Cara Sutra

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46yo slutty succubus and word witch. Inspiration for Meredith Brooks' "Bitch" (probably). 100% Domme, but often teases as a Bottom. Can turn most things kinky hot. Wife/sex doll of an evil Dom 16yrs. Mistress/Owner of slave penny 12yrs. UK-based, international appeal. 🌎 Bi/pan, she/her LGBTQIA+ member & ally. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️
Leg Avenue Rainbow Shredded Cut-Out High Leg Body Review

Leg Avenue Rainbow Shredded Cut-Out High Leg Body Review

8 out of 10
I’d been on the lookout for some new eye-catching lingerie for some time, so it was a pleasure to test out and review the Leg Avenue Rainbow Shredded Cut-Out High Leg Body available from Lovehoney.

App-Controlled Sex Toys Guide

Every industry is striving to provide customers with the latest technological advancements in their products, and the sex toy industry is no different. That's right, there are smartphone app controlled sex toys! Read on to find out more about these app-controlled vibrators and internet enabled vibrators.

How To Recycle Your Old Sex Toys & Dispose Of Broken Vibrators

Ready to declutter and unburden yourself from any belongings which don't spark joy? For 'belongings' read sex toys, and for 'joy' read orgasms. Today I want to discuss how to recycle your old sex toys, and the correct way to dispose of broken vibrators.

Is Too Much Masturbation Dangerous? Can You Wank Too Much?

There are lots of myths and misinformation about masturbating, so I’m here to set the record straight. Can you masturbate too much? Is excessive wanking dangerous? Long story short: although masturbation is definitely a private pleasure, it’s also nothing to feel guilty about and it doesn't cause any harm.

Swan Vibes Whooper Swan Rabbit Vibrator Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£99.99
Shop:
SheVibe
Materials:
Silicone
Power? The Swan Vibes Whooper Swan Rabbit Vibrator packs a bunch. It's the same motor and vibration power as the PalmPower wand vibrator, which uses PowerBullet technology. This is a jazzy name for a specially designed motor from BMS Factory, and although I don't buy into fancy names for something plain and simple, I can assure you that this is one super powerful motor they've created here.

Coconut Oil Sexual Lubricant Guide

Coconut oil is one of those things I've heard plenty about, but I'm still not exactly sure what I can and can't use it for, why I should consider using it and where I should put it. Should I cook with it? Slather it through my hair? Funnel it into the car? Create a tropical-scented slip 'n slide in the garden? Why should I choose it over other oils? What's a good price? What benefits can I expect? And, of course, are coconut oil lubes effective & safe for sex & masturbation?

Lovehoney X Love Not War Meile Sustainable Clitoral Vibrator Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£69.99
It has been difficult to know how best to write this sex toy review. This review is for a vibrator that I chose because I thought it looked perfect for me, and then it was. The End. Ok... I guess you'll want a little more detail than that. Let me introduce to you the Lovehoney X Love Not War Meile Sustainable Clitoral Vibrator.

Rabbit Vibrators Guide

What are rabbit vibes? How do you use a rabbit vibrator? You might be intimately familiar with this type of vibrating sex toy, or perhaps you're new to bunny-based self-love. Here in my rabbit vibrators guide you'll find out all about these consistently popular sex toys –as well as my absolute favourite buzzing bunnies.

O Wand Vibrator Attachments Review

6 out of 10
Price:
£20.00
Brand:
O-Wand
Shop:
SheVibe
Materials:
Silicone
The very kind people at O-Wand sent me their three O Wand Vibrator attachments to try out. Two are designed for my anatomy and the third is for someone with a penis, so my partner gave it a try (while I -amongst other things- took notes).

O-Wand Vibrator Review: Better Than The Doxy Massager?

10 out of 10
Price:
£149.99
Brand:
O-Wand
Shop:
SheVibe
Materials:
Plastic, Silicone
If you know anything about my sex toy preferences then you’ll know I absolutely love my Doxy Wand vibrator. It’s loud, sure; it’s also incredibly powerful and does the job every time no matter what. When O-Wand got in touch to ask whether I’d like to review their new O-Wand Vibrator I was intrigued but cynical. Could this new wand vibrator really knock my beloved Doxy Wand off the top spot in my bedside drawer?
Hot Octopuss Kurve G-Spot Vibrator Review

Hot Octopuss Kurve G-Spot Vibrator Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£99.00
The soft gel tip at the bulbous, rounded end of the vibrator felt smooth upon entry and I appreciated the cushioning once the toy was nestled fully and snugly in position. Because of the curve of the vibrator's shaft, this squishy tip was comfortably pressed against my G-spot.

