How To Have A Sexy Relationship When You’re Parents
I am a bit tired of reading relationship advice articles which seem to be directed towards 20-something couples who have no children and seemingly unlimited funds despite no job or other obligations (why yes, we really should go on a champagne hot air balloon ride together one weekday afternoon) so I thought I'd put my own 'sexy relationship tips' article together - for parents.
New Year’s Resolutions 2016 – 10 Surprising Promises To Myself
During Christmas 2015 I had the chance to reflect and reassess what I’m exactly doing here, with my blog, in life. What my actual goals are and what I want to get out of the work I put into projects. With that in mind, and moving on from the harsh realities of the past year noted above (and taking a pinch of inspiration from this excellent New Year's Resolutions article by Hella Rude), I’ve written ten somewhat surprising promises to myself for the next year (and beyond) which will serve as my New Year’s Resolutions 2016.
New Year, New You? – Hella’s Body and Mind Positive New Year Resolutions
By Hella Rude
The first time I heard the phrase 'new year, new you' was during my first year working with Lovehoney. As someone who is blinkered to self-depreciating bollocks on the interwebs, this apparent cliche had managed to pass me by for my then 26 years. Since acknowledging the premise, my eyes have really been opened to how much consumerism can make you feel shit about yourself during the festive season...
Merry Kinkmas! A Sexy Christmas Story from Voluptasse
‘He came back with a scarf which was taken from a snowman in the garden and some large sprigs of holly. Lee wrapped the scarf around my head and took some miniature pegs from the Christmas card holder around the fire. He fastened two pegs to my nipples and told me to bend over and hold my ankles.‘
The officer shifted in his seat and moved closer into the table. Does he have an erection? wondered Kerry, stifling a giggle. The officer silenced her with a glare and gestured for her to continue.
Win Kink Craft Fetish Gear For Christmas In This Super Sexy Giveaway – ENDED
How would you like to win some much lusted-after paracord Kinkcraft fetish gear in time for Christmas? Well you're in luck. The kinky, crafty people over at Kinkcraft are offering not just one, but two delicious prizes for some lucky winners in this new Cara Sutra giveaway.
So just what gorgeous goodies from the Kinkcraft fetish gear range can you hope to win?
Win The Jimmyjane After Dark Pleasure Set & Have A Peachy Keen Christmas –...
Yes, it’s really true – Peachy Keen UK are giving one lucky winner this absolutely gorgeous Jimmyjane After Dark Pleasure Set – to reach you in time for Christmas!
How to Have a Sexy Christmas with Your Man / Woman
Having worked in adult retail for 5 years, I'm no stranger to penning a sexy Christmas gift guide or 10. However it's fair to say most of my work focuses on product marketing, even though buying the right things for sexy time does not a master make.
I could tell you which toys and lingerie I rate highest as we wrap up 2015, but if you haven't done the ground work - there's little point in your spending £$£$ on gear. As is becoming a bit of a Cara Sutra tradition, I'd like to deviate from the obvious Christmas gift guides and focus on some advice we can all get on board with.
5 Ways To Enjoy Fireworks In The Bedroom
I’m as guilty here as the next person. When it comes to sex with your partner, or even solo fun, it’s so easy to find yourself in a rut. Bedtime, the lights are out, a brief cuddle, you slip under the duvet to attend to them or they snuggle up behind you – and oops, I’ve slipped inside. Or, if you’re single, you head off to bed and whack out that predictable O with your old faithful from the bedside drawer before letting it fall to the floor and drifting off to sleep.
Grow Your Mo And MOVE It For Movember
By Cara Sutra:
We've just done scary, let's get hairy! Halloween has been and gone and it's November already. You know what that means: time to grow your mo. It's Movember!
Best Adult Halloween Party Games
During my years as a sex toy party planner, I found that Halloween themed evenings were by far the most popular choice for adults. As a child, I loved Halloween and could usually be found dashing around the streets dressed in one of Tesco’s best bin bags and clutching a home-made cauldron filled with E numbers. It wasn’t much for my parents, but my love of all things spooky continued to grow.
