Last Updated on 1 November, 2025 by Cara Sutra
Sexy Christmas gifts are the perfect way to add romance and pleasure to the holidays. In this guide I share festive-themed toys and luxury presents couples can buy and enjoy together, all from trusted retailers I personally use.
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Whether you want to ignite passion, create memorable moments, or indulge in overdue couple time, this romantic Christmas gift guide has you covered. My gifting twist on the classic rhyme:
Something buzzy, something kinky; something scented, something slinky!
Pre-Xmas Gifts: Sexy Advent Calendars
Countdowns feel longer when you are excited. Sex up the wait with a pre-Christmas treat for yourself or to share with a partner. Enjoy my sexy advent calendar reviews, then pick your favourite for this year through the links below or my dedicated sexy advent calendars page.
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Buzzy: Sex Toys
My favourite sexy and romantic gifts to buy for yourself or your partner this Christmas, starting with vibrators and multi-sensations.
Multi Sensation Toy: The Grinder by Bondara
The Grinder by Bondara is a versatile toy you can enjoy solo or together in many positions. I loved it in testing, as you can read in my The Grinder by Bondara review.
Clit Stim Lovers: Lovehoney Rose Sex Toy with G-Spot Vibrator
I was impressed with the Lovehoney Rose Toy when I tried it. This version pairs the rose head with a G-spot shaft, and the shaft doubles as a handy grip for easier clitoral play.
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Penis Pleasure Fans: Lovehoney Power Squad Penis/Anal Sex Toy Kit
Great value set for mixed sensations. Use the toys alone or together, on the penis, around the balls, or anally, and pop the bullet wherever you please.
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Couple’s Erotic Gift Set: Lovehoney Wilder Weekend Sex Toy Kit
A brilliant couples kit to explore together through Christmas and beyond. Inside: rechargeable rabbit, jiggle balls, stroker, rechargeable bullet, rabbit-ears cock ring, beads, plug and ring set.
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Kinky: Bondage Gear
Want to explore power play or add fresh gear to your collection? These are great bedroom bondage gifts to buy and wrap.
Bondage Gift Set: Bondage Boutique Red Hot Passion Bondage Kit
Everything for a sizzling session in one box. Includes blindfold, ball gag, flogger, strap with D-rings, wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs in festive red and black.
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Bondara Red Rule Me In Bed Restraint
Instant under-mattress restraint system with four detachable cuffs and strong adjustable strapping.
Scented: Massage Candles & Gift Sets
Create an evocative atmosphere that helps you both relax and connect.
Womanizer White Tea Scented Candle
Presented beautifully and perfect for lighting during shared moments. A sensual scent and soft candle-light set the mood.
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Kama Sutra The Weekender Kit – Sensual Romance Set
Beautifully presented and packed with shared-use goodies: kissable oil of love, honey dust with feather tickler, massage oils, lubricant and erotic play cards.
Slinky: Sexy Lingerie & Underwear
Timeless, flattering and always a thrill to unwrap.
Lovehoney Sweet Love Red Bra Set and Eye Mask
Gift-boxed set available in a wide size range, soft to wear and very cute. The matching eye mask is a playful extra.
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Bondara Feisty Florals Red Lace Bralette Set (Bondara Belle & Bondara Flirt)
Deep red lace with flattering criss-cross straps. Comfortable, pretty and very giftable.
Skin Two PVC Delilah Dress
Striking silhouette with buckle choker-style neck. Ideal if lacy lingerie is not your thing and you want bold fetishwear instead.
Gift Vouchers
Not sure on size or taste? Gift vouchers remove the guesswork and let them choose exactly what they want.
SheVibe Gift Certificates (USA)
Bondara Gift Vouchers (UK)
I hope my guide to sexy Christmas gifts has sparked ideas for sensual, romantic presents that you can buy and enjoy together. Thoughtful gifting at Christmas can be meaningful when you focus on what you both want to explore, whether that is a new toy, a kinky kit or a slinky set they will love.
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