Sex Toy Guides

Sex toy guides for choosing the right toy type, finding what suits your body, and exploring pleasure with clarity and confidence.

Welcome to my Sex Toy Guides hub. This is where I collect my deeper, toy-type specific guides: the ones you read when you want to understand a category, compare options, and figure out what is likely to work for you before you spend money. Think less “general advice”, more “show me the best options for this exact kind of toy”. These guides focus on specific toy categories, features, and use cases, helping you compare options and choose with confidence.

If you want choosing, safety, hygiene and care guidance, head to my Sex Toy Advice hub. If you want practical bedroom techniques, browse Sex Tips. For broader reflections on pleasure, desire and identity, explore Sexuality Articles.



Start Here

If you only read three guides first, start with these. They will help you orient yourself quickly, especially if you are buying your first toy in a new category.



What These Sex Toy Guides Cover

This category brings together my guides to specific toy types, niches and formats, including:

  • Vibrators, from small and discreet to powerful and plug-in
  • Anal toys and butt plugs, including beginner-friendly options
  • Prostate toys and P-spot stimulation
  • Penis strokers, masturbators and hands-free options
  • Pumps and enhancement toys, including hydro styles
  • Remote and app-controlled toys, including long-distance play
  • Advanced and specialist toys, explored with safety and consent in mind


Niches, Styles and Situations

Sometimes it is not about a toy type, it is about how you want it to fit into real life. These guides help when you have a specific vibe, goal, or situation in mind.



Where To Start

Not sure what you need? Start with whatever matches your body and curiosity right now.



Browse popular areas and jump straight to the guides that match your interest right now.


Scroll down to explore the latest guides in this section, and use the links above to jump straight into the toy type you are curious about.

Bondage Hogties Guide: How and Why to Hogtie Safely

The favourite bondage hogtie piece I have in my own collection is the Shots Media Ouch! Wrist and Legcuffs Restraints, which isn't readily available in the UK any more but you can take a look at my review here. There are definitely other, good quality bondage hogties you can purchase to give you the session you desire, however.

Anal Sex Toys Guide: Finding The Best Butt Plug For You

Bums. Everyone has one, and very useful they are too. Our undervalued derrières not only house the exit which keeps our bodies functioning healthily, but offer comfortable padding when we need to take the weight off our feet. Did you realise that your bottom also has the potential to give you incredible pleasure, as well as a mere sigh of relief any time you sit down?