Cara Sutra Sex Blog

Welcome to the Cara Sutra sex blog, a multi award-winning website regularly updated with fun, interesting and informative articles touching on all aspects of sexuality and sexual pleasure. My ongoing goal is to keep my finger on the pulse of what’s new and what’s awesome in the world of adult products and sex toys in particular, as well as entertaining my readers with original erotic stories and educating them by means of the many sex education features and my sex advice column.

Despite being referred to as the UK's best sex blog, Cara Sutra contains sex articles and features which are sure to be of interest to sex lovers worldwide. In the last few years the Cara Sutra sex blog has gained an impressive following from the USA, with the majority of daily traffic coming from America, then the United Kingdom, followed by Europe, Canada, Australia and the rest of the world. Wherever you hail from: welcome!

What brought you here today? I have thousands of sex toy reviews, sexy lingerie reviews, a plethora of sexy stories, many sex advice articles and the latest from the adult industry in my sex news area. Enter the regular giveaways and you could win some seriously sexy prizes such as free sex toys, lingerie, bondage gear, shopping vouchers and a whole lot more.

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Why I Love Locking Men’s Cocks In Chastity Cages

As the locked chastity continues, I enjoy every renewed realisation that they’re unable to have an erection or an orgasm. Of course, being a cruel and evil Bitch, I heighten the sub/slave’s torment with frequent teasing, whether by words, images or demanding that they perform in various perverted ways for me in person.

Travel-Friendly Sex Toys Guide

My travel-friendly sex toys guide will help you choose vibrators, dildos, butt plugs and more which you can slip into your suitcase - then somewhere even better once you reach your destination. In this travelling with sex toys advice guide you’ll discover the top features you should look for in a travel-friendly vibrator, how to get your sex toys through the airport without embarrassment, and where to get these discreet but effective toys even if you have a tight budget.

Best Cheap Sex Toys When You’re On A Tight Budget

When shopping for adult pleasure products on a tight budget, it’s important to seek out items which are not just low-priced but the best quality at that price, too. With 14 years’ experience as a sex toy reviewer and sex blogger, I’m eager to share my insights with you. I want to help ensure you’re spending that hard-earned cash on the best cheap sex toys for you.

What Is A Violet Wand? History of Violet Wands & Kinky Uses

Violet wands are commonly used stimulation tools in the realm of BDSM & Electrosex. They provide a uniquely thrilling experience for those exploring kinky pleasure and consensual power exchange. Read on as I delve into the history of violet wands, explain what they are & how they work, and reveal their kinky uses.

Could Labiaplasty Fix Your Sex Life? Personal Experience of Vulva Surgery

What is labiaplasty? Labiaplasty is a form of vulva surgery by vaginoplasty surgeons which changes the size, shape and look of the labia majora and/or labia minora. This may be done for increased physical comfort, self-confidence or sexual enhancement reasons.
Experiment: I Left A Silicone Sex Toy In Silicone Lube For 3 Months

I Left A Silicone Sex Toy In Silicone Lube For 3 Months – And...

Are you wondering if silicone lubes can damage your silicone toys? If so, that doesn't surprise me. This rumour/myth remains prevalent in online sex toy shop product descriptions and various sexual health guides. What happens when silicone lube is used with silicone sex toys? Does silicone lube erode the silicone material? I wanted to prove once and for all what exactly does happen when silicone lubricant is used with a silicone sex toy – and not only used with, but left to soak for quite some time. So here it is! My experiment, where I left a silicone sex toy in silicone lube for 3 months…
Lyra & Rael - John Thomas Toys POD Alien Tongue Erotica

Lyra & Rael

Lyra was pinned with the slimy beast on top of her -and as if that wasn't enough, slowly but surely she was choking from the relentless tongue.  She tried kicking and squirming. In desperation, she tried a psychic attack, but she was in such a state that all she could do was listen in on the creature's mental screams.

