Ovipositor Dildos: Alien Egg-Laying Fantasy Sex Toys Explained
Curious about ovipositors? You should be. These alien egg-laying fantasy toys are the pinnacle of perverse penetrative dildo design, showstopping spectacles of texture with xenomorph tentacles and otherworldly nodules to visually arouse and internally thrill.
Can I Put Ice in My Ass? Anal Play With Ice Cubes
Experimenting with hot and cold during sex & masturbation can help you discover new ways your body likes to be stimulated, and it’s so easy to do. It’s vital to stay safe in all your explorations though. Sliding ice over your erogenous zones is one thing. But using ice cubes for anal pleasure? I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s idly wondered, ‘Can I put ice in my ass?’
Can You Suck Your Own Tits? Why People Love Nipple Licking
Following on from my popular guide on how to suck your own dick, I thought it would be good to expand to other parts of the body. Maybe you're just curious, or maybe you've already given it a go. The question I’m tackling today is can you suck your own tits? Let’s have a fun but informative, sex-positive look at whether it’s possible, how you can try safely, and why people love to lick their own nipples.
Can You Orgasm Without Touching Yourself? Touch-Free Masturbation Tips
Lately, there’s one question that keeps returning to my thoughts, a potential way to play that demands further investigation. Can you orgasm without touching yourself? Today I’m exploring this fascinating subject - and sharing touch-free masturbation tips for you to try out and enjoy.
How to Have Sex With Yourself Beyond Masturbation
Recently I’ve been exploring imaginative ways to love myself, learning how to have sex with yourself in ways that feel deeper than masturbation. I don’t mean self-care acts like bubble baths and meditation; I mean the physical act of making love to myself. Usually, solo sex means one thing: a quick wank using my favourite sex toys and technique. A finger fumble or a quick buzz from a vibe, something secretive or rushed, with the goal of self-pleasure being orgasm and done. But there’s so much more to experience.
8 Reasons Why Sex With Your Clothes On Is So Fucking Hot
Recently, I’ve been thinking about some of the best sex of my life and realising what these memories have in common. So often, it was sex with clothes on. Of course, there was also the spontaneity, the urgent breathless need… but also the fact of being at least partly dressed. Why does keeping some clothes on add so much eroticism? Isn’t the main aim of sex to get naked as quickly as possible then get fucking? Today I want to dig deeper into why sex with clothes on is so fucking hot.
How BDSM Empowers Women to Reclaim Sexual Control and Desire
For women in particular, BDSM can be an affirming space where we explore power on our own terms, breaking out of the boxes society loves to shove us into and where we reclaim our control and desire. Today’s article is the second part of my women's sexuality series, where I explore how BDSM empowers women — and anyone who enjoys feminine expressions of consensual power and submission — no matter your gender or identity in the D/s scene.
Celebrating Women’s Sexuality: Overcoming Shame Through Pleasure
For centuries, women’s sexuality has been silenced, shamed, mocked and dismissed as irrelevant. The Cara Sutra sex blog is my way of being loud and proud about my sexual pleasure, while sharing my experience and advice for the enjoyment of my readers. Today I am specifically focusing on celebrating women’s sexuality, exploring how women of the modern world are fighting shame with pleasure and slowly turning the tide on long-standing myths and stigma.
Lad Culture: How Sexist Phrases About Women Are Still Thriving
Despite all the progress we’ve made in gender equality, sexist phrases about women are still alive and well in 2025 — often hiding in plain sight. You’ll hear them in pubs, group chats, podcasts,...
Best Discreet Sex Toys for Public Orgasms & Intimate Stimulation: Your Guide
Turned on by the thought of using discreet sex toys during your adventures outside your home, for intense intimate stimulation and perhaps the delicious forbidden fruit of public orgasms? Does the image of you struggling to remain calm and unperturbed on the outside, whilst you sexily suffer the hidden torment of being repeatedly brought to the edge of climax in a crowd of strangers get you hotter than any other sexual fantasy? You’re in the right place...
50 Kinky Tasks a Domme Can Give Her Sub
When you're a Dominant Woman in control of a male submissive or slave, consensually as part of the FemDom aspect of BDSM, one of the most rewarding elements of this dynamic is setting tasks for your submissive to obediently complete. I have recently written about the methods a Dominant Woman may use to exert control over her sub, but today I want to provide a handy list of 50 kinky tasks a Domme can give her sub or slave.
Bondage Furniture Guide: How to Create Your Own BDSM Dungeon
Today I'm providing a versatile, discreet and pleasurable bondage furniture guide (and other sex accoutrements options) for your home. These options don't necessarily scream "red room of pain" - but with a little creativity, they can be just as thrilling. Whether you're after compact, multi-functional, or simply hidden-in-plain-sight styles, here's how to craft a BDSM dungeon at home even if you don't have as much room as your local fetish club.
Lingerie Terms Guide: Understanding What Each Style Means
I keep hearing phrases such as chemise, camisole, teddy and merry widow in relation to lingerie types, but coming up with the correct definition of each one? Beyond me. Is it the same for you? Good news: you can stop worrying. Today, confusion no longer reigns. Today, by the end of this feature, we’ll all have a good understanding of the different lingerie styles. Welcome to my lingerie terms guide!
Sleeping in Bondage: How to Safely Kink Your Bedtime
Have you ever slept in bondage? Would you? There are some fascinating psychological aspects as to why someone would want to sleep in bondage, as well as important safety considerations to consider. Let’s take a closer look at overnight restraint – and how to safely kink up your bedtime.
Does Your Number of Sex Partners Really Matter? The Truth About Sex, Stigma &...
How many people have you had sex with? It’s a personal question, the answer to which some people ascribe weight and meaning. Today I am exploring whether how many people we’ve slept with in our lives really has any relevance or importance, whether you’re navigating life single or in a relationship. What do you think?
Planned Sex or Spontaneous Sex? The Pros & Cons of Both
Is sex something you can schedule, like any other type of appointment – or should you hope for a surprise moment of passion? What’s better, planned sex or spontaneous sex? Today I’m exploring the pros and cons of both.
Sardax FemDom Art: Exploring Erotic Dominant Women
If you love FemDom, then you’re in for a treat with Sardax FemDom Art. I have an enduring love for these imaginative, inspirational and highly kinky illustrations from globally renowned artist, Sardax. His artistic depictions skilfully combine elements of Female Dominance, sensuality, delicious cruelty and male submission like nothing I’ve found elsewhere.
Celebrating Women-Led Sex Toy Brands
The sexual wellness industry is undergoing a dynamic transformation, and women-led sex toy brands are at the forefront of this change. These trailblazing entrepreneurs are revolutionising the space with body-safe, inclusive, and innovative designs that prioritise real pleasure and empowerment.
Hottest Married Dating Sites of 2025: Where Secrets Turn Into Sparks
Married dating sites are proof that not every love story plays out as expected. Sometimes, the spark fades, curiosity grows, or life simply calls for a new kind of connection. Whether you’re chasing excitement, intimacy, or a secret escape from the ordinary, these platforms are built for those who dare to step beyond the usual boundaries. Curious where to begin?
Best Cheap Sex Toys on a Small Budget: Top Quality, Low Price Tag
Finding sex toys which are orgasmically effective and top quality for a low price is a challenge. As the cost of living continues to rise, saving cash while ensuring you get value for your...
