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Worrying that using butt plugs or other anal sex toys will make you gay seems to be a fear peculiar to cishet men. Today I’m addressing this issue and giving my definitive answer to the regularly asked question, “will using anal sex toys make me gay?”

This month I will be reviewing a couple of toys again. The first one is the Loving Joy Anal Douche from Loving Joy. This is the first time I have used one of these. It’s kind of like the little bulb syringe that you would use for flushing out your nose or ear only much bigger.

For centuries, women’s sexuality has been silenced, shamed, mocked and dismissed as irrelevant. The Cara Sutra sex blog is my way of being loud and proud about my sexual pleasure, while sharing my experience and advice for the enjoyment of my readers. Today I am specifically focusing on celebrating women’s sexuality, exploring how women of the modern world are fighting shame with pleasure and slowly turning the tide on long-standing myths and stigma.

When you're a Dominant Woman in control of a male submissive or slave, consensually as part of the FemDom aspect of BDSM, one of the most rewarding elements of this dynamic is setting tasks for your submissive to obediently complete. I have recently written about the methods a Dominant Woman may use to exert control over her sub, but today I want to provide a handy list of 50 kinky tasks a Domme can give her sub or slave.

I’m delighted to be reviewing another exciting sex toy from Nothosaur this month - this time, the glistening, gorgeous Nothosaur Toys Anubis Dildo. Inspired by the ancient Egyptian jackal-headed god who guided souls to the afterlife and judged their purity, this canine-contoured dildo promises to preside over your pleasure until you reach the fabled ‘petite mort.’ But did this divine masterpiece lead me to celestial orgasms, or should it be consigned to history?

Did you know you can easily and confidentially self-test for HIV at home? Knowing your HIV status is one of the most important steps you can take for your health. Yet, more than 1 in 7 people living with HIV worldwide are unaware they have the virus.

I don’t enjoy a slave’s physical stimulation from being anally pegged, it is more about a display of my power as the Top, a physical conquest of their body as well as their mind, plus there is always a chastity requirement in place with my submissives so they are not allowed to reach or experience orgasm.

Although I spoke briefly about P-spot stimulation devices in my recent blog post, today I want to offer a deep delve into prostate toys. Welcome to my guide to prostate massagers, where I’ll outline what specifically makes a toy a prostate massager and the most effective P-spot toys available.

Love is love, and it deserves to be fully celebrated in all its forms. Read on to discover my gay sex toys guide, where I’ll be showcasing adult toys ideal for gay couples, to enhance your intimate and passionate private time together.

The Bondara Monsters range offers dildos completely different to the standard, realistic-size cocks. There are tentacles, fists, extra-girthy, extra-long and even double-ended and multi-cock styles. Today I’m sharing my thoughts and experiences of the Bondara Twisted Twins Monster Tentacle Dildo, a textured, silicone wonder with a suction-cup base.

Do you opt for a lubed up ‘hand solo’ or have you got a favourite penis stroker toy? If you’re here because you’re wondering if you can improve on what you’ve got, and enjoy spectacular orgasms by travelling a different route to usual, you’re in luck. Today I’m talking about cock strokers that’ll blow your mind, in a penis masturbators guide offering you the best toys whatever your budget.

I hadn’t heard of Nothosaur Toys before I was approached for this sex toy review, but I’m so glad I know about them now! They create all kinds of fantastical and exotic dildos, based on theology & legends, in a wide variety of colours and textures. Today I’m reviewing the Nothosaur Toys Virgo Dildo, from their Zodiac sex toys collection. Just look at how gorgeous it is!

In the world of sexuality and intimate pleasure, there is a lot of talk about the G-spot. This may raise several questions for you, such as what is the G-spot? Why is it called that? Does it really exist? Where is the G-spot and how can you stimulate it effectively? What are the best G-stim vibrators & dildos to use? Welcome to my G-Spot Toys guide!

What if you and your partner would like a more 'everyday' style of Dom and sub relationship? A consensual power exchange which isn’t limited to kinky play sessions in the bedroom, but enhances every part of your life together? In today’s article I will explore lifestyle BDSM from the Dom’s point of view, revealing how to be Dominant outside the bedroom.

I know that finding the perfect gift for your beloved can feel like navigating a maze of tinsel, but fear not! I’m here to help you sleigh the gift-giving game and make this holiday season one for the books. Welcome to my Sexy Christmas Gift Guide!

I’m a huge fan of Christmas and love the excitement of advent calendars - especially sexy advent calendars - so I was delighted when the Lovehoney team once again kindly sent me one of their brand-new for 2023 Christmas countdown calendars to review. This year I am reviewing the Lovehoney Rose Sex Toy 12 Day Advent Calendar...

What if I told you that male chastity didn’t have to be extra work? That it’s often OK to treat a male chastity cage as a nice body modification and move on? That you can use it to get exactly what you want, and nothing you don’t?

In a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comfortable but ultimately monotonous sex with each other. That’s why I wanted to share my top tips for spring cleaning your sex life. While everything else is getting a spring clean, don’t neglect your personal and shared sexual pleasure!

How do you feel about sex dolls? Have you/would you ever use them? How do you feel about people who enjoy using sex dolls? Welcome to my realistic sex dolls guide, where I’ll be exploring the features of these oft-maligned sex toys, and revealing where to get the best quality luxury adult dolls for your intimate pleasure & companionship needs.

After the severe social restrictions of the last couple of years, many people will be enjoying some tentative freedoms with regards meeting people in-person again. Dating is back! The term 'dating' is a bit vague - it could mean searching for a long-term partner or hooking up for some no-strings sex. How can you ensure healthy hook-ups and enjoy safe sex, though?