Cara Sutra Sex Blog

Welcome to the Cara Sutra sex blog, a multi award-winning website regularly updated with fun, interesting and informative articles touching on all aspects of sexuality and sexual pleasure. My ongoing goal is to keep my finger on the pulse of what’s new and what’s awesome in the world of adult products and sex toys in particular, as well as entertaining my readers with original erotic stories and educating them by means of the many sex education features and my sex advice column.

Despite being referred to as the UK's best sex blog, Cara Sutra contains sex articles and features which are sure to be of interest to sex lovers worldwide. In the last few years the Cara Sutra sex blog has gained an impressive following from the USA, with the majority of daily traffic coming from America, then the United Kingdom, followed by Europe, Canada, Australia and the rest of the world. Wherever you hail from: welcome!

What brought you here today? I have thousands of sex toy reviews, sexy lingerie reviews, a plethora of sexy stories, many sex advice articles and the latest from the adult industry in my sex news area. Enter the regular giveaways and you could win some seriously sexy prizes such as free sex toys, lingerie, bondage gear, shopping vouchers and a whole lot more.

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Ultimate Valentine’s Day Sexy Gift Guide

Valentine's Day is the annual day when lovers celebrate their passion. What are your Valentine plans this year? It's traditional to gift your special someone something romantic and thoughtful, and maybe make some plans along the same lines. Couples usually buy each other a card, a gift and spend time together on the day celebrating the magic of their ongoing relationship. What should you buy them this year?

Heat Up Your Sex Life In Winter With These Warming Sex Toys

I've already shared my thoughts on surprising ways the cold season can improve your sex life; today I'm sharing my recommendations for warming sex toys & other pleasure products to heat up your sex life in winter.
Masturbation in a Sex-Positive World

Masturbation in a Sex-Positive World (3 Trends for 2023)

If you’re reading this, you’re most likely a sex-positive person. But shall we talk about Masturbation Positivity? Despite an ongoing shift in sex culture and education, the self-pleasure taboo remains. Let’s break it! 

How The Winter Season Can Boost Your Sex Life

Good news! You can officially stop feeling blue about winter - it's the perfect season to grab some quality time and a hotter sex life with your partner. It may not seem like it, with frosty weather and early dark skies each day, but there are plenty of ways in which the winter season can boost your sex life.

BDSM Identities Guide: Are You Dominant, Submissive or Switch?

What are your thoughts on labels? Understandably, many people don’t like to be strictly categorised in this way. We’re all individuals; unique. However, labels do have their place in society as they’re a handy way to quickly describe yourself. The same is true when it comes to the D/s scene.

His Journey To Cocksucking

The chain to my wrists was loosened but not to make things easier for me, no, but just so that I could be lowered to a kneeling position. I felt my chin held in someone’s gloved grip while my lips were painted with lipstick. No sooner was she finished than my mouth was put to use.

How To Enjoy Pain Free Anal Sex & Ditch the Anal Desensitiser

What are your thoughts on, and experiences of, anal sex? The most common concern surrounding using anal sex toys & other anal sexual play is relieving discomfort due to this area’s renowned tightness and sensitivity. In this guide I will reveal how you can enjoy pain free anal sex -and why it’s relevant and important to ditch the anal desensitiser.

What Is Movember? Is It Still A Thing?

You don’t hear as much about Movember as you used to, so I thought I’d research whether this project was still happening. Let’s take a look at what Movember is, why things seem to have quietened down on the Movember-activism front, and what you can do to support its original causes.
Massage For Intimacy Not Just As A Prelude To Sex

Massage For Intimacy, Not Just As A Prelude To Sex

Erotic massage is a fantastic way to shake up foreplay and can be a new way to arouse each other before sex – but today I want to talk about massage for intimacy, not just as a prelude to sex.
How To Give A Sexy Webcam Show

How To Give A Sexy Webcam Show

Treating your partner to a sexy show via video call is an easy & imaginative way to reignite the spark in your sex life, or to keep the passion stoked in a long-distance relationship. However, I know how easy it is to feel apprehensive about anything involving cameras, never mind during intensely vulnerable moments of shared intimacy. In this feature I will be sharing my top tips & advice on how to give a sexy webcam show where you will seduce your partner with confidence, creativity & sensuality.

How To Check Your Breasts Properly

Learning how to check your breasts properly could be a lifesaving skill. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month - but checking your breasts regularly should be a priority all through the year.

Sexy Lingerie Guide: Choosing Comfortable And Seductive Nightwear

Ready to inject some passion & glamour into your lingerie collection? When you're in the market for new, breathtaking lingerie, it can be difficult to know exactly what to spend your money on. Which sets will boost your confidence to sky-high levels and be comfortable to wear? What's the difference between a bustier and a corset, a babydoll and a chemise? In this sexy lingerie guide I'll share specifics of the main styles and how to go about choosing comfortable and seductive nightwear.

BDSM Collars: Symbolism & Collaring Ceremonies

BDSM collars are an extremely important visual symbol of submission and ownership. Although bondage collars are also worn simply as a kinky accessory in a play scene, there are plenty of kinksters for whom wearing a BDSM collar signifies a deeper commitment between Dom and sub, Owner and slave, Top and bottom. Some may even take part in collaring ceremonies, a celebratory event which publicly or privately marks the commitment between Dom and sub in a similar way to the vanilla wedding rituals of marriage.

Dressing Up Your Sex Doll To Make Her More Attractive

Are you a fan of sex dolls? If you’re one of the thousands of sex doll lovers around the world, then you’ll understand just how important clothes are when it comes to styling your love companion. It can be tempting for new love owners to think it’s all about the sex – so why would the clothing matter?

The Best Products For Sexual Relief In A Heatwave

Sex and related intimacy is obviously a very close quarters and usually quite frenetic activity. Even if both the bedroom and your bodies start off as cool as physically possible in the hot weather, you’ll soon become hot, sticky and sweaty once desire is allowed to run rampant and you’re both lost in carnal pleasures.

How To Cool Down Hot Summer Sex

If only there was a way to still enjoy sizzling sex and masturbation during a heatwave, without melting into a distinctly unsexy, sticky mess. In this feature I’ll be revealing how to cool down hot summer sex with some tried & tested techniques, so you can still enjoy intense intimacy whatever the weather.

How I Became A Slave To My Ex, The Bitch

The only exception to my nudity was the solid metal prison that encased my penis and balls. Apart from a necessary opening for the purpose of urination my genitalia was fully encased. Even that access was covered with a hard mesh preventing me from touching my own cock, which she had gleefully announced was now hers once the device had been fitted within an hour of returning with her to their domain.
Will Using Anal Sex Toys Make Me Gay?

Will Using Anal Sex Toys Make Me Gay?

Worrying that using butt plugs or other anal sex toys will make you gay seems to be a fear peculiar to cishet men. Today I’m addressing this issue and giving my definitive answer to the regularly asked question, “will using anal sex toys make me gay?”

YKINMK: Your Kink Is Not My Kink

There should be no shame or judgement when it comes to safe sexual & kinky activities alone or between consenting adults. However, YKINMK regularly proves itself a relevant and important philosophy.

Sex Up Your Suitcase: What To Pack For A Sexy Vacation

Whatever else you’ve got on your packing checklist, today I’m going to help you sex up your suitcase. I'll also show that no matter what sort of holiday you’re looking forward to, intimate solo or shared erotic pleasure should be a priority. Welcome to my guide to packing for a sexy vacation!