Sexuality Articles

Sexuality articles that explore pleasure, desire, relationships, identity and real-life intimacy.

Welcome to my Sexuality Articles hub. This is where I keep the wider, deeper pieces that sit around sex advice and practical tips. Think sexuality in the big sense: pleasure, relationships, confidence, connection, self-discovery, boundaries, identity, and the emotional reality of desire. If you want writing that’s sex-positive, grounded and human, you’ll find plenty to explore here. This archive brings together years of writing on sexuality, pleasure, desire and the realities of real-life intimacy.

I use this category name on purpose, because it gives me room to talk about sexuality without stepping on the toes of my more specific hubs. So if you’re looking for targeted guidance, you might prefer my Sex Advice section, or browse Masturbation Guides and Relationship Advice. If you want broader, more reflective sexuality content, you’re in the right place.

What You’ll Find In My Sexuality Articles

This category gathers articles across many aspects of sexuality, pleasure and relationships, including:

  • Pleasure, orgasm, arousal and the messy reality of what actually feels good
  • Desire and libido changes, including why it shifts and how to work with it rather than against it
  • Sexual confidence, body comfort and feeling more at home in your own skin
  • Solo pleasure, self-discovery and exploration in my masturbation guides
  • Sex, relationships and emotional intimacy, alongside my relationship advice archive
  • Kink-aware reflections and deeper dives, with routes into kinky sex advice and BDSM advice
  • Seasonal and special-topic sexuality content via Seasonal Sex Articles

How I Write About Sexuality

I’m not interested in shame, fear-based messaging, or the idea that there’s one right way to be sexual. I write about sexuality as something lived, evolving and deeply personal, shaped by real lived experiences rather than theory alone. Sometimes you’ll find practical guidance here. Other times you’ll find perspective, reassurance, and the kind of insight that only comes from being honest about the awkward bits as well as the fun ones.

You’ll also see guest contributions in this section from time to time, because sexuality is never one voice, one body, or one story. I keep it inclusive, curious and real, without pretending that every experience is the same.

Featured Topics

Browse popular sexuality topics and relationship themes, and explore the areas that interest you most.

Scroll down to explore the latest sexuality articles and insights.

Monster Sex Fantasies Kink: Tentacles, Werewolves and Erotic Fear Play

Monster sex fantasies are the result of a primal force within us. These taboo desires blur the line between desire and danger, where pleasure is laced with fear. What do you dream about pleasurably devouring you?

Vampire Fetish Guide: Biting, Blood and BDSM Power Exchange

Through the centuries, there have always been people with a vampire fetish, folk fascinated with these elegantly erotic predators. Vampires may be dark and deadly, but they’re also incredibly alluring and seductive, with a commanding presence, otherworldly creature vibes and tantalising immortality. Sharp fangs and pale skin are the finishing touches to the power theme which blends Domination, submission and blood.

The Real Monster Mash: Scary Strokers for Spooky Solo Sex

Ready to face your most frightening fuck fantasies this Halloween? Grab a comforting blanket and a bottle of thick ‘n slick lube because I’m diving into the most creepy creature penis toys around. Whether you’re hunting tentacle textures or dreaming of gliding past vampire fangs, this guide to scary strokers rounds up the most popular monster masturbators and fantasy sleeves for daring Halloween thrills and year-round chills.

Sexy Horror Movies That Will Get Your Pulse Racing

So many of us have a thing for sexy horror movies. Yeah, the jump scares are fun, but what about the electrifying undercurrent of eroticism? Blood-red lips, vulnerable victims, lustful monsters, screams that sound suspiciously like moans... Oh yeah. There’s a whole lot more to horror cinema than fancying a Hollywood fright night.

Kinky Halloween Costumes: Sexy Dress-Up Ideas for Dominants and Submissives

Kinky Halloween costumes help you make the most of this dark and daring time of year, offering kinksters a fun, easy way to celebrate all things deliciously deviant. You might be more familiar with regular ghost or zombie costumes during Samhain celebrations, but my alternative Halloween dress-up guide will help you find BDSM Halloween costume ideas instead.

BDSM Symbols and Meanings: Triskelion, Flags and Collars Explained

Curious about BDSM symbols? This guide explains the BDSM triskelion, the BDSM flag, and other icons that represent kink culture and community. Learn their history, meaning, and how they are used today. Why Are Symbols...

The BDSM Rights Flag: Meaning, Colours and History

The BDSM Rights Flag is a symbol designed to represent consent, visibility and recognition for people within the BDSM community. This guide explains its origins, colours, design and how it is used today.

Ovipositor Dildos: How My Alien Egg-Laying Sex Toys Unlocked A New Kink

It isn’t often I come across something new, but that’s exactly what’s happened this year with my discovery of ovipositor dildos. Curious about ovipositors? You should be. These alien egg-laying fantasy toys are the pinnacle of perverse penetrative dildo design, showstopping spectacles of texture with xenomorph tentacles and otherworldly nodules to visually arouse and internally thrill. Read on for the sublimely slimy scoop on these sci-fi inspired sex toys that bring egg-laying kinks to life; what they are, why people are attracted to them, how to use them, and how a kink I'd never considered became one of my new favourites.

