Last Updated on 1 November, 2025 by Cara Sutra
Welcome to the intriguing world of panty selling – a unique side hustle that’s not only financially rewarding but also a journey of self-discovery. Selling used panties comes with many perks: it’s an avenue to boost confidence, embrace sensuality, connect with a community of like-minded individuals, and have fun along the way.
Although selling used panties is accessible to everyone, knowing where to start and how to seal a deal can be hard if you’re new on the scene.
That’s why we’ve gathered valuable tips from successful sellers on Pantydeal, the world’s largest and longest-running platform for buying and selling used underwear. In this guide, we’ll provide all the advice you need to build your own panty business and navigate this lucrative and sexy new world.
Essential Tips to Kickstart Your Panty Selling Journey
No Judgement, Only Kindness
“Making my profile a judgement-free zone has really helped me and my business a lot. I grew up being taught not to judge anyone because we all come from different backgrounds. I’ve instilled that in my practices. I enjoy learning about others’ kinks and where they originated from. I’m open to just talk about anything, and if I’m not, I’ll let you know without knocking you down for asking!! Kindness goes a long way in this world. Most, if not all, of my buyers say they enjoy talking with me as I take the time to listen and work with them.” Junebugxx, Pantydeal Seller
Honesty is Key
“I think honesty and integrity are the most important aspects. I don’t ever want someone to be disappointed so I will always be realistic with timeframes and manage expectations of what’s possible. If I can’t meet someone’s criteria I will always try and recommend another seller who can.” Kinky_byme, Pantydeal Seller
Know Your Boundaries
“Be crystal clear about what you’re comfortable with; after all, success should never come at the expense of your own comfort and values. Selling used panties is a personal journey, and the key to unlocking success is embracing your authenticity. Being strong in your convictions helps you start questioning who you are as a person. So it’s very important to know who you are and what you’re willing to do.” Trinityann, Pantydeal Seller
Stay True to Yourself and Make Genuine Connections
“I mean…there are lots of things I’ve learned during my time on Pantydeal. But definitely, being authentic and real is very important – if you aren’t, you will give yourself away quickly.
Also, only do the things you are comfortable with doing, and mostly have fun! After all, we are all here to have a good time, so prioritize your own comfort and boundaries. If a request or situation doesn’t align with your values, it’s perfectly okay to say no. So, stay true to yourself, and let the joy of the experience be your guiding principle.
Lastly, be cool with other sellers. I promise they will be nice back, and most are totally willing to help new sellers (me included), I had a few other sellers helping me in the beginning when I was lost. They are awesome on Pantydeal, and I still talk to them consistently! There was someone specifically who helped me realize what a shop needed to look like and what ads should look like. Those are both things I take a ton of pride in now, and I put lots of effort into making my shop and my ads as good as I can!! I appreciate all the help I’ve had along the way and the friends I’ve made!” So_Abby, Pantydeal Seller
Be Persistent
“I don’t believe there is a secret to success, but if you want to be successful, you have to put some work into it. Nothing comes easy, in any aspect, and panty selling is the same. To new sellers who want some tips and tricks on what you need to do, here are a couple. Be persistent. If you’re persistent, you will get what you want, if you’re consistent, you will keep it. This doesn’t mean to say you need to dedicate 24 hours a day to your store, but when you are online, use your time wisely: upload new items, create content consistently and take bookings. Keep it fresh, keep it kinky but most of all, respect other people’s boundaries and stick to your own.” Mittylala, Pantydeal Seller
Create Fantasy
“The most important thing is to obviously have fun and enjoy what you are doing. I found so far that it’s important to attempt to convey who you are through your online persona. It’s about displaying who you are by cultivating a ‘brand’ that represents you and your vibe, your aesthetic. This helps the buyer as well because as a seller you’re creating an experience for them.” MsAvaTea, Pantydeal Seller
The Number One Rule? Have Fun
How you manage your panty business will be unique to you, but it’s crucial to learn as much as possible before diving in.
Beyond the transactions and the hustle, the number one rule is to have fun! Success isn’t just about making sales; it’s about relishing quirks, embracing community, and enjoying the empowerment you feel along the way.
Savor the experience, build connections, and, most importantly, take pleasure in your panty-selling journey.
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