Pelvic Floor Exercises: How To Do Them & Why You Should

Your pelvic floor is the muscle responsible for those delicious clenches you feel during orgasm. Regular Kegel exercises help to tone the vagina and enable you to keep a better grip of your partner during PiV (penis in vagina) sex. As you climax, a more toned vagina will clench harder which intensifies sensation for both partners.

BDSM Gear Guide: Essentials for Every Kinkster

I've written several 'sexy product' guides here at the Cara Sutra sex blog, advice guides for sex toys, lubes, and specific kinky sex accessories too. Today I'd like to present my big guide to BDSM toys / BDSM gear, where I will help you navigate the enormous and diverse world of kinky toys and tools used to enhance power exchange sessions.

Foot Fetish: Why Feet Turn People On

What do you know about foot fetishism? Maybe you've heard rumours of people who fetishize feet, or perhaps you have a foot fetish yourself. Or the concept of having a fetish for feet might be something new to you entirely! In today's BDSM guide, foot fetish 101, I'd like to explore both what this fetish is all about and gain some understanding into the reasons behind foot fetishism.

Anal Lubes Guide

I promised to write about each of the main sub-categories of sex lube in greater detail, and today we're looking at butt-specific lubricants for all your anal pleasure needs. Welcome to my anal lubes 101: your complete guide!

Flavoured Lubes Guide (& Other Special Effect Lube)

Today, I'd like to discuss an extremely fun type of lube in more detail – sex lubricants which offer sensational intimate effects, plus lubes with mouth-watering flavours. Welcome to my special effects & flavoured lubes 101: your complete guide!
Coconu Coconut Based Lubes Review

Coconu Coconut Based Lubes Review: Water, Oil & CBD Infused Sex Enhancers

9 out of 10
Price:
£20.00
Brand:
Coconu
Shop:
SheVibe
Materials:
Coconut Oil, Water
I was thrilled to receive a Coconu Lubes care bundle recently. Coconu provide carefully crafted personal lubricants and oils infused with coconut water and coconut oil, plus other skin-friendly ingredients. I've been intrigued by the amount of skin and health benefits attributed to coconut - and coconut oil in particular - over the past few years, so I was excited to try out these Coconu Coconut Based Lubes and more. 

Lovehoney 7 Nights of Seduction Lingerie Advent Calendar Review

10 out of 10
***LINKS UPDATED FOR THIS YEAR - CLICK THE GREEN BUTTONS TO BUY BEFORE THEY SELL OUT*** As you’ll have seen from my recent Lovehoney Couple’s Sex Toy Advent Calendar 2020 review, I was delighted when Lovehoney kindly sent me their new sexy advent calendars in exchange for my full reviews here at the Cara Sutra sex blog. I felt lucky enough to receive the new sex toy Christmas countdown calendar, but to receive the lingerie advent too was a true treat.

Hybrid Lubes Guide

In my recent overview article relating to the huge and diverse world of sexual lubricants, I talked about sex lubes in general, why they're fantastic, what not to use and briefly covered the various types. In this feature, I'd like to introduce one of those types in greater detail. Hybrid sex lubricants are relatively new to the sex lube scene -and are therefore at risk of being misunderstood and sadly avoided. Let's correct that today. Welcome to my hybrid lubes 101: your complete guide!
My Favourite Sex Toys: Bedside Drawer 'Handy Grab' Collection

Hot Octopuss AMO Bullet Vibrator Review

8 out of 10
Price:
£49.95
After reviewing various Hot Octopuss sex toys over the years, I was delighted to be offered one of their new additions to review here on the blog. Hot Octopuss products are made to a high standard and we've found the masturbators and cock rings particularly effective, so I was looking forward to trying out the Hot Octopuss AMO bullet vibrator.