Sexuality Articles

Sexuality articles that explore pleasure, desire, relationships, identity and real-life intimacy.

Welcome to my Sexuality Articles hub. This is where I keep the wider, deeper pieces that sit around sex advice and practical tips. Think sexuality in the big sense: pleasure, relationships, confidence, connection, self-discovery, boundaries, identity, and the emotional reality of desire. If you want writing that’s sex-positive, grounded and human, you’ll find plenty to explore here. This archive brings together years of writing on sexuality, pleasure, desire and the realities of real-life intimacy.

I use this category name on purpose, because it gives me room to talk about sexuality without stepping on the toes of my more specific hubs. So if you’re looking for targeted guidance, you might prefer my Sex Advice section, or browse Masturbation Guides and Relationship Advice. If you want broader, more reflective sexuality content, you’re in the right place.

What You’ll Find In My Sexuality Articles

This category gathers articles across many aspects of sexuality, pleasure and relationships, including:

  • Pleasure, orgasm, arousal and the messy reality of what actually feels good
  • Desire and libido changes, including why it shifts and how to work with it rather than against it
  • Sexual confidence, body comfort and feeling more at home in your own skin
  • Solo pleasure, self-discovery and exploration in my masturbation guides
  • Sex, relationships and emotional intimacy, alongside my relationship advice archive
  • Kink-aware reflections and deeper dives, with routes into kinky sex advice and BDSM advice
  • Seasonal and special-topic sexuality content via Seasonal Sex Articles

How I Write About Sexuality

I’m not interested in shame, fear-based messaging, or the idea that there’s one right way to be sexual. I write about sexuality as something lived, evolving and deeply personal, shaped by real lived experiences rather than theory alone. Sometimes you’ll find practical guidance here. Other times you’ll find perspective, reassurance, and the kind of insight that only comes from being honest about the awkward bits as well as the fun ones.

You’ll also see guest contributions in this section from time to time, because sexuality is never one voice, one body, or one story. I keep it inclusive, curious and real, without pretending that every experience is the same.

Featured Topics

Browse popular sexuality topics and relationship themes, and explore the areas that interest you most.

Scroll down to explore the latest sexuality articles and insights.

The Best Erotic Authors: My Top 5 Sexy Story Writers

There doesn’t seem to be an end to the amount of erotic fiction novels, short stories and flash fiction being published across various platforms. Perhaps it will help you if I share some of my favourites? This feature introduces my top 5 sexy story writers - in my opinion the best erotic authors around - as well as their bestselling erotica books and where to buy them.

8 Reasons Why You Should Read Erotic Books

What about the saucy sizzle of erotica? Should you take them seriously as a literary option? Also, can erotic books improve your sex life? Absolutely. Read on to discover 8 reasons why you should read erotic books.

Bisexual Visibility Month: Combatting Bisexuality Myths & Bi Erasure

Last Updated: September 2025 - As a bisexual and pansexual woman, it’s important to me to add my voice to the global choir of fellow bisexual people to say loud and clear that we exist, that bisexuality is its own real and valid sexuality, and to dispel various persistent myths about bisexuality and bisexual people.

Cannibal Kink: Erotic Vore and Devouring Fantasies

For some, the idea of cannibalism arouses and excites the sexual part of their psyche. Why do some people have a cannibal kink? In this feature, I explore the heart of sexy cannibalism and take a look at what motivates an erotic fascination with the taboo practice of devouring human flesh.

My Positive Mirena Coil Insertion Story: How It Felt & Life With An IUD

So here it is: my Mirena Coil insertion experience, plus what happens afterwards. As with all things, your mileage may vary – but as I often find it helpful to read ‘real person’ experiences online, I wanted to share my Mirena story. I hope it enlightens you about this particular intrauterine device, how it’s inserted, what to expect, potential side effects; and that it helps you decide whether the Mirena is the right choice for you.

My Nexplanon Implant Experiences: The Subdermal Contraceptive

What is the Nexplanon implant? How does it work? Does it hurt to get it inserted? How long does it last? Does it protect against STIs? Today I’m sharing my answers to all these questions, plus my personal experiences getting the Nexplanon subdermal contraceptive inserted...

Do Aphrodisiacs Work? List of Aphrodisiac Foods to Boost Libido

My thoughts turned to foods that are aphrodisiacs; what to look out for on the restaurant menus so I can make the most of these supposed boosts to my sex drive. Do aphrodisiacs work? Read on as I delve into the world of foods to enhance your sex life, plus a handy list of aphrodisiac foods to boost libido.

