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This is a different style of sex toy completely! Introducing the Hot Octopuss JETT, a twin bullet powered cock ring which promises to deliver an orgasmic and customisable combination of treble and bass vibrations. However: Hot Octopuss JETT is no ordinary cock ring –unsurprisingly. I mean this is Hot Octopuss we’re talking about here.

...this might be one of the more expensive lubricants out there. However, for the natural, non-irritant properties and the reassurance of a quality brand like Sliquid it's worth it. This is a beautiful lubricant and easy to see why it's trusted and sought out by so many around the world. Love it.

I’ve written previously about why I love bullet vibrators so much. They regularly appear in my top 3 favourite sex toys, which constantly evolves due to ongoing advances in pleasure tech. There are so many bullet vibrators to choose from – how can you be sure the one you’re buying from an online sex shop is going to be orgasmically effective? Welcome to my bullet vibrators guide! I’ll also be referencing the many bullet vibrator reviews here at the Cara Sutra sex blog.

The world of sex advice is awash with tips in this regard, with ‘trying out role-play with your partner’ being a popular one. But what sort of role-play situation is sexy? And what type of role-play suits your sort of relationship, in particular? Today, I’d like to share with you 10 steamy role-play ideas to try with your partner.

The lovely folk over at Vawn and Boon sent me two more items to try on, review and keep; I’d loved the Vawn and Boon Black PVC Vortex Catsuit I reviewed last spring so I couldn’t wait to slip into the new pieces. I received the red version, this time, the Vawn and Boon Red PVC Vortex Catsuit – and the item I’m reviewing below, the Vawn and Boon Red PVC Thorax Corset.

I am one incredibly lucky woman. Not only did I get the chance to own and review the Vawn and Boon Black PVC Vortex Catsuit last year, I now have a matching red one! My favourite colour! Plus, this new PVC Catsuit was accompanied by a new addition to the V&B range, the Vawn and Boon Red PVC Thorax Corset – reviewed separately. For now, let’s take a closer look at the blazingly hot Vawn and Boon Red PVC Vortex Catsuit.

The very first wand vibe I ever owned -which instantly ignited my love affair with wand vibrators- was the Vibratex Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator Original. Back then, and we’re talking over 10 years ago now, the Original Hitachi Wand was available from a few retailers in the UK.

I bet you thought you couldn’t learn anything from porn, right? Wrong! Where there’s masturbation there’s education, and pornographic movies can teach you plenty about sex and relationships you never knew you didn’t want to know...

How are you supposed to know which material is the best? Are there any you should specifically look for? And, more importantly, which ones should you actively avoid? My sex toy materials guide is here to help you choose a body safe sex toy you can enjoy all-encompassing pleasure from, every time. 

Following the current gin revival trend, the Lovehoney Special Edition Gin and Tonic Flavoured Lubricant seemed right up my festive street. I’m looking forward to partaking in Ginvent again this year -and while I’m not imbibing those boozy samples, I can add a splash of gin flavour to intimate oral fun with my partner. Bottoms up!

If you’ve no clue what I’m going on about, first watch this... then come back. Yes, today I’m going to be talking about that old Christmas fave, chocolate orange. Not the confectionery though; the Lovehoney Chocolate Orange Flavoured Lubricant from Lovehoney.

I was therefore very excited to discover that not only can you buy sexy Christmas crackers to liven up your intimate pre- or post-Christmas dinner time, but adult retail giant Lovehoney have created their own. Introducing the Lovehoney All Nighter Couples Sexy Christmas Crackers. A bit of a mouthful, but I like that sort of thing.

In this complete guide to the sensory deprivation kink, I'll explain exactly what sensory deprivation is, why so many people find it arousing, the different types of sensory play, popular BDSM equipment and techniques, essential safety considerations, and how beginners can experiment with sensory deprivation in a safe, consensual, and exciting way. This guide comes to you from the perspective of a midlife Domme; I've enjoyed engaging in consensually restricting or removing someone's senses in kinky power exchange sessions, as well as wearing bondage hoods, mouth gags and masks myself in sexual role play, for over twenty years. 

There was an argument put forward some time ago, by a strong voice on Twitter –someone I’d not heard of before- that breasts are not sexual. They were speaking of typically women’s breasts, and were rather stridently arguing their case –with plenty of others retweeting and replying in agreement.

If you read my Lovehoney Sultry Sorceress Bundle review, you’ll know I also received this Lovehoney Kinky Kitten Bundle to review at the same time. It’s a Halloween sexy cat costume –I thought, if I’m dressing up as a sexy witch this Halloween, why not also dress up as her familiar?

The Lovehoney Sultry Sorceress Bundle is one of two sexy Halloween outfits I was kindly sent by Lovehoney in exchange for an honest review (I also received the Lovehoney Kinky Kitten Bundle). I haven’t had a Halloween sexy witch costume before, so I was very excited to see what this sexy outfit would be like and how it would make me feel!  

Younger men are really not my thing. I’ve never been in a relationship with a guy younger than me; it wasn’t a conscious choice, just the way things have worked out. There’s never been a rejection of a guy, in a sex or relationship sense, just because he’s a bit younger than me. But when I’ve come to think about it, older men hold a particular and definite allure for me.

I received the Halloween Gentle Ghost Vibrating Cock Ring to review from Lovehoney, at the same time as the Halloween Party Pumpkin Vibrating Cock Ring. I think making seasonal sex toys is a brilliant idea from the sex toy industry, as they can add an intimately sexy, adult dimension to traditional occasions.

The Halloween Party Pumpkin Vibrating Cock Ring is one of two seasonal sex toys to recently arrive at Lovehoney in time for folk to get their spook on the sexy way. The other is the Halloween Gentle Ghost Vibrating Cock Ring. Both of these Halloween cock rings are made by Shots Media.

IT’S SO SHINY! The Lovehoney A Little Bit Of Magic Sex Toy Kit (find it here) sparkled its way into my life, offered for review by the fabulous Lovehoney team. It’s one of their brilliant value and incredibly alluring sex toy kits, the others being the Rock My World Sex Toy Kit, Red Hot Passion Couple’s Kit, Take Control Bondage Kit and the All Tied Up Bondage Play Kit.