Cara Sutra

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46yo slutty succubus and word witch. Inspiration for Meredith Brooks' "Bitch" (probably). 100% Domme, but often teases as a Bottom. Can turn most things kinky hot. Wife/sex doll of an evil Dom 16yrs. Mistress/Owner of slave penny 12yrs. UK-based, international appeal. 🌎 Bi/pan, she/her LGBTQIA+ member & ally. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Lovense Lush 3 App-Controlled Vibrating Love Egg Review

7 out of 10
I'm very excited to share my thoughts on the Lovense Lush 3 App-Controlled Vibrating Love Egg with Cara Sutra readers in this review, as despite some community Lovense reviews here on the blog, I haven't ever tried a Lovense sex toy myself before. I know... shocking, right?!

Easter Sex Toys: Bunny Vibrators & Egg-Inspired Pleasure Picks

Easter sex toys are a fun but also surprisingly effective way to give your bank holiday bedroom plans a seasonal twist. From bunny vibrators and fluffy tail plugs to egg-inspired toys, cheeky chocolate pairings and even a thrillingly kinky carrot dildo, this feature showcases my top Easter-themed pleasure picks for saucy thrills this Spring. 
Ceramic Easter bunny couple kissing beside pastel eggs on a blue background

Sexy Easter Ideas for Couples: Be At It Like Bunnies All Weekend

Looking for sexy Easter ideas for couples? You’re in the right place. Enjoy this seasonal feature which helps you inject saucy springtime fun that goes far beyond chocolate eggs and Sunday lunch. Easter weekend is the perfect excuse to slow down and connect with your partner, exploring new, exciting ways to enhance your shared intimacy and get playful together. 

What Does BDSM Stand For? Acronym, Meaning & Kinky Origins

Curious about BDSM? This guide explains what BDSM stands for, breaks down the acronym, explores its origins, and looks at the BDSM triskelion symbol recognised worldwide.

Benefits Of A Regular Sex Life In Middle-Age

When I was younger, I thought sex was strictly reserved for the young. People in their 40s, 50s, 60s and older having sex? Talk to the hand! Time marches on for all of us though, and as I approach my mid-40s myself I have to admit that I was totally wrong. Not only do I still have a strong libido and active love life, there are various unexpected benefits to a regular sex life in middle-age as well.

Honour Leather Lock Down Hood Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£135.00
Shop:
Honour
Materials:
Leather
This hood was the 'bondage kit' star of the show during a particularly arousing day and night in a hotel with my long-term slave. Lacing it snugly into position then buckling the collar, seeing and sensing his body tense slightly as the reality of the situation struck him, as the physical bondage around such a vulnerable part of his anatomy took hold, made my pussy ache even faster than I'd anticipated.
Skins Assorted Latex Condoms Review l Skins Bubblegum Flavoured Condoms Review

Skins Assorted Latex Condoms Review

9 out of 10
In this latex condoms review I'll be sharing my thoughts on two boxes of Skins I received recently for review: Skins Assorted Latex Condoms and Skins Bubblegum Flavoured Condoms. Skins are a well-known brand of condoms, trusted and reliable. Their packaging is colourful and fun. I found myself in a position where I needed to use condoms during sex for a while, so I was happy to try out these two types of Skins Condoms.

Safe Sex Guide: Healthy Hook-Ups Every Time

After the severe social restrictions of the last couple of years, many people will be enjoying some tentative freedoms with regards meeting people in-person again. Dating is back! The term 'dating' is a bit vague - it could mean searching for a long-term partner or hooking up for some no-strings sex. How can you ensure healthy hook-ups and enjoy safe sex, though?

PalmPower Plug & Play Wand Massager With Attachments Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£70.00
Brand:
PalmPower
Shop:
SheVibe
Materials:
Plastic, Silicone
When I first received the PalmPower Plug & Play Wand Massager With Attachments to review here on the blog, I must admit I didn't have high hopes. It's a lot smaller than my full size magic wand vibrators, and I usually rely on those Lovehoney, We-Vibe or Doxy Massagers to bring me to a quick orgasm when I want a wand-based O. That said, I was willing to give it a try. I also received various PalmPower wand attachments which are made of silicone and look pretty funky.

