Cara Sutra

It’s really simple to use the LELO ISLA and the buttons are easy to find and figure out even when a) it’s inside your vagina, and b) you’re pretty much away with the orgasm fairies in the land of “YES!”

It’s come to my attention recently that certain folks are against people having their fantasies and acting them out, consensually, with their adult partner(s). Rape fantasy, to be specific. Now, I’ve taken this a little bit personally, as rape fantasy is a very important part of my sex life - a very enjoyable part of my fantasy and real life.

I’ve always loved the look of humblers. Always loved the feel, as well. The feel that a man gets from the Humbler CBT device, I mean, obviously. The fact that their balls are pulled through these two pieces of wood, clamped around where the testicles join to the body, rendering them unable to stand. Trapped testicles and a trapped on all fours man. For a Domme, this cock and ball torture item is pretty much the perfect kinky accessory.

You get a good squirt of LELO Lube with just one depression of the top, and the lube is clear and easily coats fingers, sexual areas or a sex toy without being too dribbly. You can pick it up with one hand and dispense the lube, so if your other hand is, um, busy - no problem. Just make sure you put it down within easy reach!

At £6.90 a bottle, this 60ml of LELO Sex Toy Cleaner is slightly more expensive than other sex toy cleaners available, but comes with LELO's assurance of quality as well as inimitable style while it's sat on the bedside table or on the bathroom shelf. There's no mention of sex toys or sex on the bottle, so no-one would even know the purpose, unless they're also a LELO fan of course!

As a women’s or couples’ massager, the We-Vibe Touch Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator is amazing. It’s the type of vibration which particularly suits men, who can often find the uber powerful vibrations from women’s bullet vibes or wand vibrators too powerful for the sensitive skin of the testicles or the exposed frenulum on the shaft.

Like I’ve mentioned above, I absolutely love my SORAYA. Along with the Swan Whooper, it’s a rabbit vibrator I will actually choose to use on a very regular basis. It outshone the INA 2 for me, although that was a great rabbit vibrator in its own right.

Although I do like this vibrator, I also received the LELO Insignia Soraya at the same time (review coming soon, although I wrote some erotica about it yesterday) and I prefer the Soraya to the LELO INA 2 Vibrator. That said, it’s only because I found the Soraya to be out-of-this-world awesome. The INA 2 is a great vibrator in its own right, and for those who like a highly rigid feeling vibrator, a modern rabbit style and a bunch of bonus features, it’s my opinion that the LELO INA 2 will likely sit perfectly in their sex toy collection.

The Rocks Off Roxy Rabbit Vibrator is the latest addition to the Rocks Off sex toys collection. I was sent the purple Roxy rabbit vibe, free of charge, in exchange for a fair and honest review here at the Cara Sutra sex blog. The package was sent to me quickly and discreetly - as you would expect from a large and professional company like Rocks Off. No note of what lay within - and safely packed for transit too.

I've been asked to share my thoughts on one of the latest Loving Joy rabbit vibrators. This one is called the Loving Joy Oui Fifi Rabbit Vibrator. It looks like a LELO sex toy what with the pretty unapologetic tribute to their handle design (oval finger loop with metallic inner surface).

During use we found that it was much more enjoyable for him if I was the one in ‘driving mode’, ie holding the sheath around and over his penis and pumping him for his pleasure. The material stretches to accommodate and looks almost like it will tear when his erection is stretching it fully, but it’s actually surprisingly durable and didn’t rip.

It was simple enough to squeeze ample amounts of lubricant into the entrance hole of the ZOLO Fire Warming Masturbation Cup and peel off the sticker from the underside of the tube. I got him erect (quite how I did this is the subject matter for another post) and proceeded to get him inside the masturbator. It seemed at first like the fit was going to be too tight, but he helped to shift it into position and I was soon able to work up a steady beat.

Scrolling side to side for the movements and quick-tapping up and down for the vibrations, I have tested the Sasi by Je Joue. The motions of the ball under the flexible silicone is actually a lot more arousing and stimulating than the bead in the LELO ORA oral sex simulator. It sticks out from the sex toy more, and the Je Joue Sasi is far more (ahem) ergonomic for clitoral stimulation. Sorry, LELO.

After about 25 minutes of bland wandering from some kind of sentient subdermal trapped in a sex toy, I gave up. This was just not going to happen. I was more patient, seeing as how I wasn’t relying on the vibrations from this sex toy to trigger the orgasm, but rather a combination of vibes and the motion of the bead. I even tried inserting another toy and used the ORA in conjunction with that. Still nothing.

I received the new Durex Embrace Pleasure Gels in order to provide an honest and fair review for them here on the blog. This sexual intimacy enhancer pack contains two special effect gels, to be applied to the intimate areas of a person of any gender, to enhance physical sensations prior to or during sexual activity.

Once he received the UberKinky Spiral Stainless Steel Penis Chastity Device, he quickly set about putting it on. The single most common problem with chastity devices reared its head again with this one. Pun most definitely intended, and appropriate. It’s not the chastity devices’ fault; chastity submissives just get too over-excited. I did warn him to have the frozen peas ready...

I have been a long time fan of Jimmyjane Massage Candles and in terms of scent appeal the Yankee Candles are amazing. I have two Yankee candles on my desk to light in times of pressure, they really do ease the atmosphere and get me centred. Jimmyjane massage candles have featured in many of my sexploits through the years with both male and female sexual partners. Learning that LELO had created massage candles, a couple of years ago, I naturally wondered how they’d compare.

As usual the product came in elegant and classy packaging, as I'd come to expect from LELO. I received the LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle to review at the same time. In keeping with the rest of the range, the LELO MIA 2 Vibrator is sat inside a black lidded box, which is contained in a glossy outer cardboard box complete with product image and a few details about the sex toy.

The LELO HULA Beads are 100% waterproof and as such you can enjoy them in the bath or shower as well as in the bedroom, as well as enjoy worry-free cleaning (use anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner!) after use. They're made with body-safe silicone (according to the box and it feels it too) and both elements feel velvety soft and luxurious. Buttons are easy to press and charging or powering up is easy.

Rocks Off sex toys never seem to run out of ideas when it comes to creating new sex toys for men, women and couples and this new addition to the collection is no exception. Instead of merely another bullet vibe or butt plug, the UK based team has designed and manufactured an ingenious combination: a vibrating butt plug and dual cock ring. The Rocks Off RO-ZEN.