Sexuality Articles

Sexuality articles that explore pleasure, desire, relationships, identity and real-life intimacy.

Welcome to my Sexuality Articles hub. This is where I keep the wider, deeper pieces that sit around sex advice and practical tips. Think sexuality in the big sense: pleasure, relationships, confidence, connection, self-discovery, boundaries, identity, and the emotional reality of desire. If you want writing that’s sex-positive, grounded and human, you’ll find plenty to explore here. This archive brings together years of writing on sexuality, pleasure, desire and the realities of real-life intimacy.

I use this category name on purpose, because it gives me room to talk about sexuality without stepping on the toes of my more specific hubs. So if you’re looking for targeted guidance, you might prefer my Sex Advice section, or browse Masturbation Guides and Relationship Advice. If you want broader, more reflective sexuality content, you’re in the right place.

What You’ll Find In My Sexuality Articles

This category gathers articles across many aspects of sexuality, pleasure and relationships, including:

  • Pleasure, orgasm, arousal and the messy reality of what actually feels good
  • Desire and libido changes, including why it shifts and how to work with it rather than against it
  • Sexual confidence, body comfort and feeling more at home in your own skin
  • Solo pleasure, self-discovery and exploration in my masturbation guides
  • Sex, relationships and emotional intimacy, alongside my relationship advice archive
  • Kink-aware reflections and deeper dives, with routes into kinky sex advice and BDSM advice
  • Seasonal and special-topic sexuality content via Seasonal Sex Articles

How I Write About Sexuality

I’m not interested in shame, fear-based messaging, or the idea that there’s one right way to be sexual. I write about sexuality as something lived, evolving and deeply personal, shaped by real lived experiences rather than theory alone. Sometimes you’ll find practical guidance here. Other times you’ll find perspective, reassurance, and the kind of insight that only comes from being honest about the awkward bits as well as the fun ones.

You’ll also see guest contributions in this section from time to time, because sexuality is never one voice, one body, or one story. I keep it inclusive, curious and real, without pretending that every experience is the same.

Featured Topics

Browse popular sexuality topics and relationship themes, and explore the areas that interest you most.

Scroll down to explore the latest sexuality articles and insights.

What’s All The Fuss Over Mature Cams? Why Older Is Definitely Hotter….

Whether you’re into sultry MILFs, bold cougars, or simply want that magnetic, real-woman energy on screen, mature cam sites deliver the goods. Never dipped your toe in the mature cam pool? Let me be your guide. I’ve handpicked 14 of the steamiest shows that’ll have you wondering why you ever settled for less.

Can You Suck Your Own Tits? Why People Love Nipple Licking

Following on from my popular guide on how to suck your own dick, I thought it would be good to expand to other parts of the body. Maybe you're just curious, or maybe you've already given it a go. The question I’m tackling today is can you suck your own tits? Let’s have a fun but informative, sex-positive look at whether it’s possible, how you can try safely, and why people love to lick their own nipples.

Ontdek de Beste AI Pornosites met AI-gegenereerde Porno-video’s in 2025

AI pornosites schieten als paddenstoelen uit de grond en beloven alles, van deepfake-fantasieën tot interactieve virtuele vriendinnen. Maar laten we eerlijk zijn: sommige van die sites met AI-gegenereerde porno zijn indrukwekkend, andere ronduit vreemd.

Can You Orgasm Without Touching Yourself? Touch-Free Masturbation Tips

Lately, there’s one question that keeps returning to my thoughts, a potential way to play that demands further investigation. Can you orgasm without touching yourself? Today I’m exploring this fascinating subject - and sharing touch-free masturbation tips for you to try out and enjoy.

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How to Have Sex With Yourself Beyond Masturbation

Recently I’ve been exploring imaginative ways to love myself, learning how to have sex with yourself in ways that feel deeper than masturbation. I don’t mean self-care acts like bubble baths and meditation; I mean the physical act of making love to myself. Usually, solo sex means one thing: a quick wank using my favourite sex toys and technique. A finger fumble or a quick buzz from a vibe, something secretive or rushed, with the goal of self-pleasure being orgasm and done. But there’s so much more to experience.