Can I Put Ice in My Ass? Anal Play With Ice Cubes

Experimenting with hot and cold during sex & masturbation can help you discover new ways your body likes to be stimulated, and it’s so easy to do. It’s vital to stay safe in all your explorations though. Sliding ice over your erogenous zones is one thing. But using ice cubes for anal pleasure? I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s idly wondered, ‘Can I put ice in my ass?’

What’s All The Fuss Over Mature Cams? Why Older Is Definitely Hotter….

Whether you’re into sultry MILFs, bold cougars, or simply want that magnetic, real-woman energy on screen, mature cam sites deliver the goods. Never dipped your toe in the mature cam pool? Let me be your guide. I’ve handpicked 14 of the steamiest shows that’ll have you wondering why you ever settled for less.

Can You Suck Your Own Tits? Why People Love Nipple Licking

Following on from my popular guide on how to suck your own dick, I thought it would be good to expand to other parts of the body. Maybe you're just curious, or maybe you've already given it a go. The question I’m tackling today is can you suck your own tits? Let’s have a fun but informative, sex-positive look at whether it’s possible, how you can try safely, and why people love to lick their own nipples.

Ontdek de Beste AI Pornosites met AI-gegenereerde Porno-video’s in 2025

AI pornosites schieten als paddenstoelen uit de grond en beloven alles, van deepfake-fantasieën tot interactieve virtuele vriendinnen. Maar laten we eerlijk zijn: sommige van die sites met AI-gegenereerde porno zijn indrukwekkend, andere ronduit vreemd.

Can You Orgasm Without Touching Yourself? Touch-Free Masturbation Tips

Lately, there’s one question that keeps returning to my thoughts, a potential way to play that demands further investigation. Can you orgasm without touching yourself? Today I’m exploring this fascinating subject - and sharing touch-free masturbation tips for you to try out and enjoy.

Sites Like DirtyRoulette: Best Live Chat Alternatives in 2025

DirtyRoulette capturеd that wild charm perfectly. You nevеr know who'll pop up nеxt — and that's the whоle point. It's voyeurism turned inside out: unpredictable, raw, and intimate, like people-watching, but with eye contact —and maybe a little more skin. But mаybe you're ready for a shift.

How to Have Sex With Yourself Beyond Masturbation

Recently I’ve been exploring imaginative ways to love myself, learning how to have sex with yourself in ways that feel deeper than masturbation. I don’t mean self-care acts like bubble baths and meditation; I mean the physical act of making love to myself. Usually, solo sex means one thing: a quick wank using my favourite sex toys and technique. A finger fumble or a quick buzz from a vibe, something secretive or rushed, with the goal of self-pleasure being orgasm and done. But there’s so much more to experience.

8 Reasons Why Sex With Clothes On Is Hotter For Me Than Getting Naked

Recently, I’ve been thinking about some of the best sex of my life and realising what these memories have in common. So often, it was sex with clothes on. Of course, there was also the spontaneity, the urgent breathless need… but also the fact of being at least partly dressed. Why does keeping some clothes on add so much eroticism? Isn’t the main aim of sex to get naked as quickly as possible then get fucking? Today I want to dig deeper into why sex with clothes on is so fucking hot. First of all, let’s look at what sex with clothes on actually means in practice.

Best Sexting Apps for 2025: Enjoy Hot Explicit Messages Now!

I decided to make a list of the top 10 sexting apps that actually work and have honest-to-god amazing cam models who know and appreciate the fine art of sexting. Let’s start with a rundown of the top 10 apps, and then I’ll cover some of the pros and cons of each site.

How BDSM Empowers Women to Reclaim Sexual Control and Desire

For women in particular, BDSM can be an affirming space where we explore power on our own terms, breaking out of the boxes society loves to shove us into and where we reclaim our control and desire. Today’s article is the second part of my women's sexuality series, where I explore how BDSM empowers women — and anyone who enjoys feminine expressions of consensual power and submission — no matter your gender or identity in the D/s scene.

Best Asian Cams: Where To Find the Hottest Asian Models (2025)

Haven't we all seen a sultry Asian babe and said, "OMG! I want a taste of that?". I know I've blown a lot of moolah on Asian cams over the years, but as I like to say, "It's the best $100 I ever lost!" Then again, I've also seen my fair share of scams and boring sites. That's why I decided to review the top Asian cams in the industry today so that you could fast-forward to the best quality stuff. 

Top Voyeur Cams for Kinks: Spying Has Never Been This Sexy (2025)

There's something irresistibly filthy about watching real people in real situations—whether they're actually unaware or just ridiculously good at faking it. No scripts, no fake moaning, just raw, unfiltered pleasure caught in the act.