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Experimenting with hot and cold during sex & masturbation can help you discover new ways your body likes to be stimulated, and it’s so easy to do. It’s vital to stay safe in all your explorations though. Sliding ice over your erogenous zones is one thing. But using ice cubes for anal pleasure? I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s idly wondered, ‘Can I put ice in my ass?’

Worrying that using butt plugs or other anal sex toys will make you gay seems to be a fear peculiar to cishet men. Today I’m addressing this issue and giving my definitive answer to the regularly asked question, “will using anal sex toys make me gay?”

This month I will be reviewing a couple of toys again. The first one is the Loving Joy Anal Douche from Loving Joy. This is the first time I have used one of these. It’s kind of like the little bulb syringe that you would use for flushing out your nose or ear only much bigger.

Sex machines usually have an expensive price tag attached. Anything suspiciously cheap likely poses serious risks. That's why I'm delighted to introduce you to Thumpr, the solution to your sex machine dreams. Thumpr are that elusive blend of quality machines you can trust, at prices you can afford.

I have been writing about my own self-pleasure, as a sex blogger, as well as building an educational resource about masturbation, for over seventeen years. In this comprehensive topic hub I have gathered together all my sex education articles and opinion pieces about masturbation so you can easily find the answers you're looking for.

I first discovered clit suction sex toys eleven years ago, when I reviewed the very first Womanizer. Since then, I've had the intense pleasure of experiencing a wide variety of clitoral suction toys, in my pursuit of finding the very best recommendations for my readers. As well as trying to achieve the most powerful clit suction orgasm I can ever experience, of course. All these experiences have shaped this ultimate guide to clit suction toys, your one-stop resource to what these toys are, how the technology works, which ones are worth your money and which ones to avoid.

The purpose of this topic hub is to bring together all my orgasm related articles and guides on one handy page. From here, you can navigate straight to the information you're after: the different types of orgasm you may experience, widespread orgasm myths that sex blogs like mine seek to eradicate, anatomy education to help you achieve the highest levels of pleasure you can, and practical ways people can more reliably bring themselves or their partner to orgasm.

I've never squirted. But I have experienced squirting. Confused? Don't worry, I'll explain fully later on. First, let's actually talk about what squirting is, because it's rarely explained properly. The conversation gets stuck somewhere between porn myths, locker-room boasting and well-meaning but ultimately empty wellness articles promising "unlock your G-spot in five steps." None of that's actually helpful if you're sitting there wondering what the hell is going on with your body, or your partner's, or why there's a wet patch on the sheets (or, why you can't achieve one).

Do vibrators desensitise you? I hear this worry about sex toys quite regularly from readers; that using vibrating toys leads to desensitisation of the body and reliance on them, so that you're unable to orgasm without using a vibrator. Is there any truth to this fear, or is it yet another sex toy myth? That's the heart of today's feature, where I'll answer this question with calm, clear facts backed up by medical research and scientific evidence.

The Handy 2 Pro review explores one of the most advanced automatic masturbators currently available, which combines powerful hardware with seamless interactive sync options. In this guest review, Tigerlily shares their detailed and honest experiences with this exciting new penis toy and what sets the Pro model apart from the standard Handy 2 as well as rival brands. For starters, there’s an upgraded battery and speed, immersive video integration, and alluring hands-free stimulation capability. 

This article is your comprehensive BDSM aftercare guide. It's easy to understand, practical and useful. It's also realistic, because it's important to know how aftercare actually works in real relationships, casual kink play, D/s events, and long-term dynamics.

The past 12 months have crawled by in a blink. That’s how this year has felt to me, in many ways; my personal pace downshifting a couple of gears while life rushes on around me with the same frenzied impatience as always. Every December I like to look back over the year and share some personal insights, what’s been going on behind the scenes, as it were. Most of my blog has been focused on adult toy reviews and sex advice, but today I’m carving out a little space for my 2025 reflections.

As well as couples passing toys between each other during foreplay and sex, sharing kink equipment in the BDSM scene happens frequently too. Today I’m answering the question lurking behind this common practice: Is it OK to share sex toys? Yes, it can be. You need to handle hygiene, consent and materials properly.

Painful intercourse can occur at any stage of life, to anyone. When it happens, it isn’t a sign of failure or that something is intrinsically wrong with you. Sexual pain is your body sending you a message: something needs to be adjusted or changed. Take heart (and notes) from today’s advice guide on this subject, and you will soon be on your way back to comfortable, pleasurable sex.

What is gooning? I hear you ask. Some of you might know exactly what it is, but gooning was new to me (the phrase, certainly not the activity!) so of course I did my research. This prolonged dance on the edge of orgasm is extremely interesting to me, as I’ve long been fascinated by the altered mind state that happens through extended masturbation, as well as orgasm tease and denial. Gooning is a trance-like style of self-pleasure where the goal isn't orgasm but sustained arousal, with the mind drifting into a floaty, immersive state often called the goon cave.

Ready to face your most frightening fuck fantasies this Halloween? Grab a comforting blanket and a bottle of thick ‘n slick lube because I’m diving into the most creepy creature penis toys around. Whether you’re hunting tentacle textures or dreaming of gliding past vampire fangs, this guide to scary strokers rounds up the most popular monster masturbators and fantasy sleeves for daring Halloween thrills and year-round chills.

After reviewing plenty of wonderfully weird Nothosaur fantasy dildos, we opted for something a little different this time. And this sex toy is so different, you could say it’s out of this world. Welcome to our Nothosaur Toys Vortima Masturbator review, where I’ll be sharing all the tentacle-texture details of this monster fantasy stroker.

It isn’t often I come across something new, but that’s exactly what’s happened this year with my discovery of ovipositor dildos. Curious about ovipositors? You should be. These alien egg-laying fantasy toys are the pinnacle of perverse penetrative dildo design, showstopping spectacles of texture with xenomorph tentacles and otherworldly nodules to visually arouse and internally thrill. Read on for the sublimely slimy scoop on these sci-fi inspired sex toys that bring egg-laying kinks to life; what they are, why people are attracted to them, how to use them, and how a kink I'd never considered became one of my new favourites.

True to its name, the Kohana fucked me and posited its ova deep inside my warm, wet, tight, welcoming space. A hungry, horny slut bred by alien captors and thanking them for the pleasurable privilege.

Following on from my popular guide on how to suck your own dick, I thought it would be good to expand to other parts of the body. Maybe you're just curious, or maybe you've already given it a go. The question I’m tackling today is can you suck your own tits? Let’s have a fun but informative, sex-positive look at whether it’s possible, how you can try safely, and why people love to lick their own nipples.