Uberlube Silicone Lube Reviews

9 out of 10
Price:
£16.00
Brand:
Überlube
Materials:
Silicone Lube
Überlube Luxury Silicone Lubricant is a famous sex lube and for very good reason. With sleek promotional images and a classy feel, this lube has a lifestyle feel as well as promising great benefits during use in sex and masturbation. I was intrigued as to whether the lube actually lived up to the hype, so I approached the team with regards a full review here on the blog.
Edging In Masturbation How To Edge And Why You Should Try

What Is Edging In Masturbation? How To ‘Edge’ & Why You Should Try It

Experimenting with new bedroom techniques, positions and sensations is a great way to ensure your sex life remains healthy and varied. It's easy to discount masturbation as not really part of your 'sex life', but don't make that mistake - exploring new solo sexual ventures keeps things fresh and exciting. You're worth it!

Raging Stallion Jack Boot Spanking Paddle Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£49.99
Materials:
Wood
I like that this Jack Boot Paddle can be used from the first tendrils of arousal through warm-up and finishing up with an intense spanking. The rubber raised areas of the sole provide tactile sensations when stroking the flat surface against a waiting, hotly anticipating rear, and you can build to a gentle warm-up with light slaps all over fleshy areas of the buttocks and backs of the thighs. 

Le Wand Original Massager Review: Rechargeable Cordless Toy & Curve Attachment

10 out of 10
Price:
£139.99
The Le Wand Original Massager is a glamorous, deluxe magic wand vibrator which offers me everything I want from a wand and more. If I’d bought it for myself it would be an outstanding, pampering treat for myself, and as a gift to a partner it’s a perfect choice (as long as they’re into wand vibes).
Fleshlight Pilot Penis Masturbator Review

Fleshlight Pilot Penis Masturbator Review

9 out of 10
My husband has tried various penis masturbators over the years, mostly in the course of my work as a sex toy tester (what's that sound? Ah, the world's tiniest violin). Amongst these penis stimulating products have been various strokers from the diverse and ever-growing Fleshlight collection. We recently decided it was time to try out a new Fleshlight stroker
Lovehoney Tiger Lily Red Lace Cuffs & Eye Mask Set Review

Lovehoney Tiger Lily Red Lace Cuffs & Eye Mask Set Review

10 out of 10
As red is my favourite colour, I was immediately drawn to the Lovehoney Tiger Lily lingerie collection, which offers various bra sets, bodies, bustiers and babydolls in passionate, vibrant red lace with strappy detailing. I was lucky enough to be sent an item from the range to test and review - the Lovehoney Tiger Lily Red Lace Cuffs & Eye Mask Set.

Kooky Kocks Stainless Steel Lockable Bondage Collar Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£60.00
Materials:
Metal
I am one cold bitch. By which I mean, I absolutely love the cold sensation of glass and metal sex toys & kinky gear, and the additional layer of stern discipline exuding from metal BDSM items arouses my interest –and other areas- immediately. That’s why, when Kooky Kocks kindly offered me the chance to review some of their heavyweight bondage gear, I replied yes, yes, YES!
Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney The Jitterbug Clitoral Vibrator Review

Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney The Jitterbug Clitoral Vibrator Review

2 out of 10
So we come to the last of my trio of Agent Provocateur sex toy reviews, my experiences with the Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney The Jitterbug Clitoral Vibrator. My Rumba Wand review introduces you to the AP X Lovehoney collection and is the first of the reviews, so it's probably best to start there. Ready to find out how I got on with the Jitterbug Clit Vibe? Read on!
Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney The Salsa Bullet Vibrator Review

Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney The Salsa Bullet Vibrator Review

2 out of 10
Usually, I absolutely bloody love bullet vibrators. They're my favourite type of sex toy, along with wand vibrators. That's why I was so excited to try out the Rumba Wand in the Agent Provocateur collection, as well as this Salsa Bullet. I was expecting big things. Powerful vibrations which would thrust me towards a hefty, full body orgasm in no time. Or at least, at some time.

Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney The Rumba Wand Vibrator Review

2 out of 10
Agent Provocateur create some of the world’s most exquisite, erotic and luxurious items of lingerie, which are highly sought after by those looking for the crème de la crème of seductive underwear and nightwear. When I saw that AP had collaborated with one of my favourite sex shops to produce the Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney sex toys collection, I knew I just had to get my hands (& other areas) on some.
Lovehoney Apothecary Massage Candles Review - Arouse & Seduce Scents

Lovehoney Apothecary Massage Candles Review (Arouse & Seduce Scents)

9 out of 10
Price:
£19.99
Brand:
Lovehoney
Materials:
Oil
Massage candles are amongst my top favourite bedroom accessories. I love how they effortlessly combine a relaxing visual & scented ambience with hands-on sensuality. I was therefore very excited to be offered some massage candles from Lovehoney's new Apothecary range to test & review. I have both the Arouse and Seduce scented Lovehoney Apothecary Massage Candles.