Cara Sutra

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46yo slutty succubus and word witch. Inspiration for Meredith Brooks' "Bitch" (probably). 100% Domme, but often teases as a Bottom. Can turn most things kinky hot. Wife/sex doll of an evil Dom 16yrs. Mistress/Owner of slave penny 12yrs. UK-based, international appeal. 🌎 Bi/pan, she/her LGBTQIA+ member & ally. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

How to Self-Test for HIV at Home: A Step-by-Step Guide (with Video)

Did you know you can easily and confidentially self-test for HIV at home? Knowing your HIV status is one of the most important steps you can take for your health. Yet, more than 1 in 7 people living with HIV worldwide are unaware they have the virus.

Bondara First Love Pink Silicone Heart Dildo Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£19.99
Brand:
Bondara
Shop:
Bondara
Materials:
Silicone
It’s the season of love and romance - and I have an absolute sweetheart sex toy to review for you all this week as we approach Valentine’s Day 2025! Thanks to the romantic folk over at Bondara, I have been lucky enough to test out the Bondara First Love Pink Silicone Heart Dildo recently. At just under £20 for a solid silicone dildo with an angled G-spot stimulating tip and a suction cup base, I was hoping to be thoroughly seduced by this pretty objet d’amour.

Is It OK To Gift My Friend A Vibrator? Or Too Weird?

I declare my love of vibrators loud and proud for all to hear here at the Cara Sutra sex blog of course, but away from the web I find myself talking about them with open-minded, sex-positive friends, too. What about giving sex toys as gifts? Would a sex toy make a bold, empowering present, or an awkward, never-spoken-of-again mistake? In today’s feature, I’m exploring whether it’s OK to gift a friend a vibrator, or if it’s just too weird.

Juliet Toys Sweat Blood Dog Dildo Butt Plug Tail Review

8 out of 10
Price:
£48.00
Materials:
Silicone
The shape of the plug, plus that softness, made for a filling, deeply internally stimulating but also comfortably pleasurable experience while wearing it. The soft, fluffy tail helped inspire kink fantasies which lasted me all the way until I eventually indulged in ultimate pleasure, by bringing myself to orgasm with the help of a vaginal dildo and a clitoral vibrator. Greedy puppy? Absolutely.

Bed Nerdz CALI Wand Massager Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£49.99
Brand:
Bed Nerdz
Materials:
Silicone
After all the fun I had discovering some surprise sex toys for my Bed Nerdz La La Land Gift Box review recently, I was excited to try another product from the Bed Nerdz collection. Today I’m sharing my experiences with and thoughts on one of the standalone sex toys from the range, rather than one of the gift boxes. Read on to find out what I thought of the Bed Nerdz CALI Wand Massager...

Bondara Stainless Steel Heart Clit Clamp Review

8 out of 10
Price:
£8.99
Brand:
Bondara
Shop:
Bondara
Materials:
Metal
Once the Bondara Stainless Steel Heart Clit Clamp is correctly in position, with the sides holding my labia together and the top ringed area nestled around my clitoral hood, it’s surprisingly… not painful! It’s more like a secure grip with constant contact with my labia and around the edges of my clitoris, rather than any ouchy pinching or trapping sensation, like I’d been worried about.

How to Write a Love Letter That Captures Your True Feelings

You don’t need to be Shakespeare or Keats; you just need to set aside a little time and thought, then do your best to express yourself on the paper. No-one will be grading it or judging it – your partner is sure to be moved by your best efforts. In today’s feature, I’ll be providing my 8 tips on how to write a love letter that captures your true feelings.

VVD Rider Desire Sex Saddle Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£159.00
Brand:
VVD
Materials:
Plastic, Silicone
I would have preferred to communicate my thoughts about this pleasure product via a series of orgasmic grunts and moans, but apparently a written review is required. Today I’m attempting to summarise my feelings about the VVD Rider Desire Sex Saddle, a rideable sex machine from vvdofficial.com...

Bed Nerdz La La Land Mystery Sex Toy Gift Box Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£149.99
Brand:
Bed Nerdz
Materials:
Silicone
Do you love sexy surprises? I do. I’m delighted to be sharing my thoughts on a sexy surprise box from Bed Nerdz today, the Bed Nerdz La La Land Mystery Sex Toy Gift Box. What a gem of a find this company is...

