No Limits’ Slaves in BDSM: Do Zero Limits Submissives Exist?
If you're drawn to the "no limits" fantasy in yourself, ask what specifically you're trying to get out of it. Sometimes the answer is that you want to feel deeply submissive and don't yet have the vocabulary for it, which is a solvable problem. Sometimes the answer is that you want to stop having to make decisions, which is a different problem and one no scene will fix. Sometimes it's that you want the drama of being seen as extreme, which is worth interrogating on its own before you put it in front of another person.
Dommes and Blowjobs: Why Some Dominant Women Love To Suck Cock
If he starts thanking you profusely, or bucking his hips, or in any way behaving as though he's been handed a treat, that's your cue to stop, reframe, and possibly punish. The point Zak makes about withdrawing your lips seconds before he comes is the sharp end of this. Edging as a Dominant act works because the sub cannot request it, cannot control it, and cannot predict when the next chance arrives, if it arrives at all.
Total Power Exchange in BDSM: What TPE Really Means
In this guide to Total Power Exchange in BDSM, I explore what TPE really means beyond the fantasy image. From my own perspective as a Domme, it’s about more than scenes or sessions - it’s the reality of living in a relationship where control, obedience, and power are fully surrendered.
Fulfilling Our Hotel Threesome Fantasy
The noises coming from the girls now could make you come just to hear it. It was making my cock surge and pulse listening to them enjoy each other so much. Letting my cock spring free of my boxers, I manoeuvred myself so I was behind the pair of them. I used Raven’s waist to steady me, my hands on her sensational curves, occasionally putting a hand down to guide me in. I needed to be inside my girl first.
Girl date: The first fuck is the sweetest
I slipped first the tip of my index finger inside her pussy, then my middle finger alongside it. Slowly and gently at first, I finger fucked her while my tongue danced over and around her clit...
Reclaiming his territory
He moved on his side to face me, both of us on top of the bed. His nose almost touching mine. There’s no argument which could ever be brooked with those dark eyes, brooding doesn’t even come close. Determined? Of course. Expectant. Dominant. In control. To be obeyed without question or hesitation. To stare into them means to know this is what you really want, to know your own mind and be strong enough to go where it and he leads. I'm proud enough to face those eyes openly and without hiding or running. They were out of focus range, suddenly… and his mouth was on mine, tasting and invading. The first penetration.
Pretty When I Cry
Raising my hips in the usual way I can easily slip just the end of his still hard cock inside my incredibly wet cunt. Sucking him and making him cum hard down my throat always turns me on so much that my inner thighs are a sticky mess of arousal. I lean down to kiss him, my mouth still awash with the taste of his cum - but he loves the taste. It makes him kiss me all the more passionately, his tongue sweeping around my mouth, exploring, relishing every last remnant of his cum...
The Fuck Feast Fantasy
Chocolate cake and trifle and jelly and ice-cream and creamy sundaes and large bowls full of tiramisu and jam sponge and more. The women feed each other without cutlery, using their hands to daub the chocolate-rich, creamy messes both into each other's mouths and over each other's breasts and bodies.
Sploshing: Exploring the Wet and Messy Fetish
Sploshing. Say sploshing to most people on the street and they won’t know what you’re on about (they'll also give you a wide berth for randomly talking in their face). Sploshing in puddles? Get your wellies on and go for a run through the muddy woods after a good downpour? Erm, nope.
Electrosex Guide: How Beginners Can Use E-Stim Toys
Can electric and sex ever really unite to deliver pleasure, not pain? Are there any risks - and how on earth can you play with electric safely? Read on to discover the low-down in my electrosex guide, and find out how beginners can start using e-stim toys.
What Is Urethral Sounding? Guide to Penis Sounds
Once you're ready, lube up the sound (and the end of your penis) and slowly slide the tip in. Once in, keep hold of both the sound and your penis, then slowly allow gravity to pull the sound deeper. Once you're at the base of the penis, stop for a moment and slowly pull the sound out, ever so gently. This is approximately where the best sensations are to be found.
Hot Kissing Tips: How To Be A Fantastic Kisser
Kissing tips: Kissing is often a forgotten or at least neglected area of our love lives. Whether you’re in a relationship or a sassy single with a satisfying sex life, kissing adds a uniquely passionate element to sex and lovemaking.
The Time I Made Him Make Me Safe Out
It hurts SO much. Is this all I can take? Would someone else be able to take more? Am I being a wuss? I want him to be proud of me. It hurts. Fuck, that hurts so much. Ok I am going to say red. Any minute now…
Whirlwind of Fire
The evening passed in the usual blur where time speeds up and excitement is at a high. We got closer and closer during the evening and exchanged flirty banter and those looks. You know the ones. Curious, daring, challenging, knowing. Time was escaping us, rushing past in an echo of Alice in Wonderland madness. Swept up in her crazy hotness and wild fire we rebelled and kissed - and our lips then tongues meeting was fire to fire. The taste of not girl, but woman. Full knowledge and comprehension of actions, not some naive innocent who will later regret.
Is Pubic Hair Sexy?
Why have we even got pubic hair in the first place? It’s a sign that we’ve been through puberty and reached adulthood, true; but for those who choose to remove any trace of pubic hair from their body it can be an endless source of frustration...
Penis Chastity: Beginner’s Guide to Cock Locking
Welcome to my big beginner's guide to penis chastity and male chastity play! So, you want to try a chastity device? Or maybe your partner wants you to wear one? Perhaps you’re reading this as you want your partner to wear one for you. Whatever your reason is for being here, you’re doing the right thing!
What Are Dental Dams? Where & Why Would You Use Them?
Dental dams aren’t overly expensive and they can be bought discreetly online. In addition, they’re slightly larger than condom packets but still flat, so you could keep a couple in your wallet or handbag when you go out.
How To Clean Sex Toys Safely: A Complete Hygiene Guide
Learning how to clean sex toys properly is one of the easiest ways to protect your sexual health, prevent irritation, and make sure every beloved toy you own stays safe to use, completely fresh...
Respecting Sex Workers & Defeating Whorephobia
The common acceptance of the term ‘whore’ is such that we often hear it used in the media, from films to comedy and even documentaries. I want to take this opportunity to make the point: we should all be respecting sex workers & working towards defeating whorephobia.
Rapeplay Fantasies: Understanding Consensual Non-Consent Kink
It’s come to my attention recently that certain folks are against people having their fantasies and acting them out, consensually, with their adult partner(s). Rape fantasy, to be specific. Now, I’ve taken this a little bit personally, as rape fantasy is a very important part of my sex life - a very enjoyable part of my fantasy and real life.
