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Trick or Tease: 13 Kinky Halloween Sex Games for Dominants and Submissives

22 October, 2025

Last Updated on 1 November, 2025 by Cara Sutra

BDSM Halloween games for Dominants and submissives are a great way to inject seasonal flair into your power exchange play. Sure, D/s is a serious thing, with a foundation of consent, trust and two-way communication. But it’s also supposed to be fun, and I’ll let you into a secret: you’re allowed to have a laugh. In today’s article I will share 13 kinky Halloween games which lean into themes of Dominance and submission, with bondage, roleplay and punishment themes featuring heavily. Ready to stir up some spooky mischief?

A quick reminder about consent and safety before we begin.

Before you start playing any BDSM Halloween games, agree your limits, set a safeword and communicate honestly about your expectations and desires.
Depending on your experience level and personal preference, keep everything SSC or RACK. Never do anything which jeopardizes the safety of anyone involved.
If you decide to engage in kinky play or power exchange outside of a private room or building, ensure you abide by local laws, the venue rules and keep things discreet. Public play is an arousing fantasy but remember that anyone involved in your Dom/sub activities must fully consent – even an audience.

With that said, are you ready for some trick or tease? Or both? Here are my 13 kinky ideas for BDSM Halloween games!

13 BDSM Halloween Games for Doms & subs

The Haunted House Scene

Fear play, sensory torment, disorientation

Your building, playroom or bedroom becomes a dark maze of intimidation and sensory arousal. In this game, the submissive is blindfolded or hooded, with hands bound in front of them or behind their back, then led through the area by the teasingly cruel Dominant.

This ‘haunted house’ will have various ‘scares’ for the submissive, such as ice cubes, a feather tickler, zap from an e-stim toy, the thwip of a riding crop or swish of a flogger. The Dom becomes the unseen monster, whispering, touching, laughing, commanding.

Witch’s Trial

Interrogation, judgement, punishment kink

The submissive is accused of witchcraft, corruption or forbidden carnal magic. The Dominant becomes judge, inquisitor and executioner, interrogating and ‘testing’ them for guilt using bondage, paddle spanking, dripping waxplay candles, humiliating questioning or forced confession. The submissive must plead for mercy and attempt to prove their innocence… or lean into the sin and accept their fate. They will only be spared when they confess their wicked, shameful desires to their captor.

This game is excellent for roleplay and kinky punishment dynamics, especially if you enjoy humiliation, ritualistic degradation or theatrical D/s scenes with a darker edge.

Trick or Treat Roulette

Fate or chance-based power exchange

Arrange a bowl of folded cards, where half say Trick (pain play, degradation, Dom-led or self-edging with orgasm denial) and the other half say Treat (physical pleasure, preferred method of service, orgasmic release).

The Dominant is in control, so obviously they decide who gets to draw a card. Each draw determines the next part of your scene play.

The Vampire’s Feast

Predatory ownership & sacrificial prey dynamic

Perfect for those with a vampire fetish – if you don’t, you soon will! The Dominant is the vampire, of course, while the submissive becomes the sacrifice or offering. Set atmospheric lighting with coloured lamps or light some candles (bonus kink points if they’re waxplay candles). Tie up the submissive partner and stay in character. Have the submissive beg for mercy, which the Dom of course laughingly refuses.

Whether you use hypnotic eye contact or choose the sensory deprivation aspect of a full hood is up to you.

Light biting, additional sensory stim from temperature play options and blood-themed elements (fake blood or add a dash of red food colouring to lube) complete the scene.

Tip: Use fluidproof sheets over any areas you don’t want to risk getting damaged or stained by spills.

Mummified & Immobilised

Total restraint & mummification bondage kink

Perfect for a classic bondage-mummification scene. Wrap the submissive in clingfilm (RACK) or bandages, ensuring they’re still able to breathe and you don’t cut off circulation anywhere. Keep scissors within reach for fast emergency release. You can also get full mummification kink sacks and bondage sleep sacks which makes this game easier.

The submissive is cursed to stillness while the Dominant whispers menacing incantations and teases with ice cubes, pinwheel, dripping wax or other sensory play toys. Any movement is, of course, deserving of punishment.

The Captured Familiar

Pet play & magical service submission

This game is great if you already enjoy pet play or puppy play kink. The submissive becomes a magical creature bound to serve the Dominant, who in this roleplay is a dark witch or wizard. There is a lot of potential for kinky Halloween night fun here, with play options such as collar and leash, crawling at heel, enforced food and drink lapping as well as being used as a magical tool open to both Dominant and submissive.

You could even begin with a magical naming and collaring ceremony for your new kinky pet companion.

The Demon’s Claim

Supernatural possession, inevitability & claimed body

From Dominant to demon… who has already claimed the submissive as their own. As the submissive, your body has been possessed by the deviant demon. The Dominant doesn’t need to chase, only enjoy their conquest to the full.

This game features alluring inevitability, total power exchange, heavy restraint if you wish, temporary punishment play marks to represent ‘branding’, fearsome growls and anything else you wish to include.

Sinister Spin the Wheel

Structured unpredictability, Dom-curated choice

Who doesn’t love a game of spin the wheel? In this kinky Halloween game, the Dominant loads a spinner with various options before the session begins. You can make one online at pickerwheel.com, for example, or if you prefer a smartphone app, try Spin the Wheel – Random Picker which is available on both Google Play and the App Store.