Juliet Toys Thundr Vibrating Horse Dildo Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£106.00
Materials:
Silicone
Time to start horsing around and introduce the newest stallion in my sex toy stable! Thanks to Juliet Toys, I saddled up for some equine ecstasy with the Juliet Toys Thundr Vibrating Horse Dildo with remote control.

The One Rabbit Vibrator Review

5 out of 10
Despite being a wow vibrator on paper, when it came to actually using The One Rabbit Vibrator, I was left disappointed – and had to reach for another sex toy to reach climax. The box promises ‘super-powerful motors’ but it didn’t feel that way once the vibrator was inside me and switched to the highest speed output for both shaft and clitoral stimulating ‘bunny ears’.

Bondara Clitorally Amazing Vibrating Clit Stimulator Review

6 out of 10
Price:
£29.99
Brand:
Bondara
Shop:
Bondara
Materials:
Silicone
Thanks to the finger loop at the end, it’s easy to hold, and holding the toy in this way doesn’t muffle any of the vibration delivered to the clitoris and surrounding area. It’s quite a sleek-looking toy in universally appealing black, with a flash of silver to the metallic panel on the side.

Allowing Sadness Without Guilt

On reflection, I felt a lot of pressure to conform to fake happiness when I was a child - a girl child, Gen X,...

Twisted Beast Marchosias Dog Dildo Review

10 out of 10
Price:
£58.95
There’s an undeniable psychological element to the arousal I feel when I use it to fuck myself. The shape and theme evokes perverse furry fantasies, wanton wolfish lusts. I revel in imagining being fucked senseless in a mercilessly raw, primal, animalistic way. That I have been hunted as prey to be sexually devoured until mutual erotic appetites have been fully sated.

MANWAN Man.Wand EVO Vibrating Stimulator Review

9 out of 10
Price:
£85.00
Brand:
MANWAN
Shop:
MANWAN
Materials:
Silicone
This sex toy promises to deliver vibrating stimulation to the penis, at a speed comfortable and effective for the user. But this isn’t solely a penis stimulating toy. It can also be used as a traditional wand vibrator, providing vibration to the clitoris powerful enough to fully satisfy. You can see why I found this versatile vibrator intriguing!

Hankey’s Toys Realistic Banana Dildo Review

9 out of 10
Time to get a little fruity! My first sex toy review of 2025 is for the a-peeling Hankey’s Toys Realistic Banana Dildo. After enjoying this curved sensation all holiday season, I’m ready to reveal all the slippery ins and outs. Read on to find out if this fantastical design from Hankey’s Toys makes for a ripe ‘n rampant addition to your intimate fruit bowl!

Simba Hybrid 3-in-1 Duvet Review (King Size)

10 out of 10
Price:
£399.00
Brand:
Simba
I’ve been lucky enough to test & review some flagship items from the Simba Mattress collection over the past year, including the Simba Ludlow King Size Bed and the Simba Hybrid Original Mattress. This month I’m sharing my thoughts on another exciting product from the range: the Simba Hybrid 3-in-1 Duvet (king size). Thanks Simba Sleep team!

New Year, Still You: A Gentle Guide to Sustainable Change

Gentle New Year resolutions are inspiring and genuinely beneficial, rather than dramatic or punishing. This guide is about choosing subtle, sustainable change that supports who you already are.

Are Glass Sex Toys Safe? Self-Pleasure Safety with Glass Dildos

I still come across people who are shocked to learn that glass is a material used to make sex toys. Today I want to explore the misunderstood realm of glass adult products, dispelling myths, revealing the facts behind the specific type of glass to make these products, and the dos and don’ts of self-pleasure safety with glass dildos.

How to Jelq: Can Jelqing Enlarge Your Penis?

Got a penis? Want a bigger one? Who doesn’t, right? In my recent features showcasing the Bathmate penis pumps collection and my main penis pumps guide, I mentioned a penis enlargement technique called jelqing. Can jelqing enlarge your penis? In today’s sexual health article, I discuss the jelqing technique, covering how to jelq, if jelqing can really give you a bigger cock - and any potential side effects.