Cara Sutra

Trying to shift in order to mimic the thrusts during anal sex made me realise just how much longer than anal plugs this dildo is. It's really on the very cusp of just too much for me to handle, especially with the added movement. Sitting still with it filling my core was enough stimulation to quickly tip me over into a powerful climax when I added the blissful stimulation from a clitoral vibrator.

I was lucky enough to receive this new addition to the Lovehoney wand vibrators collection in my recent sex toy tester care package from the team. Despite trying several of the Lovehoney magic wand vibrators in the past, I was looking forward to seeing what the Lovehoney USB Rechargeable Mini Pink Glitter Wand Vibrator had to offer.

As always when I use glass or metal sex toys, the initial coolness of the unyielding, rigid material made me catch my breath upon insertion. I made sure I used some lube on the toy and myself, then placed the smoothly pointed tip between my ready pussy lips. Sliding it inside, slowly so I could enjoy the sensations, I gasped as my warmth enveloped each inch of the contoured glass toy.

I've reviewed several Lovehoney wand vibrators in the past, and when I opened my sex toy review package from the team, I was surprised to discover a Lovehoney-branded wand vibe I hadn’t tried yet. The Lovehoney USB Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator has the same style as the larger (and in some cases, smaller) mainline Lovehoney wand vibrators – mainly white, with a purple bendy neck and the red Lovehoney heart logo above the control panel.

I've been impressed with my previous products from the Lovehoney Desire sex toys collection, and I know my sex toy tester community feel the same way. I was intrigued to discover the Lovehoney Desire Luxury Vibrating Double Love Ring in a sex toy review package from Lovehoney, as despite loving the gorgeous Desire aesthetics and feel, I haven’t found much success with standard vibrating cock rings in the past.

When I apply it to my clit it feels like that silently-squealing horny feeling when I really need to orgasm... hot and cold all at once, with no discomfort, just intense, tingling pleasure. It is also effective applied to whichever other erogenous zone you fancy –nipples, labia etc.

One of my sex toy testers and I were sent a Lovehoney Oh! Sex Bomb Sexy Surprise Bath Bomb For Her free of charge by Lovehoney, in exchange for our fair and honest reviews here on the blog. Find out what we thought of this fun and sexy bath-time addition...

It wasn’t until I peeled away the hygiene seal and dispensed a little Delight Lube that I realised my preconceptions about this lube had been completely wrong. It isn’t thin and clear, as I was expecting; the Delight Lube is semi-opaque (white) and genuinely silky. A delightfully slippery, silky and thick cushioning lube. I had to take a little video  to show you what I mean...

Due to the exciting explorations of trust and vulnerability in kink play, the words "stop" or "no" don't necessarily mean what they usually would. They can be said as part of role play, or to enhance the atmosphere of the scenario. How can someone in the middle of a kink session unequivocally communicate that they need to stop proceedings at once? Welcome to my guide to saying stop when you really mean it in BDSM. 

Our heteronormative, phallocentric society loves to promote the myth that sex begins and ends with penis-in-vagina. That the only true definition of sex is thrusting a penis into a vagina which then ejaculates at some point, which signals the End Of The Sex. I'm here to tell you that such a view is wrong on so many levels.

Female chastity is a BDSM topic very close to my Mistress heart, and one I've been thinking and writing about for well over a decade. I've covered male chastity at length over the years, written extensively about chastity cage reviews and keyholding, and explored just about every angle of locking a partner up. But the question I keep coming back to, and one I get asked often, is this: what about us? Does female chastity really exist as a kink in its own right, and how can women genuinely enjoy orgasm denial?

As a proud kinkster and huge fan of the chastity fetish in particular, it gives me great pleasure to share details of an official annual celebration of this highly erotic kink. International Male Chastity Day (also known as International Chastity Day) is celebrated on the 15th February* each year.

What can you use to restrain someone (or enjoy being restrained) in bondage? That's where bondage sex toys and bondage accessories come into their own. It helps having some background knowledge of just what's available in terms of bondage equipment, and why it's important to use items specifically designed for bondage rather than any old belt, strap or rope...

Does the mere thought of a raised Dominant hand, or a spanking toy whistling through the air, stir the tendrils of arousal? You might be wondering which spanking tools are best for effective corporal punishment. Welcome to my big spanking toys guide, in which you'll also find links to all our spanking toy reviews.

Despite Fifty Shades of Grey helping to spotlight the joys of BDSM in the mainstream in recent years, plenty of people have been enjoying the physical, psychological and emotional liberation that the power exchange in D/s role-play offers. Due to the recent sharp rise in mainstream interest, I wanted to share my bondage top tips and advice in this beginner's guide to bondage today. Welcome to my complete bondage 101!

The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.

I'd like to talk a little more about why we love sexy corporal punishment here today, and how it really hits our spot. Perhaps this intimate revelation will prompt more people out there to accept spanking and similar as being just as 'acceptable' as 'regular' sex antics, instead of mentally filing such habits as perverted, deviant and downright weird.

As you'll see from the many, many Hot Octopuss sex toy reviews here at Cara Sutra, my partner and I have spent the past few years thoroughly enjoying the new releases from this innovative and inclusive adult brand. It was with great delight that I accepted this opportunity to review one of the latest additions to the Hot Octopuss Guybrator family, the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Lux.

***LINKS UPDATED FOR THIS YEAR - CLICK THE GREEN BUTTONS TO BUY BEFORE THEY SELL OUT*** With the contents worth £250 in total at their usual retail prices, this Lovehoney Best Sex Of Your Life Couple's Sex Toy Countdown Calendar 2019 represents fantastic value for money as well as a spicy boost to your sex life over the Christmas season – and well beyond that, too. You'll see the New Year in with sensual style with this collection of thrilling sex toys, bondage gear and sexy wearables at your fingertips, thanks to Lovehoney.

As you'll have read in my recent Lovehoney Fierce Wet Look Long Sleeve Zip-Around Body review, I was delighted to be offered two items from the spectacular new Lovehoney Fierce clothing range to review. Upon seeing the Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress I fell in love, and knew I just had to have it. It's so me! Did reality live up to my initial lust?