Cara Sutra

As a proud kinkster and huge fan of the chastity fetish in particular, it gives me great pleasure to share details of an official annual celebration of this highly erotic kink. International Male Chastity Day (also known as International Chastity Day) is celebrated on the 15th February* each year.

What can you use to restrain someone (or enjoy being restrained) in bondage? That's where bondage sex toys and bondage accessories come into their own. It helps having some background knowledge of just what's available in terms of bondage equipment, and why it's important to use items specifically designed for bondage rather than any old belt, strap or rope...

Does the mere thought of a raised Dominant hand, or a spanking toy whistling through the air, stir the tendrils of arousal? You might be wondering which spanking tools are best for effective corporal punishment. Welcome to my big spanking toys guide, in which you'll also find links to all our spanking toy reviews.

Despite Fifty Shades of Grey helping to spotlight the joys of BDSM in the mainstream in recent years, plenty of people have been enjoying the physical, psychological and emotional liberation that the power exchange in D/s role-play offers. Due to the recent sharp rise in mainstream interest, I wanted to share my bondage top tips and advice in this beginner's guide to bondage today. Welcome to my complete bondage 101!

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.

I'd like to talk a little more about why we love sexy corporal punishment here today, and how it really hits our spot. Perhaps this intimate revelation will prompt more people out there to accept spanking and similar as being just as 'acceptable' as 'regular' sex antics, instead of mentally filing such habits as perverted, deviant and downright weird.

As you'll see from the many, many Hot Octopuss sex toy reviews here at Cara Sutra, my partner and I have spent the past few years thoroughly enjoying the new releases from this innovative and inclusive adult brand. It was with great delight that I accepted this opportunity to review one of the latest additions to the Hot Octopuss Guybrator family, the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux.

As you'll have read in my recent Lovehoney Fierce Wet Look Long Sleeve Zip-Around Body review, I was delighted to be offered two items from the spectacular new Lovehoney Fierce clothing range to review. Upon seeing the Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress I fell in love, and knew I just had to have it. It's so me! Did reality live up to my initial lust?

You crave nothing more than her largest strap-on wedged firmly up your ass. She, on the other hand,  insists you spend the day doing the dishes dressed in sissy frills and heels. However, you're not a sissy and she doesn't own any strap on harnesses. How could things have gone so wrong? It's time to talk about kink compatibility in BDSM relationships.

If you search "Zumio" here on the Cara Sutra sex blog you'll see that these sex toys receive consistently high marks in my community reviews, some dating as far back as 2017. The tragedy of the situation being that I had never actually experienced a Zumio for myself. Cut to autumn 2019, and I'm delighted to present my very own review for the Zumio X Spirotip Clitoral Vibrator, kindly sent to me free of charge in exchange for this review by the Zumio team. Thank you! There will also be a Zumio S review coming shortly from one of my community members.

I selected and was sent two items from the Lovehoney Fierce range to review, the Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress and the item I’m reviewing today, the Lovehoney Fierce Wet Look Long Sleeve Zip-Around Body.

As you'll have read in my recent Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Wand Vibrator review, I was lucky enough to be sent two sex toys to review from the recent additions to the bestselling Desire sex toys collection. Today I'm sharing my experiences of and thoughts about one of two new app-controlled vibrating sex toys in the range, the Lovehoney Desire App-Controlled Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator.

I was lucky enough to be offered some of these new sex toys to test and review, by the lovely Lovehoney team. You can click to read my Lovehoney Luxury App-Controlled Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator review, and of course there's this Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Wand Vibrator which I'll be reviewing here today.

I was lucky enough to be offered my choice of Night Lily lingerie to test and keep, so it’s my absolute pleasure to present to you my Lovehoney Night Lily Wine and Black Lace Basque Set review today.

Nexus are a brand I have a great deal of time and respect for. They invest a lot of research into their luxurious and effective prostate stim toys, and are regular recipients of various adult industry awards. No area of anal pleasure is overlooked, as can be seen in this review, which is for the Nexus Douche.

Last week saw the celebration of YES Organic Intimacy Week, highlighted in my recent feature. As part of the awareness campaign, YES sent me a very generous gift hamper full of fun merch, information and the main organic essentials from their well-researched and effective range. As promised, I'm writing up my review of the YES Organic Lubricants and Intimate Moisturisers included in the gift hamper, now I've had a chance to properly use and enjoy them.

The latest addition to my sexy lingerie collection is this gorgeous 3-piece set from the new Wild Blooms lingerie range at Lovehoney. There's also a body and a basque set in the range, but it was the Lovehoney Wild Blooms Black Embroidered Bra Set which seduced me into selecting it for review.

You may remember my last 'big guide' - the Big Guide To Strap-On Sex Harnesses I published last month. Obviously you'll need a fantastic dildo to attach to your new strap-on harness, so here's the follow-up feature: my big guide to strap-on dildos!

Why does humiliation turn some people on so intensely, even when the fantasy itself feels shocking, taboo, or emotionally conflicting? I'm asking because I'm one of those people, and I've spent a long time trying to make sense of it. The idea of humiliation, in any real-world sense, repels me. I hate the thought of being genuinely shamed, looked down on, or made small. And yet my biggest, most reliably arousing fantasies are built around exactly that: being shamed, exposed, humiliated, reduced to something to be laughed at or used...

Let's tackle the myth of vaginal orgasms. The myth isn't whether or not they're possible, but rather that everyone with a vagina must be able to climax from vaginal stimulation. If you don't orgasm from vaginal penetration, please don't panic. You're not alone. I don't orgasm that way either.