Cara Sutra

Upon hearing her vain exclamation to the other three rein-girls over dinner that they weren’t even needed anyway, that she could do the job all by herself and probably even better at that, they’d at first looked surprised then strangely smug. How was she to know Santa Sutra would choose that exact moment to re-enter the feeding shed from behind her?

Elsewhere on the blog you can find tips on how to sex up your Christmas, but today I want to focus on an oft-forgotten area of a couple’s sex life – foreplay. Sex is so much better once you’re both properly in the mood, and with the 10 festive foreplay ideas I’m sharing here today you can gift yourselves a more exciting sex life this Christmas and through the years to come.

I’ve given some thought to how couples can sex up Christmas and enjoy unparalleled erotic intimacy through what can otherwise be a dark season. Light up your libido, hold on to your Santa hats and let’s get those erogenous zones tingling with my tasty tips for 12 days of festive romance!

Christmas is full of sparkle and magic and feasting and twinkling lights in the darkness, with all the excitement the holidays bring. It’s no surprise that the holiday festivities get many of us into a passionate mood as well. That’s why romantic lingerie regularly features in sexy Christmas gift guides...

I know that finding the perfect gift for your beloved can feel like navigating a maze of tinsel, but fear not! I’m here to help you sleigh the gift-giving game and make this holiday season one for the books. Welcome to my Sexy Christmas Gift Guide 2023!

Bondara 12 Days of Kink Bondage Advent Calendar 2023 Review I’ve been lucky enough to receive two sexy advent calendars to review this year! Find...

Not only is this wonderfully designed dildo a big, chunk of silicone to bear down on, there’s the alien-theme design to it which adds a fun psychological twist. It’s less chest-burster and more cunt-fucker, thankfully, and I’ve never been happier for my body to be used as a host. The ‘breeder’ part of the toy’s name gives rise to other kinky & perverse fantasies, leading to some extremely hot role play...

For sex toy fans it's always exciting to see what new products will be released for the festive season, whether for personal pleasure or to gift to someone special. I noticed that one of my favourite sex toy shops, Bondara, are offering a limited-edition range of Christmas-themed sex toys this year and just had to write a feature highlighting them...

Would Bondara’s new sex toy simply be another attempt to ‘reinvent the wheel’? I had no idea what I'd soon be receiving in the post, which was exciting. Finally, the discreetly wrapped parcel arrived at my door. I hastily unwrapped it to reveal The Grinder by Bondara Vibrating Sex Toy, in a fancy Bondara gift box, along with a bottle of Bondara Slip ‘n Slide Aqua Lube.

Ever wondered what a perfect penis looks like? Hankey’s Toys have got the answer. And now so do I, because I've been lucky enough to receive the Hankey’s Toys Perfect Penis Dildo to enjoy, and to review here on the blog...

To keep the spark alive through the crisp December days, though, there’s nothing quite like sexy advent calendars. Read on to discover where to buy your sex toy advent calendar this year – or a kinky bondage themed advent calendar, if you prefer.

I know how easy it is to get hooked on adding exciting new sex toys to your collection regularly. Before you know it, your bedside drawer is too small to store all those wonderful vibrators & dildos. What other sex toy storage options are available? What’s the best way to store adult toys discreetly?

Enjoy my guide to edible underwear and candy love rings - plus other bedroom treats which you can exchange with your partner at any time of year as cheap sexy gifts. They are especially ideal as small romantic Christmas gifts though; sexy stocking fillers for an intimate festive moment. Or you could treat them for Valentine's Day or their birthday!

I absolutely love that I can change up the angle of the vibrator, to better target my uniquely positioned hotspots inside. The controls are easy to locate and use during use, and the product really benefits from the inclusion of two motors instead of just one. Again, loving the fact that the stimulation is customisable – I can choose to have just the vaginal opening motor, just the internal tip motor, or both of the motors on at the same time.

Welcome to my frighteningly orgasmic Halloween-Themed Sex Toys Guide! In this feature I’m going to showcase some truly scream-worthy vibrators, dildos, anal toys and more which are sure to go down a treat this Halloween –or any time of the year. If you’ve been looking for inspiration for a formidable sex toy for hair-raising personal pleasure, or an electrifying adult toy to share with your partner, you’re in the right place.

Welcome to my Sexiest Halloween Costumes Guide! If you're struggling to decide between witchy, vampy or seductively feline dressing-up outfits for this spooky time of year, my saucy Halloween outfits 101 is here to help. Below you'll discover a showcase of some breathtakingly sexy Halloween costume ideas, at great prices & with discreet delivery from your favourite online adult retailers.

Sexing up seasonal events is just so much fun! Halloween is no exception thanks to the wicked fun and seductive costumes this time of year traditionally offers. Do you need some saucy Samhain inspiration? Then you’re in luck… read on to discover how to have a sexy Halloween – whether you're single or part of a couple.

I’m a huge fan of Christmas and love the excitement of advent calendars - especially sexy advent calendars - so I was delighted when the Lovehoney team once again kindly sent me one of their brand-new for 2023 Christmas countdown calendars to review. This year I am reviewing the Lovehoney Rose Sex Toy 12 Day Advent Calendar...

Heard of fisting? This sexual activity isn’t talked about much in the mainstream, but plenty of partners enjoy fisting. You can fist someone vaginally or anally. Because of the shape and size of our hands, even as a closed fist, fisting can seem like a terrifying prospect - something only done by fetishists into sadism and masochism. Today I’m going to thrust into this intriguing and often mysterious activity with both hands...

While orgasms are not the goal of sex with a partner, they’re often a highlight. Then there are all the orgasms enjoyed by people during solo pleasure sessions – masturbation. Why then, do some people pursue and enjoy a ruined orgasm? What are ruined orgasms? How do you ruin an orgasm, and why on earth would you want to?