Respecting Sex Workers & Defeating Whorephobia
The common acceptance of the term ‘whore’ is such that we often hear it used in the media, from films to comedy and even documentaries. I want to take this opportunity to make the point: we should all be respecting sex workers & working towards defeating whorephobia.
Rapeplay Fantasies: Understanding Consensual Non-Consent Kink
It’s come to my attention recently that certain folks are against people having their fantasies and acting them out, consensually, with their adult partner(s). Rape fantasy, to be specific. Now, I’ve taken this a little bit personally, as rape fantasy is a very important part of my sex life - a very enjoyable part of my fantasy and real life.
Why Heterosexual Women Love Gay Porn And Erotica
There is something beautiful about the masculine form—the virility and raw power in the taut muscles, hard planes and sharp edges. I’m a sucker for sexy bodies, and have been obsessed with male nudity since I can remember. In fact, my high school art teacher told me I had to “tone down,” my drawing of naked men.
BDSM Wax Play Guide: How to Enjoy Candle Dripping Safely
BDSM wax play is an immersive form of sensory play. It's also one of my favourite ways to explore the intricate balance between physical sensuality and psychological intrigue that makes kink popular. Using wax play candles in BDSM incites anticipation and all-encompassing arousal, evoking physical sensation, emotional trust, and mesmerising aesthetics all at once. The agonisingly slow drip of warm wax is about so much more than the flicker of heat as it splashes on to soft, receptive skin.
Fucking Yourself With High Heels: Kink and Safety
Dear Cara, I have quite a worrying obsession with my girlfriend's shoes. She doesn't know, but every time she's out and I'm left in the house I have to fuck myself in the ass...
Can I Stop Being Kinky? Can You Ever Leave BDSM?
I honestly believe it's naive to think you can just switch off your kinkiness for all time. You may be leaving BDSM when it comes to the community, you can get rid of your implements and finish any D/s relationships, but being a kinkster is simply too much a part of a person's character. It's up to you if you decide to act on those kinky impulses in your life or not.
Anorgasmia Explained: Why You Can’t Orgasm and What to Do
Anorgasmia is the medical term for struggling to reach orgasm, or not being able to orgasm at all. It affects people of all genders and at every stage of life. If you are wondering why you can’t orgasm, or why climax feels increasingly out of reach, you are far from alone. The experience can feel isolating, confusing and even shameful, yet there are many practical reasons behind orgasm difficulties. There are also realistic ways to explore your pleasure, rebuild confidence and discover what your body responds to.
The Daddy Dom Little Girl Kink (DDlg)
Heard of Daddy-style Dominants and 'little girls' in consenting adults' BDSM? The Daddy Dom little girl kink (DDlg) is one close to my heart and I enjoy it regularly in the bedroom with my man. Here's my thoughts on this often controversial aspect of BDSM.
