Cara Sutra Sex Blog

Welcome to the Cara Sutra sex blog, a multi award-winning website regularly updated with fun, interesting and informative articles touching on all aspects of sexuality and sexual pleasure. My ongoing goal is to keep my finger on the pulse of what’s new and what’s awesome in the world of adult products and sex toys in particular, as well as entertaining my readers with original erotic stories and educating them by means of the many sex education features and my sex advice column.

Despite being referred to as the UK's best sex blog, Cara Sutra contains sex articles and features which are sure to be of interest to sex lovers worldwide. In the last few years the Cara Sutra sex blog has gained an impressive following from the USA, with the majority of daily traffic coming from America, then the United Kingdom, followed by Europe, Canada, Australia and the rest of the world. Wherever you hail from: welcome!

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Fifty Shades Darker Film Review

By Mel MacFarlane: I spent all of last week rereading excerpts from Fifty Shades Darker. For our industry this series has created lots of business and done some really great things in terms of acceptance for those who practice BDSM.

How Do I Tell My Partner About My Fantasy? Sex Confessions

Are you ashamed about any of your sexual fantasies? Would you be daring enough to take the necessary steps to make any of your sexual fantasies a reality? It can be a challenge even considering how to spill your sex confessions. Many people come to me to ask: how do I tell my partner about my fantasy?

Kinky Circus Party for Mistress

It was not an ordinary indoor circus. It was small, the luxurious seats located on three steeply rising tiers. Tables between each pair of seats were filled with half full bottles of champagne and other wines, glasses, sumptuous foods and a multitude of sex toys.

Sex Toy Trends: Meet The Touch-Free Clit Suction Sex Toys

By Cara Sutra: Over the past year, the world of sex toys has been drawn in by alluring clit suction sex toys which promise touch-free orgasms. Suction devices for sexual health purposes as well as sexual stimulation have been around for some decades of course...

Do stretch marks ruin a woman’s body?

Got this comment on one of my photos (where you can see some of my stretch marks - gasp, horror) yesterday which made me laugh. From a cosmetic surgeon, funnily enough.

Sex News: New Pleasure PULSE Male Masturbator & Couples Sex Toy launches in UK...

* Revolutionary male vibrator, PULSE, represents the biggest industry innovation in decades * Patented oscillating technology based on medical research, creates unique and intense experience for users, compared with traditional vibrations

Erotic Fantasy: Bondage Dreams

A hand around my throat. The rope pulled taut over and under overspilling breasts, down tied in an intricate harness, fastened in knots that are positioned deliberately at the lower point of my V,...

Fifty Shades Of Grey Bridges The Gap Between Vanilla And Kink

How do you feel about 50 Shades? My take on how Fifty Shades of Grey bridges the gap between vanilla and kink

Keyholding Services: When DIY Chastity Gets Too Hard

By Cara Sutra: I've written various articles on the subject. What I get out of locking a guy up in a chastity cage. Female chastity. Slaves have written their experiences, and there are several chastity device reviews. This year, I'm focusing on Keyholding services.

Professional Copywriting for the Adult Industry – Part 3

...they may be a link directory themselves or a certain type of porn site - and I don’t want Google to see my site as being in the same class as www.bigbustymilfs.xxx, www.nakedbukkakequeens.com or www.pervertedpuppiescrushedtesticles.net when I am trying to rank for erotic writing, industry copywriting and/or sex toy reviews from a professional perspective.

Is There A Connection Between Ageplay and Spanking?

By Cara Sutra: It seems strange to me that there hasn't been a connection made between corporal punishment and ageplay before. After a particularly hot session with my partner recently, it suddenly struck me. What's your first response? Is there any connection between ageplay and spanking?

30 Minute Makeover Challenge – How Long Do Women Take to Get Ready?

By Hella Rude In a deviation from usual activities, I've taken time to accept the 30 Minute Makeover Challenge. Yes, I have to get ready in 30 minutes or less for a night out. To give you some background, in my camp the 'Readying' is a fun and necessary ritual. The girls and I can take anywhere up to 4 hours to get ready for a night out because it's FUN.

The Inspection

As I start the inspection, My leather gloved hand roves over your body. Tweaking pierced nipples with the little pink rings I've had installed in you for many years now. I remember how you hated how they showed underneath your work shirt. That's why I insisted you cover them up under work clothes. With a lovely lacy bra.

Long Distance Lovers: When Dirty Talk Is The Sex

By Cameryn Moore A lot of the advice out there about dirty talk treats it as a sort of accessory to “real sex”. It’s like putting a feather boa on: it’s all fun and tickly and exotic for maybe ten minutes, but at some point you’re gonna wanna tear it off because it’s getting in the way of the good stuff...

How to sell your erotic books at trade fairs and events

If your cover is writhing with bared sweaty genitalia or is called something like Fuck My Anus Dirty Boy then most niche-but-not-specifically-sex-based gigs will freak out and reject you. And while you might get some major publicity out of showcasing your sexual awakening tale entitled I Love My Pussy at the local cat show, you’d have to have a thicker skin than me and no day job you’d mind losing, to think it worth a go.

Fetish Friday: Why teddy bears are important to Daddy’s little girls

In the BDSM scene, daddies little girls and anyone involved in this type of ageplay fetish are often regarded as overly perverse, disgusting and sometimes even worse labels than these are applied. This is the result of a misunderstanding of the fetish as a whole. The woman who wishes to revert mentally to being a little girl in part, is an adult aged woman, who has made an adult decision to fulfil her need to submit by relinquishing responsibility in the way a little girl would to her loving, protecting Daddy.

Monogamy, Polygamy and Polyamory – What Do They Mean to Modern Society?

By Hella Rude While enjoying the decadent pleasures of Sziget Festival in Budapest I received a call from Lovehoney's PR requesting some press quotes on the subject of polygamy. Unfortunately the context wasn't explained fully and from a transcribed explanation of the differences between polygamy and polyamory, a relatively confusing series of quotations were published in relation to an article on Female First.

Confessions of a Sex Toy Tester: Revealing Sex Toys Secrets

By Cara Sutra: Earlier this year I was asked some questions by a national glossy about my life as a sex toy tester. Since my personal story of testing sex toys went viral a couple of years ago, it seems the press can’t learn enough about this fascinating job (as well as obsessing over how much money one could make from it). As only a small amount of what I had to say in response to the initial questions made it to the final printed piece, I’ve decided to share my other answers with you here.

Strap On Sex Tips: How A Woman Can Get Pleasure From Pegging

For those who haven’t heard of it before, pegging involves a heterosexual (or bisexual) man being anally penetrated by a female wearing a strap on dildo. Described as one of the most fulfilling and intimate experiences that a couple can engage in, pegging and harness play is a practice which continues to go from strength to strength. During pegging, the focus often centers on the pleasure of the male recipient. However, in this article I’d like to focus on female pleasure too.

Cara Sutra’s Ice Bucket Challenge

My first response was no. damn. way. I then had a think over it and couldn't really come up with any reason not to get involved, especially as most of the ABS Holdings team were a good sport and had a bucket of iced water dumped over their head. The funds raised from donations are going to ALS (the US awareness association for Motor Neurone Disease) and Macmillan who help those with cancer. In particular I have a fondness for supporting the Macmillan nurses, some of whom helped not only my grandmother many years ago but also my partner's father in his last few weeks last year. So here we go!