During Halloween night, you could enjoy the submissive bound and gagged awaiting the next action, which they get to ‘spin’ for every hour or so. Each section of the wheel has a different BDSM activity, such as impact play, edging, forced praise, face sitting, strap-on, temperature play. Despite the air of unpredictability, the game is of course weighted towards the Dominant, who is able to preload the wheel options to their preferences. The submissive must simply spin and obey.

The Curse of Obedience

Protocol, command-following, obedience training

Once cursed by the magical and all-powerful Dominant, which could be at any time during Halloween night, the submissive must obey every one of their gruesome demands for the next hour (or suffer punishment). These commands can be humiliating, degrading, service-oriented or sexual, depending on your unique D/s relationship and desires.

This BDSM Halloween game blends beautifully with erotic hypnosis, obedience training or objectification kink themes.

The Dungeon of Desires

Ritualised revelation of desires, ceremonial kink

Set up your play space with several ritual candles lit. Each one represents a secret kink. During play, the Dominant blows a candle out ritualistically at a time of their choosing, revealing that desire which is the focus for the next scene. The desires can be coded to each candle by colour of the candle and keeping notes nearby, or on your phone.

The beauty of this game is that the longer you play it, the dimmer the play area becomes, adding to the haunting intrigue and eerie atmosphere. Put a gothic soundtrack on low in the background, keep things deliciously cinematic and enjoy the sensory tension – and kinky play action.

The Scarecrow Scene

Humiliation, immobilisation, objectification

For this BDSM Halloween game, you can use whatever bondage accessories you have in your kinky kit. Restrain the submissive upright, with their arms straight out at their sides, like a scarecrow. Obviously, it’s ideal if you have a St Andrew’s cross for this, but not all of us are lucky enough to have a fully kitted out BDSM dungeon at home! Cuffing each wrist to a spreader bar across their back or cuffing each wrist to the corner of an under-mattress restraint kit with the sub lying face up works just as well.

Once the submissive has been transformed into a bound scarecrow, the Dominant can enjoy ‘reaping the harvest’. Verbal humiliation can be lashed at the subby scarecrow, whilst physical punishment is aimed at fleshy parts using floggers, crops, paddles or any kinky punishment tools you like. Alternate between rough and gentle touch for the most intense impact.

Related: How to create a kinky bondage dungeon at home

Zombie Chase

Primal pursuit, capture, forced transformation

Think dawn of the Dominant dead: the infected zombie Dom is intent on catching and claiming the vulnerable human submissive partner. Once inevitably caught, the sub is corrupted by the zombie Dom through humiliating means. This could be consensual spitting action, sexual ‘defilement’, repeated edging until the sub begs for mercy by admitting they’ve been ‘turned’ or increasing increments of painful punishment.

This one is ideal if you have some private outdoor space available for the chase and capture, with clothing that can be torn off the submissive and plenty of primal energy from the zombie Dominant.

Hellfire Confessional

Religious humiliation, absolution of sins, punishment kink

This one is special to me, as I was brought up in a strict religion. Who doesn’t love a bit of deviant corruption of religious morality and purity values? In this kinky Halloween game, the submissive is the wickedly sinful confessor whilst the Dominant plays the evil puritanical priest or priestess. Feel free to adapt the roles to your specific kinks, such as a duplicitous, manipulative vicar or holier-than-thou Mother Superior.

The submissive doesn’t know beforehand that confessions earn either punishment or absolution, at the whim of the religious ‘saviour’. Use red lighting or candles to amplify the sin-and-pleasure theme, with religious-themed kink gear such as a cross-shaped paddle to drive out sin, blessed/cursed ‘holy water’ (tingling lube) and use rosary beads to bind or leash. They now worship a very different god or goddess…

Setting the Right Mood for Halloween Bondage Games

Dress up to play the part

Witches, vampires, demons and nuns all have their specific look that you can mimic with kinky costumes and accessories. Sensory deprivation hoods, humiliating bondage masks, spreader bars and bondage sleep sacks are ideal for the submissive play partner.

Use themed props and kink tools

Ensure theatrical flair in your kinky Halloween games with lace-edged but strict bondage cuffs, spooky-theme spanking paddles and sparkling riding crops. An ample supply of colourful waxplay candles, face paints and fake blood capsules will also come in handy.

Decorate your play setting

How you decorate your play space makes or breaks the sensual, seasonal atmosphere. Tidy away any stray remnants of ‘real life’, light those candles, set up some pumpkins and get some cobwebs strewn around the place.

Curate an atmospheric playlist as your scene soundtrack

We like to use Spotify to set up playlists for all kinds of occasions, so why should kinky Halloween play be any different? Set up a playlist in advance and have it ready to go on your phone or smart speaker. Think moody beats with occasional spooky interludes.

In Conclusion

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading through these 13 BDSM Halloween roleplay ideas for seasonal games Dominants and submissives can play on the spookiest night of the year. They blend power exchange roleplay, delicious teasing and just enough fear, menace and intimidation to keep your Dom/sub dynamic sizzling well beyond October.

Remember to always play within your mutual limits, communicate honestly and clearly, prioritise active consent and safety, and don’t forget the all-important aftercare.

Ditch trick or treating this Halloween, stay home and enjoy the thrill of Dominance and the glow of submission with one of these BDSM Halloween games. Which one will you play first?

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