Gay Sex Toys Guide: Adult Toys for Gay Lovers & Lesbian Couples

Love is love, and it deserves to be fully celebrated in all its forms. Read on to discover my gay sex toys guide, where I’ll be showcasing adult toys ideal for gay couples, to enhance your intimate and passionate private time together.

What is LGBTQIA+ Pride? Why Do We Still Need Pride Month?

Happy LGBTQIA+ Pride Month! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️  How wonderful it is to see people coming together to celebrate love and diversity in all its beautiful forms. Each year, the month of June is an opportunity to focus on the importance of acceptance, unity, and support for all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.

Penis Masturbators Guide: Cock Strokers That’ll Blow Your… Mind

Do you opt for a lubed up ‘hand solo’ or have you got a favourite penis stroker toy? If you’re here because you’re wondering if you can improve on what you’ve got, and enjoy spectacular orgasms by travelling a different route to usual, you’re in luck. Today I’m talking about cock strokers that’ll blow your mind, in a penis masturbators guide offering you the best toys whatever your budget.

The Wet Patch After Sex: Sleep In It or Deal With It?

What do you use to clean up after sex? Whether it's PiV sex (penis in vagina) or other types of sexual pleasure, the wet patch isn’t often talked about in sex advice columns, sexy stories or other erotic media. Bodily fluids, lube and other liquids are part and parcel of sexy fun, however – so finding a neat solution for post-sex clean-up is a great idea.

Dirty Talk: The Expert Guide to Talking Filth During Sex

How do you do great dirty talk? If you're feeling tongue-tied in the bad way during sex chat, you're in the right place. Today I'm sharing a long read; an expert guide to talking filth during sex. And I mean sex whether that's in person or long distance, via phone sex, video messaging or even good old text chats.

G-Spot Toys Guide: How to Choose the Best Vibrators and Dildos for Targeted Pleasure

In the world of sexuality and intimate pleasure, there is a lot of talk about the G-spot. This may raise several questions for you, such as what is the G-spot? Why is it called that? Does it really exist? Where is the G-spot and how can you stimulate it effectively? What are the best G-stim vibrators & dildos to use? Welcome to my G-Spot Toys guide!

How to Be Dominant Outside the Bedroom: 12 Lifestyle BDSM Tips

What if you and your partner would like a more 'everyday' style of Dom and sub relationship? A consensual power exchange which isn’t limited to kinky play sessions in the bedroom, but enhances every part of your life together? In today’s article I will explore lifestyle BDSM from the Dom’s point of view, revealing how to be Dominant outside the bedroom.

How to Be Dominant in the Bedroom: 12 Kinky Sex Tips

How can you exude confidence, assertiveness, and that irresistible Dominant streak? What are some handy ways to tap into consensual cruelty and punish your eager partner? And how do you overcome shyness and nervous giggles? In today’s article I’m sharing my 12 tips on how to be Dominant in the bedroom.

Bathmate Penis Pumps Guide: Hydro, HydroMax & HydroXtreme

Bathmate is undoubtedly the name when it comes to trusted and reliable penis pumps. Their pumps and phallic enhancement products are the result of constant research and development tweaks, alongside real user feedback. Bathmate penis pumps are hydrotherapy-based, hence the ‘bath’ part of the brand name. How do they work – and do they actually work?

Penis Pumps Guide: How To Get A Bigger Cock & Stronger Erections

Welcome to my penis pumps guide! If you’re wondering how to get a bigger cock and enjoy stronger erections, you’re in the right place. In this article I will be explaining what a penis pump is, how to use them safely, if they really work and how to choose the best penis pump for you.

10 Cheap Romantic Ideas: Romance on a Budget

Even when funds are limited, there are free or low-cost ways to create magical and memorable experiences with your beloved partner. True love isn’t dependent on how much is in the bank, or the price tag on a gift. Romance is what you make it; the effort and thought you put into a shared experience. If you’re wondering how to be romantic when money is tight, I’m here to help.
Selling Your Used Panties Is Easier Than You Think

Selling Your Used Panties: A Beginner’s Guide

Welcome to the intriguing world of panty selling – a unique side hustle that's not only financially rewarding but also a journey of self-discovery. Selling used panties comes with many perks: it's an avenue to boost confidence, embrace sensuality, connect with a community of like-minded individuals, and have fun along the way.

5 Kinky Uses for Christmas Tinsel

Looking for Christmas tinsel kink ideas? In this guide I share five fun and safe ways to use tinsel for festive foreplay and kinky couples’ playtime, turning seasonal sparkle into erotic fun.