Cara Sutra

Heard of fisting? This sexual activity isn’t talked about much in the mainstream, but plenty of partners enjoy fisting. You can fist someone vaginally or anally. Because of the shape and size of our hands, even as a closed fist, fisting can seem like a terrifying prospect - something only done by fetishists into sadism and masochism. Today I’m going to thrust into this intriguing and often mysterious activity with both hands...

For those who enjoy BDSM, power exchange, orgasm control, or erotic teasing, ruined orgasms can become an intensely erotic  and psychologically fulfilling form of play that blends denial, submission, vulnerability, and pleasure into deeply impacting experiences. In this guide, I will explain further about what ruined orgasms are, why some people find the idea or reality of them arousing, how they differ from edging and chastity in BDSM, and how those attracted to this practice can experiment with wrecked climax play safely and consensually.

Am I just an out-and-out, despicably cruel, evil bitch? Well, yes.  But also, chastity as part of enjoyable power exchange in BDSM is a consensual, globally popular activity.

So how does the We-Vibe Tango X really feel during use? It’s powerful, as I’ve mentioned. The vibration style is slightly different to standard bullet vibrators; it’s surprisingly thuddy and bassy, rather than high frequency and shrill. From my sessions with Tango X, the deeper, rumblier vibrations – while absolutely delicious – are best experienced clitorally when I don’t press the toy into the area, I just let it rest lightly over my clit. I can then enjoy the full effect of those powerful, rumbly vibes and the toy soon brings me to a powerful, clitoral orgasm.

Read on to discover why I rate this new vibrating butt plug from We-Vibe so highly, how it works and how it really feels during use. There’s even a little video showing how to operate the toy, and demonstrating those powerful vibrations.

Did you know that a violet wand was one of the first electronic devices invented? Violet wands were used in homes to treat illnesses & sensitive skin issues, yet now they are viewed more as a sexual stimulation device. Violet ray manufacturers have added modern features, such as variable-speed control and various attachments. Most shockingly, I didn’t own a violet wand and I hadn’t ever reviewed one on my blog. Until now, that is.

My travel-friendly sex toys guide will help you choose vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and more which you can slip into your suitcase - then somewhere even better once you reach your destination. In this travelling with sex toys advice guide you’ll discover the top features you should look for in a travel-friendly vibrator, how to get your sex toys through the airport without embarrassment, and where to get these discreet but effective toys even if you have a tight budget.

Have you ever heard of violet wands? What is a violet wand? How does it work? Are they safe? Why do they have that name? And how come violet rays are both notorious and popular?

What is labiaplasty? Labiaplasty is a form of vulva surgery by vaginoplasty surgeons which changes the size, shape and look of the labia majora and/or labia minora. This may be done for increased physical comfort, self-confidence or sexual enhancement reasons.

What happens when silicone lube is used with silicone sex toys? Does silicone lube erode the silicone material? I wanted to prove once and for all what exactly does happen when silicone lubricant is used with a silicone sex toy, and not only used with, but left to soak for quite some time. So here it is! My experiment, where I left a silicone sex toy in silicone lube for 3 months… Read on to find out exactly what happened, plus the important caveats I've learned about since I first published this experiment.

As part of my ongoing struggle to cope with this change of life and remain healthy & sane, I’ve been doing some research into peri meno.  I bought two books on the subject, The New Hot by Meg Matthews, and the book I’m reviewing here today: Menopausing by Davina McCall (with Dr Naomi Potter).

As a fan of ‘creature feature’ and monster-style dildos, I was delighted to be offered the chance to review something from the otherworldly Sinnovator sex toy collection. I chose the glorious purple tentacular delight that is the Sinnovator Cephalopod Dildo!

The Womanizer OG Pleasure Air G-Spot Stimulator was such a startlingly different type of sex toy that I just had to experience it for myself. Rather than providing clitoral stimulation via a comfortable vacuum seal and air waves, like the rest of the Womanizer sex toy collection, the OG assertively dominates new territory by offering vaginally penetrative, G-spot targeted orgasmic pleasure.

When I recently received a sex toy tester care package bursting with goodies to review, I was thrilled to spot a ROMP toy nestled inside. Lucky me. Read on for my full review of the ROMP Bass Rechargeable Silicone Vibrating Butt Plug.

For those seeking a portable and affordable alternative to a full-size fucking machine like the Tremor, Sybian or Motorbunny, the Velvet Thruster Thrusting Dildo should be your first consideration. Sure, it’s noisy compared with a standard handheld vibrator, but this isn’t a standard vibe.

He seemed to be part companion, being allowed to curl up at her feet when she worked at her desk with her laptop, and part amusing plaything, when she’d temporarily remove his chastity cage and have him hump a special plush dog toy she’d purchased, or even, on special occasions, her leg. She’d laugh until she nearly cried, stopping him as his cock started to leak, then she’d stuff him back inside his cock cage to suffer.

I have talked at length about how difficult it was to be believed by my doctor last year, the struggle to get HRT and how upsetting, restrictive and disruptive the symptoms are, in my perimenopause blog post. As part of my ongoing research, I purchased the book I’m reviewing here today: The New Hot by Meg Matthews – Taking on the Menopause With Attitude and Style.

Have you ever heard of the Folded Deckchair sex position? I was surprised to find out that one of my husband and I’s favourite sex positions had a name. To be honest, it shouldn’t have surprised me that much as the Internet is full of sexual position listicles with such titles as "69 Sex Positions You Never Knew Existed!" and "100 New Sex Positions You Need To Try Right NOW!".

If you haven’t heard of the Rose sex toy, then where have you been? This objet d’orgasme has been advertised on television regularly here in the UK, and despite already owning an unreasonable amount of sex toys I found myself desperate to try one out.

The Lovehoney Dare Discreet Necklace Vibrator is a slender bullet vibe which can be worn round the neck on a dainty chain, either underneath your clothing, or on public view to unsuspecting friends and passers-by. Would you dare to wear?