Cara Sutra

You crave nothing more than her largest strap-on wedged firmly up your ass. She, on the other hand,  insists you spend the day doing the dishes dressed in sissy frills and heels. However, you're not a sissy and she doesn't own any strap on harnesses. How could things have gone so wrong? It's time to talk about kink compatibility in BDSM relationships.

If you search "Zumio" here on the Cara Sutra sex blog you'll see that these sex toys receive consistently high marks in my community reviews, some dating as far back as 2017. The tragedy of the situation being that I had never actually experienced a Zumio for myself. Cut to autumn 2019, and I'm delighted to present my very own review for the Zumio X Spirotip Clitoral Vibrator, kindly sent to me free of charge in exchange for this review by the Zumio team. Thank you! There will also be a Zumio S review coming shortly from one of my community members.

I selected and was sent two items from the Lovehoney Fierce range to review, the Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress and the item I’m reviewing today, the Lovehoney Fierce Wet Look Long Sleeve Zip-Around Body.

As you'll have read in my recent Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Wand Vibrator review, I was lucky enough to be sent two sex toys to review from the recent additions to the bestselling Desire sex toys collection. Today I'm sharing my experiences of and thoughts about one of two new app-controlled vibrating sex toys in the range, the Lovehoney Desire App-Controlled Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator.

I was lucky enough to be offered some of these new sex toys to test and review, by the lovely Lovehoney team. You can click to read my Lovehoney Luxury App-Controlled Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator review, and of course there's this Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Wand Vibrator which I'll be reviewing here today.

I was lucky enough to be offered my choice of Night Lily lingerie to test and keep, so it’s my absolute pleasure to present to you my Lovehoney Night Lily Wine and Black Lace Basque Set review today.

Nexus are a brand I have a great deal of time and respect for. They invest a lot of research into their luxurious and effective prostate stim toys, and are regular recipients of various adult industry awards. No area of anal pleasure is overlooked, as can be seen in this review, which is for the Nexus Douche.

Last week saw the celebration of YES Organic Intimacy Week, highlighted in my recent feature. As part of the awareness campaign, YES sent me a very generous gift hamper full of fun merch, information and the main organic essentials from their well-researched and effective range. As promised, I'm writing up my review of the YES Organic Lubricants and Intimate Moisturisers included in the gift hamper, now I've had a chance to properly use and enjoy them.

The latest addition to my sexy lingerie collection is this gorgeous 3-piece set from the new Wild Blooms lingerie range at Lovehoney. There's also a body and a basque set in the range, but it was the Lovehoney Wild Blooms Black Embroidered Bra Set which seduced me into selecting it for review.

You may remember my last 'big guide' - the Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses I published last month. Obviously you'll need a fantastic dildo to attach to your new strap-on harness, so here's the follow-up feature: my big guide to strap-on dildos!

Why does humiliation turn some people on so intensely, even when the fantasy itself feels shocking, taboo, or emotionally conflicting? I'm asking because I'm one of those people, and I've spent a long time trying to make sense of it. The idea of humiliation, in any real-world sense, repels me. I hate the thought of being genuinely shamed, looked down on, or made small. And yet my biggest, most reliably arousing fantasies are built around exactly that: being shamed, exposed, humiliated, reduced to something to be laughed at or used...

Let's tackle the myth of vaginal orgasms. The myth isn't whether or not they're possible, but rather that everyone with a vagina must be able to climax from vaginal stimulation. If you don't orgasm from vaginal penetration, please don't panic. You're not alone. I don't orgasm that way either.

The Womanizer Pro40 has earned a reputation as one of the most reliable clit suction toys out there – and both my community reviewer and I completely agree. In this post, I’ve combined our two Womanizer Pro40 reviews: one for the standard version, and one for the Lovehoney x Womanizer branded edition.

How people perceive my domination, and the reality of it, is something which has fascinated me for some time. You would be amazed at some of the comments directed my way over the years simply for the ways in which I choose to enjoy my natural dominance, as well as how my actively consenting submissives enjoy it, too. Some of these comments are borne from ignorance, some from jealousy, some from malice, and others simply because the person spoke without properly thinking it all through.

The fountain elicited a chorus of open-mouthed wails. The heat of the sun and humiliation hit my exposed clit and spread labia, slicking them with hungry need. My body kept forgetting it was in such secure bondage; each leg kept pointed upwards and outwards, unable to bend. How I wished I could arch my back completely, then curl into a ball and keep this feeling of humiliation-fuelled hot desire as my own private masturbatory tool.

The Lovehoney Free Spirit lingerie collection is pretty and summery in pink and purple shades. There are three items in the range, both in one size and plus size: a bra set, a babydoll set and the item I’m reviewing here today, the Lovehoney Free Spirit Pink Lace Cut-Out Strappy Body.

Strap-on sex (sometimes known as pegging) is enjoyed by many adults and within various types of relationship; for example, lesbian/bisexual sex, in BDSM as part of FemDom, or to help a penis-owner pleasure their partner in different ways. There are many types of harness available to help you achieve your sexual pleasure aims – welcome to my big guide to strap-on sex harnesses.

When approached by Honour to review a new sex toy release, I was intrigued... then when I found out the new toy was a wand vibrator, I was excited! Regular readers of my blog will know just how much of a magic wand vibrator fan I am. The Honour H30 Vibrating Wand has been created and released in celebration of 30 years of trading for Honour.

As you'll have read in my recent NS Novelties Silicone Colours Pride Edition 5 Inch Dildo review, I was recently asked if I’d like to review some of the raunchy rainbow collection of sex toys and lingerie Lovehoney collated in celebration of Pride Month 2019. The second item I’ve reviewing is this glorious NS Novelties Silicone Unicorn Tails Butt Plug.

The Hot Octopuss sex toys collection began with the now internationally popular Pulse, also known as a Guybrator. Since the early days, and plenty of industry awards and acclaim later, Hot Octopuss added cock rings and clitoral vibrators. I'm proud to present the newest item in the Hot Octopuss family: the Hot Octopuss DiGiT Finger Vibe.