Last Updated on 5 November, 2026 by Cara Sutra
Sexy Christmas gifts are the loveliest way to wrap up a little romance and pleasure for the holidays. In this guide I have gathered my favourite festive-season toys, kits and treats you can buy and enjoy together, all from retailers I use and trust. Whether you want to reignite the spark, make new memories, or claw back some overdue couple time, there is something here for every body.
My gifting twist on the old rhyme:
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Pre-Christmas: Sexy Advent Calendars
Countdowns feel longer when you are excited, so sex up the wait with a treat for yourself or to share. Browse my sexy advent calendar reviews, then pick this year’s favourite over on my dedicated sexy advent calendars page, where all the current shopping links live.
⭐ My Star Buy: We-Vibe Wand 2
If you buy one thing from this guide, make it this. The We-Vibe Wand 2 is my current obsession: cordless, rechargeable, with a deep rumbly power most wands only wish they had, a flexible neck that actually reaches where you want it, and it is quiet enough not to wake the house. It is as happy pressed against a clit as it is roaming over a partner’s body, so it earns its place as both a solo treat and a shared one. I fucking love mine.
My full We-Vibe Wand 2 review explains why it not only beats the original, but its closest rivals, too.
Buzzy: Sex Toys by Pleasure
My favourite toys to gift this year, grouped by the kind of pleasure they deliver so you can shop straight for what suits the body you have in mind.
Clitoral: Womanizer Next
The clitoral showstopper. The Womanizer Next builds on the Pleasure Air suction the brand made its name with and adds a clever 3D sensation you feel more than hear. If you want to gift a reliable, come-back-for-more clitoral orgasm, this is the one. The detail is all in my Womanizer Next review.
Vaginal & G-Spot: Lovehoney Happy Rabbit
The Happy Rabbit range is where I send everyone who wants a proper rabbit, and the bunnies in this collection run rings around the budget ones I used to recommend. Strong, rumbly motors in both the shaft and the ears, fully rechargeable, and shaped to work the G-spot and clit together. There is a size and style for every body and budget in the range.
Anal: b-Vibe 360 Plug
For the anally curious or the committed plug lover, the b-Vibe 360 is a real treat: a weighted, rotating, vibrating plug that moves in a way a static plug never could. Body-safe silicone, remote control, and that lovely b-Vibe build quality. A properly indulgent back-door gift, as I found in my b-Vibe 360 review.
Prostate & P-Spot: Aneros Helix Syn
A classic for good reason. The Aneros Helix Syn is a hands-free prostate massager you move with your own muscles rather than a motor, which makes the build to a p-spot orgasm slow, deep and surprisingly intense. Body-safe, welcoming for the prostate-curious, and a cult favourite. Our Aneros Helix Syn review explains the appeal.
Penis: Arcwave Ion 2
The penis-owner’s answer to Pleasure Air. The Arcwave Ion 2 aims its air-pulse tech straight at the frenulum, the most nerve-rich spot on the penis, for a sensation unlike any ordinary stroker. If you want to gift a completely new kind of orgasm, this is it. Read my Arcwave Ion 2 review.
Couples Gift Sets & Kits
Can’t pick just one toy? A couples kit wraps a whole evening of play into one box. These are my picks, and I have checked each one is available to shoppers in both the US and the UK.
Lovehoney Wilder Weekend Rechargeable Couple’s Kit (10 Piece)
Ten pieces of rechargeable fun to work through together, from a rabbit to a cock ring to a bullet and beyond. Brilliant value and a proper adventure for a couple building up their toy box.
Womanizer x We-Vibe Silver Delights Pleasure Collection
The showpiece. This limited-edition collection pairs a Womanizer clitoral stimulator with a We-Vibe couples’ vibrator in beautiful gift packaging, the kind of present that gets gasped at. Code AFF-CARASUTRA takes 15% off full-price.
Lovehoney Pleasure Link Remote Control Couples Kit
A playful remote-control kit so one of you can hand over the buzzing to the other, whether that is across the room or across the Christmas dinner table.
Lovense Lush 4
My pick for wearable, app-controlled play, whether you are in the same bed or hundreds of miles apart. Slip it in, hand over the app, and let them drive. Paired with the Ferri panty vibe, also shown above, the sensations are absolute bliss. Get all the details in my Lovense Lush 4 review.
Kinky: Bondage Gear
Want to unwrap a little power play? A couple of giftable kink pieces to tuck under the tree.
Liebe Seele Metallic Shades Bondage Toys
My hero kink gift this year. The Liebe Seele Metallic Shades range is vegan-friendly bondage gear in gorgeous burgundy, beautifully made and a world away from flimsy starter tat. Cuffs, collar and more to mix and match. The full look is in my Liebe Seele Metallic Shades review.
Bondage Boutique Red Hot Passion Bedroom Bondage Kit
If you are starting from scratch, this everything-in-one-box kit is the easy win: blindfold, wrist and ankle cuffs, flogger, ball gag and an under-mattress tie-up strap, all in festive red and black.
Slinky: Sexy Lingerie & Underwear
Timeless, flattering and always a thrill to unwrap.
Lovehoney Lingerie
Lovehoney is my go-to for giftable lingerie, not least because the size range is a proper one, running well beyond straight sizes so you can actually find something to fit and flatter the body you are shopping for. Gift-boxed sets make it feel that bit more special.
Skin Two Fetishwear
If lace is not their thing, Skin Two does bold PVC and fetishwear that makes a statement. A striking alternative for the kinkier wardrobe.
Gift Vouchers
Not sure on size or taste? A voucher hands them the choice and takes the guesswork out of it.
- US: SheVibe gift certificate
- Worldwide: Lovehoney US | Lovehoney UK
- UK kink: Skin Two gift card
However you unwrap it this year, I hope this guide has sparked a few ideas for sensual, playful presents you will both enjoy long after the big day. The best sexy gifts are the ones that say come here, let’s play, I want more of you.
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