Cara Sutra

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46yo slutty succubus and word witch. Inspiration for Meredith Brooks' "Bitch" (probably). 100% Domme, but often teases as a Bottom. Can turn most things kinky hot. Wife/sex doll of an evil Dom 16yrs. Mistress/Owner of slave penny 12yrs. UK-based, international appeal. 🌎 Bi/pan, she/her LGBTQIA+ member & ally. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Oil-Based Lubes Guide

In my recent big guide to sexual lubricants, I looked at the huge and diverse world of lube. There are various types, each with their own pros and cons and recommended usage. Today, I'd like to take a closer look at oil lubricants in particular. What sort of oil can you expect to find in these lubes? What can you use oil lubes for – and what should you avoid? Welcome to my oil-based lubes 101: your complete guide!

Mile High Club: How to Have Sex on an Aeroplane

The Mile High Club is a source of endless fascination and speculation. How do people join this exclusive 'club'? More to the point, how do you join the mile-high club and get away with it? Does it even really exist, or are these airborne amorous adventures the stuff of myth and legend?

Silicone Lubes Guide

Recently, I wrote about the various types of sex lubes in my recent big guide to sexual lubricants. Today, I'd like to delve a little deeper into one of those types in particular, silicone lubricants. Why would you choose a lube which is silicone based? What can you use them for – and what are the pros and cons? Welcome to my silicone lubes 101: your complete guide!

Coronavirus and Sex Drive: How COVID-19 Killed My Libido

2020. Year of dashed hopes, ruined plans, social distancing, covered faces, stress and anxiety – plus a renewed appreciation for the NHS and all keyworkers. How did you spend the COVID-19 lockdown? Did you use the time to slow down, listen to your needs, learn a new language, reach your peak of physical fitness, begin a new hobby or craft? ...me neither. I don't know anyone who did, to be honest.

Water-Based Lubes Guide

Water-based lubes are sexual lubricants with a formulation that has water as its main or 'base' ingredient. There may be various other components to the formulation, but water is the main one. As well as a descriptor of the main ingredient of these lubricants, the label 'water-based' helps to quickly and easily differentiate them from the various other types of lubes: silicone, oil-based, hybrid etc.

Complete Guide To Sex Lubes

LUBE. What is it? Who uses it? What are the different types? What is it used for? How and why is it used? Welcome to my big guide to sex lubes!
Lovehoney Pink Droid Rechargeable Silicone Wand Vibrator Review

Lovehoney Pink Droid Rechargeable Silicone Wand Vibrator Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£69.99
The Lovehoney Pink Droid Rechargeable Silicone Wand Vibrator is a superb example of a modern, luxurious wand vibe which is aesthetically pleasing and orgasmically effective. The constant and patterned vibrations range from a delicious teasing rumble up to a juddering, thunderous vibe which can bring this toy testing veteran to orgasm in good time.
We-Vibe Wand Vibrator Review - Super Smart, App-Controlled Wand Vibe

We-Vibe Wand Vibrator Review: The Super Smart, App-Controlled Wand Vibe

10 out of 10
Price:
£160.00
Brand:
We-Vibe
Materials:
Silicone
I absolutely love this wand vibrator and think it's worth every penny of its price tag. An absolutely top of the range wand vibrator which gives you precisely what you want every time, whether you're a vibrator newbie, unashamed power Queen, pleasure-loving single or adventurous couple seeking close proximity or long-distance shared sexy fun.

The Periodic Table of Kink: Explore the Fetish Poster

The Periodic Table of Kink turns a huge world of BDSM ideas into a clear visual poster. Below I explain what it is, how it is organised, smart ways to use it for exploration and education, and where to buy it.

