and consensually.

As the locked chastity continues, I enjoy every renewed realisation that they’re unable to have an erection or an orgasm. Of course, being a cruel and evil Bitch, I heighten the sub/slave’s torment with frequent teasing, whether by words, images or demanding that they perform in various perverted ways for me in person.

So how does the We-Vibe Tango X really feel during use? It’s powerful, as I’ve mentioned. The vibration style is slightly different to standard bullet vibrators; it’s surprisingly thuddy and bassy, rather than high frequency and shrill. From my sessions with Tango X, the deeper, rumblier vibrations – while absolutely delicious – are best experienced clitorally when I don’t press the toy into the area, I just let it rest lightly over my clit. I can then enjoy the full effect of those powerful, rumbly vibes and the toy soon brings me to a powerful, clitoral orgasm.

Read on to discover why I rate this new vibrating butt plug from We-Vibe so highly, how it works and how it really feels during use. There’s even a little video showing how to operate the toy, and demonstrating those powerful vibrations.

Did you know that a violet wand was one of the first electronic devices invented? Violet wands were used in homes to treat illnesses & sensitive skin issues, yet now they are viewed more as a sexual stimulation device. Violet ray manufacturers have added modern features, such as variable-speed control and various attachments. Most shockingly, I didn’t own a violet wand and I hadn’t ever reviewed one on my blog. Until now, that is.

My travel-friendly sex toys guide will help you choose vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and more which you can slip into your suitcase - then somewhere even better once you reach your destination. In this travelling with sex toys advice guide you’ll discover the top features you should look for in a travel-friendly vibrator, how to get your sex toys through the airport without embarrassment, and where to get these discreet but effective toys even if you have a tight budget.

Have you ever heard of violet wands? What is a violet wand? How does it work? Are they safe? Why do they have that name? And how come violet rays are both notorious and popular?

What is labiaplasty? Labiaplasty is a form of vulva surgery by vaginoplasty surgeons which changes the size, shape and look of the labia majora and/or labia minora. This may be done for increased physical comfort, self-confidence or sexual enhancement reasons.

What happens when silicone lube is used with silicone sex toys? Does silicone lube erode the silicone material? I wanted to prove once and for all what exactly does happen when silicone lubricant is used with a silicone sex toy, and not only used with, but left to soak for quite some time. So here it is! My experiment, where I left a silicone sex toy in silicone lube for 3 months… Read on to find out exactly what happened, plus the important caveats I've learned about since I first published this experiment.

As part of my ongoing struggle to cope with this change of life and remain healthy & sane, I’ve been doing some research into peri meno.  I bought two books on the subject, The New Hot by Meg Matthews, and the book I’m reviewing here today: Menopausing by Davina McCall (with Dr Naomi Potter).

As a fan of ‘creature feature’ and monster-style dildos, I was delighted to be offered the chance to review something from the otherworldly Sinnovator sex toy collection. I chose the glorious purple tentacular delight that is the Sinnovator Cephalopod Dildo!