Guide To Writing Paranormal Erotica – Write Spooky, Sexy Stories
Writing sex has its own challenges, check out my last post on what they are and how to overcome them. Today I’m upping the ante and adding in an element of fantasy. Not just the kinda thing you think about when you’re having solo fun time, no, I’m talking paranormal erotica and erotic romance.
For A Really Alternative Sex Life This Valentine’S Day, Go Vanilla
The world has gone bondage mad. As if unrestrained restraint ‘outrageously’ demonstrated on morning TV wasn’t enough, everyone by now will be aware of the grey shaded movie being released on the 13th February. The day before Valentine’s Day. That’s right, it’s another year where we all go 50 shades of absolutely mad about bondage - and don’t forget the jiggle balls or lip balm, come to that.
bettie page spanked and bondage in greyWith so much emphasis on being kinky and increasing expectation for adults across the world to be tied up and spanked this Valentine’s Day, it’s easy to feel just a little bit under pressure to perform. This should be the most romantic day of the year, traditionally, and pressure isn’t sexy. There’s really no need to feel guilty if you’re not a kinky type. The world may be Grey-obsessed but as long as your attention is on the one or ones you love that’s all that really matters. After all, Valentine’s Day is simply one day where we celebrate being able to publicly show what we should be feeling throughout the year.
The Best & Worst Of 2014 – And The Obligatory New Year’s Resolutions List...
2014 was a fantastic year. It's the year my family and I settled into a new home, very early in January. We left behind the personal bereavements and losses of 2013, and made a fresh start supporting each other and have felt strong and more bonded than ever. We've also just had the best Christmas we've ever had.
The happy looks set to continue through 2015, for which I feel very lucky. I try not to take anything for granted. Life has a way of changing so quickly; all we can do is work the hardest we can on our personal relationships, continue being honest with each other and working from honourable motives.
Santa Sutra and the Rebellious Rein-Girl – Christmas Erotica
By Cara Sutra:
Upon hearing her vain exclamation to the other three rein-girls over dinner that they weren’t even needed anyway, that she could do the job all by herself and probably even better at that, they’d at first looked surprised then strangely smug. How was she to know Santa Sutra would choose that exact moment to re-enter the feeding shed from behind her?
His Parting Gift: A Halloween Erotic Story
By Mel MacFarlane:
It was the last time I saw him alive. A chilly but bright October morning with no clouds and a biting wind that tore through my dress and straight into my bones. I shivered painfully as I pulled my thin shawl further over my shabby dress, smiling brightly through the chattering of my teeth.
Sexy And Romantic Christmas Gifts from Belle de Soir
Couples who prioritise romance are eager to select that perfect Christmas gift, which is why I’m so pleased to be able to provide this extensive sexy gift guide to help you through the festive shopping season.
Best Halloween Themed Sex Toys – Plus, Scary But Sexy Adult Costumes
Discover the best Halloween themed sex toys and scary but sexy adult costumes in this round-up guide:
Think Halloween is just for kids and goths? Think again! Everyone can find something to enjoy at Halloween, and I don’t just mean a bucket of candies and toffee apples. Sink your teeth into something juicy and fun after bedtime… a sexy treat for yourself or shared with a lucky partner.
Pulling rabbits out of my vagina for Easter
What made me really laugh was light up controls. As if somehow a woman was able to detach her own head during masturbation and stick it between her legs to spy on where the buttons are. Well - female masturbation is a mysterious beast, for sure. Never quite detached my own head though.
Kinky Valentine’s Day Ideas: The Alternative Romance Of BDSM
By Cara Sutra:
Hearts, flowers, wine, chocolates, greeting cards… all this and more equates to the very best in romance that you can give your partner on Valentine’s Day, to prove your depth of feeling for them. So says commercialism, anyway.
Why the obligatory romance of Valentine’s Day is stupid and insulting
“How to Bag a Man for Valentine’s Day” (because all women are straight, don’t forget) and if there should be a specific man in said Singleton’s sights (poor bloke), “10 Ways to Make Him Propose on Valentine’s Day” “6 of the Best Lingerie Sets to Make him Forget His Name, Hand Over His Wallet and Make Him Suck on Your High Heels While You Plan Your Wedding In Two Weeks Time” etc etc. You get my point.
