Parenting as a Survivor: Breaking Cycles Without Breaking Myself
I have a complicated past, with life experiences spanning childhood trauma, abusive relationships and more, all of it part of what makes me, me. Today I am going to talk about parenting as a survivor. How has my turbulent, traumatic past affected how I parent my children? Am I really the cycle-breaker I like to believe I am?
Bullet Vibrators Guide
I’ve written previously about why I love bullet vibrators so much. They regularly appear in my top 3 favourite sex toys, which constantly evolves due to ongoing advances in pleasure tech. There are so many bullet vibrators to choose from – how can you be sure the one you’re buying from an online sex shop is going to be orgasmically effective? Welcome to my bullet vibrators guide! I’ll also be referencing the many bullet vibrator reviews here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.
Real Life Handjobs: How I Give Him A Hand Job
There’s something intensely erotic about looking directly into someone’s eyes as you’re sexually stimulating them... Making eye contact with him while you’re using your hands to pleasure his penis is sure to be an enormous thrill, while he’s struggling not to just let his eyes roll back, eyelids fluttering closed against the orgasmic stimulation as he lets out guttural groans of pleasure.
10 Common Email Scams (And How To Avoid Falling For Them)
As a sex blogger with a publicly viewable email address, I get a lot of spam, and this includes scam attempts. Today I want to share what I've learned, as a follow-on to my recent piece about identifying PR reps' time-wasting negotiation tactics. Here are 10 common email scams, and how to avoid falling for them.
Ontdek de Beste AI Pornosites met AI-gegenereerde Porno-video’s in 2025
AI pornosites schieten als paddenstoelen uit de grond en beloven alles, van deepfake-fantasieën tot interactieve virtuele vriendinnen.
Maar laten we eerlijk zijn: sommige van die sites met AI-gegenereerde porno zijn indrukwekkend, andere ronduit vreemd.
Planned Sex or Spontaneous Sex? The Pros & Cons of Both
Is sex something you can schedule, like any other type of appointment – or should you hope for a surprise moment of passion? What’s better, planned sex or spontaneous sex? Today I’m exploring the pros and cons of both.
How I Dominate My Slaves: A Domme’s Perspective
How people perceive my domination, and the reality of it, is something which has fascinated me for some time. You would be amazed at some of the comments directed my way over the years simply for the ways in which I choose to enjoy my natural dominance, as well as how my actively consenting submissives enjoy it, too. Some of these comments are borne from ignorance, some from jealousy, some from malice, and others simply because the person spoke without properly thinking it all through.
Best BDSM Apps for Couples: Find the Right App for Your Dynamic
There’s an app for everything these days, so why shouldn’t that include BDSM? While researching the best BDSM apps for couples, it became clear that ‘best’ really depends on what you want from the app. Read on for my top picks of apps for partners in a kink relationship, to support your unique power exchange dynamic.
Penis Pumps Guide: How To Get A Bigger Cock & Stronger Erections
Welcome to my penis pumps guide! If you’re wondering how to get a bigger cock and enjoy stronger erections, you’re in the right place. In this article I will be explaining what a penis pump is, how to use them safely, if they really work and how to choose the best penis pump for you.
How to Be Dominant in the Bedroom: 12 Kinky Sex Tips
How can you exude confidence, assertiveness, and that irresistible Dominant streak? What are some handy ways to tap into consensual cruelty and punish your eager partner? And how do you overcome shyness and nervous giggles? In today’s article I’m sharing my 12 tips on how to be Dominant in the bedroom.
What Are Dental Dams? Where & Why Would You Use Them?
Dental dams aren’t overly expensive and they can be bought discreetly online. In addition, they’re slightly larger than condom packets but still flat, so you could keep a couple in your wallet or handbag when you go out.
Sexual Foreplay Guide: Hot Pre-Sex Arousal Tips & Ideas
Brilliant sexual foreplay can mean the difference between a stagnant, monotonous sex life and keeping the spice and magic of a relationship alive. Are you stuck for ideas for fantastic before sex arousal and supremely arousing foreplay? Welcome to my comprehensive guide to lovers' arousal techniques: my sexual foreplay 101.
Strap-On Harnesses Guide
Strap-on sex (sometimes known as pegging) is enjoyed by many adults and within various types of relationship; for example, lesbian/bisexual sex, in BDSM as part of FemDom, or to help a penis-owner pleasure their partner in different ways. There are many types of harness available to help you achieve your sexual pleasure aims – welcome to my big guide to strap-on sex harnesses.
The Wedding: What’s Yours Is Mine
The whispers of those seated at the back were muffled by the whoops surrounding the drawn-out kiss of joy at the altar, until a natural settling revealed the click-clack of my heels on the stone. A wave of anxious whispers and angry mutters accompanied my approach to the still lost-in-each-other bride and groom, which turned to gasps of shock as I undid and threw off the hideous overcoat without breaking stride.
Suit Porn: Taken By The Suits
I couldn’t say how much time had passed since the last of the suits had demonstrated their pleasure at Master & I’s X-rated performance. The chair back dug into my arms, while Master’s tie chafed my tightly bound wrists. It hadn’t taken much persuading for more ties to be donated. Legs spread, ankles bound separately to the chair legs and my mauled tits and well-fucked entrance on full, humiliating display.
My Nexplanon Implant Experiences: The Subdermal Contraceptive
What is the Nexplanon implant? How does it work? Does it hurt to get it inserted? How long does it last? Does it protect against STIs? Today I’m sharing my answers to all these questions, plus my personal experiences getting the Nexplanon subdermal contraceptive inserted...
BDSM Beginner’s Guide: How Curious Minds Can Explore Safe, Kinky Fun
The enduring popularity of BDSM cannot be attributed in its entirety to the relatively recent appearance of Fifty Shades Of Grey, no matter how much the media would love for that to be the case. Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism are all power exchange activities, either including sex or entirely and deliberately absent of it, which have been practiced for centuries.
Nipple Play Toys Guide & Our Nipple Clamp Reviews
In today’s guide, I am exploring this intriguing area of sexuality, and the nipple play toys that can maximise your pleasure during solo or shared sexual playtimes. As well as discovering the various types of nipple stim toys (tickle, suck or pinch), you will find links to helpful nipple clamp reviews from the community and myself.
Hot Kissing Tips: How To Be A Fantastic Kisser
Kissing tips: Kissing is often a forgotten or at least neglected area of our love lives. Whether you’re in a relationship or a sassy single with a satisfying sex life, kissing adds a uniquely passionate element to sex and lovemaking.
London Fuck Doll: Fucked, Denied, Satisfied
I moaned aloud as he took me by the shoulders and drove the full length of his cock deep into my achingly hungry pussy. My slippery, soft labia were spread apart as they massaged his welcome penetration. My head turned to the side, flat on the bed as he pinned it there with his heavy hand in my hair, he rammed his cock into me repeatedly, frenziedly. This wasn't love-making. This was primitive, carnal rutting.
