Q&A: Looking for a good quality bondage hogtie to use with my partner?

Looking for a good quality bondage hogtie for kinky couples play

Bondage sex toys advice from Cara Sutra

Q: Please help! My partner and I are looking for a decent wrist/ankle restraint to enjoy a bondage hogtie or reverse hogtie situation, so I can be on my back legs spread and which gives her full access to my cock and balls.

Do you have any recommendations or maybe a bondage kit that would contain that piece and a few other bondage sex toys to get us started on our kinky adventures?

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A: The favourite bondage hogtie piece I have in my own collection is the Shots Media Ouch! Wrist and Legcuffs Restraints, which isn’t easily available in the UK any more but you can take a look at my review here.

There are definitely other, good quality bondage hogtie pieces you can purchase to give you the session you desire, however.

I have tried a couple of the DOMINIX bondage sex toy pieces from Lovehoney and they’ve been excellent quality, so why not check out the DOMINIX bondage hogtie piece for Β£16.99? There are trigger clips at the end of the 4 leather straps which can be affixed to your own choice of cuffs if they have O rings or D rings attached.

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If you’re looking for a bondage hogtie piece with cuffs included, this Bondage Boutique Intermediate Hogtie Set looks ideal.

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There is another option if you already have a few bondage pieces in your collection. Get a couple of double ended trigger clips and use them with some of the tethers you get in an under-bed bondage restraint system or similar. With the right bondage cuffs you can make your own hogtie piece by adjusting the straps to a length which is comfortable – or at least deliberately uncomfortable!

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I haven’t seen any bondage kits which include a bondage hogtie piece – many of the bondage kits are for beginners to bondage. This is because manufacturing costs tends to rise along with both the quality and complexity of bondage sex toys – meaning that a box of beginner’s pieces can be budget friendly and affordable for most, but a box of 5-8 advanced/hardcore bondage items would probably be extremely costly. Another factor is that at a more advanced level people want to choose each piece carefully according to their experiences and learned preferences, making a ready-made set less appealing than it would be to newbies.

A bondage hogtie piece is seen as a more intermediate or advanced bit of kit because it is a step up from simply having wrists or ankles bound separately. Freedom of movement is even more severely restricted while in the hogtied position (whether on back or on front), providing the consenting submissive with an alluring heightened state of vulnerability.

That said, many bondage kits (such as the Fantasy by Cara Sutra Beginner’s Bondage Kit) include both wrist and ankle restraints which have integral D rings. If you’re not flexible enough to get your ankles and wrists that close together to connect them just with a couple of double ended trigger clip (we can’t all be Olympic gymnasts) then make use of some strong woven nylon tethers. If you’re up for an even more hardcore and chilling look and sensation, you could try some short chains instead of fabric.

I hope you find the right bondage hogtie piece or set-up for you and your partner and enjoy plenty of intensely fun power exchange sessions together.

 

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4 COMMENTS

  1. Please excuse the slightly shameless plug, but we just saw this article on Twitter and noticed that you say “I haven’t seen any bondage kits which include a bondage hogtie piece” and thought you might like to know that we at Affordable Leather Products (@affordableleath) do two items which are exactly that πŸ™‚

    The first is the classic X-Hogtie which comes with soft-edged wrist and ankle cuffs, see http://www.affordable-leather.co.uk/ccp8/item/leather-x-shape-hogtie-restraint-with-wrist-and-ankle-cuffs

    The second is a Y-Shaped Hogtie which has an adjustable strap leading from the ring down to the ankle cuffs and allows the feet to be pulled up as far as you like: http://www.affordable-leather.co.uk/ccp8/item/leather-adjustable-y-shape-hogtie-restraint-with-wrist-and-ankle-cuffs and, of course, this also comes with the soft-edged cuffs.

    If you’d like to try out one of these, do get in touch, we’d be happy to send you a sample.

    PS Thanks for a great blog.

    • Hi
      Thanks for your comment and lovely words about the article. I have taken a look at the two products you’ve mentioned – I wouldn’t describe them as bondage kits though really? They are hogties with cuffs included. I’d say a bondage kit is a box of items – like 5,6,7 or more pieces… My own Fantasy bondage kit for instance includes a ball gag, blindfold, bondage rope, ankle and wrist cuffs, flogger.

      I’d certainly love to arrange some reviews for your hogties and any other pieces you’d like feedback on? I know many of the Pleasure Panel (my community of guest reviewers here at CaraSutra) really love bondage and are always on the look out for new items and new shops. If you’d like to find out more please email me at cara@carasutra.co.uk.

      Thanks again!
      -Cara

      • Thanks for the reply. We can see what you mean, possibly they’d better be described as a “Bondage Set” rather than a “Bondage Kit”

        We’ll drop you an e-mail shortly although we’re not sure we’d count as a “New” shop since we’ve been doing this for over 20 years πŸ˜‰

        • I look forward to hearing from you.
          Sorry, I meant ‘new’ as in new shops for them to buy from, not their usual ones, not as in you’re new! I haven’t heard talk in the reviewer community of people buying from you which is why some reviews could be good. 20+ years is very impressive!

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