Virgos and Chastes: The OTHER Style of Male Chastity

What if I told you that male chastity didn’t have to be extra work? That it’s often OK to treat a male chastity cage as a nice body modification and move on? That you can use it to get exactly what you want, and nothing you don’t?

Turned Into A Kinky Puppy For Mistress

He seemed to be part companion, being allowed to curl up at her feet when she worked at her desk with her laptop, and part amusing plaything, when she’d temporarily remove his chastity cage and have him hump a special plush dog toy she’d purchased, or even, on special occasions, her leg. She’d laugh until she nearly cried, stopping him as his cock started to leak, then she’d stuff him back inside his cock cage to suffer.

The Folded Deckchair Sex Position (& Why We Love It)

Have you ever heard of the Folded Deckchair sex position? I was surprised to find out that one of my husband and I’s favourite sex positions had a name. To be honest, it shouldn’t have surprised me that much as the Internet is full of sexual position listicles with such titles as "69 Sex Positions You Never Knew Existed!" and "100 New Sex Positions You Need To Try Right NOW!".

What Is A Female Led Relationship Really Like? The Reality Of Lifestyle FemDom Relationships...

I'm typing this wearing a penis chastity device and I don't get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh… and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm.

Tips For Spring Cleaning Your Sex Life

In a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comfortable but ultimately monotonous sex with each other. That’s why I wanted to share my top tips for spring cleaning your sex life. While everything else is getting a spring clean, don’t neglect your personal and shared sexual pleasure!

How To Spring Clean Your Sex Toy Collection

How many sex toys have you got? Where do you store them? Do you just have a couple of vibrators in the bedside drawer, or masses of dildos shoved under the bed? No matter if your orgasm kit is big or small, setting time aside to spring clean your sex toy collection is a great idea.

What Happens At A Smear Test? My Cervical Screening Exam

It can be easy to 'stick your head in the sand' when it comes to those 3-yearly cervical smear tests. I know, because I’ve been there and done it myself. The reminder letter arrives... I open it, groan, and shove it into a drawer and try to forget about it. Eventually I force myself to put my big girl pants on and march myself down to the doctor’s surgery, before taking them off again for the nurse.

Hello Perimenopause

I haven't 'reached' perimenopause so much as it's hunted me down and attacked me. That’s how it feels, anyway. At some point over the last year my body decided that it was time to enter this mysterious phase, and I’ve been suffering various symptoms ever since.

Why International Women’s Day Still Matters

What is International Women’s Day all about? Is it really still needed? In my IWD info hub I’m going to explain how this important day of commemoration and activism started, why it’s important & why you should care, and how you can do your part to mark this day and directly support vulnerable and under-privileged women and girls.

My Favourite Sex Toys: Bedside Drawer ‘Handy Grab’ Collection [Updated]

This is the small selection of sex toys that I just love so much that they’ve made it to permanent residence in my bedside drawer, rather than being rated too mediocre or for some other reason relegated to being put back in the box and into storage in the loft or garage. Today I’d like to share details of my favourite sex toys right now: what exactly is in my current bedside drawer handy grab collection?

Real-Life Slave Diary: Locked In A Chastity Cage

Are you curious about how it feels to be locked in a chastity cage but you’re too scared or unable to slide the lock home on a device of your own? Perhaps you are locked, teased, but denied in a locked chastity device and want to hear others’ similar experiences for companionship or further torment? These diary entries from my locked-up chastity slave are for you.

25 Conversation Starters For Your First Date

Whether you’re going on an exciting first date or arranging an evening out with your long-term partner, finding common ground or enough to talk about which isn't mundane or inappropriate can be a challenge.  In this feature I will provide a handy list of 25 conversation starters for your first date -which you could also use to get to know your long-term partner better if you’re already in a relationship.

Valentine’s Day Lingerie Gift Guide

How can you ensure you’re buying them lingerie which will fit – and that they’ll love to wear? What are my top recommendations for sexy lingerie gifts this Valentine’s Day? Read on and discover all, in my Valentine’s Day lingerie gift guide 2023.