Complete List of BDSM Fetishes and Kinks

For those who would like a handy list of BDSM fetishes and kinks, I believe I've found a fantastic resource. The UberKinky Periodic Table of Kink provides an easy to understand, visual representation of the majority of the recognised BDSM activities.
Lovehoney Hidden Talent Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator Review

Lovehoney Hidden Talent Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator Review

6 out of 10
If you're looking for a mid-budget range panty vibe which is easy to use, comfortable to wear and delivers teasing tingles rather than instantly gratifying power, the Lovehoney Hidden Talent Rechargeable Knicker Vibrator is certainly a toy to consider.
Lovehoney Magic Touch Rechargeable Clitoral Finger Vibrator Review

Lovehoney Magic Touch Rechargeable Clitoral Finger Vibrator Review

6 out of 10
Price:
£39.99
...the Lovehoney Magic Touch Rechargeable Clitoral Finger Vibrator might be a great option. The easy-grip, tongue-shape design is undoubtedly brilliant. There's the smooth silicone surface which is body-safe and feels wonderful, and the finger-troughs-and-fin bit on top of the toy which allows you to keep hold of it, so you can target exactly where you want in an easy and comfortable manner.
Lovehoney Ignite Bullet Vibrator Review

Lovehoney Ignite Bullet Vibrator Review

7 out of 10
Price:
£29.99
This is a great starter bullet vibrator for sex toy beginners who looking for a body-safe rechargeable option at a value for money price which gets the job done. The Lovehoney Ignite Bullet Vibrator offers so many benefits for its surprisingly reasonable price tag...

Lovehoney Pleasure Quest Couple’s Vibrator Gift Set Review (5 Piece)

10 out of 10
The Lovehoney Pleasure Quest Couple's Vibrator Gift Set (5 Piece) is one of several exciting new couple's sex toy kits. If you feel spoilt for choice when shopping for sex toys and sexy treats, or would just rather buy a ready-made kit of vibrators to explore and enjoy, these pre-selected kits are a fantastic solution.
Sinclair Select Deluxe Silicone Dilators Set Review

Sinclair Select Deluxe Silicone Dilators Set Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£46.00
Shop:
SheVibe
Materials:
Silicone
In my opinion, the Sinclair Select Deluxe Silicone Dilators Set is a fantastic buy for those who struggle with vaginal or anal penetration for whatever reason; vaginismus, a naturally petite vagina, anal play newness or shyness or other.

Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Longline Bra Review

10 out of 10
This leather-look clothing range is attractively priced, sexy as hell and has grown to offer a wide variety of styles over the past year. I already reviewed and loved the Fierce Wet Look Long Sleeve Zip-Around Body and the Fierce Leather-Look Bodycon Dress; today I'm happy to present my Lovehoney Fierce Leather-Look Longline Bra review.
Sinnovator Steed Platinum Silicone Dildo Review | Large Horse Cock Dildo Toy

Sinnovator Steed Platinum Silicone Dildo Review (Large Horse Dildo)

10 out of 10
Price:
£104.99
Materials:
Silicone
The Sinnovator range is gloriously kinky and fantastical, with designs incorporating the taboo, mythical and downright debauched. As well as dogs, horses and bull cocks, there are dragon, Cthulhu tentacle, unicorn and alien insertables. There's even a Tiger King dildo!
Uber Clamps Herculean Nipple Clamps Review

Uber Clamps Herculean Nipple Clamps Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£4.99
Brand:
UberKinky
Materials:
Metal
The design of these clamps means that your skin is caught between two small, cylindrical areas of flush smooth metal only, rather than between two wider surface areas as with other styles of clamp. It makes them an altogether more hardcore and callous style of nipple clamp – and certainly not for newbies or those with a low pain threshold. You have been warned!
Uber Clamps Tyrannical Nipple Clamps Review

Uber Clamps Tyrannical Nipple Clamps Review

8 out of 10
Price:
£4.99
Brand:
UberKinky
Materials:
Metal, Rubber
"Fucking hell they're massive!" was honestly my first impression of these clamps. Instead of the cute and weeny little nipple clamps I'd been expecting, possibly about 3cm in length max, I got these absolute WHOPPERS. I was a little scared but also quite excited.
Mojo Pro Original Desire Pheromone Bath Bomb Review

Mojo Pro Original Desire Pheromone Bath Bomb Review

8 out of 10
Lovehoney recently sent me an extremely thoughtful care package, with plenty of sexy goodies and treats to enjoy through the lockdown. I'm sharing my thoughts on these sex toys & other bedroom accessories one by one here on the blog. This was an extremely fun and relaxing product to try out. Welcome to my Mojo Pro Original Desire Pheromone Bath Bomb review!