GilesEnglish

Regardless of the deep stuff, the erotic benefits to the kinky chaste man are undeniably obvious. If you are in a chastity cage, any sexual activity is an exquisite tease, and the knowledge that this will be ongoing pings your masochism. It can also be pretty mind-blowing wearing a chastity cage day-to-day, knowing it’s not coming off for the bedroom...

I'm typing this wearing a penis chastity device and I don't get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh… and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm.

For a chastity fetishist like me, there’s something darkly enticing about a hands-free, penis-free orgasm. It’s an added bonus – as the Nexus Revo 2 Prostate Massager just taught me – that there’s also something deeply sensual about it.

I can get it out of the cupboard and installed on my limbs in under a minute. I do my own ankles, then kneel, curl up, arms backward, and place my wrists in the outer cuffs. All Xena has to do is fasten the velcro on my wrists.

Last night, Xena really laid into me, 45 lashes arriving in two batches. Whenever she struck, it made me whimper and lurch away (futilely, given I was chained up). As she approached to deliver the second batch, I actually felt afraid enough to begin to shake. That’s a delicious loss of control.

I love the idea of a cock free, hands free orgasm, not least because I’m 'stuck' in chastity at the moment. It’s been more than 100 days since I’ve had an orgasm, and I have at least 20 more to wait, so I was overjoyed that my wife gave me permission to try the prostate massager as long as my chastity device stayed on.

A hands-free vibrating butt plug is a great idea! It squares the circle of anal - once it's inserted, you can wipe up, wash your hands, and remain clean... until it's time to take it out, of course. For a man in a chastity device, it's also an intriguing prospect. For solo pleasure... well once it's in, what can you do? Writhe around sensually playing with other erogenous zones. What an amazing thought!