8 Reasons Why Sex With Your Clothes On Is So Fucking Hot

Recently, I’ve been thinking about some of the best sex of my life and realising what these memories have in common. So often, it was sex with clothes on. Of course, there was also the spontaneity, the urgent breathless need… but also the fact of being at least partly dressed. Why does keeping some clothes on add so much eroticism? Isn’t the main aim of sex to get naked as quickly as possible then get fucking? Today I want to dig deeper into why sex with clothes on is so fucking hot.

Best Sexting Apps for 2025: Enjoy Hot Explicit Messages Now!

I decided to make a list of the top 10 sexting apps that actually work and have honest-to-god amazing cam models who know and appreciate the fine art of sexting. Let’s start with a rundown of the top 10 apps, and then I’ll cover some of the pros and cons of each site.

How BDSM Empowers Women to Reclaim Sexual Control and Desire

For women in particular, BDSM can be an affirming space where we explore power on our own terms, breaking out of the boxes society loves to shove us into and where we reclaim our control and desire. Today’s article is the second part of my women's sexuality series, where I explore how BDSM empowers women — and anyone who enjoys feminine expressions of consensual power and submission — no matter your gender or identity in the D/s scene.

Best Asian Cams: Where To Find the Hottest Asian Models (2025)

Haven't we all seen a sultry Asian babe and said, "OMG! I want a taste of that?". I know I've blown a lot of moolah on Asian cams over the years, but as I like to say, "It's the best $100 I ever lost!" Then again, I've also seen my fair share of scams and boring sites. That's why I decided to review the top Asian cams in the industry today so that you could fast-forward to the best quality stuff. 

Top Voyeur Cams for Kinks: Spying Has Never Been This Sexy (2025)

There's something irresistibly filthy about watching real people in real situations—whether they're actually unaware or just ridiculously good at faking it. No scripts, no fake moaning, just raw, unfiltered pleasure caught in the act.

Best Lesbian Cams: Top 10+ Lesbian Chat Rooms in 2025

If you're craving a space where you can immerse yourself in live chats and tantalizing encounters with other lesbian women, look no further than my top lesbian cams list. I've meticulously curated a collection of the best lesbian cams, featuring sites like Jerkmate and Chaturbate.

Celebrating Women’s Sexuality: Overcoming Shame Through Pleasure

For centuries, women’s sexuality has been silenced, shamed, mocked and dismissed as irrelevant. The Cara Sutra sex blog is my way of being loud and proud about my sexual pleasure, while sharing my experience and advice for the enjoyment of my readers. Today I am specifically focusing on celebrating women’s sexuality, exploring how women of the modern world are fighting shame with pleasure and slowly turning the tide on long-standing myths and stigma.
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Seks op Webcam: 5 Beste Camsites met Live Seks Camshows in 2025 (18+)

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Lad Culture How Sexist Phrases About Women Are Still Thriving

Lad Culture: How Sexist Phrases About Women Are Still Thriving

Despite all the progress we’ve made in gender equality, sexist phrases about women are still alive and well in 2025 — often hiding in plain sight. You’ll hear them in pubs, group chats, podcasts,...
11 Gay Cams for Slutty Twinks, Jocks & Daddy Camboys [2025]

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Best Discreet Sex Toys for Public Orgasms & Intimate Stimulation: Your Guide

Turned on by the thought of using discreet sex toys during your adventures outside your home, for intense intimate stimulation and perhaps the delicious forbidden fruit of public orgasms? Does the image of you struggling to remain calm and unperturbed on the outside, whilst you sexily suffer the hidden torment of being repeatedly brought to the edge of climax in a crowd of strangers get you hotter than any other sexual fantasy? You’re in the right place...

Bondage Furniture Guide: How to Create Your Own BDSM Dungeon

Today I'm providing a versatile, discreet and pleasurable bondage furniture guide (and other sex accoutrements options) for your home. These options don't necessarily scream "red room of pain" - but with a little creativity, they can be just as thrilling. Whether you're after compact, multi-functional, or simply hidden-in-plain-sight styles, here's how to craft a BDSM dungeon at home even if you don't have as much room as your local fetish club.

Lingerie Terms Guide: Understanding What Each Style Means

I keep hearing phrases such as chemise, camisole, teddy and merry widow in relation to lingerie types, but coming up with the correct definition of each one? Beyond me. Is it the same for you? Good news: you can stop worrying. Today, confusion no longer reigns. Today, by the end of this feature, we’ll all have a good understanding of the different lingerie styles. Welcome to my lingerie terms guide!