Cara Sutra

How are you supposed to know which material is the best? Are there any you should specifically look for? And, more importantly, which ones should you actively avoid? My sex toy materials guide is here to help you choose a body safe sex toy you can enjoy all-encompassing pleasure from, every time. 

Following the current gin revival trend, the Lovehoney Special Edition Gin and Tonic Flavoured Lubricant seemed right up my festive street. I’m looking forward to partaking in Ginvent again this year -and while I’m not imbibing those boozy samples, I can add a splash of gin flavour to intimate oral fun with my partner. Bottoms up!

If you’ve no clue what I’m going on about, first watch this... then come back. Yes, today I’m going to be talking about that old Christmas fave, chocolate orange. Not the confectionery though; the Lovehoney Chocolate Orange Flavoured Lubricant from Lovehoney.

I was therefore very excited to discover that not only can you buy sexy Christmas crackers to liven up your intimate pre- or post-Christmas dinner time, but adult retail giant Lovehoney have created their own. Introducing the Lovehoney All Nighter Couples Sexy Christmas Crackers. A bit of a mouthful, but I like that sort of thing.

In this complete guide to the sensory deprivation kink, I'll explain exactly what sensory deprivation is, why so many people find it arousing, the different types of sensory play, popular BDSM equipment and techniques, essential safety considerations, and how beginners can experiment with sensory deprivation in a safe, consensual, and exciting way. This guide comes to you from the perspective of a midlife Domme; I've enjoyed engaging in consensually restricting or removing someone's senses in kinky power exchange sessions, as well as wearing bondage hoods, mouth gags and masks myself in sexual role play, for over twenty years. 

***LINKS UPDATED FOR THIS YEAR - CLICK THE GREEN BUTTONS TO BUY BEFORE THEY SELL OUT*** As well as the Lovehoney Best Sex Of Your Life Couple's Sex Toy Advent Calendar that I reviewed recently, I received the Lovehoney 12 Nights Of Seduction Lingerie Advent Calendar to review. 2018 is the first year I’ve been given the opportunity to review any of the Lovehoney Advent Calendars, and despite seeing sex toy versions in the past, this is the first time I’ve seen a sexy wearables/lingerie themed one.

There was an argument put forward some time ago, by a strong voice on Twitter –someone I’d not heard of before- that breasts are not sexual. They were speaking of typically women’s breasts, and were rather stridently arguing their case –with plenty of others retweeting and replying in agreement.

If you read my Lovehoney Sultry Sorceress Bundle review, you’ll know I also received this Lovehoney Kinky Kitten Bundle to review at the same time. It’s a Halloween sexy cat costume –I thought, if I’m dressing up as a sexy witch this Halloween, why not also dress up as her familiar?

The Lovehoney Sultry Sorceress Bundle is one of two sexy Halloween outfits I was kindly sent by Lovehoney in exchange for an honest review (I also received the Lovehoney Kinky Kitten Bundle). I haven’t had a Halloween sexy witch costume before, so I was very excited to see what this sexy outfit would be like and how it would make me feel!  

Younger men are really not my thing. I’ve never been in a relationship with a guy younger than me; it wasn’t a conscious choice, just the way things have worked out. There’s never been a rejection of a guy, in a sex or relationship sense, just because he’s a bit younger than me. But when I’ve come to think about it, older men hold a particular and definite allure for me.

I received the Halloween Gentle Ghost Vibrating Cock Ring to review from Lovehoney, at the same time as the Halloween Party Pumpkin Vibrating Cock Ring. I think making seasonal sex toys is a brilliant idea from the sex toy industry, as they can add an intimately sexy, adult dimension to traditional occasions.

The Halloween Party Pumpkin Vibrating Cock Ring is one of two seasonal sex toys to recently arrive at Lovehoney in time for folk to get their spook on the sexy way. The other is the Halloween Gentle Ghost Vibrating Cock Ring. Both of these Halloween cock rings are made by Shots Media.

***LINKS UPDATED FOR THIS YEAR - CLICK THE GREEN BUTTONS TO BUY BEFORE THEY SELL OUT*** Lovehoney have created a sexy Christmas advent calendar so you can add a touch of mischief and spice to your adult Christmas time. I’ve been lucky enough to receive the Lovehoney Best Sex Of Your Life Couple's Sex Toy Advent Calendar to review (plus the Lovehoney Lingerie Advent Calendar, coming soooooon)) - and it’s been SO MUCH FUN.

IT’S SO SHINY! The Lovehoney A Little Bit Of Magic Sex Toy Kit (find it here) sparkled its way into my life, offered for review by the fabulous Lovehoney team. It’s one of their brilliant value and incredibly alluring sex toy kits, the others being the Rock My World Sex Toy Kit, Red Hot Passion Couple’s Kit, Take Control Bondage Kit and the All Tied Up Bondage Play Kit.

Once inside, I could hardly wait to see how the bushy tail of the Loving Joy Furry Fantasy Red and Black Fox Tail Plug looked, now it was in the correct place and not simply being twirled in my hands. It’s a beautiful plug – so bushy...

Thanks to Lovehoney, I recently received three of their exciting Happy Rabbit Vibrators range for the purposes of fair and honest reviews here at carasutra.com. Today I'm going to be discussing the intriguing looking Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Triple Curve Rabbit Vibrator - how did I get on with this sleek, black rabbit vibe promising triple the pleasure?

This Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Thrusting Realistic Rabbit Vibrator was sent for the purposes of a fair & honest review from Lovehoney, along with two other styles. Thank you! Click to find all my Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrator reviews.

The Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Beaded G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator was sent along with two other styles, for me to test and review, from Lovehoney. Thank you! Click to find all my Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Vibrator reviews.

After our recent successful (& extremely pleasurable) sessions with the Hot Octopuss ATOM Cock Ring, the lovely people at Hot Octopuss offered their other style of cock ring for us to test and review. Here’s our thoughts and experiences of the Hot Octopuss ATOM Plus Cock Ring.

Happy National Orgasm Day 2018! It's difficult to believe it's been a year already since the last National Orgasm Day – the year has just flown. In the past I've written about the sounds of an orgasm, the importance (or not) of simultaneous orgasms, about not being able to orgasm through oral sex and about having orgasms while I'm asleep. As many of my orgasms are helped along a little bit (OK, a lot) by sex toys, today I want to discuss some of my favourites. The toys which are, for me, the best powerful vibrators for extra strong orgasms.