By Giles English: For a chastity fetishist like me, there’s something darkly enticing about a hands-free, penis-free orgasm. It’s an added bonus – as the Nexus Revo 2 Prostate Massager just taught me – that there’s also something deeply sensual about it.
By Giles English: UberKinky Four Tail Flogger - Short Review: The overwhelming and deliciously scary sensation of being really beaten.
By Giles English: You know the drill. Uber Kinky sent me their Tantus Prostate Play Prostate Massager (via the Cara Sutra Pleasure Panel) for an honest review.
By Giles English: In the ideal kinky world, everybody talks before and after doing power exchange: “Communicate, communicate, communicate.” It’s the standard expectation in the BDSM community, where refusing to talk about kink is a red flag. And yes, communicating about kink feels like a no-brainer. How else will you both make sure that everything is safe and consensual?
By Giles English: I’ve been doing Femdom for something like three decades. I’ve been hit with all sorts of implements ranging from homemade scourges, through riding and dressage whips, to a gloriously crafted flogger from the legendary Fred Norman.
By Giles English: I’m sitting here typing this with a surgical nylon Custom Chastity Ghost Chastity Cage locked around my man-parts. It’s been there continuously for 10 days. I’ve worn it more or less every night for months. I haven’t had an orgasm for 4 weeks and have no prospect of one for at least another 2 weeks. And it feels… great.
By Giles English: Unless your kink is likely to trigger some past trauma in your partner, just ask. Seriously! That’s not bad advice because if you don’t ask, you will never, ever get. (It does help if you ask right, but we’ll get to that.)
By Giles English I'm typing this wearing a male chastity device and I don't get an orgasm until Monday. We haven’t had penetrative sex for a couple of years, but I do get regular beatings depending on how many demerits I’ve clocked up. Oh and Xena once made me go for 152 days without an orgasm… And Xena’s in charge.
By Giles English The Nexus Ace Large Remote Control Butt Plug arrives in a nice, tasteful box that says "secret adventure" (rather than "comedy bum sex").