Cara Sutra

The Lovehoney Oh! range includes various sexy games and fun foreplay accessories to liven up solo pleasure and shared intimate moments. I love erotic massage candles, whether by myself or to share with my partner, so I thoroughly enjoyed being able to try some of the Lovehoney Oh! Scented Massage Candles (available in Vanilla, Strawberry or Cherry scent).

I enjoyed discovering the anal-based joys of this triple set of plugs. I was expecting to be able to use them all with ease, as I'm no newbie when it comes to butt plugs and anal sex. However, my experiences with the plugs in this set is going to read like some sort of perverted Goldilocks story (something I'm sure a few of my readers wouldn't be averse to...)

There's just no way to discuss sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and make it sound sexy, but adult sex education is undoubtedly a necessity. If even the thought of having an STI makes you feel ill, then it's best to be in possession of all the facts so you can make sure you're sexually cleaner than a t-shirt at the end of a laundry detergent ad.

What are SSC and RACK exactly, what are the main differences, how do they relate to general BDSM safety principles - and which one do you feel most comfortable with? Welcome to my easy understand guide to the two safety frameworks every kinkster needs to know. Don't get kinky before reading through and choosing whichever is correct for you!

The Leader's voice reiterated the main points: there had been several deaths in one of the planet's medical research facilities. The deaths were at first thought to be of natural causes, but as time passed the authorities could no longer contain or deny the truth. An incredibly dangerous virus was on the loose. It was highly infectious. Expect major changes in your day-to day lives. Protect yourself and others. This is life or death. All inhabitants must abide by the new laws and restrictions. Effective immediately.

It’s difficult to know how to begin describing the sensations from the Gyr8tor Gyrating Vibrator. This toy is unlike any other sex toy I’ve tried, but it feels like I should have already experienced the sensations at some point in my sex toy tester journey.  It’s part classic vibrator, part thrusting, hand-held fucking machine and part juddering, swirling, literally revolutionary, orgasmic wonder.  

Brilliant sexual foreplay can mean the difference between a stagnant, monotonous sex life and keeping the spice and magic of a relationship alive. Are you stuck for ideas for fantastic before sex arousal and supremely arousing foreplay? Welcome to my comprehensive guide to lovers' arousal techniques: my sexual foreplay 101.

Excited to see what the scent was really like, I applied it to my pulse points as recommended on the box. I could smell the patchouli and cedar straight away, then the light crisper citrus notes came through. It's not an overpowering patchouli smell (I didn't smell like 'goth shop'!) but there's an exotic musk which I must say I preferred to the 'attract men' version.

Applying it to my pulse points as recommended on the box, I was able to finally experience the scent of this 'attract men' pheromone scent. It's quite a delicate scent, and although there are sweeter top notes, there's a musky base from the cedar and sandalwood which lends an exotic air.

Trying to shift in order to mimic the thrusts during anal sex made me realise just how much longer than anal plugs this dildo is. It's really on the very cusp of just too much for me to handle, especially with the added movement. Sitting still with it filling my core was enough stimulation to quickly tip me over into a powerful climax when I added the blissful stimulation from a clitoral vibrator.

I was lucky enough to receive this new addition to the Lovehoney wand vibrators collection in my recent sex toy tester care package from the team. Despite trying several of the Lovehoney magic wand vibrators in the past, I was looking forward to seeing what the Lovehoney USB Rechargeable Mini Pink Glitter Wand Vibrator had to offer.

As always when I use glass or metal sex toys, the initial coolness of the unyielding, rigid material made me catch my breath upon insertion. I made sure I used some lube on the toy and myself, then placed the smoothly pointed tip between my ready pussy lips. Sliding it inside, slowly so I could enjoy the sensations, I gasped as my warmth enveloped each inch of the contoured glass toy.

I've reviewed several Lovehoney wand vibrators in the past, and when I opened my sex toy review package from the team, I was surprised to discover a Lovehoney-branded wand vibe I hadn’t tried yet. The Lovehoney USB Rechargeable Mini Massage Wand Vibrator has the same style as the larger (and in some cases, smaller) mainline Lovehoney wand vibrators – mainly white, with a purple bendy neck and the red Lovehoney heart logo above the control panel.

I've been impressed with my previous products from the Lovehoney Desire sex toys collection, and I know my sex toy tester community feel the same way. I was intrigued to discover the Lovehoney Desire Luxury Vibrating Double Love Ring in a sex toy review package from Lovehoney, as despite loving the gorgeous Desire aesthetics and feel, I haven’t found much success with standard vibrating cock rings in the past.

When I apply it to my clit it feels like that silently-squealing horny feeling when I really need to orgasm... hot and cold all at once, with no discomfort, just intense, tingling pleasure. It is also effective applied to whichever other erogenous zone you fancy –nipples, labia etc.

One of my sex toy testers and I were sent a Lovehoney Oh! Sex Bomb Sexy Surprise Bath Bomb For Her free of charge by Lovehoney, in exchange for our fair and honest reviews here on the blog. Find out what we thought of this fun and sexy bath-time addition...

It wasn’t until I peeled away the hygiene seal and dispensed a little Delight Lube that I realised my preconceptions about this lube had been completely wrong. It isn’t thin and clear, as I was expecting; the Delight Lube is semi-opaque (white) and genuinely silky. A delightfully slippery, silky and thick cushioning lube. I had to take a little video  to show you what I mean...

Due to the exciting explorations of trust and vulnerability in kink play, the words "stop" or "no" don't necessarily mean what they usually would. They can be said as part of role play, or to enhance the atmosphere of the scenario. How can someone in the middle of a kink session unequivocally communicate that they need to stop proceedings at once? Welcome to my guide to saying stop when you really mean it in BDSM. 

Our heteronormative, phallocentric society loves to promote the myth that sex begins and ends with penis-in-vagina. That the only true definition of sex is thrusting a penis into a vagina which then ejaculates at some point, which signals the End Of The Sex. I'm here to tell you that such a view is wrong on so many levels.

Female chastity is a BDSM topic very close to my Mistress heart, and one I've been thinking and writing about for well over a decade. I've covered male chastity at length over the years, written extensively about chastity cage reviews and keyholding, and explored just about every angle of locking a partner up. But the question I keep coming back to, and one I get asked often, is this: what about us? Does female chastity really exist as a kink in its own right, and how can women genuinely enjoy orgasm denial?